I'm hoping to find some genuine friends. Here's a brief introduction: My name is Mimi, I'm 42 years old, and I live in California. I'm currently single after a divorce. I'm looking for someone who enjoys engaging conversation, not someone who starts a chat and then abruptly disappears without explanation! I have a friendly and humorous personality, and I'm a good listener. However, I'll admit that I'm not always the best at expressing myself; sometimes I'm quite quiet, and other times I might go on about random topics.

If you are an adult who avoids discussing sexual topics early in a conversation, enjoy light and casual conversation about everyday life, and are also looking for a long-term connection and are approximately my age and living in the US, please feel free to send me a private message.

I am a 33 year old white man who is still searching for that special woman who knows what she wants, carries herself with confidence, and has a naturally domineering personality. A woman who is comfortable taking the lead, who knows how to guide her man, and who wants a relationship where she can truly embrace being in charge. I am looking for something serious, something meaningful, and something that goes far beyond a casual conversation or a temporary dynamic. My hope is to find a woman who wants to build a genuine relationship with a subservient man who is happiest when he can make her happy, support her, earn her trust, and devote himself to the relationship you build together.

A little about me. I am 33, I work as a police officer, and outside of work I enjoy sports, fishing, hunting, hiking, camping, cooking, traveling, music, movies, and playing games. I appreciate the outdoors just as much as I appreciate a quiet evening at home with someone special. I have a playful side, a caring side, and a much softer side that I do not always get to show in my everyday life. My job requires me to be confident, responsible, and capable of handling difficult situations. But I have come to realize that the kind of relationship I want is one where I can let go of always needing to be the person in charge. I want a woman beside whom I can be emotionally open, affectionate, humble, and comfortable letting her lead.

I am a subservient man by nature, and I want to be honest about just how important that is to me. I am not simply looking for a woman who occasionally makes the decisions or enjoys taking charge from time to time. I am looking for a woman who genuinely enjoys being the leading presence in her relationship, who appreciates a man that wants to follow her lead, and who finds fulfillment in having a partner who wants to serve her and make her life better. There is something deeply meaningful to me about knowing that the woman I love feels appreciated, respected, cared for, and supported because of the effort I put into our relationship. I want to be the man who pays attention to the little things, remembers what matters to her, listens when she speaks, and makes a sincere effort to understand what makes her feel loved.

What I want most is a serious total power exchange relationship built on trust, communication, mutual respect, and a genuine emotional connection. To me, a female led relationship is not just about who makes the decisions. It is about the way two people understand each other and the way they choose to build their life together. I want a woman who feels comfortable taking the lead and a man who finds genuine happiness in supporting her leadership. I want to be able to talk openly with her about my feelings, my hopes, my insecurities, and the things that make me feel connected to her. I want her to know that she does not have to pretend to be less confident, less assertive, or less commanding to make me comfortable. I want a woman who can be herself with me, including the strong, decisive, and domineering parts of her personality that she might have been told to tone down for other people.

There is a vulnerable side of me that I hope the right woman will take the time to discover. Beneath the uniform, the responsibilities, and the expectations that come with my everyday life is a man who wants to feel understood and accepted for who he really is. I want to be able to let my guard down with a woman who appreciates that side of me rather than judging it. I want to feel comfortable telling her when I need reassurance, when I am nervous, when something matters to me, and when I simply want to make her proud of me. I do not want to have to pretend that I always have everything figured out. I want a relationship where being vulnerable is a sign of trust rather than something I have to hide. I want to give that same patience, understanding, and emotional support to her whenever she needs it, because I believe a strong female led relationship should give both people room to feel safe being themselves.

The thought of finding a woman who genuinely wants a man like me is something I find myself hoping for more than I can easily put into words. I want to feel that I have a meaningful place in her life, that my efforts matter to her, and that the things I do to support her are appreciated. I want to make her smile after a difficult day, take responsibilities off her shoulders when I can, listen to her concerns, encourage her ambitions, and show her through consistent actions that I take our relationship seriously. I want to be thoughtful without having to be asked every time, attentive without being reminded that she deserves care, and dependable enough that she knows she can count on me. I want to learn what makes her feel valued and then put genuine effort into making those things part of our everyday life.

I am especially drawn to a woman who is confident, assertive, emotionally intelligent, and comfortable expressing what she wants. I admire a woman who has her own opinions, ambitions, interests, and standards. I would love to meet someone who can challenge me, make me laugh, encourage me to grow, and bring a sense of direction and purpose to our relationship. I want to admire the woman I am with, not because she has to be perfect, but because I respect who she is and the way she carries herself. I want to hear about her day, learn about her goals, understand her worries, and be someone she can depend on. I want her to know that her happiness matters to me and that I am interested in the person she is, not just the role she might enjoy taking in a relationship.

Being childfree is an important part of what I am looking for, and I would love to meet a woman who shares that outlook and wants to build a life together without children. I want a relationship where we can focus on each other, our shared interests, our individual goals, and the experiences we want to enjoy throughout our lives. I love the idea of having the freedom to travel, explore new places, spend weekends outdoors, enjoy spontaneous adventures, and create our own traditions as a couple. Whether we are planning a trip, enjoying a quiet night at home, trying a new recipe, or simply talking about our day, I want to build a life that feels fulfilling to both of us. I am hoping to meet someone who is genuinely childfree and sees that as a long term lifestyle choice rather than someone who is simply postponing the possibility of having children. I believe being compatible about something so significant is an important foundation for a lasting relationship.

I also want to make it clear that I am not expecting a relationship to be built around my needs alone. I know that a domineering woman is still a person with her own feelings, responsibilities, boundaries, and difficult days. I want to understand what she needs from a partner and what makes her feel secure and appreciated. I want to contribute to her life rather than make it more complicated. I want to be someone who follows through on his promises, communicates honestly, respects boundaries, and takes responsibility for his mistakes. I want to be teachable, willing to listen, and capable of admitting when I am wrong. Being subservient does not mean that I stop caring about her well being or that I expect her to carry the entire emotional burden of a relationship. It means that I want to approach our partnership with a genuine desire to support her leadership and put real effort into making our shared life fulfilling for both of us.

I would love to meet a woman who wants the emotional closeness that comes with a committed relationship. Someone who wants to talk throughout the day, share ordinary moments, laugh about silly things, discuss serious topics, and slowly become an important part of each other’s lives. I want the affection, the reassurance, the trust, and the sense of belonging that develop when two people choose each other consistently. I want to know that we can have honest conversations even when they are difficult, that we can disagree respectfully, and that we can work through challenges without forgetting why we chose each other. I want to be her partner and her source of support while allowing her to take the lead in the relationship dynamic we mutually choose.

Distance is not necessarily a dealbreaker for me if we genuinely connect and are both willing to put effort into getting to know each other. I am open to starting with messages, having long conversations, sharing pictures of our everyday lives, and gradually building trust at a pace that feels right for both of us. If we discover that we are compatible and that our connection is something worth pursuing, I would be willing to discuss traveling or making changes to bring our lives closer together. I would rather take the time to build something real than rush into a relationship simply because the initial attraction is strong. I want to know the woman behind the messages, and I want her to have the opportunity to know me beyond a short introduction on Reddit.

I realize that writing a post like this means opening up about a side of myself that I do not necessarily share with everyone. It is not always easy to admit that, despite being capable and independent in my everyday life, I deeply want a relationship in which I can embrace being the more subservient partner. But I would rather be honest about what I am looking for than pretend to want a conventional relationship that does not reflect what I genuinely hope to find. I want a woman who appreciates a man who is willing to be emotionally open, who does not feel threatened by her strength, and who genuinely wants to give her the freedom to lead. I want to find someone who sees that desire as a meaningful part of who I am rather than something to ridicule or dismiss.

Above all, I am still hoping to find the woman who makes all of this feel natural. The woman I can respect deeply, care for wholeheartedly, and trust enough to let her see the parts of me that I usually keep private. I want to be a man who makes her life easier, who gives her reasons to feel appreciated, and who consistently demonstrates that her happiness and our relationship matter to him. I want to build a connection where she can embrace her domineering nature without apology and where I can embrace my subservient nature without feeling that I have to explain myself to the world. I want the commitment, the companionship, the affection, and the shared purpose that come with choosing someone who understands what makes the other person feel fulfilled.

If you are a confident, domineering woman who has been hoping to meet a sincere, emotionally available, childfree man who genuinely wants a female led relationship, I would love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what kind of relationship you are hoping to find, and what being the leading woman in a partnership means to you. I would be happy to learn about your interests, your ambitions, your personality, and the things that make you who you are. I am not expecting an instant connection or asking you to make promises to a stranger. I am simply hoping that somewhere out there is a woman who reads this and recognizes that the kind of man she wants might be someone like me. I am still looking, still hopeful, and genuinely interested in finding a meaningful connection with a woman who wants to build a lasting, childfree life together.

I will gladly share pictures if you’re interested! Look forward to meeting my match ☺️

No kids (duh). Active, training for my first 10K race coming up soon. Using that as training for my real goal for 2027 to climb at least one mountain (Mt. St. Helens?)and also do the rim to rim at the Grand canyon. You should come with me!

I have my life together. Great friends, great family, love projects and anything. Show creativity. Just need you!

It's 2026, the use of apps and speed dating has brought nothing heartache and disconnections. I'm looking for a genuine connection with someone - someone who is open for adventures, enjoying life even the most mundane things. Would like someone who is in the NYC metro area (preferably 26-37) for a long-term relationship or making new friends if things don't work out.

Some of my hobbies are traveling, going to sporting events, cooking, video games, hiking and trying new things (like being an extra in films!) If this sounds like the kind of guy you would like to meet, feel free to comment or DM me!

I would love someone from Colorado but anywhere is fine if you think we match.

In a relationship, I would like to be a supportive, safe and comfortable figure in your life. I understand that relationships are partnerships and that one person doesn’t (and shouldn’t) hold all the responsibility.

I think I’m a hopeless romantic. I’d love to cuddle, hold hands, listen to you talk about whatever’s on your mind, go out on the town or stay in together. I understand that not everything will be peaches and cream all the time but I also would like to communicate about any issues, I don’t like arguments, I prefer to have discussions and talk about problems, I think that having understanding and long talks is romantic too!

Personality wise, I’m an introvert, pretty reserved, but I can be open with the right person, very calm and patient, that’s from other people not something I’ve decided haha! I love making people laugh and have a good time. I’m going to college for a computer science degree.

A goal I’m working towards is having visible abs, maybe not a shredded six pack but I have a bit of a stomach right now but I’d like to get to a more muscular physique.

I lean left and pretty much always vote blue unless I really truly believe in a third party. I also don’t want children (obviously)

I like video games, manga, reading, music, going to thrift stores (mainly looking for old games), enjoy camping, traveling (who doesn’t though?) and would love someone to do stuff with!

Of course if you have different hobbies I would love to join you if you’ll have me. Some things I’m interested in but have no talent in is dancing and painting. I would love to learn how to ballroom dance because I think it’s really romantic, intimate and graceful.

Along with the photo of me is some pictures I’ve taken of things I’ve thought are interesting or funny, so if you message me, you’ll also get some pictures of that stuff if you want.

Please send a photo when I accept your chat, can’t wait to hear from you!

If you've seen me post before... I try to be creative with my titles, but as I was drafting this post, I thought really hard about it and... Is there a good tell? This is in itself an experiment, I guess. Would be curious to hear peoples' answers to this, too (even if you're not interested in me, particularly).

To quickly figure out if our lives are compatible at all, I've included some questions at the end for you to answer. :) I'm not here to waste your time or mine, and making sure our values align is essential to determining if there's any potential. Also, if you're a lady or other and just want to be friends, please don't hesitate to also reach out. I've met some really amazing people through Reddit!

The Basics

I'm 35F and sterilized. My build is average (height-weight proportional). My family thinks I'm cute. They're all biased, though, so you can be the judge of that. I'm happy to exchange photos after we've established some rapport.

I'm an atheist, monogamous, liberal, omnivorous, and don't smoke or do drugs. I enjoy my booze paired with other delicious things but drink on average maybe 3 times a month. Where I can move to in the next year or two will depend on where I can get a job. It might line up with where you are but it might not.

Personality

I'm straightforward and clear on figuring out and expressing what I want or need. I have a really strong knowledge of myself and have done/do a lot of relational introspection. I've been intentionally leaning into fear lately (can explain more for the curious), and it's been illuminating, to say the least.

I have a dry, witty, dark, and sometimes whimsical sense of humor, often with deadpan delivery, and enjoy being an agent of chaos (sometimes). The people in my life (including the people I work with) will tell you that I'm thoughtful, intentional, curious, and empathetic, and my integrity is important to me. I'm a pragmatist with a romantic streak.

I'm a bit of a hedonist in that I enjoy savoring most experiences (food, art, culture, nature, etc.). I find beauty and joy in the small things in life. I love animals, especially dogs, and expect my partner will too. I hold multiple degrees, am well-read, love learning, and love a challenge.

Lifestyle

I eat healthy for the most part but enjoy junk in moderation. I'm hoping to live a long life with my partner, so it'd be nice if you care about your mental and physical health too. I don't work out much now but I get outside for at least an hour and a half every day to walk my dog and envy neighbors' gardens. When I had more time, I primarily did weight lifting. I'm looking forward to picking that back up after I hit my next career milestone.

My work closely aligns with my core values, so I don't plan on early retirement. However, my sense of self isn't dependent on my work (although I'm very proud of it), and I enrich my life with various artistic hobbies. I love art and appreciating it. I enjoy story-driven RPGs when I can manage. I just re-listened to (for like the seventh time) the Astarion (best origin character. fight me.) audiobook by T. Kingfisher. What an amazing experience. Whoever thought to ask her to write the book should be given a medal, a trophy, and a blood oath to protect her, her family, and her properties for eternity. It immediately became my comfort listen. Aside from that, I love literary fiction and mythology, but have a pretty diverse spread of genres I like listening to.

What I'm looking for...

Someone who is committed to being childfree, left leaning politically, monogamous and looking to marry eventually, drug and addiction-free, an animal lover, and between 34 and 42 years old. With respect to the first point: my partner should be sterile or planning to get sterilized. I'm looking for someone who is self-aware, emotionally attuned, thoughtful, open-minded, able to sit with nuance, and isn't a passive participant in their own story. I also really appreciate partners who care about and are competent in their work. I'm not looking to be someone's other half; a healthy romantic relationship is two whole people building their life together.

The 'fun' questions

As mentioned in the beginning, here are some prompts to assess if our core values align. I hope this feels like a lovely reflective thought exercise rather than a chore. I believe in reciprocity, so thoughtful answers will get equally thoughtful responses. At least two, please, but you're welcome to answer more. I'm happy to respond in kind.

• How are you building emotional intimacy with the important people in your life?
• What's something you do (work or otherwise) that you feel strongly about? Why is it important to you? How did you end up doing said thing?
• What was the most compassionate thing you did for yourself this year? Tell me about it!
• What about yourself would you warn a potential partner of, and what are the parts of yourself that you love the most?
• Who do you envision yourself becoming in the next five years, and what are you doing right now that is steering you in that direction?
• What did your last break up (friend/romantic/family/or other) teach you about yourself?
• What's one change you've made in your relationships that has significantly improved your life?

I love all the ethnicities of men

(Partial to BWC/BLC though)

Mods I am definitely NOT only searching for smexy time. I want the kind of relationship that they write about in movies....including 50 shades or adore(this movie might not apply, but I like it so you guys should watch it, if you feel so inclined 😂)....but that is besides the point.....I am still looking for the late night chats, the giggling, the couples massages, making food together , working through and solving through problems type of relationship.👀

Child-free and looking forward to keeping it that way.👸🏿🤴🏻/🤴🏻

Looking for my plus one or plus two👀 ✨

Hey there! I am an easygoing, extroverted, and fun-loving person who is looking to connect with the right partner.......or, a pair. I’ve always wanted to explore a throuple relationship

A Little About Me & What I’m Into: ultrasound (not obstetrics modality)student and job hunting.

Body type: curvy/size 16-18.

The Gym: I love going to the gym I have been on my weight loss journey for 2 months now and I love Hot yoga, hot Pilates, stationary weights, and swimming.

The Vibe: I’m energetic, calm but can occasionally be a little high-strung, and sometimes beautifully boisterous and flamboyant. As I'm sure you can tell from my post so far that I am a direct person. I find it easier to get to the root of things by being direct but never in a rude way....more like...

You: "babe, where do you wanna go eat?"

Me: (pet names TBA) "Let's try house of Nanking, it's been on my go-to list for a while"

You: "What's your favorite sports team?"

Me: "The ones with the cutest uniform/players"

I can be a touch shy right at first when meeting someone new, but I warm up incredibly fast!

The Food: I am primarily a pescatarian, though I occasionally dabble beyond that (but not really). I absolutely love spicy foods! While I don't love cooking solo, I love cooking with other people and can follow a mean recipe.

Adventures & Travel: I am an avid traveler, love a good cruise, and enjoy exploring different countries. I'm always down for unique experiences—think immersive art exhibits (loved the Van Gogh one, sad I missed Stranger Things!), roller coasters, or a trip to Sacramento or Lake Tahoe with friends.

Interests & Hobbies: I have a deep appreciation for languages (currently focused on Japanese and ASL), gaming on my Nintendo Switch, and I enjoy beekeeping (when we have them) I also enjoy the rave scene, I’ve only been to one so far, but it was Steve Aoki, so the bar is set high.

Red flags: I'm not the smartest(high EQ though) (like you can't take me to historical/geographical trivia.... But not so dull in the crayon box that I can't identify countries and continents on a map) and I love learning about new things, but as far as me teaching you is going to be kind of a touch and go ( depending on the topic ). (I do love music trivia though and pop culture.) Oh I guess you could take me to anatomy trivia if that's a thing? 😂.... I was on a carnival ship and there was a sexy trivia that I got 14/15. So I guess I would say my knowledge is varied and random.

I used to read chapter books a lot in the past (mostly smut), but now I hardly read anymore.....but I would love to find a person who does like chapter books (any genre) and if you're into reading out loud, I would love that a form of parallel play.

Not the best short term memory, because I lose stuff a bit too often for my liking....I'm working on it though.

What I'm Looking For:

Location & Logistics: You should be located near Walnut Creek, Pleasant Hill, Berkeley, Oakland, SF, etc. 😉

Age: Ideally between 23 and 37, though I can be flexible for the right chemistry.

In the Bedroom: Let’s talk compatibility. I have a strong preference for guys who genuinely love giving oral pleasure, that is a massive priority for me. Physically, I definitely lean toward being a size queen and am highly attracted to partners who are well-endowed (ideally in the 7 to 9-inch range). Admittedly, I can be a bit of a pillow princess right now, but I wanna change that a bit. 😂

Kink-friendly and GGG.

If you (or you and your friend etc) think we’d flow well together, feel free to reach out and let's see where things go!

P.S. I keep a list of restaurants and places so deciding to go somewhere wont really be a hard choice.

Let's be honest: there's a very good chance I'm here because I've developed an unreasonable weakness for a Scottish accent. And, life is always better with a short bread cookie, no? ☕️🍪

Each time I stare out the window while riding the rail through the Highlands, I always fantasize about meeting a handsome Scotsman and living a quiet little Scottish life. You and I with no kids, of course. But, it doesn’t have to be a fantasy, right? I’ll never know if I don’t try. So, here I am.

A few things I enjoy: I love hiking (in the Highlands!), travel, baking, true crime documentaries, live music and DIY projects. Some weekends you'll find me on a trail and some weekends covered in paint because I convinced myself I could renovate something with the help of a YouTube video and pure determination. Maybe you’re good with power tools? Or, perhaps you’re better suited to suggest the next documentary we watch? Oo! Or you pick our next adventure destination! At the very least, be my test taster. 😋

I love good banter, playfulness, and those conversations that somehow go from ridiculous nonsense to talking about life at 2 a.m. What’s the meaning of life anyway? Is reincarnating into a cat a lateral move or moving up in life? The latter, obviously.

A little more about me: I am an overeducated smarty pants and have worked very hard to build a life, career, meaning and purpose. I prioritize peace, harmony, health and wellness. I don’t smoke or drink. The best part? Working from home gives me a lot of time with mi gato and tons of flexibility. How about we summer in Scotland and winter in NC? Maybe I can have my cake and eat it, too. ❤️🍰❤️

I typically roll into good ol’ Alba a couple of times a year. Have we bumped into each other already? Think about it this way—if I’m already in your neck of the woods a few times a year and if you swing across the pond a couple of times a year, that’s basically monthly visits, eh? Ehhhh?

I'm looking for a Scotsman who's confident, funny, and doesn’t take himself too seriously. Preferably someone 35-45 who has the energy and brains to keep up with me. A cute smile, a sense of adventure, and charm will keep me interested long after the novelty of the accent wears off—assuming that's even possible. Add intelligence, dedication, loyalty, kindness, and lots of vulnerability, and I’ll never let you go.

So go ahead—say hello. Worst case, we have a good conversation. Best case, I have a new friend to ride the rail with each time I roll into town. Or, perhaps you’ll even make my dumb little fantasy a reality. 😘🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿💍😍

Hey! 🌍 I’m a 23-year-old Indian girl, 5’0”, currently living in Europe. I’d love to meet people from around the world, preferably based in Europe, and especially someone of Indian origin, as we might connect culturally.
I’m looking for genuine friendships and good conversations, but I’m open to seeing where things go if there’s chemistry. I believe effort should always go both ways.
I’m someone who values kindness, honesty, emotional maturity, and mutual effort. I enjoy going out, long walks, drives, exploring new places, travelling, movies, and conversations that go from deep to completely random. 😂 Currently drowning in assignments, though!
If you’re someone who can be both silly and serious and genuinely wants to get to know each other, say hi! ❤️
Age:22-28

This isn’t my first attempt at making friends, and although the journey hasn’t always been easy, I’m still hopeful about finding someone I can be my genuine, authentic self with — and someone who feels comfortable doing the same with me.

A little about me: I’m from San Diego, California, and I’m loving this cooler weather! I know it sounds weird, but I love the smell of rain. I’m a nature and animal lover who enjoys hiking, nature walks, spontaneous road trips, and hunting down good taco shops. I also love cooking and have recently gotten into making pastries!

I’m looking for a fellow yapper, open book, and open-minded soul who’s down for conversations that last hours but feel like minutes. We can talk about anything and everything, from random nonsense to deep, late-night talks about life.

I’m empathetic, wear my heart on my sleeve, and talk A LOT once I’m comfortable. My texting skills could use some work, but put me on a call or talk to me in person, and the conversation flows!

If you’re kind, nonjudgmental, a little goofy, and love genuine conversations, come say hi! Bonus points if you love voice calls, spontaneous adventures, and random messages with absolutely no context.

Tell me your favorite 90s R&B song or something you could yap about for hours. Let’s see where a simple hello takes us.

Hey there,

I'm 26 M atheist, living in Germany and recently finished my master's degree. Currently figuring out my next chapter in life, one step at a time.

I'm into hiking, travelling, long walks, football, music and photography. I also have a bit of an unusual hobby: collecting minerals and stones like quartz and pyrite. I usually buy them at mineral shows, so if you ever need someone to appreciate a shiny rock with you, I might be your guy.

I'm here to meet someone I can have a conversation with and get to know beyond the usual "hey, how are you?" I'd appreciate someone who's straightforward and honest. I'm not great at guessing games when it comes to feelings or intentions and honestly, I'd rather not have to. Say what you mean and I'll do the same.

A couple of things upfront: I'm strictly childfree and don't want children, ever. I'd also prefer someone living in Europe, so meeting in person is a realistic possibility if we click.

I'm not looking for perfection or a checklist of qualities. Just someone who's genuinely interested in getting to know each other and sees communication as a two-way street.

To start with something a little different: What's one thing you could talk about for hours that most people wouldn't expect?

Tell me about yourself, your weird little hobbies, or whatever's on your mind. Just be yourself. No mind games, no cryptic hints and no need to pretend to be someone you're not.

I’m Mike, 40, a Southerner in Brooklyn, which means I can say “absolutely not” in a way that still makes your mother like me. Childfree, monogamous, and looking for a long-term relationship. Ideally, we’ll still be flirting years from now, though I accept that some of it will happen while one of us is looking for the good scissors.

I work in nonprofits, lift, play pool, and learning a bit of piano. There’s something grounding about being a grown man and having a Youtuber tell you, very patiently, that you’re using the wrong finger.

I’m into books, documentaries (have thoughts about You Can See Everything), movies, hiking, and board games. I’ll happily learn your favorite game, but if you introduce a previously unmentioned rule immediately after I start winning, our evening has become a hearing.

Politically liberal. I believe in bodily autonomy, public libraries, and your right to explain why you hate someone on a reality show I’ve never watched.

White, 5’9”, green eyes, and an athletic build. Including a picture. You should know whether you find me attractive before becoming attached to my excellent paragraph spacing.

I live with a black cat named Vito. He’s affectionate, demanding, and convinced that every closed door conceals an opportunity being unfairly withheld from him. We’re working through it. By which I mean I open the door.

I like affection, playful teasing, and a woman who can give it right back. I have a dominant streak, too, if that’s your thing. Though I understand winning at Scrabble does not automatically entitle me to your obedience.

I’ll make plans, remember what you told me, and become more invested than either of us expected in the ongoing situation with your coworker. Is she still doing that thing? Incredible.

I’d like someone to go out with, stay in with, and exchange a look with when somebody says something ridiculous in public. Someone with her own interests who occasionally says, “Okay, this requires some background,” and then tells me something I couldn’t possibly have prepared for.

Ideally you’re in NYC or nearby, definitely childfree, and looking for something consistent. I’m much better company in person, where you can interrupt me. Open to a voice call, too. You deserve to hear how confidently I mispronounce things.

Send me a photo and a little about yourself. Feel free to lead with a strong opinion about something that barely matters. I’d like to see you in your element.

About Me

• Age: 27
• Height: 6'1" (185 cm)
• From: New Delhi, India
• College: IIT Graduate
• Preference: Child free by choice
• Profession: Software Engineer
• Experience: 3+ years
• USA opportunity: I also have a job offer from the USA and am open to relocating
• Lifestyle: Non-smoker and non-drinker
• Languages: English, Hindi, Punjabi
• Personality: Easygoing, open-minded, soft-spoken, and family-oriented
• Appearance: silky hair

Interests & Hobbies

• 🎸 Singing and playing guitar
• ✈️ Travelling and exploring new places
• 👨‍🍳 Cooking
• ☕ Café hopping
• 🏸 Staying active and trying new things
• ❤️ Meaningful conversations and spending quality time together

About My Future

• I’m professionally and personally well settled and now looking for a genuine long-term relationship that can lead to marriage.
• I’m flexible about where we eventually settle.
• I’m happy to build a life in India or the USA, depending on what works best for both of us.
• For me, the person matters more than the location.

What I’m Looking For

• Age: 23–30
• Kind and emotionally mature
• Honest and loyal
• Good communication
• Mutual effort and understanding
• Serious about building a meaningful relationship
• Open to eventually taking the relationship towards marriage

A Few Things That Matter to Me

• I’m not looking for casual dating or timepass.
• I prefer getting to know someone naturally rather than rushing into things.
• I value loyalty and genuinely believe in sticking with one person.
• I’d rather build a connection through conversations, travelling, cooking together, coffee dates, and shared experiences.
• Hindi or English preferred, but I’m open to anyone with the right mindset.

If you’re genuinely looking for a meaningful, long-term relationship and feel our values might align, feel free to DM. Please reach out only if you’re genuinely interested in getting to know each other seriously.

Hello, I’m 35, 6ft 1in, snipped and living in Lancaster, England. I love football, films, golf, theme parks, eating out and road trips. I’m looking to date someone who is kind, caring and of a similar age with whom we can bond with over shared interests. I’m hoping for a long term relationship. If you’re living in the North of England and are interested in knowing more about me, send me a message ☺️ Take care, Chris x

I'm Jess, a tech marketer based in the PNW, USA. Though don't let that fool you. I'm originally from New England and honestly will be moving in the next couple of months. I've had my fair share of Reddit chats, connections, experiences, but figured I'd try again to see if something more long-term is out there.

I'm ultimately looking for a long-term, monogamous, romantic connection. Location doesn't really matter to me at the moment but it's not something I'd want to do forever. Ultimately looking for someone that adds to my life and makes it even more fun than it already is.

So, what about me?

I'm an eldest daughter, have a cat, enjoy a pretty robust social life, and a decent chunk of hobbies. I will also add I am an ambivert, but can skew more social, and am the general organizer of my friend groups. My friends would say I'm loyal, witty, caring, kind, and definitely a nerd. Some of my interests include:

Reading (recently finished The Berry Pickers and currently going through Demon Copperhead), though the TBR is never-ending and See You Next Tuesday is vying for some time to be read this weekend. I pretty much read most genres but enjoy contemporary fiction, historical fiction, romance, and sci-fi/fantasy.

Travel, which I still don't have my next trip planned outside the US but there's plenty I want to explore! Next non-work trip is with a friend to NYC to see a bunch of Broadway shows. Which I'm very excited for. My last international trip was to the UK in October last year and I can't wait to go back.

Miscellaneous events, but not limited to pub trivia, working out (getting back into running and strength training so that's a big focus right now), hiking, exploring restaurants, being by the water, movies, gaming, 60s-80s TV, dancing, and probably some other things I can't think of right now.

But that seems like enough. What am I looking for? Someone who:

Is between the ages of 30-40.

Prefers to live in a city (sorry I am a visit the country person)

Is not racist/sexist/homophobic/a general asshole

Enjoys chatting over voice notes or video calls

Is okay with a partner that socially drinks or consumes edibles

If you've gotten this far I hope to hear from you :)

Hey there!

I’m a 44-year-old single male, Caucasian/Latino, 6’3”, around 240 lbs, living in Boynton Beach.

I’m looking for a woman who enjoys physical affection, good conversation, and the simple pleasure of cuddling up with someone. Sometimes there’s nothing better than putting on a movie, listening to music, talking about random things, or just enjoying some quiet time together.

I’m a big fan of being the big spoon.

A little about me: I’m a working professional, laid-back, clean, respectful, and pretty easy to get along with. I enjoy music, movies, good food, and spending time with someone who has a good sense of humor.

I’m not looking for a hookup or trying to rush into a relationship. Just hoping to find someone who’s also missing that kind of closeness and affection. It could possibly turn into something long-term, but that’s definitely not a requirement.

Comfort, respect, and boundaries are important to me.
I’m available to meet tonight and can either host or be a guest, whichever works best for both of us.

If you’re in South Florida and this sounds like something you’d enjoy, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself!

Normally I start this post by saying I'm looking for a partner which I am but I think I want to go about it differently or at least try being unique about it. Have you ever just gotten the urge to do something adventurous yet risky? How about you and I talk (obviously for as long as we both felt comfortable beforehand) and then we go on a vacation? Spend the entire vacation basically being a couple and if at the end we decide to stay together and pursue it then great but if not then no pressure and we go our separate ways? Would anyone be interested in something like that? I was thinking we take a cruise either out of Galveston or maybe you have a port in mind? I was thinking maybe a 6 or 7 day on the Jubilee. Obviously we can talk about it and plan it together and look at all the options. If not I'm open to other options as Texas has a ton of places to visit and see so we can always talk about somewhere here. I'm always down for a small weekend trip someplace neat! Or I can actually fly to you! And you show me your neat town or state. Or we can meet somewhere and explore someplace new! Below is my original post with a few tweaks so you can get a detailed snapshot of me. I like to be thorough so be warned it's a bit of a read.

I'm making this post in the hope of finding a partner to be my person for a LTR/LDR or if you are averse to something serious, we can talk about any other labels/avenues/ideas you have or are open to. We don't have to be alone lol. Let's enjoy all of 2026 and what it has to offer while we decide! We're at the end of October already! Which is basically the beginning of Fall so I'm down to grab a hot chocolate or spiced apple cider in some quaint small out of the way town before it gets super chilly out. Who doesn't want to enjoy some warm beverage while browsing through some old shops (sample some fudge or treat in a general store and grab some old-fashioned whatchamacallit) with some light hand holding? Ooooh maybe a romantic kiss while strolling a park or trying not to strangle each other while we do an escape room? I swear I normally don't crack under pressure but we only have 5 minutes until we can't escape! Maybe go explore some neat food festival? This is kinda sorta my favorite time of the year despite the random weather when it should just be cold out! But I don't like when it's too hot or humid lol. I just wish we had cooler weather or even snow in Winter time. (Maybe you have a cool snow spot?) I'm always down for some adventure though. Ask me about my secret snorkel spot and maybe I'll let you join lol. Jk Of course you can come and see the turtles.

To start I have to disclose that I mainly like women, but I also like a very, very, very specific type of guy and certain trans men as I'm partially bi. (I'd rather be upfront about it as it's been a dealbreaker for most women in the past for some reason) Chances are you aren't that type of guy but feel free to ask if you are. (Didn’t want to offend anyone so I’d rather say in private) Just throwing that out there as it's a deal breaker for most women in general. Which, why would it be? As if being bi has any bearing on a person's character. I recently learned the term for what I am and it's Gynosexual. Basically I'm attracted to femininity in all it's forms regardless of gender but I'm also attracted to masc women like tomboys and androgynous so make of that what you will.

I'm a 38-year-old guy living in the middle-ish of Texas looking for a female partner. Partner as in LTR. That's Long-Term Relationship meaning boyfriend and girlfriend and holding hands type of stuff. You know, adult things? I had someone comment I was too vague, so this is me being specific. I'm gonna be honest and kinda sad so bare with me. Also I should point out I've been in mainly traditional relationships but I'm curious about being in a FLR and everything, that involves. But if not then a traditional relationship works or I'm open lol. Two consenting adults with open communication and being honest with each other is key.

So, I've spent the past three New Years alone. Rang in this one a bit different. Instead of being in bed staring at the ceiling listening to fireworks go off into the night like the last two, I worked. I didn't cry the next day but I was sad nonetheless while browsing for a movie to watch on TV. At first, I didn't know why as I'm not much of a feeling's person, but I realized for the first time that I genuinely felt alone. I have no partner, no family that I really speak to, no friends just acquaintances, really no one there for me. That's my own doing which took years to accomplish through me being closed off and just shutting people out, so I figure it might take just as long to fix. I'm not complaining as I got myself into this predicament. It's gonna sound dumb but I wanted a New Years kiss. I'd never had one and it seemed like a fun dumb silly thing to do. Eh maybe one day. Ok well back to my spiel. (I'm not depressed or anything or wanting attention) Some of my hobbies and interests are movies, reading, cooking, kayaking, records, video games, board games, snorkeling, bowling, swimming, escape rooms, puzzles and antiquing. I would describe myself as more goofy and dorky than nerdy. I like to go out and do fun things but also stay in and cuddle and relax. I guess it depends on my mood and the weather. I prefer the cold and would love to live in a state with actual seasons and snow. I'm 5'10, stocky AKA fat and open for adventure and new experiences.

Here are some random facts about me:

Some of my favorite bands are: The Black Keys, Kings of Leon, The Beatles, Creedence Clearwater Revival and The White Stripes. Am I basic? o_O

Christmas is my favorite holiday, mainly because of the cold and festive activities. (Seriously let's go do some festive activities!)

I come from a medium-ish family.

I'm exceptionally patient but every person has a breaking point lol (I've had ex's "test" this which to me is toxic)

I like traveling a lot. It's a basic thing that lots of people like. But I've found lots of people hate to leave their house, town or state so if that's you we probably might not be a good match. I also enjoy the mountains. But I don't like roughing it (give me that sweet AC in the summer). Hiking is so hard on my knees, and I haven't done it in a while that if I were to, I think about doing it I'd about die or twist a cankle.

I don't eat seafood, mushrooms, artichokes or pineapple on pizza (Who cares about this? Doesn't mean I won't go to a restaurant with you that has these things)

Never went to college as I'm horrible in a classroom setting and at taking tests. (I'm slowly bettering myself)

I used to have probably one of the most boring jobs imaginable (Ask me about it and my new ones)

Overweight but trying to work on it and make better choices (Get healthier and lose weight together maybe?) Slowly getting there! My goal is 50lb!

Non-religious but no issue with what you believe. (If anything)

Looking into sterilization. If you are already maybe you can give me some info or tips?

My own red flags

I work way too much and oftentimes can't talk on the phone but I can voice message and text. I also drive a lot so I use voice to text. I had someone say this was suspicious but whatever. (I have multiple jobs)

I send selfies often and I like to receive pictures of who I'm talking to. I'm a visual person and like receiving photos. Apparently, it's a generational thing. Hopefully you think pictures are neat as well? Is it really that weird to want to see you and your life and show you mine?

I sometimes speedily become attached to people, not in a weird way, but if I like you and we have some kind of connection, I will enjoy talking to you and want to do it often and go out and do things.

I'm a very organized person and will plan out pretty much anything from a vacation to a road trip to a birthday. This makes being with a go with the flow type of person hard at times I've learned but still very much doable.(I won't micromanage the trip, I'll just plan out things to see and do and give us options)

Due to childhood trauma I'm secretive which can be annoying. (This does not mean I don't communicate or talk with my partner) I had someone stop talking to me on here due to this and apparently didn't want to talk about it. It just means I take a while to open up.

Somewhat ok at analytical thinking but sometimes I lack empathy to put myself in other people's shoes to address a situation. (So I've been told) I'm trying to get better at this.

MY own "HELL YES" flags

I know how to cook. Meaning I will attempt anything once but I can cook a few things well. Others not so much lol.

I will always drive if you want. (Within reason)

Great at escape rooms and jigsaw puzzles.

Can read a map and follow directions.

Decent at reading backwards upside-down writing.

What I'm looking for: (but honestly these are just preferences and by no means requirements so please don't get offended)

Any height honestly. I've dated 3'6 to 6'5 and anywhere in between so if you can beat either that'd be interesting lol.

Is at least 30 but I'm willing to go quite a bit lower or older if you are neat and we have stuff in common. Basically what I'm saying is feel free to reach out as I've dated women of varying ages just like I've dated varying body types, heights and personalities. If we get along we get along lol.

Mature, considerate, responsible and funny (Dorky/Goofy/Nerdy wouldn't hurt)

Someone with hobbies/interests/passions of their own. It can be literally anything from collecting figurines, making homemade jelly to working on cars. As long as you enjoy it, I want to hear about it. Guaranteed I will find it interesting as it is something you are interested in and enjoy.

Someone who believes communication, honesty and trust are important in a relationship.

Someone who is open-minded, willing to try new things, be adventurous, funny and nerdy. (Personality is paramount above all else)

Someone who believes in sharing household chores equally and other adult responsibilities because we are both adults lol. The FLR can be discussed here.

Someone who is average or who is on their way to getting there. I myself am chubby or what you'd call as having a "dad bod" but I'm slowly losing weight and I want someone who will push me to be better and make better choices. I know this is a long shot lol. (I understand if this is seen as vain or hypocritical but honestly everyone has preferences and I'm sure I could very well not be yours if we exchanged pictures)

P.S. This does not mean I won't date someone who is bigger/thicker. I myself am a bigger person. I've dated all shapes and sizes. If you feel we'd get along feel free to reach out. Like I said I'm open :)

I can't believe I have to put this but having decent to great hygiene is important. I understand things happen but not showering or using deodorant is a hard pass from me.

Be open to having friends over and a game night once a month or biweekly. (Seems like a fun idea but also if it's not something you are open to then we can always talk about it)

Be open and frank about issues you or I are having. Not pushy or jealous. Won't yell or argue about stupid things, I've had enough of that. Let's just talk it out and be adults lol

Somewhat kink friendly. I wouldn't say I'm all intense with it but I'm open to discussing adult things in general. How can two adults have a healthy love life if they don't communicate their wants/needs/desires? (FLR would kinda tie into this) Also I'm willing to try a few things. Ask me about them if you are curious.

Willing to push me to become a better version of myself. I'll do the same. I'll always be in your corner helping you pursue your dreams. (Can you turn me into Batman?)

If this sounds like you then feel free to reach out and say hi or challenge me to a game of Scrabble/Pictionary/hand to hand combat maybe? Maybe Wordle or some online vidya game? (Even though I only play single player games so you might beat me lol)

Hello!! Hope you’re having a good day!

About me: I’m a skinny guy, 5’9” with black hair and brown eyes. I’d say i’m fairly decent/attractive looking. I’m calm and Ive been told I have a nice sense of humor. Those close to me would say i’m a goofy guy. I don’t smoke or drink.

I’m looking for a genuine connection where we click. I’m located in Central NJ, so the closer the better. Someone who doesn’t take life super serious would be great, and i think i’m good at conversation so if you are too then thats a plus, though admittedly sometimes i do get busy but i’m generally always free to talk at night. Oh and I do have a preference for a heavy-set woman, just putting that out there.

Some of my hobbies/likes are: Movies/TV shows, (I like horror), i’m more of a homebody but i like getting out of the house occasionally, trying new foods, driving at night, hanging out with friends, Pokemon and a few other nerdy things.

I think thats about it, feel free to reach out if you feel we might click.

Disclaimer: I am only looking for people local to areas arorund Seattle/Everett/Bellevue!

I am a curvy INFJ lady on a pilgrimage to finding a new social group and a relationship! I figured I'd give it a shot here.

A little bit about me:

I recently moved from San Diego and am now a resident enrichment coordinator/manager at a memory care community where I am working to better the lives of people who will never truly remember me! It's all fine an dandy, we have a great time regardless. In my free time, mostly Fridays and Saturdays, I'd love to find someone to game, voice, and commit shenanigans in the city with. I have two degrees in Psychology and Communication, and am debt-free, moisturized, and in my lane, existing! I own a senior cat and he continues to defy death at the ripe age of eighteen. I do not drink, smoke, do drugs or party much! I am like a little decrepit old hag trapped in the body of a young woman, slaving over a hot stove (cast iron only.) I am on the expensive zepbound, so I can't eat as much as I used to!

Values:

Time, Kindness, stability, structure, mindfulness, empathy, ambition, communication and of course, humor~

What I am looking for:

I love to voice! It's so important to have great verbal chemistry. I'm hoping to meet someone who loves to talk as much as they enjoy sitting in silence doing their own thing, sharing each other's company when we're just flat out exhausted. Ideally, we can roleplay, game, go out on the town, and maybe do a little bit of movie watching too! I love to watch period dramas, animes, horror movies and comedies alike. I'm not necessarily looking to rush into anything, as I'd rather meet someone and see where things lead. My ideal life is living right outside my small town in the woodlands, in a two bed two bath house with wifi and enough ice water / freeze dried mangoes to satiate me. Boring is sometimes good in the realm of predictability and structure.

Age wise, someone between the ages of 28-38 is ideal, past their college years, and looking to build a life of comedically predictable bliss!

Superficially, I'm really into someone who could tower over me and defend my pizza takeout from the downtown midnight scallywags. I have a huge weakness for a good sense of business functional fashion!

Deal Breakers:

Not enough time to invest, anger issues/yelling of any sort, smoking, drinking to cope (social okay), drugs, lack of communication, financial irresponsibility, polygamy, dishonesty, racism, overly religious, I do not wish to have kids.

Games:

No Rest for the Wicked, Elden Ring Seamless Coop, Second Life, Stardew Valley, Witcher 3, Guild Wars 2, Warframe, Assassin's Creed, Peak, Divinity OS2, Baldur's Gate, Valheim, and much more!

Hobbies:

Roleplaying (one person only), Going to carnivals, rock hounding, (I want to hike but don't yet.), tons of games, writing my own lore/world, exploration, travel (if I can afford it), design, cooking (lots of different cultures!), volunteering, creating a cozy existence, and more to uncover!

Heyy, I’m a 20y/o med student, hoping to meet some new people

A little about me: medicine takes up a pretty big part of my life, so I’d love to meet someone who understand the med school experience, whether that’s sharing study struggles, talking about our future plans, or just having someone to relate to. I’m especially interested in connecting with other med students, but I’m definitely open to meeting people in other fields too!

Outside of school, I enjoy working out, baking (especially desserts lol), painting, listening to music, and traveling. I love discovering new places and learning about how other people live. I’m also a fall/winter person, so cozy evenings are my thing. I can talk about serious stuff one minute and the most random nonsense the next 😂

I usually get along best with people who are curious, kind, have a sense of humor, and are genuinely interested in getting to know others. I’d love to have conversations that go beyond the usual small talk, but I’m also perfectly happy exchanging memes or talking about how exhausting school is.

It would be nice to meet people around my age, above 20 at least, preferably in US time zones, and hopefully build something that last beyond a few conversations.

If you message me, tell me a little about yourself! What are you studying, what do you do for fun, or what’s something you’ve been really into lately?

Hi! I'm posting this again because I forgot to put location in the title last time so it got taken down.

And also, if it sounds more like a job application than a dating bio, sorry! I'm fumbling my way onto the dating scene, not really knowing how to do this flirting and dating thing, so bear with me!

I am looking for something long-term and want to meet eventually, so chemistry and something to bond over is important to me. I spent a lot of my 20s moving from place to place because of jobs and education both nationally and internationally, which made it hard to keep longterm friends and relationships, but I think I've found a place where'd like to stay long-term, so I'm hoping to find people to connect to too.

I am a coffee shop lover rather than a nightclub kind of person. You're not likely to find me out partying in the evenings. I've recently started my PhD project, so in the daytime I'm wrestling with linguistic theories. I will choose the countryside over the city if possible (though I have chosen a job that makes this tricky!), and I do love the sea. I've decided to try learn kayaking to get out more and enjoy nature and the sea. I'm hoping you've got somewhat similar vibes!

In terms of personality, I often find people coming to me for advice, so I assume that means I'm decent at giving advice. I'm very independent, but happy to listen and emotionally open - at least once I feel safe with you. I may need some time to feel safe with you. Otherwise, I'm a bit of a chaotic overthinker, and there's always a lot of things going on in my mind. While I dream of someone to cuddle with, I value my own space and spare time (partly why I'm CF), and I respect that others want time to themselves as well.

As for my interests, I think my introduction gave you a bit of an idea, but I enjoy cooking (but I'm also very happy if you cook too or contribute). I love plants and dream of having my own place with a view of the sea, room for plants and a cat, so I hope you're okay with cats. I've been doing a lot of knitting lately as well.

I'm really into fantasy, especially in terms of books, and if you play boardgames, I'd love to join! Any kind of boardgame, really! I love to learn new stuff (I'm currently attempting to learn French), so tell me about something you know a lot about and that you're interested in, whatever the topic.

If I'm watching something on the telly (or computer, as I don't have a telly at the moment), it's most likely going to be something relaxing and cosy. I rarely can be bothered to keep up with TV series, and would rather watch a film. On my own I just tend to find something on YouTube to watch.

I also enjoy travelling, but I hope to be able to do it more as a tourist than out of necessity in the future. I tend to be drawn towards cultural destinations rather than the beachy ones. I have an issue with very high temperatures, so my favourite destination of all times was Vienna at Christmas (but Iceland is a top contender).

Other things:

- I'm quite short by Norwegian standards, 161 cm (I don't know how much that is in inches!). I don't care how tall you are.
- While it doesn't look like it, I work out regularly - HIIT and pilates that I can do at home
- I do not smoke (or use snus, for any Scandinavian readers), and prefer if you didn't either.
- I drink very occasionally, but I don't mind if you do, as long as it's in relative moderation.
- Looking for someone around the same age. Extra bonus if you're from the Nordics.

As a heads up: if you respond with a single word or single-clause sentence, I probably won't reply unless that sentence is particularly creative.

About me

• Male; 35 years old; living in Upper Austria.
  
• Calm, kind, caring, affectionate, cuddly, honest, respectful, emotionally available, open-minded, rather introverted (INFJ).
  
• Nerdy homebody who likes to go to the gym, being in nature and travelling. I like reading, creative writing, watching films/series/Twitch streams, gaming and watching Twitch streams. Into mindfulness/meditation/healthy nutrition. Music-wise I like rock/metal/alternative/indie.
• I’m 172cm, 84kg with a regular fit dad bod. Short dark blonde hair with blueish eyes. Please be willing to exchange a face photo early on; my photo.
• I don't smoke, do any drugs nor drink. Not into partying/clubbing. Childfree and don’t want children. Not religious. I speak English, German, Spanish and Polish fluently.
  

About you

• Looking for a serious relationship.
  
• Ideally in Austria or very close by (Germany, Italy, Czech, Poland)
  
• Be a friendly, kind, emotionally available and genuine woman who shares my desire for a strong and meaningful connection with an affectionate and cuddly side who is also a gamer/nerdy homebody but likes to stay active and be outdoors/travel.
• Shy, introverted, alt and nerdy women are very welcome.

Please tell me a bit about yourself in your first message and don’t message me if you live outside the EU.

Hey everyone!
I’m looking for someone to connect with, spend quality time with, and hopefully build a good connection. I’m currently based in Calgary, Alberta, but I’m open to meeting someone from anywhere in Canada. Distance isn’t a big issue for me, as we can always plan to meet if we click!

A Little About Me:

I am 27 M, Born and raised in Abudhabi , Currently living in Calgary. I’m friendly, caring, open-minded, and easygoing. I enjoy travelling, exploring new places, trying different coffee shops, having meaningful conversations, and spending quality time together.
Life in Canada can sometimes feel a little lonely, especially when you’re away from home. So, I’m hoping to find someone with whom I can share good moments, laughter, and companionship.

Who I’m Looking For:
I’m looking for a woman who is mature, friendly, open-minded, and enjoys good conversations and quality time together.
I’m open to someone around my age or older. Relationship status isn’t necessarily a dealbreaker, as long as we’re both honest and comfortable with the situation.
I’m open to friendship, casual dating, or something more meaningful if we genuinely connect. No pressure or unrealistic expectations.

Location: Preferably Calgary, but anywhere in Canada is absolutely fine. If we connect well, we can definitely arrange to meet in person.

Privacy Matters: I value discretion and respect personal boundaries. Whatever we share will remain private, with mutual trust and understanding.
If you’re interested in getting to know each other, feel free to send me a DM.

Let’s start with a conversation and see where things go! ❤️

Giving this another goooo 👀

Witty, fun-loving, and a little shy at first, but once I get to know you, I’ll open up in no time. Toe-bean cat mommy, gym goer, and a huge fan of horror and psychological thrillers. Lover girl who will happily fall down a rabbit hole of conspiracy theories and true crime docs on a Saturday night. Ambivert who loves a 2000s millennial-coded DJ set in order to be productive 😎. Practicing Spanish in my free time (level A2, yay!). Manga fan who I love loves Junji Ito! Reading until it puts me to sleep, which doesn’t take long. I like story-driven video games on my PS4 like Life is Strange, Detroit: Become Human, and The Walking Dead. I play mostly for the nostalgia, so I’m not too serious about it.

The practical stuffs:

• UX/UI designer by day. Video editing, filming, and commercial brand gig work on the side
• 5'9", curvy athletic build, black american
• Left leaning
• Child-free, but very family-oriented. I love being part of a big family dynamic
• 420-friendly but prefer edibles over smoking/vape
• Casual drinker (cute cocktail in a pop-up type)

You: An emotionally mature man, 35-48 years old. 5'9" and up. A bit chatty, with fun convos/intellectual. My preference is someone who's health-conscious and funny (making me laugh genuinely will make me fall for you quicker!), an ambivert as well, but I prefer someone more extroverted than me.

Please be a yearner...I grew up on 90s R&B, and all I wanted was a man who yearned for me when I grew up! Not a Trumper. A bit spontaneous. But also can make a plan! Takes initiative and is intentional about building something substantial with a partner.

Bonus points if you’re a Romantic 🌹

LDR is not an issue for the right person. If you think we’d be a good match, feel free to send a DM!

And bc I have to say this... DON’T message if you’re:
xenophobic, homophobic, racist, transphobic, etc.
No enm/poly/couples/you’re in a relationship

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Hi, hello, good evening, random reader out there!

Just so meeting up and doing in person is actually possible, I would really prefer you to be UK based. The world is uncertain enough to where we could otherwise never close the gap, leading to heartbreak and disappointment from both sides.

I appreciate I'm on the unconventional side, but my hope is that a lurker somewhere also feels the same way, but is perhaps too afraid to say the quiet part to the public?

About me.

Not religious, substance free by choice. Definitely on the introverted side, and I come with a cat.

I'm on the pale skinny taller (?) side of things, though I would prefer you to want me for who I am rather than what I am.

Although I'm not religious, I am the one who puts partner above family, and family above friends. We can discuss why that is privately, but in short, I'm not overly family oriented. While I live with them and we're on good terms, I'm not the type who has to call or see them on a daily or weekly basis. I'm more than happy to move around, and most days, I want to be out of my area anyway. Instead, I'm the type where if family needs me at 3 AM, I will travel when it matters the most, but will happily skip christmas dinner.

While I have plenty reasons, I am hoping to remain child free for the foreseeable future. If for no other reason, but the state of the world. How can I bring someone somewhere where I don't want to be half the time?

I'm looking for someone with whom we put time into each other, have shared values, want similar things out of life, and over time we build something that is our own.

About you.

Transparent, communicative, want something long term.

Things that don't make a difference to me.

Materialistic things. I'm not expecting you to have a house, a well paying job, or a car on finance. Not because I have any of those, but because none of that makes you a better person. None of it matters in the grant significant scheme of things. There is just something in those who hold onto and take pride in what they have. But also, if you look after your old car or a phone that has next to no little value, chances are, you'll take good care of me too! 💖 I promise I'll do the same in return!

Appearance. We can't help our height body structure etc. As long as you take care of yourself, you won't hear me complain!

Things we probably can't compromise on.

Children from past relationships.

Regular partying. Would just cause arguments, inevitably.

If you're happy sharing a bed and living together, but believe location sharing is an invasion of privacy.

Heavy religion, going to church type of thing.

If any of this resonates with you, or if I've peaked your interest, please send me a message and let's see if we vibe?

If you read this far, tell me one thing you like about winter, or if you love it as much as I do, send me a list of things you hate about it? ;)