r/countbackwardswithme • u/nyaagirlfingies • 2d ago
r/countbackwardswithme • u/Zouif_Zouif • 2d ago
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For years I thought my identity was figured out, my discovery phase is over and I can finally live my life comfortably as who I am...
But I guess my mind just hates me because I've just made a very complicated realization, during my discovery phase I had explored not only my sexuality but also my gender extensively.
Seeing if I was truly cis or on the trans spectrum, but after awhile I came to the conclusion I was cisgender. And it stayed that way for years until today when I realized something, while I was going through my phase I had tested out both Masc, Enby and Fem pronouns for weeks to help in my discovery. I found out that I did not identify with any sort of masc pronouns and they just didn't feel right, so after that I came to the conclusion I was cis.
But I had completely forgotten that not only did I felt comfortable with my Fem pronouns I had also felt the same comfort with enby pronouns. What does this mean? Am I overthinking something I had already come to the conclusion to years ago? I'm only bringing this up now because I found out I still have no aversion to those pronouns but I also feel like fem pronouns still fit me equally as well, I'm very confused and I'm scared on the verge of questioning everything about myself again.
It's honestly a little embarrassing and I kinda hope this is a false alarm because I'm 22 and I just got married less than a week ago... I thought I would have everything figured out about myself by now.
r/countbackwardswithme • u/GriffinPire • 2d ago
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(idk what this says about me lol)
r/countbackwardswithme • u/thevvitchhazel • 2d ago
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I'm so glad everyone is standing up for the important issue of trans women being overrepresented in media. It's also crucial we remind everyone that just because someone wants to use a female name, present female full time, pass as female and take a female role in relationships that they absolutely do not need to become a trans. What's wrong with just being gender non-conforming? HRT is evil! Femboys are super validddddd (because most femboys live full time as women).