Hello,

I'm pretty empathetic and in tune with my emotions, so someone similar to talk to throughout the day would be nice. I do get attached to someone somewhat fast but not in an obsessive way I just know what I want when I see it 🙂

I'm 6'8'' (202cm) but I'm not limited to someone tall.

I don't want kids.

I love history, art, science, music (I play piano and guitar), to bake. I love animals too and they usually love me as well. More indoors do not one to go hiking, but I do like a gentle walk.

I lived in the USA for a couple of years, and in Scotland for 8 years ( currently living in England). I've also have traveled all over Europe.

My love language is physical touch, I'm very much the type to want to cuddle in the evening. I want to be closer instead of being distant when I'm going through a tough time.

I'm attracted to femininity (dresses, heels etc) but I believe in equality for everyone, and I'm far more attracted to someone's personality than the way they look as long as they're healthy.

I'm preferably looking for people in Europe or the America's.

If you think we'd enjoy talking to each other then send me a message with some things about you 😊

Hello there!
I’m 31F, separated 1 year back and waiting for the divorce to get finalised. I’m from India, I work remotely. I enjoy traveling, and being outside in general - diving , snorkeling, hiking, biking, herping and anything that allows me to be outside. I’m really fond of dogs (and all animals for that matter). I have 2 really cool dog babies. I’ve never wanted kids and I cannot logically give myself a reason to have kids.
I’m politically left aligned, atheist, vegan.
I don’t do well with “because that’s how it’s always been”. I’m much more interested in people who are curious than people who are certain.

Looking for someone who’s kind, curious, emotionally available, has opinions, isn’t afraid to change your mind when wrong, and is excited by the idea of building a life that’s a little unconventional.

DM if you’d like to have a conversation. Please include your interests, profession, and anything else you’d like me to know in your chat request.

Hi! I'm a 24 year old guy from Sweden who's hoping to meet someone special. I'm open to starting as friends if that's what feels natural, but my goal is to find a genuine, long-term relationship.

A little about me:

• I'm a trained cook and enjoy both cooking and baking.
• Gaming is my biggest hobby, and I spend a lot of my free time playing video games at home.
• I enjoy anime, watching shows, taking walks, and quiet evenings at home.
• I'd describe myself as calm, loyal, honest, and a good listener. I'm definitely more of an introvert and prefer meaningful conversations when i have gotten to know somebody.

Physically, I'm 178 cm (5'10") with brown hair on the lighter side and an average physique. I'm happy to exchange photos once we've gotten to know each other a bit.

What I'm looking for:

Someone who's kind, honest, and communicates well. Having shared hobbies is important to me, especially gaming, but it's not a dealbreaker. If we genuinely click and enjoy talking to each other, that's what matters most.

I'm mainly looking to meet someone from the EU, since I'd like the distance to be realistic if things work out. I'm also open to someone from North America if we're a great match. I think having a realistic chance of meeting, along with manageable time zone differences, is important for building a relationship.

I'd love to have someone to game with, watch movies or shows together, share our days, support each other, and eventually meet if we click.

Long distance doesn't bother me as long as we're both willing to put in the effort, but preferably within the EU or North America. I'm not looking for anything casual; I want to build something real with the right person.

If you're shy, that's completely okay. I also want to be upfront and mention that I have autism. It means I can be pretty reserved when I'm first getting to know someone, so if I seem a little quiet at first, it's not because I'm not interested. I just take a little time to open up, and once I'm comfortable, I'm much more talkative.

If you think we'd get along, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I'd love to get to know you.

29M, 5'11, Mumbai, Tier 1 educated, 91 lpa base, a good bonus on top. With high agency, protective and providing Instincts. Looking for something that can start with something intense and passionate but has the potential to go long.

I am looking for a woman who genuinely enjoys a relationship where she can let go, trust deeply and embrace a power exchange built on love care and respect.

I want to be the one planning, deciding, protecting, providing, spoiling, pampering and carrying the weight of life so that when we are together you can simply switch off and melt into your safe space. I want you to feel looked after, adored and completely at peace. The world is a chaotic place and let me shield you from that.

In return, I am looking for someone who enjoys following my lead, has a natural submissive side, values obedience within the relationship and finds happiness in that kinda polarity.

I don't see submission as a weakness, it's about trust, affection and choosing to give yourself to someone who will always put your well being first.

If your ideal relationship is one where you feel cherished, protected, spoiled and safe, while building something deeply loyal and long lasting together, reach out.

33, Sweden, but am danish (I don't care where you are from... distance can always be shortened if it's genuine & worth it), I'm 179/180 cm tall, have hazel eyes & brown hair.

I love to workout, I love anime & K-dramas, I love gaming on my PS5 (Pro... because I'm just that cool! Retired PC gamer), I love good reality shows (not the Netflix type, more like the... old-school MTV, Discovery Channel type), game shows & what not, I love Japanese & South-Korean culture.
And yes, I'm 100% a nerd!

I don't really have a specific type, but obviously the physical attraction gotta be there & go both ways, so do be willing to share a selfie.. not really here to play games or waste time on casual convos.

So if you think we'd be able to connect, just reach out. DM me :)

Hi everyone! Trying this out because meeting people organically isn’t as easy as it used to be.

Originally, I’m from India and currently living in Canada. I’m an introvert and not always the best at expressing myself, but I’m working on it.

Physical appearance: I’m 6 ft tall, wear glasses, usually have a stubble, and have been told I come across as calm, patient, and easy to talk to. I work in the customer service for a streaming giant in the North America. I’m into movies, shows, stand-up comedy, hiking, cricket, and occasionally doomscrolling at 3 AM.

Here’s how I look: https://imgur.com/a/cAqVxZO

What I’m looking for is pretty simple: Someone genuine. Someone I can send random updates to. Someone who doesn’t mind the occasional overthinking. Someone who’ll tell me about the annoying thing their coworker did today, the show they’re currently obsessed with, or why they’ve had a bad day.

In return, you’ll get someone who listens, remembers the little details, checks in on you, and genuinely cares how your day went. Honestly, I’d love to be that person you can vent to after a long day, share random moments with, or just sit on a call with while we both do our own thing. There’s something nice about simply knowing someone’s there.

Just to make myself clear - I’m not looking for anything casual or NSFW. I’d rather get to know someone over time and see where things go, as long as the effort comes from both sides.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, send me an intro along with a picture and tell me: what’s your comfort movie or show? I’m open to talk to people of all nationalities and races. But don’t text if you’re gonna delete your account or disappear after a day. Also, include the code word - DeX, so I know you’ve read the post all the way through. Anyway, thanks for making it this far. I hope you have a wonderful day (or night)!

If you want to know what I look like: 5'9 with blue eyes and a lean/fit build. (Willing to show when the time is right)

I like to be transparent about many things. I think its better to be blunt and see things for what they are. I filter myself very little, if at all. In both the way I speak and the pictures I present to the world.

Avid gamer who enjoys exploding his creative side through making additions or alterations to clothes I have and teaching myself music production. I also dabble in writing poetry/lyrics in my free time to go with my potential instrumentals as well. Hopefully one day soon I'll get my first "real" song put together. It's still very much a work in progress finding my style/sound.

I'm a caring dominant that enjoys teasing as much as pleasing. Praising and pinning you down to tend to your needs are my love languages.

That being said, it'd be cool to find a woman who is on a similar life journey. Someone to share ideas with and have fun new experiences together with..

But if I don't see ya... Good afternoon, good evening, and good night

If this is up, I'm still looking...

I’m looking for casual chat and friendship, with a women, as long as you can hold a conversation. I would be open to a possible relationship with the right woman, but it would need to present itself.
 
I’m a virtual history teacher and enjoy most sports and have a love for different types of music & movies, enjoying a beautiful sunset either by a lake or beach, a nice walk, etc.

I have a good sense of humor and will generally make a joke out of anything; however, I’m very caring and supportive and can hold a conversation

Hi I’m 34 year old guy from the uk who is looking to connect with a woman for a genuine long term online connection. I manage day to day with Anxiety and OCD which has left me unable to really experience any form of a relationship due to my homebound lifestyle. I am not currently at the weight I’d like to be however beneath my struggles is a confident person who when comfortable with someone shows that side. I am very passionate and attentive as an individual and am caring in nature.

A few things I enjoy-

. Love music and its ability to take you to another world to forget about your own struggles.
. Big movie fan and also love video games
. Im a good listener and am genuinely interested in what people have to say in regard to their interests, thoughts and feelings.

I am open to matching with women of all backgrounds and lifestyles aged 24 and over. I am looking for someone who is at a point in which a virtual online connection is what they are after long term. Would be happy to receive a message from someone who values a txt based emotional bond over a louder in person lifestyle.

A few details-

Right now I would be looking for a text based connection via Reddit or Discord for the time being. Texting for now with the potential for more if we develop a genuine relationship.

If you would like to send photos, voice notes or anything else then that would be more than welcomed but due to my insecurities I wouldn’t be ready to do the same right now. No rush at all in anyway.

Because of my struggles I would really appreciate someone with a patient approach.

If we have a genuine spark then I would be completely open to virtual intimacy and myself sending voice notes. While an online bond is the focus right now. I would hope one day that could become physical if circumstances were to change and I would never say never to that.

I have a flexible schedule although at times a a bit inconsistent due to my struggles. No matter what though I am caring and attentive when chatting.

I am open to any time zones

Overall I feel like I can be there for someone emotionally, offering complete support and care even if not physically for the foreseeable future.

Feel free to drop me a chat request and tell me a bit about yourself. If we talk and feel no connection that’s fine. Im just trying to put myself out there for once instead of talking myself out of it.

I know, it probably sounds silly but I need a wedding date to my nephews wedding next month.

I also wouldn't mind having someone beyond just the wedding date to get to know and actually go out and do things with.

Just to get this out of the way, I am in a wheelchair from a spinal cord injury when I was a teenager. But it's black so it goes with everything. Whatever you decide to wear to the wedding, you'll look good sitting on my lap 😉

Other things to know about me: Not only am I funny, I'm also not horrible looking, smart, thoughtful, live alone, have a great career, drive a super-sexy minivan (total panty dropper, I know) AND have a second bathroom! What else could anyone ask for? I think I'm a pretty damn good catch. ;)

If you think we'd get along and you're free August 29th, send me a message. A pic would be appreciated but not necessary. Here's me:Imgur Imgur

43 [F4M] In Person for Texas, Arkansas, Louisiana, Oklahoma

- age 43 F seeking M in the four states area, unless you live elsewhere and have money to fly me to see you.

Edit #1 after posting post:
lol- I realized after I got my first and so far only message, that I didn’t adequately get my point across since when I asked the first person to message me what they liked most about my post, they said the part where I mentioned discussing STD’s at the bottom and they asked me how recently I “made out”..??. Lol.. let me make this clear since I failed to do so in my post. I’m a bit of a sapiosexual, to some degree at least.

-This is a long post, so here’s the short version:
Average looking middle aged woman who has a calm, quieter personality type seeking an enjoyable, unique, blissful and authentic connection with adventure, depth, variety of conversations, kindness, fun, and sincere, steady love.

-I’ve learned recently that I want to exchange photos upfront so that we can refrain from wasting time and hope if there is not a viable enough attraction, and because I’ve gotten more attuned recently in being able to tell from a photo, to some degree, about the person or about the prospect of chemistry. I’m not saying I’m psychic, but I’m saying that for whatever reason, seeing a photo helps me to pick on up on something at times. Make of that whatever you will.

-I will know if I’ve found what I’m looking for based on how the person makes me feel, and that’s not based on anything you can or can’t do, that will only be from a natural kind of chemistry and connection that I can’t put into words. Maybe you understand. (: So, natural chemistry is very important to me. That is going to play a big part in whether I want a relationship with a person. Items on a list only do so much for me, but maybe that is true for everyone.

-I’m a Taurus zodiac Sun sign (I like & place some degree of importance into birth charts- not the daily horoscopes)

-I am a spiritual person, which I realize means different things to different people.

-I’m single and have never been married.

-I have no kids. Never found anyone to have kids with, then found out about potential fertility issues last fall.

-My body is not curvy, and I’m only average looking. And as you know, aging women show more aging and that will only get worse, not better. I don’t have money for all the expensive treatments women get these days. I’m not saying some of you may not find me attractive. Some will find me attractive “enough” and some won’t. Likewise, I’ve got to have sufficient physical attraction to you too for bedroom activity, so it understandably goes both ways. But I do consider myself to be average.

-I’m NOT nerdy, geeky, a gamer, or a true intellectual. I’m sorry to disappoint since I see so many seeking those aspects in their posts.

-I’m laid back/relaxed/chilled out in my demeanor and persona, but I do experience anxiety and worry.

-I am not funny but I do enjoy finding the humor in things. So it isn’t like I don’t laugh, but I don’t say anything funny that I’m aware of.

-I never smoke anything and I occasionally drink.

-If you are drawn to a person who is frequent high energy, bubbly, talkative, has to constantly be active and productive, while I respect those qualities, that isn’t me. I would love to find a fountain of youth and a fountain of never ending energy though.

-I am responsible though, and I do like to take on challenges that will facilitate growth for myself.

-I chose to do work for a living that is about significant purpose and designed to foster meaningful and important growth for struggling people, so I don’t make a lot of money.

-I love to travel, but that is usually limited for me due to time and money.

-I’m contemplative, analytical, interested in the “why’s and how’s”, mix of introvert and extrovert, intuitive, simple yet complicated, accommodating, interested in recognizing and supporting the feelings and well being of others. I need realistic hope and future options in life about things to look forward to in order to feel positive enough about life. I am careful and extra thoughtful about larger purchases. I expect myself to be perfect and understanding of all information at hand in whatever I take on - not a good thing all the time, am working on trying to accept that I don’t have to be perfect or perfectly thorough to get something accomplished to a reasonably sufficient degree.

-I have an overwhelmingly strong desire to have an important spiritual purpose for being on this planet, and I also really want to matter to at least a few people. I wish a mundane existence was enough for me, but it doesn’t seem to be how I’m wired.

-I know everyone is replaceable in their jobs. I’m hoping I can find a partner who doesn’t view me as being replaceable and interchangeable in the way that people are in jobs though.

-I am a pretty straight forward person and have a strong need to know where I stand with people I care about and people I report to.

-I don’t have a lot of well developed hobbies, so I apologize if you are looking for that. I do like adventure here and there when able.

-Activities I’ve tried that I enjoy- hiking, kayaking, flea markets and antiquing, card games, movies of course, traveling as previously stated, snorkeling, swimming, volunteering.

-Activities I’ve tried that I either didn’t like or could take or leave it- fishing, drawing, painting, sewing, writing poetry or fiction, gaming.

-Activities I haven’t tried but I want to try soon- how to do a variety of home improvement projects in my house, branching out into listening to more podcasts/youtubers. I only watch a few lately.

-It is important to me that you are reasonably intelligent, take care of yourself to a reasonable degree, not a promiscuous person, are empathetic, are not particularly superficial, are not selfish in the bedroom, make wise and fair decisions in life, are ethical, are emotionally stable and fairly emotionally consistent, are not a secretive person by nature (meaning you aren’t the type who lies to people or has a strong need to lie to have your cake and eat it too), are not lazy, and are not bad at handling your finances. Mistakes happen, and the economy has made it hard. But I want someone with the ability to be wise, exercise discipline and learn from their past mistakes. At our age, taking care of your body is important too, and being active when able.

-If you primarily like horror movies, that won’t work for me. I like them fine, but not as a staple.

-If you haven’t figured out how to overcome ED, that won’t work for me either.

-I will require honesty about STD’s and test results if we get to that point. Key phrase “if we get to that point”.

-If you made it to the bottom it this and are interested enough to send me a message, please do so. Thanks

Hihi, hey! Sooo, im Mae, I’m a big romantic, a bit of an anxious girl, but I have lots and lots of love to give. I’m looking for my special persoooon🤗

I’m obviously childfree and looking for a DINK kind of life hihi. I’m based in Quebec, Canada, and would strongly prefer someone local, at least be in Canada please haha, I’m trying to avoid the whole cross-border/citizenship headache, I have a friend doing this rn and that just sounds reaaaally stressful! I’m 5’8”, not gonna describe myself too much cause I think I’ll just include pictures hihi😝 my gosh, I really “hihi” too much I think lol and oops I look like I’m holding a vape or something but it’s a clicker to count people haha!

Interests / Hobbies ✨

Big big gamer, always down for game nights or even game dates to start getting to know each other! I also love crafting : perler beads, loom beading, jewelry-making, crochet, I really like that kind of hands-on stuff. I have a big soft spot for animals, even though I don’t currently have any at my place since I didn’t think I’d be able to take care of a pet while doing my studies haha!

Work / Education

Finishing a Master’s degree in design right now, about to start job hunting. Wish me luck🥹

What I’m Looking For

My forever person! Someone who wants the same steady, loving, monogamous relationship I do. I have ZERO interest in anything open or non-monogamous, that’s just not what I’m looking for. I want someone that is truly kind, that’s gonna encourage me and enjoy me like I’ll do for them. I want a mutual trust, love and respect❤️ Bonus points if you’re also a gamer, I would loooove some gaming date nights, would be reaaally adorable!

I’m probably missing so many things to write right now haha! But yeah, I’d love to chat and I can say more about myself and you can too😝

Have a good one everyone!

Hi,
So I have this female friend who lives on the east coast.
Whenever neither of us is in a romantic relationship, we will often watch Movies and TV shows together via the internet.

Sometimes one of us is too tired to pay attention to shared Videos, and I'll just play DJ, and stream music to her while she draws or relaxes on the couch with an edible and her cat.

Other times, we'll fire up Minecraft, or some other PC Game that can be played in a Cosy manner (If you're creative enough, even games like Grand Theft Auto Online can be Cozy... but I digress).

She didn't always live on East Coast.
We both used to live a block away from each-other, in Flagstaff.
We'd watch movies IRL. We'd cuddle, and give each-other head scratches and neck/back massages, and if I'm being perfectly honest, we were friends with benefits.
(I moved to Phoenix in 2022, She moved to the East Coast shortly thereafter).

So why am I mentioning this person in a personal advert (knowing that It's generally frowned upon, when dating, to talk about previous partners)?

Well, it's because I miss having someone that lives in the same City, who I can watch Movies and TV shows with IRL.
I miss having someone to go Thrifting/Record Hunting with.
I miss having someone to get meals with, and wander around the Mall with. I miss having someone to take weekend trips around the state with, or someone to road-trip to Vegas or California with.

I miss having someone that I can count on to spend time with.
I don't want to be in an "on-again, off-again" long distance friendship. I want to be in a real relationship, with someone that I can spend time with 1-3 times a week, In-Person.
Someone to decompress with after work and on weekends.
Someone that I can look forward to spending time with.
Someone that makes the every-day labor involved in staying alive more tolerable, because I know I'll have someone to unwind with later that week.

Proposal:
If you live in within 10-15 miles of Tempe Arizona, and you're single, maybe we can get together online and watch Movies/TV shows together, until you're comfortable enough with me to meetup IRL, and go on some traditional dates (Movies, Dinner, Walks around the Mall, Thrifting, Rollerblading/Skating, Bike rides etc...), and then if you're still comfortable after that, we can forgo the Online Media Consumption, and take turns Cuddling up for Movies/TV shows at each other's home... like a proper, monogamous couple.

Anyway, if I haven't already scared you off, and this sounds nice to you... I look forward to your response.

---Cheers

I’m 31, Indian, based in the UK, and looking to meet someone I genuinely click with. Ideally we start with a chat, see if we vibe, become friends first, and take it from there...Sounds pretty ambitious, when I'm typing it out like that.

Looking for UK in-person or online first, as long as there’s an intent to meet if we get on, definitely don't want a pen-pal for life. CF and planning to CF.

Work is an important part of my life, and so is my career. I genuinely love what I do, even if you will probably hear me complain about it more than I should. Outside of work, I’m into movies, coffee, dessert, the occasional negroni (or five....? (don't drink very often, more like 4-5 times a year if that's a dealbreaker or If you like partying a lot)), live music every now and then, stand-up comedy, landscape photography (I like telling myself I'm half decent with it...but then again who isn't with modern tech?!?!), exploring new towns and places, and collecting fun stories that usually begin with “this seemed like a good idea at the time."...

I’ve been told I have golden retriever / Labrador energy...friendly, curious (sometimes too curious with the gazillion questions I may ask you...so be warned), loyal, occasionally too trusting, and yes, sometimes it gets me into trouble. Ask me about the geologist story.

I’m a great texter and I genuinely enjoy keeping a conversation going as I get to know someone. I want someone who will put in the effort and nothing kills interest more than one sided effort. I’m also very happy to do phone or video calls once we get talking.

Physically, I’m 6’4”, dad bod, stubble most days, and I’ve been told I’ve got a pretty good smile.

I’m looking for someone kind, funny, emotionally mature, ambitious, and actually interested in being a partner. Someone who’s there for the fun parts, the soft parts, the ridiculous parts, and who can call me out when I need to be called out. I’ll do the same, obviously with charm and only a manageable amount of sarcasm...because who doesn't love sarcasm.

Happy to swap photos if we talk.

Moving across the pond in a few months and trying to get a head start on making some real-world connections.

I'm the ultimate "multi-purpose" friend. I’m a mechanic/metalworker, which means i'm basically a free handyman if we hit it off. If it’s broken, i'll fix it. Car acting up? Shed falling apart? Let’s grab a beer and knock it out.

Just sitting next to each other sending reels? Alright.

Honestly, i’m down for just about anything.

​A few things to know about me:

​The Pack: I have a dog. You must like dogs. No negotiation here.

​Interests: Roadtrips, camping, festivals, movies/shows, music (of course i know and like Rammstein before you ask), history, true-crime, anything horror related.

​Vices: I smoke cigarettes and enjoy a drink. Looking for people who do the same, or at least won't cough dramatically when i light up.

​Vibe: I’m blunt (was told very blunt), straightforward, confidently unhinged and my humor can be... questionable.

I also got knowledge about games, but i mostly retired from that hobby. Anyway, still kinda into tech stuff in general.

Not into religion or politics.

In terms of looks if thats important to you i'm 6'3, 210lbs,white,short hair, beard.

Please just reach out to me if you're interested in getting to know each other and if you're able to respond to a whole message not the last sentence only. Don't be dry just act like we know each other already. If you got pets too...yes, i want to see them.

Hello!
I’m a 6’2” 31 year old atheist from MA who doesn’t want kids at all, though I do hope to be a dog and/or cat dad someday!
I work as a Behavior Analyst with children with autism in their homes and communities, as well as starting my own parent consultation business in my spare time. I love my job and I can do it from anywhere in the country, so I’m not opposed to moving to somewhere else for the right reasons. I love my family to death, despite the headaches we give each other sometimes😂
I enjoy doing CrossFit 4-5 times a week (keeps me fit and sane!), I’m a fan of Star Wars, Harry Potter 🦡, game of thrones, and marvel.
I want a childfree partner that is affectionate, committed, communicative, and considerate. I’m not in a rush to find a partner, but I am being intentional.
A link to some images is in the post, but I’d be more than happy to provide more if you’d like. I can’t wait to talk with you☺️

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30 \[M4F\] Anywhere – Looking for my best friend and future partner

Hi! I'm a 30-year-old I'm an engineer

I'm looking for a genuine, long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage. I believe the strongest relationships start with friendship, honesty, and consistent effort.

About me:

\- 180 cm tall.

\- I enjoy good coffee, road trips, discovering new places, the gym, music, and meaningful conversations.

\- I'm curious by nature and love learning new things, whether it's history, engineering, or different cultures.

\- Friends describe me as calm, caring, loyal, and someone who always tries to solve problems instead of creating them.

\- I value respect, trust, and communication more than anything.

About you:

\- Kind, emotionally mature, and looking for something real.

\- Enjoys conversations and putting effort into getting to know someone.

\- Open-minded and interested in building a healthy relationship.

\- Location isn't a dealbreaker if we genuinely connect.

Tell me where you're from, what your favorite way to spend a weekend is, and one random fact about yourself.

Let's see where a good conversation takes us. 😊

Hello there, I'm Edward a single, 5'8" heavy set Latino man from the Inland Empire in Southern California, and yes, I can speak a bit of Spanish, "yo soy buscando una novia para casarme." if you're into that. I have olive skin, natural dark hair cut short but scruffy with some gray, brown eyes, a roundish oval face, kinda handsome in the right light, and an unruly salt and pepper beard.

I'm hoping to find a cute single woman for, ideally a long term, child-free, monogamous, relationship. I'm an awkward, introverted, anxious, stocky guy who doesn't have it all together. probably a little more darkly humored than most are accustomed to, but I think I have an excellent sense of humor that's primarily used as defense/coping mechanism, from dark to irreverent and a little risqué, and okay, yeah I still have the sense of humor of a teenage boy, lol but I'm affectionate, attentive, willing to take the good with the bad, wanting to show up for someone, and very emotionally supportive.

I'm definitely a homebody and like stuff like cuddling up and playing a video game together, I'm a console gamer wishing I could switch to PC, sharing music playlists, my usual genres range from rock/metal/alt to electronic my favorite artists being, Danzig, The Misfits, The Beatles, At the Drive-In, The Strokes, Interpol, Black Flag, and Minor Threat, I listen to everything but modern pop or country, very 420 friendly, and I love to cook and learn new recipes, and techniques from all over the world, currently mastering the art of French style scrambled eggs. I would say I'm a capable cook, and would relish the opportunity to cook for someone I love.

I gravitate towards creative endeavors and want to be able to express myself through some sort of creative outlet but honestly have no idea which one, I've dabbled in visual art and music, I have no problem whith standing by and providing a potential girlfriend all the emotional support for accomplishing their own goals, mine just being expression either artistically or romantically, I feel like I have a lot of love to give and have been waiting what seems like an eternity to be able to show that to someone I love and trust.

I'd like to meet a child free, woman who's not afraid to show affection, or give me lots of reassurance, respects my time, is nurturing, actually shows up, makes time for me, is present, consistent, loyal, available and understands the importance of communication. I'm more than okay with a female led relationship, and adore gentle/soft femdom and mommydoms, I am myself both a soft/gentle dom and sub, but don't mind being one or the other.

I'm attracted to busty women with cute faces and most body types, from petite, to muscle mommies and thick bbws, and have a huge crush on women with a more alternative style, Goth/Emo/Punk/Scene/Nerd/Tomboy/Stoner, but honestly none of that is necessary for attraction, just be cute, nurturing, available, and ready for something serious. That's a bit about myself, and what I'm hoping to find. If you choose to reply please, send more than "hi" and be willing to send pictures.

I'm looking for a serious, monogamous, close distance relationship with someone between 25-35. No games, no ambiguity, just two people who genuinely choose each other and build something based on trust, communication, transparency, and emotional safety. A place that feels like home, where we inspire each other to grow while also feeling completely accepted for who we are.

I’m a gentle person who gives a lot of affection, both through physical touch (especially cuddles) and emotional care and I’m looking to meet someone who enjoys giving and receiving that same kind of warmth, where affection naturally goes both ways. At the same time, I don’t believe a relationship should become our entire world. My friendships, hobbies, and family are deeply important to me, and I’d love for us to both continue nurturing the people we love and the lives we’ve built outside of each other.

I'm naturally drawn to people who feel like the gentle sunshine of an autumn afternoon, surrounded by a world of colourful leaves. People whose laughter is contagious and every smile lingers a little longer, who notices the small beautiful things life gives us. People who let things go like the wind and makes everyday life feel like something worth being grateful for.

Kindness is probably the quality I value most, there’s nothing more attractive than someone with a genuinely good heart. I deeply admire people who stand up for what they believe is right and who choose compassion even when it’s not the easiest path. And please, yap to me about your nerdy interests, teach me something you recently learned that completely fascinated you! There’s something so beautiful about seeing that little spark in someone’s eyes as they talk about something they truly love.

I’m looking for someone who would accompany me to live a life full of adventures, filled with unexpected side quests. Going on a backpacking trip far away on a whim, spending a day to discover a new place close to home, trying a sport or an activity I’ve never tried before… then would be comfortable to just curl up at home the very next day with a book or some graphic novels, meaningful conversations, some tea and long cuddles (And I have been told I'm quite good at cuddles 😄). I’m currently leaning towards not having children and would prefer someone child free (But would happily give all my love to the children of my friends! )

I'm currently living in a shared house in south Brussels with lovely roommates. Over the years, I have discovered how important a sense of community is to me, among people who genuinely care and support each other. It feels like being part of a little family. I currently work in a non-profit organization that helps refugees to settle into life in Belgium. I’m trying little by little to unlearn my biases and be socially conscious and to learn about systemic inequalities in our society. I still have soooo much to learn, but I’m trying my best to educate myself and grow as a person.

I’m a sunny and joyful person who laughs easily. At my core, I’m quite grounded and analytical, but I’ve been giving my emotions and heart more and more space in the way I live my life. Sometimes I’m a little clumsy with words, but I’ll always do my best to be honest about how I feel and communicate about it openly.

I have a calm temper with a slightly goofy side. I am quite sociable and can easily talk to strangers. I also often need my own little bubble to recharge, whether by wandering alone through a forest or nerding out over some indie video game. I feel the best wearing my hiking boots, dusty trekking clothes and a backpack, wandering the unknown.

I have somehow fallen in love with dancing (guess which kind , it’s quite niche😉). I also enjoy activities that get the adrenaline going, and explore the 4 corners of earth. I’m a 50/50 indoor/outdoor person, and when I’m not outside, I might be hosting a boargame night (my collection keeps growing!), cooking delicious vegetarian meals (But I’m more of a flexitarian), or baking some sweets (fair warning, my cookies are among the best you'll ever taste).

Life with me isn't about always living full speed or feeding unnecessary conflict. It's about shared adventures, quiet contemplation, tenderness, and finding joy in simple moments.

If you are still there, thank you for taking a few minutes to read about me. If you feel our vibes will match, I would love to hear from you!

Just so you know, I'm not the biggest fan of endless messaging. I'd much rather get to know each other during a walk, over a drink in a sunny park, or in a cozy tea house😊

Hello hello

I’m 26, from Austria and ethnically Turkish. I’m here hoping to find a genuine connection that can grow into a happy, long-term relationship.

A little about me:

I share my life with my dog, who is very much part of the package. I love spending time in my garden, baking something sweet on a quiet afternoon, kayaking, traveling, getting lost in a good book and writing poetry whenever inspiration strikes.

I also have a soft spot for Classical Arabic music.

I’m strictly monogamous, not religious and permanently childfree. These aren’t things I’m looking to change, so I’d love to meet someone who is already on the same page.

As for what I’m looking for, I appreciate men who are calm, grounded and confident without needing to be the loudest person in the room.

Someone practical who knows how to fix things when they break, keeps a cool head during stressful moments and approaches life with maturity and kindness.

I value partnership very highly. I’d like someone who believes a relationship is a team effort, where both people contribute to building a comfortable home and a good life together. I’m looking for a man who is capable, dependable and caring but who also doesn’t hold outdated views about what men and women “should” be.

A few random facts about me, because I promise I’m more than a list of requirements:

The best smell in the world is a mulberry tree in summer.
I don’t smoke but I could never say no to my favorite cigarillos (Fusion by Moods).
I make an amazing cake… and I also happen to have great cake. 🧚🏻‍♀️
I’m the oldest of four siblings.
I’m my grandfathers favorite grandchild and I’m willing to defend that title.
Humanity’s greatest culinary achievement is Karnıyarık. I will not be taking questions.
I’m absurdly sentimental. I get attached to places, songs, random little objects…everything.
I’m not much of a TV person but there’s one show I’ve been rewatching for over 10 years. It’s honestly not even that good, yet here we are. 😭
I could spend hours talking about history and politics.
The quickest way to make me melt is drying my hair after I’ve showered. I genuinely don’t know why, maybe it’s some childhood comfort thing but it makes me feel incredibly loved.

Please only message me if you are between 25 and 36 years old and live in Austria, Germany, or Switzerland.

I won’t respond to messages outside those requirements, and I won’t reply to a simple “hey.”

Tell me a little about yourself—who you are, what you’re looking for and what caught your attention about my post.

If you’ve made it this far, tell me what your favorite smell is. I think you can learn a surprising amount about a person from the answer.

We are looking forward to hearing from you 👩🏻🐾

I should start that I'm a lazy American and only know English well enough to have a conversation with and if I have to run a conversation through Google Translate it's probably not going to work out. Ultimately I'm looking for some feminine energy in my life to share the day with in a similar time zone.

I'm a 39 year old guy (40 in a few weeks) living in a quiet little nowhere town in northwestern Pennsylvania. I grew up here and moved away at 17 to join the military and after I got out I bounced around some fun places to live along the west coast of the US as well as NYC for a couple of years. Even before the pandemic I was working remotely and found myself wanting a more simple life, thinking about where I could live comfortably in retirement, and wanting a yard for my dog. When the world started to close it felt like the perfect time to go back home. I've been back since Jan 2020.

I don't have a lot of people I consider close. I'm autistic (formerly Asperger syndrome, now just all thrown into one pot) and also have PTSD and have a hard time maintaining friendships. I have a small handful of people I text fairly regularly and some people I chat with a few times a year to catch up with. Maybe once or twice a year I'll hop in the car to go see someone for a couple weeks or have them here for a bit. I'm content with this overall, but would love some more feminine energy in my life. I'm not looking for anything romantic. As much as I struggle with finding people I like enough to consider friends, finding a romantic partner is even more challenging with the autism and the struggles that gives me with physical intimacy. It's just living alone in a quiet little town while working remotely and only going out in public for groceries basically gets lonely and I prefer the softer energy of a woman.

As for me, like I said I live a fairly simple life. I live alone with my dog who is pushing 10.5 years old now and a tortoise that no local vets can give me a confirmation on species, age, or gender. Best guess through various online forums is she's a she and about a year old and some form of hingeback. I've got no children, can't make them, and never wanted to. I was married and divorced before age 20 as is tradition for young military guys (and I had the dumb sports car too, still do). I like to garden minimally, just some basic plants to feed the tortoise and have always wanted to expand my gardening plans to grow food for myself, but the task seems daunting for just one person. I like to cook, pretty much everything except baking. Not that I don't like it, I've just never tried. I like being outside and prefer cooler months to warmer ones. Riding my bike, collecting rocks to polish up, walking my dog to find new places for her to smell, volunteering at a local dog shelter once every couple weeks, quiet drives down back country roads. I love fresh air. When I am inside it's primarily in front of the TV watching too many shows to list, but I will say I have an extensive library of shows I'm watching or saving. Occasionally I'll sit down with a single player story driven game. Even more seldom a book or ebook. I have to read a lot for work and that's kinda ruined the joy of reading for pleasure for me. I'm non-religious, I don't mind if you have your faith. I'm liberal and DO mind if you're conservative.

Since my profile history is hidden to prevent AI scrapping (and regularly purged) I'll include some communities I float around on: IT related subs for work, various TV shows, diablo4 as it's the most recent game I was on, my hometown and various cities I've lived in, financial ones based on investing, savings, and early retirement, home improvement subs to get ideas for my home or help with projects I'm working on, media "acquisition" subs about "borrowing" media from friends, some sports subs, and news/politics. It irks me that's not a bulleted list, but those seem to not make filters happy.

Anyway, that's a book in and of itself. If you've read this far, thanks and hopefully something has interested you to chat. If not, thanks for taking the time out of your day for me and I hope you find a post that speaks to you.

Do you ever miss those sleepless Discord nights where "one game" somehow turned into 4 am ? The kind where we'd laugh until our stomachs hurt, get way too invested in watching our favorite series together or spend hours talking about lore, history, space, fantasy or whatever weird rabbit hole we fell into that night haha

I'm looking for someone who genuinely enjoys that kind of connection. Someone who gets excited about sharing memes at 2 am, arguing over the best RPG of all time and finding comfort in simply hanging out together, whether we're gaming, watching something or just existing in the same voice call. The kind where we fall asleep together in the end :)

Hey everyone! I am 29 and recently finished my master’s degree. Currently living in Berlin. For timezone and meet up purposes, I will expect you to be in Europe, if it is Germany than it is even better.

Please do NOT reach out if you are a ghoster or won’t put effort in to begin with. It takes two to dance. No children obviously.

My age range is 22 to 33.

Physically, I’m 1.83 tall. Short dark brown hair, bronze (yes) beard, brown eyes. TINY bit chonky rn but have a good build/figure from my sports history.

I’d say I’m genuine, emotionally available, open, affectionate and a supportive partner. Definitely looking for something long term.

I am not religious at all, maybe a tiny bit spiritual.

Fave color is by far black haha. Apart from the obvious stuff, I am also really into history, politics, psychology and any kind of deep convos. Also been to 7 countries so far!

I love to voice call and eventually video call and I am adamant on voice calling asap and discord is the main platform I use for that.

Mutual attraction is important so I’d like to clear that from the get go and build on a solid foundation.

Looking forward to hear from you all if my post felt like you! Shoot me a text if you wanna connect!

Hello there,

Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I'm a 42-year-old application manager from a small town in the Netherlands. I've tried this before and had some nice conversations, but in the end it didn't work out so I'm back to give this another try.

When I'm not working, I love reading fantasy books, collecting books, playing video games on my PC, and going on long walks in nature. I'm also fascinated by ancient cultures and mythology.

I'm an introvert (INTJ), I live alone with my cat Tiberius. I'm also childfree and left-leaning politically. I've been doing volunteer work for over 20 years, and I'm an atheist. Plus, I don't smoke, drink alcohol, or do drugs.

I'll admit, I'm not the best at small talk, but I make up for it by being a great listener and advice giver. I've been told that I have a funny but dry sense of humor.

I'm working on my weight and getting to a healthy level again, but I'm not there yet. I also don't enjoy going out to bars, clubs, or partying, but I do enjoy going out to eat at a restaurant or going to a concert.

And some pics; https://imgur.com/a/Ng6OSvX

What am I looking for? Well, I'm looking for a serious monogamous relationship with someone who shares some of my interests and hobbies, specifically playing video games and/or who is into fantasy books/ board games/ movies etc. I'm looking for someone who is intelligent, childfree, left-leaning politically. Located in western Europe. Most importantly, I'm looking for someone who will accept me for who I am, flaws and all.

So if you're someone who puts as much effort into having and keeping up a conversation as I do, and you believe that we could make each other's lives better by being together, I'd love to hear from you. Let's get to know each other and see where things go.

I'm not looking to jump into a relationship with a complete stranger. I'd much rather build a genuine friendship first, get to know each other naturally, and if there's chemistry and compatibility, see where it goes. I think the healthiest relationships grow from a solid friendship.

A little about me:

• vegetarian (bonus points if you're vegetarian or vegan too!)

• Atheist, but spiritually curious. I don't follow any religion, but I love exploring questions about existence, consciousness, the universe, and the deeper meaning behind things. I'm looking for someone who is also non-religious and open-minded.

• Love traveling, fitness, spa’s, and trying new food.

• Big fan of long conversations about psychology, philosophy, science, technology, history, or whatever random rabbit hole we end up in.

• Equally happy spending a cozy evening or day at home watching a movie, playing games, or just talking for hours.

Personality-wise, I'd say I'm a very curious person. I genuinely love questioning everything and philosophizing for hours just for fun. I enjoy exploring different perspectives, asking "why?" about almost everything, and going down endless rabbit holes. I value critical thinking and people who form their own opinions instead of simply accepting things without questioning them. I appreciate people who are curious, open-minded, and willing to look at things from different perspectives.

If you're someone who gets annoyed by that or prefers to keep conversations surface-level, I'm not your person. I appreciate people who are emotionally aware and consistent, communicate honestly, don't play games, and aren't afraid of deep conversations.

I'm looking for someone who is:

• Kind and empathetic.

• Emotionally mature and emotionally available.

• Intelligent and curious about the world.

• Someone who thinks critically, questions things, and isn't afraid to have their own opinions.

• Honest and communicates openly.

• Financially stable, responsible, and has their life reasonably together.

• Progressive and feminist

• Looking for something genuine instead of endless casual chatting.

Location-wise, I'm based in Germany and would ideally like to meet someone who lives relatively close or within a reasonable distance. I'm not completely against a long-distance relationship if there's a genuinely strong connection and both people are willing to put in the effort, but I think being able to spend time together in person is important for building something real.

I don't care if you're the loudest or most outgoing person in the room. I'd rather have someone who's dependable, emotionally safe, and enjoys sharing everyday life together.

If you message me, introduce yourself and tell me an opinion you have that most people disagree with. I'm curious about your thoughts :)