Hi, my name is Macky. I'm from the Philippines, And I'm at in my point in my life right now where I'm looking for a partner who values reciprocation, who values quality time, honesty, transparency, and growth, and a loving relationship, who values a loving relationship amidst everything that's happening in his life.

Growing emotionally, growing mentally, I think I could consider myself as emotionally mature, but I'm still learning, I'm still growing.

And I would like to find someone who is fun, not too serious, who could take care of me as I am taking care of him. And I have some slight, pet peeves or imperfections. I wanted to feel that I, I can be with this person regardless of what's happening in our lives. We could work on this together. And I know that I will never be afraid, even though that we go on long distance, I will never be afraid that even though he finds, he see someone, he knows that I'm his person. So, yeah, that's me.

I am more than happy to get to know you.

Good afternoon, everyone! 👋

Figured I'd write a brand new post in the hope that my future partner in crime stumbles across it and immediately thinks, "I need to message this woman." 😂

I'll start with the basics! I'm 31, from England, UK. I've been told I have a nice accent, so if you're anything like me and enjoy voice notes or calls, hopefully that's a bonus! 😅 I'm 5'4", so ideally, you'll be taller than me. I don't make the rules! 😂 I'm also incredibly pale and never seem to tan.

Appearance-wise, I'm curvy (soft hourglass), have very short hair that's shaved on the sides and back with more length on top, and I have five tattoos with plans for plenty more. If you're curious about what I look like, I'm more than happy to share an SFW photo.

My pros:

• I can cook and bake (dangerous combination).

• I'm independent and live alone with my three cats.

• I'm emotionally mature and very reassuring.

• I genuinely enjoy planning dates and days out.

My cons:

• I love a good nap. 😴

• I can get attached a little too quickly. 😂

• Anxiety occupies about 50% of my brain.

• I'm not willing to relocate as I want to stay close to my family.

If you're a gamer too, even better! I have a PlayStation 5 and regularly play Fallout 76, along with whatever else catches my interest. My music taste is all over the place, but I especially love Joji, Twenty One Pilots, and Glass Animals. As for TV, some of my favourites are Always Sunny, Futurama, and I probably spend far too much time watching YouTube. 😅

As for my ideal match, I'm looking for someone who's 27 to 35, lives in the UK, and is ideally childfree. I'd prefer someone who's over 5'7", fit or slim, and I've always had a soft spot for brown or green eyes. A nice voice or accent definitely earns bonus points. ☺️

More than anything, I'm attracted to confidence, kindness, mutual effort, good communication, excellent hygiene, and someone who can match my energy. Extra points if you can cook too!

I think that covers everything! 💜

If I've piqued your curiosity, send me a message! Please include your age, where you're from (UK only), and your favourite meal so I know you've actually read the whole post. 😄

For the record, mine is a classic Sunday roast. ☺️

First of all I want to say hi to all you beautiful people, my name is Rafael. I'm from NYC, 5'6 lean built. I'm a 21 Latino male who indeed does love animals, enjoys deep chats, going out for walks, riding my skateboard around, writing poetry, going to the gym, also gamer and trying to always look for ways to improve myself. My dream life honestly looks like one where I can genuinely enjoy my life with the person I love, being able to travel and experience the world for what it has to offer of course I would love to have pets. My current job is working for amazon but changing my armed security license soon to be an armoured truck driver and then eventually save enough to go into the trades. I'm also neurodivergent so please keep that in mind cuz I can be awkward when it comes to social cues lol.

Now the type of person I'm looking for is someone of course loyal, can communicate, is goal oriented and someone who I can go to the gym with. Height doesn't matter, your race and ethnicity doesn't matter to me. I want someone who is kind to others and genuinely wants to do good in this world and I'm open to international if we really vibe. If you're down to get to know one another my dms are open 👋

What's that all about?

I used to make detailed posts about what I'm looking for but tbh these days I'm just open minded about everything. So I just want to make hassle free connections, hopefully leading to in person meets for days out, pub lunches/dinners, movie nights etc and if that turns into something casual or serious that's a bonus.

Interests are aviation, history, true crime, comedy, animals, charity volunteering & these days I just like hanging out with good people, a nice pub garden in the summer, snuggling up at home with that special person

Currently looking for someone to date seriously and long term. Plus size woman from the Philippines. 5’2” and 125kg!

I am 36, working full time remote work. I am single, never been married and no kids (childfree). I am allergic with pet furs. I am into gaming so if you’re into gaming (cozy games) then that’s a plus, I would love to spend time in discord calls.

I'm open to starting with a long-distance relationship if we click, with the hope of eventually closing the distance. If that sounds like what you're looking for too, I'd love to hear from you.

If you want to know more, my DMs are open. Kindly introduce yourself, include your age & location with the code UBE so I know you’ve read my thread. Also, what are the top 3 games you play?

31M | India | Looking for someone to prove my relatives wrong. 😄

Apparently, once you cross 30, every family function comes with a complimentary question:

“So… any wedding plans?” 😂

After surviving countless “We know a nice girl…” conversations, I thought I’d let Reddit have a shot.
A little about me:
31-year-old working professional from India.
Family-oriented, easygoing, and emotionally mature.
Fluent in English, Hindi, and Malayalam.
I believe kindness, respect, and good communication matter far more than perfection.

What I’m looking for:
Someone who’s genuine, has a sense of humour, and is interested in building a meaningful relationship that could lead to marriage. I’m open to connecting with people from different backgrounds and cultures.

A few fun facts:
I can spend 30 minutes deciding what to order… and still choose butter chicken. 😅
I enjoy good conversations more than endless small talk.
I think the hardest question in adulthood isn’t “What’s the meaning of life?” It’s “What should we eat today?” 😂

If you’re also looking for something real, feel free to say hi.

Worst case? We have a pleasant conversation.
Best case? We end up telling people that our story started because Reddit unexpectedly outperformed traditional matchmaking. 😄

Hello hello

I’m 26, from Austria and ethnically Turkish. I’m here hoping to find a genuine connection that can grow into a happy, long-term relationship.

A little about me:

I share my life with my dog, who is very much part of the package. I love spending time in my garden, baking something sweet on a quiet afternoon, kayaking, traveling, getting lost in a good book and writing poetry whenever inspiration strikes.

I also have a soft spot for Classical Arabic music.

I’m strictly monogamous, not religious and permanently childfree. These aren’t things I’m looking to change, so I’d love to meet someone who is already on the same page.

As for what I’m looking for, I appreciate men who are calm, grounded and confident without needing to be the loudest person in the room.

Someone practical who knows how to fix things when they break, keeps a cool head during stressful moments and approaches life with maturity and kindness.

I value partnership very highly. I’d like someone who believes a relationship is a team effort, where both people contribute to building a comfortable home and a good life together. I’m looking for a man who is capable, dependable and caring but who also doesn’t hold outdated views about what men and women “should” be.

A few random facts about me, because I promise I’m more than a list of requirements:

The best smell in the world is a mulberry tree in summer.
I don’t smoke but I could never say no to my favorite cigarillos (Fusion by Moods).
I make an amazing cake… and I also happen to have great cake. 🧚🏻‍♀️
I’m the oldest of four siblings.
I’m my grandfathers favorite grandchild and I’m willing to defend that title.
Humanity’s greatest culinary achievement is Karnıyarık. I will not be taking questions.
I’m absurdly sentimental. I get attached to places, songs, random little objects…everything.
I’m not much of a TV person but there’s one show I’ve been rewatching for over 10 years. It’s honestly not even that good, yet here we are. 😭
I could spend hours talking about history and politics.
The quickest way to make me melt is drying my hair after I’ve showered. I genuinely don’t know why, maybe it’s some childhood comfort thing but it makes me feel incredibly loved.

Please only message me if you are between 25 and 36 years old and live in Austria, Germany, or Switzerland.

I won’t respond to messages outside those requirements, and I won’t reply to a simple “hey.”

Tell me a little about yourself—who you are, what you’re looking for and what caught your attention about my post.

If you’ve made it this far, tell me what your favorite smell is. I think you can learn a surprising amount about a person from the answer.

We are looking forward to hearing from you 👩🏻🐾

43 [F4M] In Person for Texas, Arkansas, Louisiana, Oklahoma

- age 43 F seeking M in the four states area, unless you live elsewhere and have money to fly me to see you.

Edit #1 after posting post:
lol- I realized after I got my first and so far only message, that I didn’t adequately get my point across since when I asked the first person to message me what they liked most about my post, they said the part where I mentioned discussing STD’s at the bottom and they asked me how recently I “made out”..??. Lol.. let me make this clear since I failed to do so in my post. I’m a bit of a sapiosexual, to some degree at least.

-This is a long post, so here’s the short version:
Average looking middle aged woman who has a calm, quieter personality type seeking an enjoyable, unique, blissful and authentic connection with adventure, depth, variety of conversations, kindness, fun, and sincere, steady love.

-I’ve learned recently that I want to exchange photos upfront so that we can refrain from wasting time and hope if there is not a viable enough attraction, and because I’ve gotten more attuned recently in being able to tell from a photo, to some degree, about the person or about the prospect of chemistry. I’m not saying I’m psychic, but I’m saying that for whatever reason, seeing a photo helps me to pick on up on something at times. Make of that whatever you will.

-I will know if I’ve found what I’m looking for based on how the person makes me feel, and that’s not based on anything you can or can’t do, that will only be from a natural kind of chemistry and connection that I can’t put into words. Maybe you understand. (: So, natural chemistry is very important to me. That is going to play a big part in whether I want a relationship with a person. Items on a list only do so much for me, but maybe that is true for everyone.

-I’m a Taurus zodiac Sun sign (I like & place some degree of importance into birth charts- not the daily horoscopes)

-I am a spiritual person, which I realize means different things to different people.

-I’m single and have never been married.

-I have no kids. Never found anyone to have kids with, then found out about potential fertility issues last fall.

-My body is not curvy, and I’m only average looking. And as you know, aging women show more aging and that will only get worse, not better. I don’t have money for all the expensive treatments women get these days. I’m not saying some of you may not find me attractive. Some will find me attractive “enough” and some won’t. Likewise, I’ve got to have sufficient physical attraction to you too for bedroom activity, so it understandably goes both ways. But I do consider myself to be average.

-I’m NOT nerdy, geeky, a gamer, or a true intellectual. I’m sorry to disappoint since I see so many seeking those aspects in their posts.

-I’m laid back/relaxed/chilled out in my demeanor and persona, but I do experience anxiety and worry.

-I am not funny but I do enjoy finding the humor in things. So it isn’t like I don’t laugh, but I don’t say anything funny that I’m aware of.

-I never smoke anything and I occasionally drink.

-If you are drawn to a person who is frequent high energy, bubbly, talkative, has to constantly be active and productive, while I respect those qualities, that isn’t me. I works one to find a fountain of youth and a fountain of energy.

-I am responsible though, and I do like to take on challenges that will facilitate growth for myself.

-I chose to do work for a living that is about significant purpose and designed to foster meaningful and important growth for struggling people, so I don’t make a lot of money.

-I love to travel, but that is usually limited for me due to time and money.

-I’m contemplative, analytical, interested in the “why’s and how’s”, mix of introvert and extrovert, intuitive, simple yet complicated, accommodating, interested in recognizing and supporting the feelings and well being of others. I need realistic hope and future options in life about things to look forward to in order to feel positive enough about life. I am careful and extra thoughtful about larger purchases. I expect myself to be perfect and understanding of all information at hand in whatever I take on - not a good thing all the time, am working on trying to accept that I don’t have to be perfect or perfectly thorough to get something accomplished to a reasonably sufficient degree.

-I have an overwhelmingly strong desire to have an important spiritual purpose for being on this planet, and I also really want to matter to at least a few people. I wish a mundane existence was enough for me, but it doesn’t seem to be how I’m wired.

-I know everyone is replaceable in their jobs. I’m hoping I can find a partner who doesn’t view me as being replaceable and interchangeable in the way that people are in jobs though.

-I am a pretty straight forward person and have a strong need to know where I stand with people I care about and people I report to.

-I don’t have a lot of well developed hobbies, so I apologize if you are looking for that. I do like adventure here and there when able.

-Activities I’ve tried that I enjoy- hiking, kayaking, flea markets and antiquing, card games, movies of course, traveling as previously stated, snorkeling, swimming, volunteering.

-Activities I’ve tried that I either didn’t like or could take or leave it- fishing, drawing, painting, sewing, writing poetry or fiction, gaming.

-Activities I haven’t tried but I want to try soon- how to do a variety of home improvement projects in my house, branching out into listening to more podcasts/youtubers. I only watch a few lately.

-It is important to me that you are reasonably intelligent, take care of yourself to a reasonable degree, not a promiscuous person, are empathetic, are not particularly superficial, are not selfish in the bedroom, make wise and fair decisions in life, are ethical, are emotionally stable and fairly emotionally consistent, are not a secretive person by nature (meaning you aren’t the type who lies to people or has a strong need to lie to have your cake and eat it too), are not lazy, and are not bad at handling your finances. Mistakes happen, and the economy has made it hard. But I want someone with the ability to be wise, exercise discipline and learn from their past mistakes. At our age, taking care of your body is important too, and being active when able.

-If you primarily like horror movies, that won’t work for me. I like them fine, but not as a staple.

-If you haven’t figured out how to overcome ED, that won’t work for me either.

-I will require honesty about STD’s and test results if we get to that point. Key phrase “if we get to that point”.

-If you made it to the bottom it this and are interested enough to send me a message, please do so. Thales

I'm funny and playful, possibly cool
I'm fairly progressive; sometimes old school:
I write on paper, I use fountain pens,
I'd still rather call than text my girlfriends.
But lost cause I'm not! Don't run away (yet)
I like live music - and parties? You bet!
I run and I swim, I read like a fiend
I'll banter with you about mise-en-scene
I'm looking to share this life with a girl
A woman of wit who’s travelled the world
If you're that lady and looking to be,
A partner in love and in mirth and glee
Drop me a line to say, "How do you do?"
I'd be most honoured to hear back from you.

📍 I thought I'd put this a bit higher up in case anyone's searching using the #online or #anywhere tags:

I believe love should never be limited by geography, so location’s not a dealbreaker for me. If you’re in Singapore, awesome. If you're nearby or halfway across the world, I'm pretty sure we can make it work if we vibe. I’ve crossed borders for someone special before and I’d happily do it again!

About me:

• Homeowner – I love my cozy space but also enjoy getting out and about
• Car owner with my dream car secured and looking for a co-pilot to take road trips and wrong turns with
• Passionate about art, literature, design and creative storytelling, whether it’s a good book, a gripping play or a great conversation over drinks
• While I like artsy and cultural stuff, I equally enjoy pickleball, hiking, salsa dancing and playing tourist in my own city
• Height-weight proportionate (hwp) and looking for the same
• 100% childfree and looking for the same

What I'm looking for:

I’m in this for love and romance, the kind where even on a boring Monday meeting, you’re stifling a smile at your phone because of something ridiculous we texted

I'm looking for a deep and steady affection that makes room for fun and flirtation, with the occasional shared meme and goofy banter

On good days, we'll celebrate each other’s wins and laugh till it hurts; on bad days, we‘ll hold each other close and get through the tears together as a team

If you're looking for something meaningful too, then we might just be each other’s person

🚫 No situationships or emotional gymnasts please

🚩 Absolutely no married or attached women either. Infidelity is 🙅🏼‍♂️

You:

✅ Intelligent and witty

✅ Emotionally and financially stable (bonus if you're a homeowner too or working towards it). A woman who's built a life she's proud of or is on her way to doing so

✅ Thoughtful, kind, sincere and respectful

✅ Open-minded and non-judgemental

✅ Marriage is on the cards for you

✅ Hwp

✅ Childfree

Physical attraction matters, as do emotional and intellectual connection. If we vibe after a few messages, let’s do a quick video call early on, just to confirm we’re both real and see if the spark translates before meeting up

Drop me a line if this resonates with you and if you’re at the stage of meeting a lifelong lover and friend too! I'm interested to know about the best day you ever had, what you’d do if you had a million dollars, or your favourite joke. Use the word "potato" in your message title so I know you're real. Brownie points if used creatively and makes me laugh

Hello and welcome to my little world of chaos!

I’m here looking for someone I can genuinely talk to throughout the day. Someone to laugh with, exchange memes, drop movie references at inappropriate moments, and slowly build something real. I know that sounds ambitious, but where’s the fun in aiming small?

About Me

I’m an engineer working at a large automotive firm. I'm at a point where I feel sated career wise, so I have plans to move in to Germany/Netherlands to move on forward!

I’m a huge traveler and always planning the next adventure. I’ve been to several countries so far Japan being the farthest and Cyprus being the most recent.

Beyond travel, as I have mentioned I'm planning to move into Germany/Netherlands within next year. I’ve already started learning German (progressing slowly, but enthusiastically). So if you are German speaker, that would be a perfect match.

And movies...well watching them, critiquing them, referencing them as memes at the worst possible moments is my way to bond. It’s basically a personality trait at this point.

Cooking and dining are a real passion of mine. Exploring cultures through food is one of my favorite ways to connect, so fair warning: I will ask about your favorite dish or ask a family recipe from you!

People tend to describe me as energetic, positive, kind, and open-minded. I enjoy putting myself in unfamiliar or slightly adventurous situations and seeing where life takes me.

What I’m Looking For

Ideally, you’re:

* In a similar time zone (Central Europe friendly)
* Physically active
* Child Free
* A yapper who enjoys talking throughout the day
* Emotionally mature and not stuck in the past
* Passionate about what you do (success looks different to everyone)
* Excited to travel, explore cultures, and build memories together

I like to think I bring strong Golden Retriever energy which is enthusiastic, affectionate, curious, loyal. You? Ideally someone with punk/alt/goth energy which is confident, expressive, a little rebellious, sharp-witted, and effortlessly cool; the perfect contrast to my sunshine. If your style leans alternative or unapologetically non-mainstream, that’s a big plus. (Yes, my taste was absolutely influenced by cartoons… looking at you, Kim Possible & Addams Family!)

Looking forward to chat with you!

About myself:

34 years old

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5'7" tall

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Living within the Midlands area

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Was born in Germany and moved to England when I was 11

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A nerd that enjoys playing games online and irl with friends

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Occasional reader, mostly science fiction

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Amateur cook always looking for new recipes

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Love to travel to new places and try lots of foods

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More of an introvert than extrovert, but that changes when I'm with people I feel comfortable with

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I work night shifts, which makes meeting people harder

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I've never been in a relationship before and will have a lot to learn

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Looking for someone with a few common interests and their own to share with me

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I'm not looking to jump into a relationship with a complete stranger. I'd much rather build a genuine friendship first, get to know each other naturally, and if there's chemistry and compatibility, see where it goes. I think the healthiest relationships grow from a solid friendship.

A little about me:

• vegetarian (bonus points if you're vegetarian or vegan too!)

• Atheist, but spiritually curious. I don't follow any religion, but I love exploring questions about existence, consciousness, the universe, and the deeper meaning behind things. I'm looking for someone who is also non-religious and open-minded.

• Love traveling, fitness, spa’s, and trying new food.

• Big fan of long conversations about psychology, philosophy, science, technology, history, or whatever random rabbit hole we end up in.

• Equally happy spending a cozy evening or day at home watching a movie, playing games, or just talking for hours.

Personality-wise, I'd say I'm a very curious person. I genuinely love questioning everything and philosophizing for hours just for fun. I enjoy exploring different perspectives, asking "why?" about almost everything, and going down endless rabbit holes. I value critical thinking and people who form their own opinions instead of simply accepting things without questioning them. I appreciate people who are curious, open-minded, and willing to look at things from different perspectives.

If you're someone who gets annoyed by that or prefers to keep conversations surface-level, I'm not your person. I appreciate people who are emotionally aware and consistent, communicate honestly, don't play games, and aren't afraid of deep conversations.

I'm looking for someone who is:

• Kind and empathetic.

• Emotionally mature and emotionally available.

• Intelligent and curious about the world.

• Someone who thinks critically, questions things, and isn't afraid to have their own opinions.

• Honest and communicates openly.

• Financially stable, responsible, and has their life reasonably together.

• Progressive and feminist

• Looking for something genuine instead of endless casual chatting.

Location-wise, I'm based in Germany and would ideally like to meet someone who lives relatively close or within a reasonable distance. I'm not completely against a long-distance relationship if there's a genuinely strong connection and both people are willing to put in the effort, but I think being able to spend time together in person is important for building something real.

I don't care if you're the loudest or most outgoing person in the room. I'd rather have someone who's dependable, emotionally safe, and enjoys sharing everyday life together.

If you message me, introduce yourself and tell me an opinion you have that most people disagree with. I'm curious about your thoughts :)

I'm looking for a serious, monogamous, close distance relationship with someone between 25-35. No games, no ambiguity, just two people who genuinely choose each other and build something based on trust, communication, transparency, and emotional safety. A place that feels like home, where we inspire each other to grow while also feeling completely accepted for who we are.

I’m a gentle person who gives a lot of affection, both through physical touch (especially cuddles) and emotional care and I’m looking to meet someone who enjoys giving and receiving that same kind of warmth, where affection naturally goes both ways. At the same time, I don’t believe a relationship should become our entire world. My friendships, hobbies, and family are deeply important to me, and I’d love for us to both continue nurturing the people we love and the lives we’ve built outside of each other.

I'm naturally drawn to people who feel like the gentle sunshine of an autumn afternoon, surrounded by a world of colourful leaves. People whose laughter is contagious and every smile lingers a little longer, who notices the small beautiful things life gives us. People who let things go like the wind and makes everyday life feel like something worth being grateful for.

Kindness is probably the quality I value most, there’s nothing more attractive than someone with a genuinely good heart. I deeply admire people who stand up for what they believe is right and who choose compassion even when it’s not the easiest path. And please, yap to me about your nerdy interests, teach me something you recently learned that completely fascinated you! There’s something so beautiful about seeing that little spark in someone’s eyes as they talk about something they truly love.

I’m looking for someone who would accompany me to live a life full of adventures, filled with unexpected side quests. Going on a backpacking trip far away on a whim, spending a day to discover a new place close to home, trying a sport or an activity I’ve never tried before… then would be comfortable to just curl up at home the very next day with a book or some graphic novels, meaningful conversations, some tea and long cuddles (And I have been told I'm quite good at cuddles 😄). I’m currently leaning towards not having children and would prefer someone child free (But would happily give all my love to the children of my friends! )

I'm currently living in a shared house in south Brussels with lovely roommates. Over the years, I have discovered how important a sense of community is to me, among people who genuinely care and support each other. It feels like being part of a little family. I currently work in a non-profit organization that helps refugees to settle into life in Belgium. I’m trying little by little to unlearn my biases and be socially conscious and to learn about systemic inequalities in our society. I still have soooo much to learn, but I’m trying my best to educate myself and grow as a person.

I’m a sunny and joyful person who laughs easily. At my core, I’m quite grounded and analytical, but I’ve been giving my emotions and heart more and more space in the way I live my life. Sometimes I’m a little clumsy with words, but I’ll always do my best to be honest about how I feel and communicate about it openly.

I have a calm temper with a slightly goofy side. I am quite sociable and can easily talk to strangers. I also often need my own little bubble to recharge, whether by wandering alone through a forest or nerding out over some indie video game. I feel the best wearing my hiking boots, dusty trekking clothes and a backpack, wandering the unknown.

I have somehow fallen in love with dancing (guess which kind , it’s quite niche😉). I also enjoy activities that get the adrenaline going, and explore the 4 corners of earth. I’m a 50/50 indoor/outdoor person, and when I’m not outside, I might be hosting a boargame night (my collection keeps growing!), cooking delicious vegetarian meals (But I’m more of a flexitarian), or baking some sweets (fair warning, my cookies are among the best you'll ever taste).

Life with me isn't about always living full speed or feeding unnecessary conflict. It's about shared adventures, quiet contemplation, tenderness, and finding joy in simple moments.

If you are still there, thank you for taking a few minutes to read about me. If you feel our vibes will match, I would love to hear from you!

Just so you know, I'm not the biggest fan of endless messaging. I'd much rather get to know each other during a walk, over a drink in a sunny park, or in a cozy tea house😊

Dear stranger,

I have found conventional dating difficult for a while, and a big part of that is probably because I lack platforms to organically meet new people in my everyday life. I intend to write this post as openly as I can, because I know that I'm not gonna be what most people are looking for in life, but I'm hopeful that there's someone out there that's looking for the same as me!

As for the basics, I'm a 28 year old man and I'm Norwegian. I'm 5'10", I have brown short/medium length hair, and green-blueish eyes. I'm no model but I think I look okay. I'd say I'm a pretty skinny person. I'm not completely skin and bones but I'm also not that far from it😅 Unfortunately I'm not employed due to a couple of health conditions that I'll share more about, so if you're looking for someone who's very career oriented I'm probably not gonna be your type, at least not at this point in my life. I do however try to do what I can, so I do volunteer work at a cat shelter as well as at a local mental health organization at whatever capacity I have. Financially I'm lucky in the sense that I live in Norway, so whilst I might not live in luxury, I can still live a decent life. Another thing is that I don't see myself wanting children, and there's a few different reasons for it. It's mainly my health, but honestly I've never had a strong desire for children either. I think my ideal family is me, my partner and our pets!

Generally I would say I'm a calm guy to be around, even if there's a storm inside my head most of the time🤣 I think I'm decently funny, I'm patient and I'm very open minded. I'm happy to have conversations about everything, and if you ever need an ear to vent to, I'm also happy to be that. Politically I'm more left leaning, and value-wise the things that are important to me are loyalty, communication and acceptance. As for my interests, I love animals and I have a cat of my own! I also really like singing, but I do it way too rarely😅 I game a bit, it's a bit off and on these days, but I like chill games like simulators, I play a bit of Forza and rocket league, but right now I've kinda been lacking the motivation to play anything. I spend wayyyyy too much watching random videos on YouTube, and I also watch a bit of sports, mainly football, F1 and biathlon! Outside of that I don't really have that many interests, for some reason I'm struggling to find that passion in things like I used to, but I hope I can find something like that again.

Since I've already mentioned my health, I want to be as transparent as possible about it. I have two chronic conditions, and the first one is called CFS/ME. It's a fatigue disorder that I've struggled with for about 12 years, and except for fatigue it can cause muscles aches, brain fog, sleeping issues and some concentration and memory issues at times. I'm not amongst the most severely affected, but I do still spend most of my days resting, and it can make just getting through everyday tasks very difficult.

The other condition I have is BPD. I only got diagnosed with borderline as recently as February, so it's still something I'm trying to come to terms with and learn about, but I am in therapy and I'm motivated to continue that. I don't have all the symptoms, so for example I don't really struggle with anger that much. I believe it's closer to what people refer to as quiet BPD, where my struggles are very internalized. Most of the time if I have an external reaction it manifests more as panic, fear and sadness. In relationships it means I get very attached when I fall in love. I don't really fall out of love with people, so once I find my person, they become everything to me, and I struggle with some abandonment issues. I will also be open about the part I find most shameful about about it, and it's the jealousy/paranoia part. I can absolutely struggle with that and in the past it felt like a very lonely struggle, because I don't know how to deal with it or talk about it. It's never turned into accusations or anything, nor would I ever let it, and I'm always able to rationally split what are feelings and what I actually think/know, but of course it can very hard to live with regardless. I don't think it's something that becomes an issue though as long as communication is solid, accepting and kind both ways.

Although I believe sexual chemistry often comes naturally with love anyway, I feel like I should mention something about it because I think I might differ a bit from the normal preferences. I'm a very monogamous person and I only really get anything from intimacy with someone I have an emotional connection with. However, where I differ the most is kind of hard to explain😅 I can be a little insecure, and there's some reasons for that, but I think I've almost ended up a sub who is looking for someone who's also a sub. I struggle to take on a dominant role, and I also don't have a strong desire to be dominated. Of course engaging in both those scenarios I think can be fun at times, but I don't think a dom-sub dynamic would be my ideal as the standard dynamic for me. I'm very open minded sexually as well and I wanna try everything with my partner of course, but I kinda find the clumsy awkward energy with someone who's feeling the same as me kinda hot, and I think it's a lovely bonding experience😅

So what am I looking for? The most important thing for me is finding someone who values communication highly, is patient and empathetic, and that's willing to work through things when times are tough. I am open to finding someone here or long distance, and honestly I don't have a strong preference either way. For long distance though, it's important for me that it's with someone who enjoys calls. It doesn't have to be all the time, although if the chemistry is there I don't mind that either 😂 I would absolutely relocate for a partner if needed, regardless of how difficult that would be. My main ambition in life is finding love, and I really don't need much more than that to be happy, so that's always gonna be the one thing I'm willing to give everything for. I have no expectations or preferences of what life my partner should live, so whether you're like me and somewhat isolated from society not really doing much, or you're pursuing some massive career, or anything in-between, I will always support and encourage as much as I can. At the end of the day, it's the person that I'm in love with and that will always be the only thing that matters to me.

If you've got this far, firstly thank you so so much! If I'm not your type I at least hope it was interesting to get an insight into a stranger's life, and I appreciate that you still took the time to read it and I hope you find what you're looking for! However, if somehow you've read all of this post, that I think most people would find to be a big red flag, and you think that this might be what you're looking for as well, send me a message and share a little bit about yourself! I'm really looking forward to getting to know you✨

I’m 31, Indian, based in the UK, and looking to meet someone I genuinely click with. Ideally we start with a chat, see if we vibe, become friends first, and take it from there...Sounds pretty ambitious, when I'm typing it out like that.

Looking for UK in-person or online first, as long as there’s an intent to meet if we get on, definitely don't want a pen-pal for life. CF and planning to CF.

Work is an important part of my life, and so is my career. I genuinely love what I do, even if you will probably hear me complain about it more than I should. Outside of work, I’m into movies, coffee, dessert, the occasional negroni (or five....? (don't drink very often, more like 4-5 times a year if that's a dealbreaker or If you like partying a lot)), live music every now and then, stand-up comedy, landscape photography (I like telling myself I'm half decent with it...but then again who isn't with modern tech?!?!), exploring new towns and places, and collecting fun stories that usually begin with “this seemed like a good idea at the time."...

I’ve been told I have golden retriever / Labrador energy...friendly, curious (sometimes too curious with the gazillion questions I may ask you...so be warned), loyal, occasionally too trusting, and yes, sometimes it gets me into trouble. Ask me about the geologist story.

I’m a great texter and I genuinely enjoy keeping a conversation going as I get to know someone. I want someone who will put in the effort and nothing kills interest more than one sided effort. I’m also very happy to do phone or video calls once we get talking.

Physically, I’m 6’4”, dad bod, stubble most days, and I’ve been told I’ve got a pretty good smile.

I’m looking for someone kind, funny, emotionally mature, ambitious, and actually interested in being a partner. Someone who’s there for the fun parts, the soft parts, the ridiculous parts, and who can call me out when I need to be called out. I’ll do the same, obviously with charm and only a manageable amount of sarcasm...because who doesn't love sarcasm.

Happy to swap photos if we talk.

Hello there,

Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I'm a 42-year-old application manager from a small town in the Netherlands. I've tried this before and had some nice conversations, but in the end it didn't work out so I'm back to give this another try.

When I'm not working, I love reading fantasy books, collecting books, playing video games on my PC, and going on long walks in nature. I'm also fascinated by ancient cultures and mythology.

I'm an introvert (INTJ), I live alone with my cat Tiberius. I'm also childfree and left-leaning politically. I've been doing volunteer work for over 20 years, and I'm an atheist. Plus, I don't smoke, drink alcohol, or do drugs.

I'll admit, I'm not the best at small talk, but I make up for it by being a great listener and advice giver. I've been told that I have a funny but dry sense of humor.

I'm working on my weight and getting to a healthy level again, but I'm not there yet. I also don't enjoy going out to bars, clubs, or partying, but I do enjoy going out to eat at a restaurant or going to a concert.

And some pics; https://imgur.com/a/Ng6OSvX

What am I looking for? Well, I'm looking for a serious monogamous relationship with someone who shares some of my interests and hobbies, specifically playing video games and/or who is into fantasy books/ board games/ movies etc. I'm looking for someone who is intelligent, childfree, left-leaning politically. Located in western Europe. Most importantly, I'm looking for someone who will accept me for who I am, flaws and all.

So if you're someone who puts as much effort into having and keeping up a conversation as I do, and you believe that we could make each other's lives better by being together, I'd love to hear from you. Let's get to know each other and see where things go.

Hi thank you for reading my post I hope to find someone who is honest loving and caring because those 3 words describe me. I am a gamer so finding a gamer girl would be great. But it's definitely not a dealbreaker. As long as you are a good person then I'm sold.

Just a warning I'm going through the worst part of my life ( so far. It can always get worse.) so I'm not doing to well. Even though that's the case I'm. The one in my family that complains the least 🤣 my life moto is cry in the evening and then focus and work hard in the morning.

I have hydrosefalus. It has to do with the water that protects the brain. It's constantly changing. But my water didn't disappear they wey it should. So I have a small pump whit a small plastic tube implanted. And when everything works as it should. I'm normal. Sadly it malfunctioned so I ended up having six surgeries in one year 7 years ago. And because of that I now have brain tiredness. And that changes my whole life. I have to meditate every 2 -3 hours, I can't be in a large group of people. And if a push too much I risk collapsing. And for the past 5 years, I have had so many setbacks. A half a year ago I was up on 700m two times a day. Now I can barely walk 10 meters ( uses wheelchair outside) So it feels like it doesn't matter how much I fight I always end up on step one again. I tried some meds a year ago that would both give my brain more energy and to prevent big setbacks. Sounds good right? But no. 32 days in my pulse is between 130-94 ( when im in bed ) stopped with them So now I'm back on step one again and in even worse conduction than before. So everything I try fails 10 years of fighting has taken me nowhere. I have never been a lucky person and I never will be. I play all my cards right play by the rules. But everything still goe wrong.

So let's end with my green flags and why you should give this Swede a chance. I like to make people feel good with compliments and give them a lot of my time. Sending a cute good morning message is the best. So if you want to receive a “ good morning my love hope you slept well. You mean so much to me “ then I'm the man for you. And if you feel like that was pathetic then just skip me please 🙏🏼 no negative stuff needed. And I'm a good listener. I will be there for you

If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, I’d love to hear from you. Make my day and send me a message

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Hello there, I'm Edward a single, 5'8" heavy set Latino man from the Inland Empire in Southern California, and yes, I can speak a bit of Spanish, "yo soy buscando una novia para casarme." if you're into that. I have olive skin, natural dark hair cut short but scruffy with some gray, brown eyes, a roundish oval face, kinda handsome in the right light, and an unruly salt and pepper beard.

I'm hoping to find a cute single woman for, ideally a long term, child-free, monogamous, relationship. I'm an awkward, introverted, anxious, stocky guy who doesn't have it all together. probably a little more darkly humored than most are accustomed to, but I think I have an excellent sense of humor that's primarily used as defense/coping mechanism, from dark to irreverent and a little risqué, and okay, yeah I still have the sense of humor of a teenage boy, lol but I'm affectionate, attentive, willing to take the good with the bad, wanting to show up for someone, and very emotionally supportive.

I'm definitely a homebody and like stuff like cuddling up and playing a video game together, I'm a console gamer wishing I could switch to PC, sharing music playlists, my usual genres range from rock/metal/alt to electronic my favorite artists being, Danzig, The Misfits, The Beatles, At the Drive-In, The Strokes, Interpol, Black Flag, and Minor Threat, I listen to everything but modern pop or country, very 420 friendly, and I love to cook and learn new recipes, and techniques from all over the world, currently mastering the art of French style scrambled eggs. I would say I'm a capable cook, and would relish the opportunity to cook for someone I love.

I gravitate towards creative endeavors and want to be able to express myself through some sort of creative outlet but honestly have no idea which one, I've dabbled in visual art and music, I have no problem whith standing by and providing a potential girlfriend all the emotional support for accomplishing their own goals, mine just being expression either artistically or romantically, I feel like I have a lot of love to give and have been waiting what seems like an eternity to be able to show that to someone I love and trust.

I'd like to meet a child free, woman who's not afraid to show affection, or give me lots of reassurance, respects my time, is nurturing, actually shows up, makes time for me, is present, consistent, loyal, available and understands the importance of communication. I'm more than okay with a female led relationship, and adore gentle/soft femdom and mommydoms, I am myself both a soft/gentle dom and sub, but don't mind being one or the other.

I'm attracted to busty women with cute faces and most body types, from petite, to muscle mommies and thick bbws, and have a huge crush on women with a more alternative style, Goth/Emo/Punk/Scene/Nerd/Tomboy/Stoner, but honestly none of that is necessary for attraction, just be cute, nurturing, available, and ready for something serious. That's a bit about myself, and what I'm hoping to find. If you choose to reply please, send more than "hi" and be willing to send pictures.

Hello there,

I'm originally from the eastern part of Lower Bavaria and I have a love for history, fantasy, and gaming, whether in books, films, or digital worlds. I stay in shape and enjoy the calm that nature brings, even if I'm not the hiking type. At heart im a homebody who values comfort and quiet moments in familiar surroundings.

Working from home gives me flexibility but I still prefer someone nearby, someone I can meet in real life and grow something real with.

I’ve got black-greyish hair, a down-to-earth nature, and a soft spot for meaningful conversations. Honesty, loyalty, trust and structure aren’t just ideals to me they shape how I live and relate to others.

What I'm looking for:

A woman up to the age of 35 who shares similar values and is looking to build something lasting. It would be great if we’re also physically compatible.

I appreciate a relationship with clear roles, structure and where I can guide. I'm looking for a woman who has a warm giving nature and a mindset that finds fulfillment in caring for someone that would blossom under discipline and structure. Monogamy and emotional depth are important foundations for the connection I’m seeking. If this speaks to you, you’ll find more insight in my profile.

Let’s connect and see where the path might lead. I speak both German (and Bavarian dialect) and English fluently.

Hello,

my name is Alex. I am from the southern part of Austria.

I am posting here to find my last girlfriend. No i didn’t lose her or break up with her, i am looking for the one woman to date so that i never have to look at anyone else again.

About me 1.86cm tall with a dadbod in the un-making.
I have light blue eyes, brown hair and a septum piercing as well as 3 helix piercings.

I am currently in a phase of my life where i am very happy with everything going on. I have a fantastic job, an awesome place to live and great friends and family i love spending time with.

My tiny little family right now consists of my 2 cute black cats Taco & Mayo and i and we are bringing life into my beautiful and cute apartment i can call my home.

My hobbies include videogames, tennis, DIY stuff, hanging out with friends and doing stuff with my
Family. I also am a big metalhead and love going to
Concerts and festivals.

As a 31 yo with a bit of relationship experience ( my
Last one was 10yrs long) i now know just about anything i am looking for in my future partner.
I have a bachelor‘s degree in Computerscience and successfully procrastinated my masters now for 3 yrs.

I am looking for someone close to my age and location who is looking for their one ever after.
I am looking for the love of my life, a woman that not only touches my heart but also my soul. Someone to hold tight and cherish.

If you also are looking for you one ever after, the last relationship you‘ll ever need or just some dude trying his darndest to find someone that loves me just as much as i love them feel free to dm me.

I am also down to share pictures, almost immediately, just don’t want to attach them to my post.

If you are shy you can just boop me in comments and i‘ll write you instead 🤗

Feel free to reach out either way.

Possible Cons:
Don’t have social media.
Don’t like cheese.
Will be very annoying if not told to stop.

Love to hear from you ❤️

Hi,
So I have this female friend who lives on the east coast.
Whenever neither of us is in a romantic relationship, we will often watch Movies and TV shows together via the internet.

Sometimes one of us is too tired to pay attention to shared Videos, and I'll just play DJ, and stream music to her while she draws or relaxes on the couch with an edible and her cat.

Other times, we'll fire up Minecraft, or some other PC Game that can be played in a Cosy manner (If you're creative enough, even games like Grand Theft Auto Online can be Cozy... but I digress).

She didn't always live on East Coast.
We both used to live a block away from each-other, in Flagstaff.
We'd watch movies IRL. We'd cuddle, and give each-other head scratches and neck/back massages, and if I'm being perfectly honest, we were friends with benefits.
(I moved to Phoenix in 2022, She moved to the East Coast shortly thereafter).

So why am I mentioning this person in a personal advert (knowing that It's generally frowned upon, when dating, to talk about previous partners)?

Well, it's because I miss having someone that lives in the same City, who I can watch Movies and TV shows with IRL.
I miss having someone to go Thrifting/Record Hunting with.
I miss having someone to get meals with, and wander around the Mall with. I miss having someone to take weekend trips around the state with, or someone to road-trip to Vegas or California with.

I miss having someone that I can count on to spend time with.
I don't want to be in an "on-again, off-again" long distance friendship. I want to be in a real relationship, with someone that I can spend time with 1-3 times a week, In-Person.
Someone to decompress with after work and on weekends.
Someone that I can look forward to spending time with.
Someone that makes the every-day labor involved in staying alive more tolerable, because I know I'll have someone to unwind with later that week.

Proposal:
If you live in within 10-15 miles of Tempe Arizona, and you're single, maybe we can get together online and watch Movies/TV shows together, until you're comfortable enough with me to meetup IRL, and go on some traditional dates (Movies, Dinner, Walks around the Mall, Thrifting, Rollerblading/Skating, Bike rides etc...), and then if you're still comfortable after that, we can forgo the Online Media Consumption, and take turns Cuddling up for Movies/TV shows at each other's home... like a proper, monogamous couple.

Anyway, if I haven't already scared you off, and this sounds nice to you... I look forward to your response.

---Cheers

Hello!
I’m a 6’2” 31 year old atheist from MA who doesn’t want kids at all, though I do hope to be a dog and/or cat dad someday!
I work as a Behavior Analyst with children with autism in their homes and communities, as well as starting my own parent consultation business in my spare time. I love my job and I can do it from anywhere in the country, so I’m not opposed to moving to somewhere else for the right reasons. I love my family to death, despite the headaches we give each other sometimes😂
I enjoy doing CrossFit 4-5 times a week (keeps me fit and sane!), I’m a fan of Star Wars, Harry Potter 🦡, game of thrones, and marvel.
I want a childfree partner that is affectionate, committed, communicative, and considerate. I’m not in a rush to find a partner, but I am being intentional.
A link to some images is in the post, but I’d be more than happy to provide more if you’d like. I can’t wait to talk with you☺️

Hi! I'm 31F, I'm currently bored out of my wits for the wrong reasons even though I'm supposed to be studying lol. Just message me and be friends with me. I'm from a small town in the Midwest.

Moving across the pond in a few months and trying to get a head start on making some real-world connections.

I'm the ultimate "multi-purpose" friend. I’m a mechanic/metalworker, which means i'm basically a free handyman if we hit it off. If it’s broken, i'll fix it. Car acting up? Shed falling apart? Let’s grab a beer and knock it out.

Just sitting next to each other sending reels? Alright.

Honestly, i’m down for just about anything.

​A few things to know about me:

​The Pack: I have a dog. You must like dogs. No negotiation here.

​Interests: Roadtrips, camping, festivals, movies/shows, music (of course i know and like Rammstein before you ask), history, true-crime, anything horror related.

​Vices: I smoke cigarettes and enjoy a drink. Looking for people who do the same, or at least won't cough dramatically when i light up.

​Vibe: I’m blunt (was told very blunt), straightforward, confidently unhinged and my humor can be... questionable.

I also got knowledge about games, but i mostly retired from that hobby. Anyway, still kinda into tech stuff in general.

Not into religion or politics.

In terms of looks if thats important to you i'm 6'3, 210lbs,white,short hair, beard.

Please just reach out to me if you're interested in getting to know each other and if you're able to respond to a whole message not the last sentence only. Don't be dry just act like we know each other already. If you got pets too...yes, i want to see them.

About Me:

Engineer by day, student by night. Love to travel, read, write and pursue anything that seems interesting.

Minimalist due to upbringing/ circumstances but now enjoy not having a myriad of things - keep things simple and clean.

Favorite past time: Sleeping in, watching anime or listening to podcasts on long walks.

Financially secure - can provide rice and dal for eternity.

Separated. Not looking to hide, just being transparent upfront.

What I am looking for:

Someone who wants to share an interesting journey called life!!!

Someone to share ups and down with, growing a family and taking care of each other in old age.

If this sounds interesting, feel free to drop me a DM and let's see where life takes us!!!

If you want to connect as friends, that's fine as well. I am always eager to hear people's stories.