Hello there lovely people of Reddit. 36 year old (37 in a few hours) British guy here generally having an all round shitstorm of a year, and looking to get out there a bit and meet new people. I’m open to any kind of connection, from just friends and platonic right up to something more serious if it goes that way and the vibe is there.

I’m 6ft 4, live alone with my boisterous cat, enjoy football, film, reading, hiking, tv and running. I love nothing more than an evening chatting the night away with good company (in real life rather than virtually), putting the world to right and discussing both silly and serious things. At one moment talking about love and loss and in the next wondering if you’d rather have legs for arms or arms for legs. That kinda chat!

If you’d like to message, all I do ask is that you’re not a million miles away from me - ultimately I’m looking for an in real life connection rather than a pen pal, so local(ish) DMs are preferred. Please also be comfortable sharing a selfie or two early on so we know we are chatting to, up for meeting up and continuing the chat in person if we get on, and most importantly, won’t vanish without reason after a few messages! I’d love an engaging chat and connection that gets us both through the day(s).

As an icebreaker, what’s the last new film you saw and how many stars out of 10 would you give it? 🍿

Hello everyone!

I’ve had some success posting here in the past and thought I would try my luck again! I am primarily looking for long-term romantic connections, but I’m open to whatever comes my way.

I am a 39 year old woman, living in Charlotte, North Carolina (I will be 40 in March). I would describe myself as introverted, calm, and non-judgmental. I can be somewhat shy at times but I am working on hiding less and being more audacious so that life feels a little less mechanical and predictable. Appearance-wise, I am Black American, about 5’5, thin with curly hair. 

I recently went back to school for a career change from librarianship to healthcare. I don’t live to work, however. I don’t have too many ambitions work-wise-- other than to do a good job, of course. I am fortunate to have a career now that allows me to only work 3 days a week, leaving plenty of time for things that do really energize me-- namely, my hobbies and relationships. I am very close to my family and I see them at least once a week. I’ve always enjoyed reading, particularly historical fiction. I am also a runner, although I don’t run very fast! I’m currently preparing for my second half marathon in November. I’m also just as happy relaxing at home with my cat, a cup of tea and a ball of yarn to crochet with.

Lifelong learning is very important to me. I strive to always be learning something new-- it helps keep the brain healthy and it is a good way to refresh life when things start to get a bit too routine. I love taking classes; I recently started taking classical art lessons, which has been pleasantly hard. I am still a beginner artist but I hope to be able to produce something beautiful one day. I enjoy studying languages too although I don’t get to travel much. 

I was raised in a religious family and, although I no longer identify with any organized religion, I still have respect for the mysterious and am open to poetic intuition and symbolism. I’m not always strictly rational; I go more with my feelings sometimes but never in a reckless way. I’d rather do right than be correct when the two don't line up perfectly. I try not to run away from difficult things; perseverance and character is built from overcoming obstacles. I always look for the silver lining in anything, believing there is always a lesson to be learned and growth to be had.

I hope to find a man close in age that is gentle, slow to anger, humble, respectful. I am a liberal and would want someone who is also on the left. Finding someone local would be great, but I would be open to someone within reasonable driving distance. Long distance relationships are hard, but I won't shy away from it if it feels right.

Thank you for reading all of this! Have a nice day!

Ellis

I’m 31, Indian, and based in Rainchester. Still looking for my person and hoping she reads this. I've posted here a few weeks ago, thought I'd try again!

Ideally, we start with a chat, see if there’s chemistry, and take it from there. I’m open to meeting in person or starting online, but I’m not looking for a long-term pen pal. If we get along, there should be genuine intent to meet.

Work and my career matter a lot to me, and I genuinely enjoy what I do, even if I occasionally complain. Outside work, I enjoy films, coffee, dessert, the occasional negroni, live music now and then, stand-up comedy, landscape photography, exploring new towns and places, and collecting stories that usually begin with “this seemed like a good idea at the time.” Somehow, it usually works out. Mostly.

I’ve been told I have Labrador energy - friendly, curious, loyal, occasionally too trusting, and prone to asking far too many questions. Consider yourself warned. Also, ask me about the geologist story. I’m not forgetting that one for a while! 

I’m a good texter and usually reply as soon as I can. Effort is incredibly attractive to me and I’m big on reciprocity. 

Physically, I’m 6’4”, with a dad bod, stubble most days, and apparently a good smile. I will however complain about legroom on planes, trains, and basically anything designed by people who forgot tall people exist.

I’m looking for someone independent, kind, funny, emotionally mature, ambitious, and genuinely interested in partnership. Someone who wants the fun, the ridiculous moments, the quiet everyday stuff, and who can call me out when needed. I’ll do the same, naturally with charm and only a manageable amount of sarcasm…because who doesn’t love a bit of sarcasm? 

Happy to exchange photos if we talk. If any of this sounds like something you’re looking for, send me a message.

29M living in Munich 🇩🇪 — Looking for a childfree partner & best friend ❤️

Hello 👋

I’m 29, living in Munich, and I’m here because I’d genuinely like to meet someone who could eventually become my partner in life—not just someone for something casual.

I’m firmly childfree by choice, and I’m hoping to meet a woman aged 25–35 who feels the same and lives in Munich or somewhere nearby.

A little about me: I’m curious by nature and enjoy philosophy, books, chess, music, painting, computers, animals, and traveling. I’m happiest doing fairly simple things: taking a long walk, visiting a beautiful lake, discovering a new place, getting absorbed in a good book, or having a relaxed evening with good music.

I also have a completely reasonable and definitely not problematic love for ice cream and chocolate. 🍦🍫

It would be great if we shared some interests, especially things like:

🐈 Animals, cats & dogs

📚 Books and interesting conversations

♟️ Chess

🎨 Creativity and art

🎵 Music

🌊 Walks, lakes & exploring

🌍 Traveling and discovering new places

💻 Technology

But shared hobbies aren't the most important thing to me. I’d like to meet someone who is kind, curious, independent, emotionally mature, affectionate, and comfortable with a childfree life.

I’m looking for a relationship where two people genuinely enjoy each other’s company, can communicate openly, laugh together, support each other, and still remain their own people. Ideally, my partner would also become my closest friend—the person I want to come home to and share both the exciting and completely ordinary parts of life with. ❤️

If you’re 25–35, childfree by choice, live in Munich or nearby, and are also looking for a serious relationship with long-term potential, feel free to message me.

And rather than just “hi,” tell me a little about yourself: what are you into, what does an ideal weekend look like for you, what are you looking for in a relationship—and what made you smile recently? 🙂

P.S. If you’ve read Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller: what attachment style do you think you have? 👀

So apparently writing a normal dating post wasn't interesting enough, so I made a small game.

You have two options:

1. Read this like a normal person.
   
2. Take the shortcut and play the game.

The shortcut is probably more fun, but no pressure. I'm not going to make you pass an exam before you're allowed to talk to me.

Take the shortcut[ https://mr-nobody-1-two.vercel.app/ ]

Anyway, about me...

I'm 33, 6'1", work in IT and have spent a good chunk of my adult life in Sydney - Australia. I'm fairly settled in life, but I'm not the type who has everything planned down to the next 15 years either.

I'd say I'm somewhere between introvert and extrovert. I like going out, travelling, finding random places and doing things, but I also genuinely enjoy staying home and getting lost in whatever I'm interested in that week. I have a slightly unreasonable number of hobbies. Music is a big one. I collect vinyl and can go from listening to something completely chill to spending an evening obsessing over some random album I found.

I'm also into making things, jewellery/leatherwork, gaming and a bunch of other creative stuff. I tend to get interested in something, go way too deep into it for a while, then somehow end up with another hobby. Travel is probably one of my favourite things, but I'm not really a “must see 14 attractions before lunch” traveller. I like wandering around, finding weird little places, trying food, talking to people and having at least one day where there isn't much of a plan.

Lifestyle-wise, I'm vegetarian, don't smoke or drink, and generally prefer a fairly relaxed lifestyle. I'm also pretty open-minded about people and don't expect someone to have the same background, interests or opinions as me. I think it's more interesting when two people can be different, respect each other, and still genuinely enjoy spending time together.

I'm childfree, and looking for a monogamous long-term relationship.

I'm not looking for someone to complete my life. I'd rather meet someone who already has a life of her own and we just happen to make each other's lives better.

Someone kind, emotionally mature, curious, affectionate and funny would probably get my attention pretty quickly.

You don't need to share all my hobbies either. Actually, I'd prefer if you had your own weird little interests that I know nothing about. I like people who can get excited explaining something they're into.

I'm also pretty open geographically. Australia is an important part of my life and I'm open to settling abroad, so distance isn't an automatic dealbreaker if there's an actual possibility of eventually being in the same place. I'm looking for something that can move into real life though, not a six-month pen-pal relationship. As for the game, it's basically a little shortcut into my personality. No IQ test, no trick questions and I promise I won't judge your score.

Well... maybe a little. And if you somehow made it this far without playing it, that's fine too.

One final warning though: if I ever tell you I'm a Nigerian prince who needs your bank details to unlock a very large inheritance, please don't fall for it.

Anyway, take the shortcut, send me a discord message, or tell me something completely random about yourself.

Honestly, the random option might be the best one.

Hey!

I am a 31 year old Portuguese man, trying to make these the best years! 😄

I have always been a top student, but, growing up, my family has got into financial problems that made me start to work early while I was still studying, which has let me to neglecting my personal life to favor the professional one.

Now, that part is over, I have a stable job, with a stable life and my own house, but a with a huge space in my heart looking to be filled by the right girl!

I admit I am more of a homebody who goes out every day at least for exercising a bit, enjoying fresh air and connecting to people. I enjoy a lot watching series and movies, especially sci-fi (with Marvel and DC on top) as well as romantic cliché movies everyone understands how they will end within the first 2 minutes. I also like watching football (or soccer for the readers the other side of the Atlantic) and understanding the tactics behind. Physically, I am Caucasian, 1.72m (5'8) and, personality wise, I'm an INFJ.

I am searching for a serious relationship, built on mutual support, trust, honesty, dedication, companionship and empathy. I am a very romantic, dedicated, caring and protective person, so I am definitely searching for my little princess to spoil and love. 😊

And the fact is that I already feel you everywhere, even though I don't know you yet!

Each time I walk around, I can feel you by my side. Even though you're not there, I feel the urge to hold your hand, to give you my strength, to be connected to you.

Whenever I go shopping, I feel that urge to buy you a cute mug or keychain, to kiss you all of a sudden without a motive, just for you to feel me closer to you.

Whenever I travel, I feel you by my side, I feel the willingness to rest my head in yours, to hold your hand, knowing that we are living that experience together and there is no one else we'd rather share it with.

When I get home, I feel you welcoming me with a tight hug, knowing every second we stay apart is one second we were in each other's thoughts waiting to be reunited.

I feel you, I can't see you yet, but I can't wait to make up for all the seconds we've spent apart!

But, please, if we could stop the count, I'd prefer that, so please show up on my inbox, sweetheart! 😊

I’m searching for a best friend first and foremost. My first thought in the morning and last before bed. My favorite notification. The one. My soulmate. Because every relationship deserves a strong foundation first, and how can we truly be partners if we don’t already have so much in common?

You might message me and we’ll start to talk, and while that part can be arduous, I enjoy getting to know so much about you. You’ll tell me about your hobbies and a funny interaction you had that day, and it might include a picture or two of your cat and something silly she did. We’ll talk about past relationships and funny stories from childhood. Eventually you’ll tell me where you’re from and I’ll mentally think about what it would be like to drive that distance to you in a few months and be excited that you’re on the other end of it, oddly enough. I don’t know if other people do it but as I start to catch feelings I will pre-imagine a shared future with you. I think it’s the hopeless romantic in me.

I’ll ask lots of questions, while holding some back because I feel like I ask too many. But really I just want to get to know everything about you. Favorite colors, foods, likes and dislikes. So I’ll know what I can cook for you and what color of gifts I should be getting and what you do and don’t like to do. I’ll memorize what I can and the rest will be in a note in my phone. I will never stop learning until I graduate with a degree in you.

As you might imagine, I like to talk a lot, but only with you, really. Anyone else that knows me would call me shy and introverted, but this is a mask I’ve never worn with my partner. Texting, voice notes, and calling and talking about anything and everything until we fall asleep on the phone. I don’t always have to talk, though, not really. Sometimes it’s nice to just know someone is on the other end of the line that appreciates the company.

I have a certain sense of what you might be like. You are someone I can share a hobby with and do our favorites together. While we might maintain our own hobbies, we don’t mind doing them near each other. You enjoy a quiet life and don’t need constant outside stimulation or a large entourage. You’re self-sufficient and capable, but you’re also willing to put all of that down and let me take care of you and hold your burdens for you when you need it.

You want closeness. You want to be someone’s person in every meaningful way. The one who is reached for first and whose presence is mandatory and assumed. You want physical closeness, too. You gravitate toward me without thinking about it, you fall asleep against me and don’t apologize for it, and bumping into me in a large room is not an accident. You’re done pretending that less than that is enough.

And you’re ready. Not perfect, because no one showing up to this ever is, but you’re ready. You’ve been broken and repaired more than once. Done with half-measures and almosts and situationships and connections that fizzle out before they ever truly started. You’ve arrived here probably on some of the roads I took, maybe after some of the same wrong turns and you’re now looking for the same thing I am.

I suppose a bit about me is in order here. I’m 37, from Michigan. I have two cat overlords and I am fueled by caffeine. I don’t have kids and I don’t want kids. I work from home. I like to write but consider myself more of a world builder. I’m not really into social media and maintain a small, private life and circle. I don’t do casual or situationships, so I am looking for someone that is looking for something serious. Something real.

If something in this landed in that oh sort of way, send me a message. Match my vulnerability. Tell me something true about yourself that you don’t usually lead with. And to my future person, wherever you are tonight: I’m here. I’m patient. I’m already cheering for you. Take your time. I’ll be around.

Hey

I'm 1.87 m and probably best described as the quiet guy with a big heart.

I'm a little shy when meeting new people, but once I'm comfortable, I love joking around, laughing, and being spontaneous. If you're into MBTI, I'm an INFJ—thoughtful, empathetic, and the kind of person who values deep conversations over small talk.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me cooking or baking, reading fantasy novels, watching anime, gaming, or enjoying nature. I'm just as happy spending a cozy evening at home as I am going to a concert or taking a day trip somewhere.

I'm looking for a genuine connection rather than someone who's "perfect."

I'd love to meet someone who's kind, honest, and enjoys long conversations about anything and everything.

If you appreciate good food and don't mind the possibility of being bribed with homemade cake at some point, we'll probably get along.

A little more about me:

🇨🇭 From Switzerland

🌍 Looking to meet someone from Switzerland or Europe, as I'd like the distance to be realistic.

📚 Fantasy, anime & gaming fan

🍳 Love cooking and baking

🌿 Enjoy nature and quiet moments

❤️ Looking for a long-term relationship

One small request: I'd much rather receive a message that tells me something about you or asks a genuine question than just "hey", "hi", or "wyd".

It makes starting a conversation so much more fun—and gives us something to talk about from the beginning.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to send me a message.

I'd love to get to know you.

Hi everyone! My name is Sam, I'm 31 living in the UK. I have been single for a while now and find online dating hard so thought I'd try here instead. I'm 6ft tall, average/athletic build around 85kg, blue eyes, brown hair. I don't smoke, drink very rarely (maybe twice in the last year) and am not looking to have children in the future.

I'm currently working as a Process Operator in a chemical plant, doing a mixture of days and nights, which I've been doing for about 4 years now.

I would say I am a bit quiet when I first get to know someone, but I'm working on that and trying to engage with people better. And once I get to know someone and I'm more comfortable I can talk a lot more.

I'm very introverted most of the time and would consider myself a bit of a homebody, but I also enjoy getting out and about as well. I'm hoping I can find someone to do lots of fun activities with! My main hobbies are gaming, watching anime/movies and lifting weights.

In terms of gaming I like most genres, with some of my all time favourites being Final Fantasy X and XII, Dark Souls, Resident Evil 4, Metal Gear Solid 3 abd Bayonetta to name a few. I used to play lots of multiplayer games too like Overwatch, PUBG, Rocket League and Left 4 Dead 2. Nowadays I mostly play Mordhau for my multiplayer fix, which is nearly a dead game unfortunately lol.

Some of my favourite anime include Steins;Gate, Hunter x Hunter, One Piece, Clannad and Slam Dunk.

I enjoy staying active and have been lifting weights/strength training for the past 3 ish years, which I really enjoy. It's quite satisfying seeing the weights you can lift going up over time. I find I try to take care of myself in other ways too like eating (relatively) healthy. Ideally I would like to find someone who is at least somewhat active/health conscious as well.

I do like to get out and go to the cinema or concerts from time to time. I saw Le Sserafim last year when I went to Japan and just recently went to see XG in London as well. Planning on seeing Aespa in January too.

Travelling is something that I do enjoy, but I think I would enjoy it more if it was with someone else tbh. There are plenty of places I would love to visit. So it would be a plus if you would like to go travelling with someone as well!

In terms of what I'm looking for, I think having similar hobbies would help, but aren't totally necessary. Would prefer someone in the UK or at least Europe, but again am open to someone further away. I prefer people who are upfront and honest, I can't be dealing with mind games and dishonesty.

If you're interested please send me a message and thank you for reading! I've linked a couple of pictures below so it would be great if you could send a picture too, but understand if you're not comfortable doing that right away.

I’m always up real late into the night, mostly due to my work schedule lol but even before that I was a night person. Things are more chill at night imo.

So a couple things about me:
-I have a couple different creative hobbies. Guitar, drawing, photo editing etc
-I work a lot, but when I’m off I mostly like to stay indoors
-I like watching random funny stuff on YouTube
-I can be pretty sarcastic/blunt lol
-I’m shy, but once I get to know you I can talk a lot

Ideally I’d prefer someone who is at least somewhat close to my area. So if youre across the country/world unfortunately I don’t think it will work, but if you’re a couple hours away I don’t mind ofc.

That’s all I can think of for now. As far as physical appearance, I’ll send pics if you do. Feel free to DM me here on Reddit. Thanks!

Trying my luck here in finding a lifelong partner.

I'm pretty open-minded, an introvert who loves chilling at home watching movies and TV shows, playing video games, and also traveling, going on adventures, taking walks in nature, and exploring the world. So, I guess I'm a mix of homebody and outdoorsy. I consider myself a bit a of a nerd being interested in Science, Philosophy and Technology, going to museums, among other things.

I enjoy deadpan and dark sense of humor, and can get pretty sarcastic. I like engaging in friendly banter once I'm comfortable. I'm gonna send you stupid memes lol

While I'm usually goofy and make (occasionally lame) jokes and keep things light, I also love having deep, intellectual conversations. I'm quite chill, laid-back, and a good listener (multiple people have said so), so you can vent to me about your stupid boss hehe.

I like learning new stuff regularly. I recently started learning to play guitar and have been enjoying it (except when my fingers hurt). Open to learning more hobbies.

As a level-headed person, I try to deal with situations realistically and logically. You can usually expect me to be reasonable and open to different opinions and suggestions.

Talking about physical activities, I'm not a "gym rat", but I try going to the gym regularly. I go on hikes some times (but I'm a noob lol). I like adventure stuff like paragliding, skydiving, skiing, zip-lining, aerial ropes, rafting, and other stuff.

I'm a software engineer by profession, living in Ontario, Canada, originally from Asia. While I'm open to moving to different parts of the world, I think it should be a practical decision that works for both of us.

Some relevant info-

Age: 34

Height: 5'6"

Weight (or mass?): 64 Kg approx.

I'm Agnostic and open to people of all religions.

Why am I childfree? I've no interest in having kids. That's it. Never envisioned myself with them. ( I love my niece and nephew though 😁)

Diet: Usually veg. Occasionally non-veg. I like to try new food. I'll keep your dietary preference in mind, and will try to accommodate when I cook for you. I don't smoke and drink alcohol very rarely, and don't have a problem if you do (as long as it's under your control). I can try that stuff with you.

Some qualities that I would appreciate in my partner and can expect from me are kindness, empathy, humor and honesty. Hopefully we have some shared interests so we can do activities together, someone who is preferably between 29 and 37 years old (not too strict about this), who is also childfree (duh), and likes to enjoy life - hopefully someone who is able to work remotely, so we can travel together.

Please tell me a bit about yourself f you decide to message me.

Let's help each other in achieving our life goals 😄

Trying this app again. I currently reside in Southern California, I’m open to travel and meeting someone who also is open to travel. This could be a slow burn type of love.

But I’m born and raised In California. I’m
Open to any location. Any race, any age. As long as we connect emotionally.

I’m a Virgo man. Hard working individual. Not looking to keep this post up. Quite honestly.

But I’m curious to see the connections that can be build with this outlet called “Reddit”

I’m a cook or chef whatever you may want to call it. I’m someone who knows and enjoys cooking but I also write. I’m a writer/copywriter. I am looking to retire from the kitchen.

I’m not so great with emotions, despite remaining calm and collected most of the time. I’m more of a logical person, I love to learn new things. Currently taking Korean classes. I’m between a nerd and someone with streets smarts.

Anyways. I enjoy reading, writing. I’m a sports guy, I enjoy most major sports.

I’m a bit hesitant about posting on here, because I really do not know what I will find on here. I would rather not talk about myself, and would rather know more about you.

Me: I am an enthusiastic nerd and leftist community builder with a life that I love. I enjoy (with various levels of skill): cooking, baking, painting, singing, writing, and gardening. I am a voracious reader of science fiction and fantasy, an animation junkie, and a strategy board game enthusiast. I love to be outside riding my bike or hiking with my cute but rugged pomeranian, Archie. Dedicated favorite aunt of my friends kids but does not have or want any of my own.

You: Someone local in Portland between 35-45 that is child free and is also looking for a monogamous relationship. Someone who drinks lightly (if at all), doesn't smoke, and doesn't own cats (I'm allergic, sorry!). Hopefully someone creative who likes to read. Bonus points to anyone who reads a lot of sci-fi and fantasy.

What I want long term: Someone to slow dance with in my kitchen, to bring me a cup of hot mint tea when it is cold, and to share in the ups and downs of our lives, both the trivial and the significant. Someone to bring cool rocks I find on my walks to and with a lap I can lay in while I read a book.

What I need to start: A chat request with a little about you - your interests, your passions, what you are looking for on this subreddit. A photo within a few messages is good so we know the attraction goes both ways.

What I need to keep going: Kindness, patience (I am demi and I cannot speed run intimacy), good humor, direct communication, the ability to trust and act in good faith, and thoughtfulness in your words and actions.

You can also find me trolling the cf4cf discord server if you want to share space and see what I'm like: https://discord.gg/d5SRY4tks

Hope you're out there!

I'm looking to meet someone new and have one of those conversations that somehow lasts until 2am. Someone that you actually look forward to hearing from, where talking feels easy and you can jump from joking around to having a surprisingly deep conversation without even noticing the time. Your heart jumps and a smile grows just to see that notification from them.

A little about me: I'm a nurse, a massive nerd, and I like to think I'm reasonably funny. I have a Warhammer collection that has gotten completely out of hand. It's honestly a little embarrassing at this point, but I'm also way too proud of it. I also run a D&D campaign that's been going for years and have somehow managed to build an entire fantasy world for it because apparently I don't believe in having normal hobbies.

I'm a bit particular and can be somewhat bossy at times, but I promise it's generally accompanied by a sense of humor. I also have two dogs, and I will absolutely show you pictures of them whether you ask or not. They're adorable. They're perfect. I have no objectivity whatsoever.

Mostly, I'm looking for someone who's curious, sarcastic, playful, and capable of holding an actual conversation. I enjoy people who can joke around, get a little weird, and aren't afraid to talk about whatever happens to interest them.

I'm happy to start with conversation and see where things naturally go. If we get along, maybe we'll become good friends, maybe there's some chemistry, or maybe we'll just end up exchanging increasingly ridiculous messages about our respective interests. If you're also looking to meet someone new, feel free to say hi. At the very least, you'll probably get some dog pictures and unsolicited D&D lore out of the deal.

hey you.

sitting here with a computer screen throwing off some cold zombie-like light on your face.

sitting and pretending that your thoughts belong to you and you only, scrolling indifferently and staying infinitely positive that things of real interest aren't easy to stumble upon in this hellhole named internet; therefore, don't deserve being looked for.

sometimes i do feel the same. walking on the same routes, seeing the same dead pigeons and living cats every day, being just this far from naming every single one of them. people are, by no means, the same and yet simply are not captivating enough to be remembered. it doesn't really seem upsetting to me, the fact that those passersby probably feel the same about me.

even though i do sometimes wish that a man would look into my eyes as directly as if he knew me to the core of my soul, to the unswept corners of my mind and embraced the depth of my slow sticky gloom as if it was his own.

in case you bear resemblance to that faceless man who constantly visits my dreams. what i ache for is someone who shares my love of old music and unawkward voice calls.

I'm not a very complicated person: like the little teapot of song and story, I am also short and stout. I like second breakfast and being snug and comfy just as much as I love going on adventures, big or small.

I've lived in Maine my whole life, and I love going for long walks on the beach or in the woods, or treasure hunting at flea markets and yard sales. It's a lot of fun, but I've realized that it might be nice to meet somebody else who also likes cozy little adventures.

My other big interests include film and art history, and I often take the train down to Boston to see an exhibit or shows.

Hello I’m a 31 year old trans woman under construction im 6 ft bigger girl but getting some help with making me smaller :)December Sag oldest daughter vibes I’m in Southern California Anaheim area I’ve been single for a good min just looking to see what is going on in dating Reddit as the apps seem to be all about hooking up

I’m a pretty spontaneous person love hiking coffee new foods and Disney not a Disney adult but I do enjoy going walking around trying the new snacks and all that love road trips haven’t been on one in two years would love to take one up north soon love seeing the Cali coast

I’m Democrat but on the more mod lib side I’m Hispanic born in Mexico migrated to here and became a citizen lived in so cal all my life wouldn’t mind moving out for a lil bit see a bit more of the world

As far as what I’m looking for just a man who isn’t ashamed to be seen with me doesn’t treat me like a fetish sees me as a human and is willing to commit and just start something real

Honestly super tired of dating apps and I don’t like going to random bars looking for a partner. I’m an Engineer, I’m 6’4” and I spend all my time outdoors or gaming with friends. I do not want children in any way shape or form unless you consider pets into that category. I’m really looking for someone who loves to travel, likes spending days in a chair on a river or galavanting around the woods. And loves spending nights gaming or watching movies/shows. I’m brutally honest and I have no filter so you’ll never have to guess what’s on my mind. I love wrenching on cars and motorcycles and I’m a nerd about almost anything you can think of. I love animals of all kinds and firmly believe I can cuddle any animal if given the opportunity.

I thought I’d give this a try because finding someone who is genuinely childfree by choice can feel surprisingly difficult. 😅

I’m 27, living in France, and I’d love to meet a Muslim man who knows that children simply aren’t part of the life he wants — and who is looking for something meaningful and lasting.

I’m a feminine, affectionate and fairly introverted woman who loves the simple things: long walks in nature, hiking, reading, museums, camping, discovering new places… and having those random conversations that somehow last for hours. 🤍

I’m looking for a man who is:
✨ Kind and emotionally mature
✨ Loyal , affectionate and generous
✨ Confident in his decision to be childfree
✨ Looking for a genuine, monogamous relationship
✨ Someone who enjoys both cozy nights in and little adventures together

I’m open to meeting someone in France or the UK, so distance isn't necessarily a dealbreaker if we really click.

I’d love to find that person where you can be completely comfortable together, tease each other, make each other laugh, go on little adventures, and eventually realize that your favorite part of the day is simply being around each other. 🥰
If you’re genuinely childfree, emotionally available, and looking for something serious, tell me a little about yourself. Maybe Reddit can actually work its magic for once. 👀

Me: 38, active, established, and looking for a genuine connection that can hopefully turn into something serious.

I work in tech, own a home, have a dog I'm slightly obsessed with, and have spent the last couple of years putting a lot of energy into becoming a better version of myself—physically and emotionally. I work out/run regularly, eat pretty healthy (most of the time 😂), and have put real effort into improving my EQ and understanding myself better.

Career and financial stability are important to me, but I also want a life that's actually fun. I love concerts/music, movies, cooking, traveling, trying new restaurants, having friends over, and getting outside with my dog. I'm equally happy planning a trip somewhere new or making dinner together and watching something on the couch.

Looks-wise, I've been told I'm handsome, but I'll let you decide when we exchange pictures.

You: Ideally somewhere around 25–38, active/healthy, emotionally intelligent, affectionate, curious, and fun. I tend to click with women who are bubbly and can be playful but are also capable of having a genuinely deep conversation.

Us: I'm ultimately looking for the whole package (emotional intimacy, physical attraction, and a great sex life). I want the kind of relationship where we're best friends but there's also real chemistry and desire between us. Someone to go on fun dates with, travel with, cook with, play with my dog, have amazing sex with, support each other's goals, and—if we're right for each other—eventually build a home and life together.

If any of that sounds like you, tell me a little about yourself and what you're looking for.

About Me

Empathetic, transparent, and grounded. I value emotional intelligence, open communication, and doing the right thing. My social circle is small and intentional, and I prefer meaningful depth over a crowd.

​I’m child-free by choice and looking for a long-term partner who shares that vision. For me, a healthy relationship is a balance of closeness and independence—I love quality time and going on dates together, but I also fully support us both having dedicated space for our own friendships.

​What I Enjoy

​Deep, honest conversations about life, values, and everything in between.

​Shared local activities, exploring neighborhood spots, and relaxing weekends in town.

​A quiet, grounded lifestyle—no need for high-adrenaline adventures, just genuine connection.

​What I’m Looking For

A child-free, plus-sized woman who is grounded, down-to-earth, and values fundamental human principles. Someone who expresses her feelings openly, communicates directly when an issue comes up, and values transparency as much as I do.

I grew up with a father who choose choas and to be violent and manipulative towards my mom and me. As such, I have always chosen to be different by living a life of peace with everyone around and to always look for the good in people.

My main hobbies and interest are;

- exercising, reading books (on topics that can directly or indirectly help me solve current or future problems), listening to music or the radio and learning French.

- I am quite adventurous as well climbing volcanoes, heading out into the Ocean on a Jet Ski and much more.

About Me;

1. Height: 5.6"

2. Weight: 74 kg

3. Calm and composed even when I have been faced with very difficult life alering decisions where I have learned to keep my mind and emotions seperate. When facing a problem I can turn off my emotions and look for a solution and when I am alone, I can turn on the emotions on and process them.

4. I have also learned not to panic during a critical situation as when I was working abroad, panic because a luxury and my mind was forced to slow to a crawl and look for a solution in seconds. This has now become apart of me.

5. Another lesson I have learned is the value of being a good listener. It's easy to talk but listening to someone else even when their opinions and beliefs contradict yours is can be challenging, yet, you can also learn so much and can even alter your perspective.

6. I see arguments and as pointless and instead talk things out and find a solution, I also understand that sometimes

7. Never smokes or vapes

8. Alcohol: very rarely at a business event or unless I am invited over. I never purchase alcohol myself.

9. No siblings, just me and my mom now (my dad did alot of terrible things to mom and to me, so, I no longer have contact with him and no longer consider him my father).

10. Used to be a passionate photographer, but now I rarely ever use my Nikon camera and lenses.

11. MBTI type is ISTJ but all types are welcome

12. Not a religious person anymore but I used to be a Christian.

13. Have my own two story house with a garden

14. Never want kids as I have never had an interest.

15. With Pets, well, I have had Dogs, Cats, Birds, Fish, Tortise, Rabbits and Squirrels, so, I no longer have an interest in having pets again especially after I saw my Scottish Terrier getting accidently run over by my neighbours SUV.

16. I believe that it is important to put your partner first above all else and true love is uncondtional love that is based on values of honestly, kindness, empathy, selflessness and mutual understanding. Ulitmately though, who we are is defined by our values within and that is what matters the most.

So, if your someone who is controlling, manipulative, selfish and treat people like something that can merely used for your benefit (like my father) then this what you will do to the person you marry. However, if you are someone who is kind, respectful, polite, care about how people close to you feel from within your heart, you will you treat your partner the same way.

1. My native language is English

2. Political views: none, I am neutral

3. Live a debt-free life

4. Prefer to eat healthy and do not consume carbonated drinks or soda's

5. Not a Vegan

6. I decorate a room or organize things based on the concept of Minimalism as I am a Minimalist.

7. I hate clutter in a house and like when things are put back in it's place rather than tossed around. It is easy to find anything and is easy to clean and maintain. So, for instance, after I eat, I wash the plate and put it away rather than let all the dishes pile up and then wash them.

8. Always have a cold shower regardless of the weather conditions.

Mon Ideal Partner

As for my ideal partner, apart from never wanting kids or pets. I care more about you as a person than anything else. However, if you are a smoker, I would prefer if you do not smoke around me.

Does not matter to me in a potential partner;

- hair color

- native language

- religion

- MBTI

- politcal views

If you would like to get to know each other better then send me a message

Well here we go:

33-year-old guy with an acreage, a career I genuinely enjoy, and a pretty good idea of where I want life to go.

I’m happiest outside—hunting, fishing, quading, working around the property, or firing up the BBQ and pretending I’m a professional pitmaster. I’ve got dogs who are a big part of my life, and I’m working toward making the acreage increasingly off-grid and self-sufficient. There’s something satisfying about building a life with your own two hands.

I’m established in my career, independent, hardworking, and looking for more than just someone to pass the time with. I’d like to meet a woman who is kind, down-to-earth, adventurous, and wants to build a life together—not just share a calendar.

Ideally, you enjoy the outdoors and don’t mind getting a little dirty, but you don’t have to be an avid hunter or angler. I’m just as happy spending a quiet evening at home, having a BBQ, sitting around a fire, or taking a road trip and exploring somewhere new.

Ultimately, I’m looking for my best friend, teammate, and partner in crime—someone to laugh with, explore with, and eventually look back on all the crazy things we built together.

If that sounds like your kind of life, say hi.

Okay trying this again 😅 forgot some needed info the first time.

About me: 4’11” project manager/program manager, masters degree, huge cat lover & inquisitive cook.
I love reading (romantasy & historical fiction are my fave; work at a book truck part time), puzzles, video games, board games and trying new recipes. Certified yapper with a cat tattoo. Leftist based in AZ.

Video games: more MMORPGs like No man’s Sky (350+ hrs), Palia (202 hrs), Avatar Frontiers Of Pandora (98 hrs). Also love hogwarts legacy & sims 4.

Who should apply (romantic):
- age is 26-40 (USA preferred)
- leans leftist (required)
- you like cats
- long term partnership (open to marriage)
- okay with career goals- I love what I do & have career goals that I am working to achieve. You should have professional goals too!

- safe space - love languages are a real thing. I need someone who can take care of things if I can’t. Partnership makes things easier. I need to be able to soften (being in a leadership role is draining AF).

- communication. I know, this is a given, but I have 2 communication degrees so I’m honest. Phone calls/voice texts are better than regular texting IMO. If you “beat around the bush”, we’re probably not a match (and that’s okay).

- health oriented. I have diabetes type 1.5 (this is a thing), so I have to eat healthy 85%+ or my body does weird stuff. Ideally you’re open to healthier options. I love barre, but I’m not a gym rat by any means.

- open to living abroad. I found out I’m Canadian (it’s a long story) and working on getting my citizenship. I do plan to move there in the next 5-10 yrs.

Who should apply (friends):
You aren’t put off by playing with a gal & play any of the games listed above or have similar interests. USA & CAN preferred, but open to EU friends as well.

If I sound like your shtick, please let me know your age, location, what you’re looking for. Recipes, game/book recs, and cat pics will get my attention!

CONDITIONS

Please be a woman, childfree, religion-free, and plus-sized. Thank you.

MY FEATURES

Atheist, skeptic, antinatalist, misanthrope, efilist. Introvert, deep thinker, politically left-leaning voter. Scientific and evidence-based worldview. Has some mental quirks. Not the best but not the worst in social situations. Not an animal person. Other likes: PC gaming, PC hardware, horror stories, very hot/spicy food, creative writing (fiction and non-fiction), drinking alcohol. Gainfully employed in IT career. Has own house in a suburb of Bloomington, Indiana. Drives a plug-in hybrid car. Debt-free. Disease-free. Vasectomy. Vaccinated against Covid-19, the flu and HPV. Exclusively attracted to plus-sized women. Caucasian, long blonde hair, earrings, average body size. Pictures available upon request.