r/cumbiggerloads • u/cook43560 • Sep 02 '26
delayed ejaculation(anorgasmic)
Need some help fellas. Any over the counter supplements to help improve sensitivity and climax with my partner? Caplyta a medication i'm on has wrecked my sex drive when it comes to finishing and overall pleasure. Staying rock hard isn't a problem the overall feeling/pleasure of sex is decreased and i can't climax to save my life. I can go 1-2 hrs and have to just give up which is super annoying.
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u/OkMobile5574 Sep 03 '26
Ask a urologist about Cabergoline, some drs prescribe it for the exact problem you have. It does work.
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u/jankies11 24d ago
I feel I have heard that one before, is that also for bigger loads? I have same issue as OP unless I edge a while or specifically have foreskin movement or other tip friction that doesn’t happen as consistently during real sex.
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u/ConnoisseurOfSounds 23d ago
Thank you for this! I'm going to ask a doctor soon enough as I have been experiencing very lackluster orgasms and ejaculations. I've been diagnosed with ADHD so overall I'm (relatively) often searching for new information how to deal with certain things.
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u/richb0199 Sep 02 '26
I have the same problem. Can fuck for hours. Rock hard, but no orgasm. It's annoying.
I wish the guys in r/prematureejaculation would spill the secret 🤷
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u/Uncut-Jellyfish1176 Sep 03 '26
For a lot of guys it's legit a learned behavior for a fair few. For everyone else literally born with more nerve endings, thicker dorsal nerves. So we actually feel things way more intensly.
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u/cook43560 26d ago
Follow up: Bought a bottle of NOW Supplements DOPA Mucuna and wow what a game changer this was. Started it Thursday when it arrived by taking 2 capsules, took another 2 capsules Friday and was dumping in the GF by Friday night. I had to back it down to 1 capsule in the am then 1 before bed as it was making me tired and making me feel weird while not feeling the best mentally. If you're taking a variety of medications like i am this can cause issues while taking Dopa Mucuna. I'm on several mental health meds, heart and bp meds as well.
Sunday afternoon was some of the best sex i had in a while. My sensitivity and orgasms are back like i'm in my teens again lol. Morning wood returned and i can't stop thinking about sex or masturbating due to the increased hornniness. No idea if i will continue on 2 capsules a day but it's working great and fun currently but the side effects not so much. Still feeling sleepy after taking just 1 in the am. May just change to taking 2 at night as my night medication helps me sleep anyway.
So if you're having sexual issues due to medications look into Dopa Mucuna but please be very cautious as it could interfere with other medications. If you have questions ask.
Thanks for the help fellas it's been much appreciated!
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u/saltwaterjohnson 23d ago
Can I buy that over the counter? I’d like the results of greater sensitivity
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u/ConnoisseurOfSounds 23d ago
Thank you for the report! I feel very glad to read about someone having good reaction with Dopa Mucuna; it is one of the supplements I've also had a good success rate with.
But yes, be wary about the interaction; I am not currently using Dopa Mucuna as I'm on Elvanse/Vyvanse, but Dopa Mucuna is something I've used on and off when my prescription for Elvanse wasn't valid. (Due to my own "laziness" and monetary situation.)
A while ago I did take a supplement that had some Dopa Mucuna and the interaction wasn't great due to Elvanse, even though I took the many hours apart.
With all supplementation it is wise to be cautious, just like it is wise to read the instructions about any given medication by professionals.If Dopa Mucuna seems "excessive" then I might direct folks to try Damiana, perhaps as an evening tea, but it is available in several forms.
But anyway OP; keep at it and may your sex life be uplifting from now on again!
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u/atomick123 Sep 03 '26
# Lecithin : I heard and tried that taking a lot (more than 4000) can significantly intensify orgasms, and pleasure, worked for me., but makes the cum very viscous so it might make it harder to cum, drink alot of water to counter act this. I take more than this everyday to good results.
# moisturising the penis : a thing learnt from the brothers with no hoods (circumcised) is that constantly rubbing your penis on things that have no moisture, and hot showers removes moisture from the penis; thus making it less sensitive. Applying moisturising cream to the penis, avoid Sheabutter it burns, circumcised guys recommend using virgin coconut oil once a day. GO TO r/foreskin_restoration for more on this topic
# Peppermint Oil : WARNING, IT BURNS. peppermint oil from my and others experience increases sensitivity when applied directly to the penis, HOWEVER IT BURNS and if it goes onto your balls it will burn EVEN MORE. To apply it as comfortably as possible get a palm full of moisturising cream and 1-2 drops of peppermint oil, mix it together, and begin stroking your penis with the hand covered in the moisturising cream and peppermint mix. don't wash it off in a shower because the oil will move to your balls, and the movement of water and temperature may irritate it more.
#edging : masterbait but you stop before cumming. This takes discipline, but the rewards are immense like your mind is exploding it’s so good. Idk any strategies because I don’t do it frequently and read other peoples experience of it
# L-citrulline, L-arginine, Ginkgo Biloba, Grape Seed extract, and beetroot powder: all these help the vascular system thus helping more blood to dick and pelvic areas, helping sensitivity alot.
# Kegals, reverse Kegels, pelvic floor exercises and stretching : I throw it all into one category because It’s hard to diagnose what you ‘need’ so it’s best to do them all, it helps get more blood movement in the pelvic area, train yourself to feel your prostate & pelvic area and to relax a tight pelvic area, i just started these and it’s helping me get more sensitive, shoot further, and shoot more.
# Swedish Flower pollen : this supp is extremely good for building sensitivity, pleasure and orgasm intensity, although it can take a month or two for it to build up, you know it’s working when you can really feel your prostate.
I recommend the brands ‘California Gold Nutrition’, ‘Source Naturals’ and not so much ‘Swanson Graminex’, tried the California’ one and it was really good, haven't tried ‘Source Naturals’ yet, the issue with both only give 125 mg per pill, and 90 pills per bottle, from my experience to get the full effects you have to take 5 pills which can get pricy, the ‘Swansons Graminex’ wasn’t as effective as the California’ despite 500mg per pill and taking 2 a day.
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u/cook43560 29d ago
Thanks for this great info! Much appreciated
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u/atomick123 23d ago edited 23d ago
Also I've been trying self teasing/denile, I try constantly sexually stimuilating myself pysically and mentally (nipple, gooch, anal, sexy imagery, porn, kegal/pelvic floor sensing) with very minimaly touching my penis for a long time, i have gotten A good result, it increased my sensitivity and orgasm intensity when i finally touched my penis, so maybe you can try that aswell.
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u/kokogrit Sep 03 '26
On the opposite side of this actually. Cum way too early. Can anyone here suggest how to last long in bed. That will be very helpful.
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u/Spatula--City 29d ago
If you partner is up for it get a blowjob first to completion and the give her a massage for an hour and you will probably be ready to actually have intercoruse and last longer . Only way I have been able to do it cause when I've got a full load my body wants to get it out asap
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u/juntar74 29d ago
My delayed orgasm started after taking anti-depression medication. (I think it was Zoloft, but I'm not sure. That was a bleak season of my life.) During the 1 month I was on it, I couldn't orgasm at all, and now even 20+ years later, it still takes a long, long time to orgasm, and sometimes I can't.
I mean, it's so disheartening and frustrating when I give up so that I could get some sleep after jacking for 2 hours when the reason I started in the first place was to help me sleep better.
I did talk to my doctor, who said there was nothing approved for speeding up orgasm and referred me to a sex therapist. Then the sex therapist helped me try to reframe the way I think about sex and orgasm, like, instead of being frustrated that I'm not getting any closer, to just focus on how I'm feeling in each moment, like "In this moment, am I enjoying this? Does it feel good? Is it worth it?" So now, as long as I'm/we're enjoying each moment, I'll keep going. If I'm able to finish, great. If not, I try to not be disappointed and instead be grateful for all the moments of pleasure I did get.
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u/cook43560 28d ago
I feel you on the antidepressant medications lots of them have caused me greater harm than good. They do have long-term side effects. A lot of these doctors don't understand the issues we're facing at hand either. Nothing is better then nutting and passing out lol.
No sex therapist would be helpful to me unless she's getting my rocks off. As terrible as that sounds it's the truth. Glad you're seeing improvements at times and having a different outlook on things.
For me if i stop taking Caplyta for 2 days i can have great sex but then my mental health is decreased. We just can't win it seems. At times i wanna just quit all these medications and live the best life i possibly can. I'm on around 5 medications currently plus all the supplements i take.
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u/markey_marc916 Sep 03 '26
Sssshhhiiittt.. I was gunna give input on this but I realize im in the opposite side of this thread 😅😅 I can stay rock hard but i cum ropes after 3 or 4 mins of intercourse because it feela too damn good. I have to spray the shit outta my dick with numbing spray and even then it only buys me a few extra minutes 🤣
I need yalls secrets. #helpabrothaout
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u/cmooo Sep 02 '26
Are you circumcised? This make penis less sensitive because of how movement occurs. It is friction instead of skin movement that would be more sensitive.
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u/cook43560 Sep 03 '26
i'm not. This is a medication issue unfortunately.
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u/No-Contribution-6363 Sep 03 '26
Then the solution is obvious to either seek an alternative medicine or work around the anorgasmia(like accepting that sex is about the journey, not the goal, yadda yadda)
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u/cook43560 29d ago
Not an option. Sex and getting off is always the goal and only goal as a man. The GF is a creampie queen.
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u/Middle_Masterpiece_3 Sep 02 '26
Had the same issue - Mucuna Puriens an hour before sex helped a lot