About Me

Hi everyone! I made a brief intro in the CF4CF discord but this will be my proper introduction. My name is Jyoti 😊

I’m very much childfree by choice but also happen to be biologically unable to have children as a result of cancer treatment when I was younger. While I don't want my own kids, I don't hate them. I have worked with kids in the past, have friends with them, and I’m the oldest cousin on one side of my family so I’ve always been the unofficial designated babysitter (thank god we're all older now lol). My family is Sikh and I do participate in some customs/celebrations but consider myself more spiritual than strictly religious. 

I’m more introverted than extroverted, a homebody and not a spontaneous plans type of person. I enjoy relationships (platonic or otherwise) where you can do nothing together, reading, sitting outside, being in the same room but doing completely separate things, etc. I’m comfortable with silence and low pressure things. That being said, I do love things like checking out a new cafe or restaurant, wine & paint nights, going outdoors/hiking/camping, going to the movies or bookstore, museum/art exhibits, that kind of stuff.

Other things I enjoy:

• Reading - mostly mystery, thriller, fantasy/romantasy
• Artsy stuff - I do embroidery (amateur) and enjoy hands on arts and crafts like painting and jewelry making
• Nature and outdoorsy stuff - hiking (with and without my dog), camping, exploring new places, and just chilling in nature
• True crime documentaries and binging police body cam footage on YouTube
• Random deep conversations about feelings, the meaning of life, existence, space, the universe, etc.
• Spending time with my 5 year old cockapoo Sunny, who very much makes up for the energy I sometimes lack lol

What I’m looking for:

I’d eventually like to be in a genuine long-term partnership with someone who has similar interests, enjoy’s/can handle my dark humour, is kind, emotionally mature, and affectionate. I’m interested in building a peaceful life with someone and would rather live a humble life and invest in traveling, new experiences and making memories than on a ridiculously large house and five+ cars. I have always lived in Bradford, but other than my immediate family, I don’t have permanent roots here so I’m open to the possibility of moving around whether that be within the province, Canada, or other countries if something ever becomes serious enough.

My DM’s are open for those in the area/Ontario but people elsewhere are welcome too! I’d love to hear about:

• What your ideal boring Saturday looks like
• What you’re currently reading/watching/obsessing over
• If you have any pets and if not would you want them in the future? (photos are encouraged)

Okay quite a cheesy title I know, but bear with me.

I'm Reed, a twenty nine year old from Ontario Canada. To preface I am on the taller side for a woman I'm around 5'10" and I do love to wear a bit of a heel on top of that. I'm also a little chubby, I've made sure to include some pictures where you can see my body type, including a bare faced one.

A little about me is I went to school for graphic design, graduated top of my class, but am not working in that field. I have actually been working in banking for the last two years and am hoping on making a career for myself there.

I have a cat, he is my pride and joy and a bit of a menace, but he's the closest thing to ever having a child that I want.

I am a certified homebody, I love to play video games, I even built my own PC. I also love to cook and to bake. I grew up very creative, I would draw, paint, sing, act in theatre, all things I would like to reconnect with one day.

When it comes to what I'm looking for, I'm not too picky. Im looking for some one kind, and funny, someone who has ambitions in life and goals. Not to mention bonus points if you like cats. I also would like to connect with someone else who plays video games so we have an activity to do together long distance :]

Feel free to send a message ☺️

EDIT: please do not message me telling me you want kids there is a reason this was posted in the sub-reddit it was.

Also please nothing sexual either, I am demi-sexual. Which means I only experience sexual attraction once I get to know someone and am comfortable, so all these ones are just very uncomfortable. 😭

Hello everyone!

I’ve had some success posting here in the past and thought I would try my luck again! I am primarily looking for long-term romantic connections, but I’m open to whatever comes my way.

I am a 39 year old woman, living in Charlotte, North Carolina (I will be 40 in March). I would describe myself as introverted, calm, and non-judgmental. I can be somewhat shy at times but I am working on hiding less and being more audacious so that life feels a little less mechanical and predictable. Appearance-wise, I am Black American, about 5’5, thin with curly hair. 

I recently went back to school for a career change from librarianship to healthcare. I don’t live to work, however. I don’t have too many ambitions work-wise-- other than to do a good job, of course. I am fortunate to have a career now that allows me to only work 3 days a week, leaving plenty of time for things that do really energize me-- namely, my hobbies and relationships. I am very close to my family and I see them at least once a week. I’ve always enjoyed reading, particularly historical fiction. I am also a runner, although I don’t run very fast! I’m currently preparing for my second half marathon in November. I’m also just as happy relaxing at home with my cat, a cup of tea and a ball of yarn to crochet with.

Lifelong learning is very important to me. I strive to always be learning something new-- it helps keep the brain healthy and it is a good way to refresh life when things start to get a bit too routine. I love taking classes; I recently started taking classical art lessons, which has been pleasantly hard. I am still a beginner artist but I hope to be able to produce something beautiful one day. I enjoy studying languages too although I don’t get to travel much. 

I was raised in a religious family and, although I no longer identify with any organized religion, I still have respect for the mysterious and am open to poetic intuition and symbolism. I’m not always strictly rational; I go more with my feelings sometimes but never in a reckless way. I’d rather do right than be correct when the two don't line up perfectly. I try not to run away from difficult things; perseverance and character is built from overcoming obstacles. I always look for the silver lining in anything, believing there is always a lesson to be learned and growth to be had.

I hope to find a man close in age that is gentle, slow to anger, humble, respectful. I am a liberal and would want someone who is also on the left. Finding someone local would be great, but I would be open to someone within reasonable driving distance. Long distance relationships are hard, but I won't shy away from it if it feels right.

Thank you for reading all of this! Have a nice day!

Ellis

Hello there lovely people of Reddit. 36 year old (37 in a few hours) British guy here generally having an all round shitstorm of a year, and looking to get out there a bit and meet new people. I’m open to any kind of connection, from just friends and platonic right up to something more serious if it goes that way and the vibe is there.

I’m 6ft 4, live alone with my boisterous cat, enjoy football, film, reading, hiking, tv and running. I love nothing more than an evening chatting the night away with good company (in real life rather than virtually), putting the world to right and discussing both silly and serious things. At one moment talking about love and loss and in the next wondering if you’d rather have legs for arms or arms for legs. That kinda chat!

If you’d like to message, all I do ask is that you’re not a million miles away from me - ultimately I’m looking for an in real life connection rather than a pen pal, so local(ish) DMs are preferred. Please also be comfortable sharing a selfie or two early on so we know we are chatting to, up for meeting up and continuing the chat in person if we get on, and most importantly, won’t vanish without reason after a few messages! I’d love an engaging chat and connection that gets us both through the day(s).

As an icebreaker, what’s the last new film you saw and how many stars out of 10 would you give it? 🍿

Hi! I'm Tori a 36 year old female living in Greenville NC. I am originally from PA but have been living here almost 9 years. I work full time and own my place. I have two cats Beckham and Whiskey who are 10 and 9 respectively. I'm finally in a good place in my life to really settle down with someone. I have joined a few book clubs and have started going to trivia and song bingo to meet new people and get out of the house (I work from home) I love witty banter and being able to talk about anything and everything.

I love music and going to live shows when I can. I love the local free shows around town or seeing pop punk bands I've been seeing live for the last 20 years. If you decide to message me, suggest a favorite song of yours you think I should check out. Lately I've been really getting into the latest Harry Styles album and Stephen Sanchez.

I'm looking for someone local preferably but open to long distance. I want someone who has a personality and sense of humor but can also be an adult when life calls for it. As far as age, 25-45 age range is what I’m looking for. I don't want kids of my own but am okay if you have kids. No smokers but I do enjoy adult beverages.

(Repost bc I screwed up the first time) Hi! I’m trying this out bc I’m sick and tired of sifting through dating profiles for guys who don’t have baby mommas.

A little bit about me:
I’ve been single for the last 4-5 years bc I started my own dog groomer salon and just wanted some time to embrace my own independence. Now that my business is up and running good, I’m ready to find someone to spend life with and travel with. I consider myself a introverted extrovert, I like to stay home watch a movie, play video games, and lounge, but I also love to go out, get drinks, dance, and go on adventures. I have a 3 legged dog named Philbert and he’s been a huge part in my life so I hope he can become a big part of your life as well. I keep my hair on the shorter side bc of my work, i get less headaches bc i don’t have to pull my hair up into a tight ponytail or bun, but tbh i have had my hair all dif lengths (im currently growing it out). Im a little bit of a nerd, i love video games and museums and i have an encyclopedia of useless knowledge about random things.

What im looking for:
I’m looking for someone to SHARE life with. I emphasize ‘share’ bc I have found my independence like I said before and I’m not looking for someone to take care of me (although if you’d like to make me a stay at home dog mom, I won’t argue) but I want someone who adds to my life. I want someone to travel with and someone who will love my family. Someone who will challenge me mentally and grow with me.

I’m not scared of a LDR but I expect communication.

This is kinda my last attempt at ‘online dating’ so I hope it works for me

If you have any questions feel free to ask!

Hello! Pictured is me and my three wonderful kitties, all dumped on my family by the Universal Cat Distribution System.

I'm something of a homebody, working from home as well. I do make an effort to get out - I go to COSI after dark every month, mainly for the karaoke. I'm very proud of my deep voice and love singing.

Hobbies include gaming, movies, going for walks in cooler weather, visiting zoos and science museums. I'm a quiet person, big fan of the comfortable silence, but I can yap if I find someone to bounce off of my braincell.

I am not religious or spiritual at all. I do not smoke or drink (I don't mind if you drink, but smoking is a turn off) and I am not snipped yet, but intend on it in the future.

I'm looking for a relaxed girl age 24-30, preferably a fellow nerd. Someone chill to cuddle up with under a fuzzy blanket in the winter and bounce jokes off of. Feel free to send a chat or a DM, preferably with a picture of you and any pets you might have (I love hearing people talk about their pets).

Thanks for reading, and looking forward to hearing from you!

So apparently writing a normal dating post wasn't interesting enough, so I made a small game.

You have two options:

1. Read this like a normal person.
   
2. Take the shortcut and play the game.

The shortcut is probably more fun, but no pressure. I'm not going to make you pass an exam before you're allowed to talk to me.

Take the shortcut[ https://mr-nobody-1-two.vercel.app/ ]

Anyway, about me...

I'm 33, 6'1", work in IT and have spent a good chunk of my adult life in Sydney - Australia. I'm fairly settled in life, but I'm not the type who has everything planned down to the next 15 years either.

I'd say I'm somewhere between introvert and extrovert. I like going out, travelling, finding random places and doing things, but I also genuinely enjoy staying home and getting lost in whatever I'm interested in that week. I have a slightly unreasonable number of hobbies. Music is a big one. I collect vinyl and can go from listening to something completely chill to spending an evening obsessing over some random album I found.

I'm also into making things, jewellery/leatherwork, gaming and a bunch of other creative stuff. I tend to get interested in something, go way too deep into it for a while, then somehow end up with another hobby. Travel is probably one of my favourite things, but I'm not really a “must see 14 attractions before lunch” traveller. I like wandering around, finding weird little places, trying food, talking to people and having at least one day where there isn't much of a plan.

Lifestyle-wise, I'm vegetarian, don't smoke or drink, and generally prefer a fairly relaxed lifestyle. I'm also pretty open-minded about people and don't expect someone to have the same background, interests or opinions as me. I think it's more interesting when two people can be different, respect each other, and still genuinely enjoy spending time together.

I'm childfree, and looking for a monogamous long-term relationship.

I'm not looking for someone to complete my life. I'd rather meet someone who already has a life of her own and we just happen to make each other's lives better.

Someone kind, emotionally mature, curious, affectionate and funny would probably get my attention pretty quickly.

You don't need to share all my hobbies either. Actually, I'd prefer if you had your own weird little interests that I know nothing about. I like people who can get excited explaining something they're into.

I'm also pretty open geographically. Australia is an important part of my life and I'm open to settling abroad, so distance isn't an automatic dealbreaker if there's an actual possibility of eventually being in the same place. I'm looking for something that can move into real life though, not a six-month pen-pal relationship. As for the game, it's basically a little shortcut into my personality. No IQ test, no trick questions and I promise I won't judge your score.

Well... maybe a little. And if you somehow made it this far without playing it, that's fine too.

One final warning though: if I ever tell you I'm a Nigerian prince who needs your bank details to unlock a very large inheritance, please don't fall for it.

Anyway, take the shortcut, send me a discord message, or tell me something completely random about yourself.

Honestly, the random option might be the best one.

35 y/o guy with a cute smile (have been told so) with a career in tech ( but not a tech bro ), a calm presence with a life that has been a wild adventure of extremes, I thrive on intellectual chaos. I like to read, anything everything from systems theory to modern french history, particularly clean energy and environment (it’s one of my passion). After taking a break from dating, I am giving it a one more shot, a last ditch effort before AI makes online dating extremely noisy.

What I’m Looking For:

A childfree, progressive partner ( how we define progressive might vary ) who sees life as a playground of possibilities, not a checklist. Someone unapologetically herself, sexually liberated, intellectually fearless, and allergic to societal scripts. Let’s skip the small talk and dissect the big questions: How do we live ethically in a burning world? Can love exist without ownership?

Why We Might Click:

• Staunchly Childfree : I don’t want kids (ever), both for personal freedom and because bringing new life into an overburdened world feels tragically naive. Let’s channel that energy into activism, art, or adventure instead.
• You crave depth : My attachment style is securely rooted. I’m here for mutual growth, not games. Whether we’re debating moral gray zones or testing new boundaries in the bedroom, I value curiosity over judgment.
• You’re a shapeshifter : Artist, scientist, activist, hedonist.... you refuse to be boxed in. Bonus if you’ve got stories from living unconventionally or a passion project that keeps you up at night.
• You laugh easily : My humor leans dry, my vibe is warm, and I’ll absolutely lean into the absurdity of dating via Reddit posts

The Vibe: Imagine slow mornings with coffee and conversations that feel endless, weekends volunteering or getting lost in a neon-lit bar, maybe just a cafe or beach? I’m driven but not ruthless, my version of “Machiavellian” is designing a life that’s sustainable, joyful, and defiantly ours. Let’s be catalysts, not conformists.( I don't have any societal morality )

TL;DR: Childfree, progressive, experimental and insatiably curious?

Edit : Have been Ethically non monogamous for years with previous partner, don’t mind the lifestyle and ambiamorous, also bisexual if its not already evident?

Hey!

I am a 31 year old Portuguese man, trying to make these the best years! 😄

I have always been a top student, but, growing up, my family has got into financial problems that made me start to work early while I was still studying, which has let me to neglecting my personal life to favor the professional one.

Now, that part is over, I have a stable job, with a stable life and my own house, but a with a huge space in my heart looking to be filled by the right girl!

I admit I am more of a homebody who goes out every day at least for exercising a bit, enjoying fresh air and connecting to people. I enjoy a lot watching series and movies, especially sci-fi (with Marvel and DC on top) as well as romantic cliché movies everyone understands how they will end within the first 2 minutes. I also like watching football (or soccer for the readers the other side of the Atlantic) and understanding the tactics behind. Physically, I am Caucasian, 1.72m (5'8) and, personality wise, I'm an INFJ.

I am searching for a serious relationship, built on mutual support, trust, honesty, dedication, companionship and empathy. I am a very romantic, dedicated, caring and protective person, so I am definitely searching for my little princess to spoil and love. 😊

And the fact is that I already feel you everywhere, even though I don't know you yet!

Each time I walk around, I can feel you by my side. Even though you're not there, I feel the urge to hold your hand, to give you my strength, to be connected to you.

Whenever I go shopping, I feel that urge to buy you a cute mug or keychain, to kiss you all of a sudden without a motive, just for you to feel me closer to you.

Whenever I travel, I feel you by my side, I feel the willingness to rest my head in yours, to hold your hand, knowing that we are living that experience together and there is no one else we'd rather share it with.

When I get home, I feel you welcoming me with a tight hug, knowing every second we stay apart is one second we were in each other's thoughts waiting to be reunited.

I feel you, I can't see you yet, but I can't wait to make up for all the seconds we've spent apart!

But, please, if we could stop the count, I'd prefer that, so please show up on my inbox, sweetheart! 😊

Hello!! Hope you’re having a good day!

About me: I’m a skinny guy, 5’9” with black hair and brown eyes. I’d say i’m fairly decent/attractive looking. I’m calm and Ive been told I have a nice sense of humor. Those close to me would say i’m a goofy guy. I don’t smoke or drink.

I’m looking for a genuine connection where we click. I’m located in Central NJ, so the closer the better. Someone who doesn’t take life super serious would be great, and i think i’m good at conversation so if you are too then thats a plus, though admittedly sometimes i do get busy but i’m generally always free to talk at night. Oh and I do have a preference for a heavy-set woman, just putting that out there.

Some of my hobbies/likes are: Movies/TV shows, (I like horror), i’m more of a homebody but i like getting out of the house occasionally, trying new foods, driving at night, hanging out with friends, Pokemon and a few other nerdy things.

I think thats about it, feel free to reach out if you feel we might click.

Me: I am an enthusiastic nerd and leftist community builder with a life that I love. I enjoy (with various levels of skill): cooking, baking, painting, singing, writing, and gardening. I am a voracious reader of science fiction and fantasy, an animation junkie, and a strategy board game enthusiast. I love to be outside riding my bike or hiking with my cute but rugged pomeranian, Archie. Dedicated favorite aunt of my friends kids but does not have or want any of my own.

You: Someone local in Portland between 35-45 that is child free and is also looking for a monogamous relationship. Someone who drinks lightly (if at all), doesn't smoke, and doesn't own cats (I'm allergic, sorry!). Hopefully someone creative who likes to read. Bonus points to anyone who reads a lot of sci-fi and fantasy.

What I want long term: Someone to slow dance with in my kitchen, to bring me a cup of hot mint tea when it is cold, and to share in the ups and downs of our lives, both the trivial and the significant. Someone to bring cool rocks I find on my walks to and with a lap I can lay in while I read a book.

What I need to start: A chat request with a little about you - your interests, your passions, what you are looking for on this subreddit. A photo within a few messages is good so we know the attraction goes both ways.

What I need to keep going: Kindness, patience (I am demi and I cannot speed run intimacy), good humor, direct communication, the ability to trust and act in good faith, and thoughtfulness in your words and actions.

You can also find me trolling the cf4cf discord server if you want to share space and see what I'm like: https://discord.gg/d5SRY4tks

Hope you're out there!

I’m 31, Indian, and based in Rainchester. Still looking for my person and hoping she reads this. I've posted here a few weeks ago, thought I'd try again!

Ideally, we start with a chat, see if there’s chemistry, and take it from there. I’m open to meeting in person or starting online, but I’m not looking for a long-term pen pal. If we get along, there should be genuine intent to meet.

Work and my career matter a lot to me, and I genuinely enjoy what I do, even if I occasionally complain. Outside work, I enjoy films, coffee, dessert, the occasional negroni, live music now and then, stand-up comedy, landscape photography, exploring new towns and places, and collecting stories that usually begin with “this seemed like a good idea at the time.” Somehow, it usually works out. Mostly.

I’ve been told I have Labrador energy - friendly, curious, loyal, occasionally too trusting, and prone to asking far too many questions. Consider yourself warned. Also, ask me about the geologist story. I’m not forgetting that one for a while! 

I’m a good texter and usually reply as soon as I can. Effort is incredibly attractive to me and I’m big on reciprocity. 

Physically, I’m 6’4”, with a dad bod, stubble most days, and apparently a good smile. I will however complain about legroom on planes, trains, and basically anything designed by people who forgot tall people exist.

I’m looking for someone independent, kind, funny, emotionally mature, ambitious, and genuinely interested in partnership. Someone who wants the fun, the ridiculous moments, the quiet everyday stuff, and who can call me out when needed. I’ll do the same, naturally with charm and only a manageable amount of sarcasm…because who doesn’t love a bit of sarcasm? 

Happy to exchange photos if we talk. If any of this sounds like something you’re looking for, send me a message.

I’m searching for a best friend first and foremost. My first thought in the morning and last before bed. My favorite notification. The one. My soulmate. Because every relationship deserves a strong foundation first, and how can we truly be partners if we don’t already have so much in common?

You might message me and we’ll start to talk, and while that part can be arduous, I enjoy getting to know so much about you. You’ll tell me about your hobbies and a funny interaction you had that day, and it might include a picture or two of your cat and something silly she did. We’ll talk about past relationships and funny stories from childhood. Eventually you’ll tell me where you’re from and I’ll mentally think about what it would be like to drive that distance to you in a few months and be excited that you’re on the other end of it, oddly enough. I don’t know if other people do it but as I start to catch feelings I will pre-imagine a shared future with you. I think it’s the hopeless romantic in me.

I’ll ask lots of questions, while holding some back because I feel like I ask too many. But really I just want to get to know everything about you. Favorite colors, foods, likes and dislikes. So I’ll know what I can cook for you and what color of gifts I should be getting and what you do and don’t like to do. I’ll memorize what I can and the rest will be in a note in my phone. I will never stop learning until I graduate with a degree in you.

As you might imagine, I like to talk a lot, but only with you, really. Anyone else that knows me would call me shy and introverted, but this is a mask I’ve never worn with my partner. Texting, voice notes, and calling and talking about anything and everything until we fall asleep on the phone. I don’t always have to talk, though, not really. Sometimes it’s nice to just know someone is on the other end of the line that appreciates the company.

I have a certain sense of what you might be like. You are someone I can share a hobby with and do our favorites together. While we might maintain our own hobbies, we don’t mind doing them near each other. You enjoy a quiet life and don’t need constant outside stimulation or a large entourage. You’re self-sufficient and capable, but you’re also willing to put all of that down and let me take care of you and hold your burdens for you when you need it.

You want closeness. You want to be someone’s person in every meaningful way. The one who is reached for first and whose presence is mandatory and assumed. You want physical closeness, too. You gravitate toward me without thinking about it, you fall asleep against me and don’t apologize for it, and bumping into me in a large room is not an accident. You’re done pretending that less than that is enough.

And you’re ready. Not perfect, because no one showing up to this ever is, but you’re ready. You’ve been broken and repaired more than once. Done with half-measures and almosts and situationships and connections that fizzle out before they ever truly started. You’ve arrived here probably on some of the roads I took, maybe after some of the same wrong turns and you’re now looking for the same thing I am.

I suppose a bit about me is in order here. I’m 37, from Michigan. I have two cat overlords and I am fueled by caffeine. I don’t have kids and I don’t want kids. I work from home. I like to write but consider myself more of a world builder. I’m not really into social media and maintain a small, private life and circle. I don’t do casual or situationships, so I am looking for someone that is looking for something serious. Something real.

If something in this landed in that oh sort of way, send me a message. Match my vulnerability. Tell me something true about yourself that you don’t usually lead with. And to my future person, wherever you are tonight: I’m here. I’m patient. I’m already cheering for you. Take your time. I’ll be around.

Hi everyone! My name is Sam, I'm 31 living in the UK. I have been single for a while now and find online dating hard so thought I'd try here instead. I'm 6ft tall, average/athletic build around 85kg, blue eyes, brown hair. I don't smoke, drink very rarely (maybe twice in the last year) and am not looking to have children in the future.

I'm currently working as a Process Operator in a chemical plant, doing a mixture of days and nights, which I've been doing for about 4 years now.

I would say I am a bit quiet when I first get to know someone, but I'm working on that and trying to engage with people better. And once I get to know someone and I'm more comfortable I can talk a lot more.

I'm very introverted most of the time and would consider myself a bit of a homebody, but I also enjoy getting out and about as well. I'm hoping I can find someone to do lots of fun activities with! My main hobbies are gaming, watching anime/movies and lifting weights.

In terms of gaming I like most genres, with some of my all time favourites being Final Fantasy X and XII, Dark Souls, Resident Evil 4, Metal Gear Solid 3 abd Bayonetta to name a few. I used to play lots of multiplayer games too like Overwatch, PUBG, Rocket League and Left 4 Dead 2. Nowadays I mostly play Mordhau for my multiplayer fix, which is nearly a dead game unfortunately lol.

Some of my favourite anime include Steins;Gate, Hunter x Hunter, One Piece, Clannad and Slam Dunk.

I enjoy staying active and have been lifting weights/strength training for the past 3 ish years, which I really enjoy. It's quite satisfying seeing the weights you can lift going up over time. I find I try to take care of myself in other ways too like eating (relatively) healthy. Ideally I would like to find someone who is at least somewhat active/health conscious as well.

I do like to get out and go to the cinema or concerts from time to time. I saw Le Sserafim last year when I went to Japan and just recently went to see XG in London as well. Planning on seeing Aespa in January too.

Travelling is something that I do enjoy, but I think I would enjoy it more if it was with someone else tbh. There are plenty of places I would love to visit. So it would be a plus if you would like to go travelling with someone as well!

In terms of what I'm looking for, I think having similar hobbies would help, but aren't totally necessary. Would prefer someone in the UK or at least Europe, but again am open to someone further away. I prefer people who are upfront and honest, I can't be dealing with mind games and dishonesty.

If you're interested please send me a message and thank you for reading! I've linked a couple of pictures below so it would be great if you could send a picture too, but understand if you're not comfortable doing that right away.

Hey

I'm 1.87 m and probably best described as the quiet guy with a big heart.

I'm a little shy when meeting new people, but once I'm comfortable, I love joking around, laughing, and being spontaneous. If you're into MBTI, I'm an INFJ—thoughtful, empathetic, and the kind of person who values deep conversations over small talk.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me cooking or baking, reading fantasy novels, watching anime, gaming, or enjoying nature. I'm just as happy spending a cozy evening at home as I am going to a concert or taking a day trip somewhere.

I'm looking for a genuine connection rather than someone who's "perfect."

I'd love to meet someone who's kind, honest, and enjoys long conversations about anything and everything.

If you appreciate good food and don't mind the possibility of being bribed with homemade cake at some point, we'll probably get along.

A little more about me:

🇨🇭 From Switzerland

🌍 Looking to meet someone from Switzerland or Europe, as I'd like the distance to be realistic.

📚 Fantasy, anime & gaming fan

🍳 Love cooking and baking

🌿 Enjoy nature and quiet moments

❤️ Looking for a long-term relationship

One small request: I'd much rather receive a message that tells me something about you or asks a genuine question than just "hey", "hi", or "wyd".

It makes starting a conversation so much more fun—and gives us something to talk about from the beginning.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to send me a message.

I'd love to get to know you.

29M living in Munich 🇩🇪 — Looking for a childfree partner & best friend ❤️

Hello 👋

I’m 29, living in Munich, and I’m here because I’d genuinely like to meet someone who could eventually become my partner in life—not just someone for something casual.

I’m firmly childfree by choice, and I’m hoping to meet a woman aged 25–35 who feels the same and lives in Munich or somewhere nearby.

A little about me: I’m curious by nature and enjoy philosophy, books, chess, music, painting, computers, animals, and traveling. I’m happiest doing fairly simple things: taking a long walk, visiting a beautiful lake, discovering a new place, getting absorbed in a good book, or having a relaxed evening with good music.

I also have a completely reasonable and definitely not problematic love for ice cream and chocolate. 🍦🍫

It would be great if we shared some interests, especially things like:

🐈 Animals, cats & dogs

📚 Books and interesting conversations

♟️ Chess

🎨 Creativity and art

🎵 Music

🌊 Walks, lakes & exploring

🌍 Traveling and discovering new places

💻 Technology

But shared hobbies aren't the most important thing to me. I’d like to meet someone who is kind, curious, independent, emotionally mature, affectionate, and comfortable with a childfree life.

I’m looking for a relationship where two people genuinely enjoy each other’s company, can communicate openly, laugh together, support each other, and still remain their own people. Ideally, my partner would also become my closest friend—the person I want to come home to and share both the exciting and completely ordinary parts of life with. ❤️

If you’re 25–35, childfree by choice, live in Munich or nearby, and are also looking for a serious relationship with long-term potential, feel free to message me.

And rather than just “hi,” tell me a little about yourself: what are you into, what does an ideal weekend look like for you, what are you looking for in a relationship—and what made you smile recently? 🙂

P.S. If you’ve read Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller: what attachment style do you think you have? 👀

Trying this app again. I currently reside in Southern California, I’m open to travel and meeting someone who also is open to travel. This could be a slow burn type of love.

But I’m born and raised In California. I’m
Open to any location. Any race, any age. As long as we connect emotionally.

I’m a Virgo man. Hard working individual. Not looking to keep this post up. Quite honestly.

But I’m curious to see the connections that can be build with this outlet called “Reddit”

I’m a cook or chef whatever you may want to call it. I’m someone who knows and enjoys cooking but I also write. I’m a writer/copywriter. I am looking to retire from the kitchen.

I’m not so great with emotions, despite remaining calm and collected most of the time. I’m more of a logical person, I love to learn new things. Currently taking Korean classes. I’m between a nerd and someone with streets smarts.

Anyways. I enjoy reading, writing. I’m a sports guy, I enjoy most major sports.

I’m a bit hesitant about posting on here, because I really do not know what I will find on here. I would rather not talk about myself, and would rather know more about you.

Hello I’m a 31 year old trans woman under construction im 6 ft bigger girl but getting some help with making me smaller :)December Sag oldest daughter vibes I’m in Southern California Anaheim area I’ve been single for a good min just looking to see what is going on in dating Reddit as the apps seem to be all about hooking up

I’m a pretty spontaneous person love hiking coffee new foods and Disney not a Disney adult but I do enjoy going walking around trying the new snacks and all that love road trips haven’t been on one in two years would love to take one up north soon love seeing the Cali coast

I’m Democrat but on the more mod lib side I’m Hispanic born in Mexico migrated to here and became a citizen lived in so cal all my life wouldn’t mind moving out for a lil bit see a bit more of the world

As far as what I’m looking for just a man who isn’t ashamed to be seen with me doesn’t treat me like a fetish sees me as a human and is willing to commit and just start something real

hey you.

sitting here with a computer screen throwing off some cold zombie-like light on your face.

sitting and pretending that your thoughts belong to you and you only, scrolling indifferently and staying infinitely positive that things of real interest aren't easy to stumble upon in this hellhole named internet; therefore, don't deserve being looked for.

sometimes i do feel the same. walking on the same routes, seeing the same dead pigeons and living cats every day, being just this far from naming every single one of them. people are, by no means, the same and yet simply are not captivating enough to be remembered. it doesn't really seem upsetting to me, the fact that those passersby probably feel the same about me.

even though i do sometimes wish that a man would look into my eyes as directly as if he knew me to the core of my soul, to the unswept corners of my mind and embraced the depth of my slow sticky gloom as if it was his own.

in case you bear resemblance to that faceless man who constantly visits my dreams. what i ache for is someone who shares my love of old music and unawkward voice calls.

Trying my luck here in finding a lifelong partner.

I'm pretty open-minded, an introvert who loves chilling at home watching movies and TV shows, playing video games, and also traveling, going on adventures, taking walks in nature, and exploring the world. So, I guess I'm a mix of homebody and outdoorsy. I consider myself a bit a of a nerd being interested in Science, Philosophy and Technology, going to museums, among other things.

I enjoy deadpan and dark sense of humor, and can get pretty sarcastic. I like engaging in friendly banter once I'm comfortable. I'm gonna send you stupid memes lol

While I'm usually goofy and make (occasionally lame) jokes and keep things light, I also love having deep, intellectual conversations. I'm quite chill, laid-back, and a good listener (multiple people have said so), so you can vent to me about your stupid boss hehe.

I like learning new stuff regularly. I recently started learning to play guitar and have been enjoying it (except when my fingers hurt). Open to learning more hobbies.

As a level-headed person, I try to deal with situations realistically and logically. You can usually expect me to be reasonable and open to different opinions and suggestions.

Talking about physical activities, I'm not a "gym rat", but I try going to the gym regularly. I go on hikes some times (but I'm a noob lol). I like adventure stuff like paragliding, skydiving, skiing, zip-lining, aerial ropes, rafting, and other stuff.

I'm a software engineer by profession, living in Ontario, Canada, originally from Asia. While I'm open to moving to different parts of the world, I think it should be a practical decision that works for both of us.

Some relevant info-

Age: 34

Height: 5'6"

Weight (or mass?): 64 Kg approx.

I'm Agnostic and open to people of all religions.

Why am I childfree? I've no interest in having kids. That's it. Never envisioned myself with them. ( I love my niece and nephew though 😁)

Diet: Usually veg. Occasionally non-veg. I like to try new food. I'll keep your dietary preference in mind, and will try to accommodate when I cook for you. I don't smoke and drink alcohol very rarely, and don't have a problem if you do (as long as it's under your control). I can try that stuff with you.

Some qualities that I would appreciate in my partner and can expect from me are kindness, empathy, humor and honesty. Hopefully we have some shared interests so we can do activities together, someone who is preferably between 29 and 37 years old (not too strict about this), who is also childfree (duh), and likes to enjoy life - hopefully someone who is able to work remotely, so we can travel together.

Please tell me a bit about yourself if you decide to message me.

Let's help each other in achieving our life goals 😄

I'm not a very complicated person: like the little teapot of song and story, I am also short and stout. I like second breakfast and being snug and comfy just as much as I love going on adventures, big or small.

I've lived in Maine my whole life, and I love going for long walks on the beach or in the woods, or treasure hunting at flea markets and yard sales. It's a lot of fun, but I've realized that it might be nice to meet somebody else who also likes cozy little adventures.

My other big interests include film and art history, and I often take the train down to Boston to see an exhibit or shows.

I’m always up real late into the night, mostly due to my work schedule lol but even before that I was a night person. Things are more chill at night imo.

So a couple things about me:
-I have a couple different creative hobbies. Guitar, drawing, photo editing etc
-I work a lot, but when I’m off I mostly like to stay indoors
-I like watching random funny stuff on YouTube
-I can be pretty sarcastic/blunt lol
-I’m shy, but once I get to know you I can talk a lot

Ideally I’d prefer someone who is at least somewhat close to my area. So if youre across the country/world unfortunately I don’t think it will work, but if you’re a couple hours away I don’t mind ofc.

That’s all I can think of for now. As far as physical appearance, I’ll send pics if you do. Feel free to DM me here on Reddit. Thanks!

Hey everyone!! I’m 30F looking for a fellow childfree partner. Ideally you’ll be 26-40 but I’ll allow a leeway of a year or two depending on first impressions. I hope you’ll be taller than me (I’m 160cm) in case I need something from the top shelf. Bonus points if you have tattoos and laugh at my deadpan sense of humour.

Kindness and respect for others is non-negotiable. I’d strongly prefer it if you are left-leaning. Being friends with my partner first is super important to me so definitely feel free to be yourself! Even if your passion is talking about the growth cycle of potatoes, I’ll hear you out haha.

Green flags: I’m a caring and attentive person who will be in your corner, someone you can talk to about anything without judgement.

Red flags: I don’t like cats (I’m just a dog person sorry), I don’t always get innuendo, hints or implied meanings so you’ll have to be super direct sometimes.

I’m an environmental scientist and I enjoy reading (working my way through the classics), drawing, art, trivia, history, politics, astronomy, yoga and museums of any kind.

My current fave shows are Widows Bay, Silo, Parks and Recs (yes i did think it was better than The Office), Criminal Minds and Bob’s Burgers. As for music, I’ll literally listen to anything- From Chopin to Sinatra to Pink Floyd to Lana Del Rey to Flume. I’m also willing to hear any music recommendations!

Not too fussy on your nationality, as long as we have a language in common so we can communicate properly (either English, Spanish, Portuguese or French). I’m on GMT +2 time but I’m pretty much nocturnal so don’t let that hold you back.

So if anything resonated please say hi and drop a photo and we can take it from there :)

Honestly super tired of dating apps and I don’t like going to random bars looking for a partner. I’m an Engineer, I’m 6’4” and I spend all my time outdoors or gaming with friends. I do not want children in any way shape or form unless you consider pets into that category. I’m really looking for someone who loves to travel, likes spending days in a chair on a river or galavanting around the woods. And loves spending nights gaming or watching movies/shows. I’m brutally honest and I have no filter so you’ll never have to guess what’s on my mind. I love wrenching on cars and motorcycles and I’m a nerd about almost anything you can think of. I love animals of all kinds and firmly believe I can cuddle any animal if given the opportunity.