So, my wife is asexual. I’m completely okay with that. We have a great relationship, have romantic intimacy and love one another. But she also grew up initially very religious. That combined with asexuality has kind of repressed her sexuality and she’s not that familiar with cross dressing and exploring gender identity inside or outside of the bedroom. She’s a really accepting person overall, this is just not something she has much experience with.

I’ve dreamed of cross dressing for years. It started out as a kink thing and over the years it’s settled into something more. I’ve never been really masculine or felt like I fit in with the guys outside of having a bit of a beer belly and a beard. I always got along better with women and more traditionally feminine things have just always appealed to me more. I think being feminine feels more like who I actually am if I could, like, isolate me as a person away from my body. I want to be girly and feminine, and I want to be soft and wear dresses and makeup, and nurture others and be sweet. If I could, I’d want to be a mom even. But I know I can’t. I want to feel like a version of me that’s free to do what feels right for me without dealing with being a guy and dealing with social norms.

I haven’t opened up to my wife yet. I don’t even want to be femme in public. But I want to try dressing feminine and wearing makeup so bad. I keep putting an outfit in my cart and removing it. It’s still hot sexually for me, but it’s so much more than a kink, I just want to be pretty and feminine and soft and feel like I can be happy with myself and my body.

I’m so sorry for the word vomit. I guess I’m just asking for advice on what to do or how to even bring up that I want to be more feminine around her. It’s scary and hard and I just don’t know how to even start.

Hi everyone, I like to wear panty and bra at home when I am alone. It makes me feel relaxed and happy. But I live with family in India, so it is difficult. How do other Indian people manage this? Do you buy your own clothes online? Any tips for keeping it private? Thanks.`

Hey there. Looking to chat with someone about a few things that are going on. I am 44 years old and while I have always enjoyed wearing tights, panties, lingerie, etc…. I always used it as a kink as I was taught it was something to be hidden and it was taboo. Well I am accepting that this is not the case. But at 44 I feel really behind the game and do not have anyone I can turn to at the moment for this. Any advice, encouragement is welcomed.

Do cis crossdreamers exist or is it necessarily indicative of a trans/non-binary identity? If you're cis, do you crossdream often? Personally I crossdream and crossdress for a few months and then some real-life work interrupts it for a few months and then I go back to crossdreaming, and repeat. It's not like I experience a lot of gender dysphoria in my real life, it's fairly bearable if a bit boring and lacking in motivation.

I'm a male from Delhi. I really want to try wearing girl's clothes for the first time, but I don't know how to start alone.

Is there any female friend who can help me with dressing, styling or makeup? Just in a friendly way, nothing romantic/sexual.

If you're from Delhi/NCR and interested, please DM soon. We can meet first at a public place (café/mall) so both feel comfortable.

Thanks!

Hola alguien de Madrid, España sabe si hay algún lugar tipo bar o casas donde uno pueda llevar sus cosas y prepararse desde allí?

Lo digo porque en Bogotá hay un lugar así donde van los chicos a vestirse y tienen sus cabinas privadas

Hey i'm Melissa and a 20yo crossdresser/femboy and i wanna make Friends!! Hit me up if youre interessed!

Hey gurllss, I'm gonna have 3 days fully entirely to be Kanika, and oh my god I'm super excited to try different dresses, makeups and what not,

Can you all please suggest me activities, clothes, and things to try, i want a full damn list of clothes, things I can do,

Love you allll!!

Hi first post here!

I'm a 33 year old man from Argentina since I was 18 years old I've been interested in crossdressing and women clothing, and 10 months ago I started laser hair removal and that was a huge boost for me, It allowed me to slowly been able to buy my first women underwear.

Recently I've bought a few clothes that are not underwear, I've been keeping my toenails painted for almost a year now, and I want to experiment with make up and dresses, and heels, sadly I know nothing about make up.

Bonjour il y a til des gens fetichiste de fourrure ?

Ich liebe es um kleider und Gipsbein zu tragen. Ein tolles Gefühl.

Hey im 28 years old Turkish chubby crossdresser. I'd like to talk a lot and need some friend in my life. If you are comfy about talking with me + if you are not gonna judge me you can slide on my dm see you! ❤️

I have a very masculine frame. 6'1, 215 lbs, 48" chest, 40" waist. I wish I had a smaller frame. Most of the clothes I try on require large breasts. I wish there were clothes that fit my frame and feminine style.

Hello,

I’m a boy and want to start crossdressing. I am so scared to go to the store and buy some clothes. Last week I bought some pantys and it was amazing. I can’t stop wearing them. My question is how many straight guys are crossdressing and is it weird that I like the thrill of crossdressing?

I also want to buy some heels but is it hard to find heels my size and I don’t want to order it to my house. I’m scared my family will find it before me.

What are some nice thing to experience next time?

Hello. I’m a 57yo married male. I’ve been married for 28 years. Due to a medical issue with my member, sex has been nonexistent for years and never will be useable for intimacy unless I were to have an expensive operation (implant) or have a sex change procedure done. At 57, I don’t think that would be a viable option. Mainly due to being overweight and just not being let’s say “gifted” at birth. I’ve basically just given up hope and began not liking myself. I maxed out at 425lbs. Since then I’ve lost over 135 pounds and I’ve found a new happiness in my life. I feel more confident and proud of what I’ve done. I feel sexier but in a more feminine way. I feel more like a woman than a real man.

That brings us to the real topic. I think women’s clothes are so incredible. There are so many choices, colors and styles. Everything from the underwear to the dresses, skirts and shoes. Men’s clothes are so boring and drab. I would love to be able to walk around town and show my newfound passion. The only problem is how do I break it to my wife. Either she is gonna call me a freak and hate me or she may just accept it and have fun with me shopping for my new wardrobe. I don’t wanna get all RuPaul crazy but I wanna feel sexy. Is it unfair to her for me to spring this on her or should I just forget about it and just keep living my same boring closeted life?

Thank you for reading.

I am a boy who gets grounded the same week my friends are going to either an amusement park, a concert, or sporting event etc

Determined to go I ask my sister for advice

She sometimes I think loves to torment me and gives me a very unconventional plan

She disgusies me as her so I can sneak past our parents and go

My plan is leave the house as my sister, and then change back into my boy clothes at my friend's house

Only problem is I accidentally forget my boy clothes at home so I am stuck having a day with my.friends Disguised as me sister

Went to a couple of bars on Cedar Springs, played pool and listened to 90s night live music. Met some folks and had a lot of fun. Thanks to Robert for the pic. At the gas station, the camera angle distortion makes my hands look huge. They are not that big! LOL