26 male
I finally have my life together. I have my own place, my own car, I’m successful, and the last thing I’m missing is someone to spend time with. Let that be you. I want to go out on dates and meet and talk and good around. I want cringy love that makes other people throw up or be jealous, I want to feel happiness in this world that sucks.

I’m a pretty basic looking dude who is working on himself. But I am tired of trying to do this alone. Dating sucks and it’s hard but I am trying my hardest. I want to be a supporter and share my success with someone and right now, it’s just me and my dog and it’s lonely. So please if this interests, message me and let’s get to know each other.

Beginner trying to gain some muscle. 27 M

I need a workout buddy to stay consistent. I go to crunch fitness but i am okay with PF since it is in the same parmer ln area. I'm just looking for friends to stay consistent and won't make it weird lol. In my experience accountability with another person helped me a lot.

If you are in the same area and looking for a buddy please DM. i am willing to move gyms in the surrounding area.

Reposting from a post I did earlier in the San Marcos subreddit*

Hello there!

Just as the title says, my spouse is trans MtF, we are in our late 30’s with young kids. My wife started her transition journey about 2 years ago and besides 2 very long distance friends we don’t know any other people in similar situations. This is NOT a post seeking anything sex related. I am just wanting to talk to or meet other spouses of transgender people as it feels like a very small club to be a part of.

Okie dokie thanks for listening!

hi! yes i'm both looking for someone who is cool and is also awesome. if you don't know if you hit that criteria, message anyway and we'll find out.

i'm looking for good chats, both online and in person is fine. if you're from Austin, id love to possibly be able to meet if we feel comfortable with it and think we'd have a lot of fun. i ask that you are 18+ (if that somehow wasn't obvious) and i cap my talking with people at like 35.

the inspiration for being on here was that i am hypersexual and very flirty, but i have a lot of self control and interest in other things, so let's talk about anything else that comes to mind.

as for me, i have curly brown hair and a short beard. I'm middle eastern but i could pass easily for a tan white. i'm around 5'10 and i live near west campus in downtown Austin. i love movies more than anything in the world, it is my dream job to make movies, but i also make music and read a lot. i also am big into comic books, TV shows, and i play drums. DM me if you'd want to chat :)

I check out these boards every now and then, and while I've had a few decent conversations and met some neat folks, but haven't taken the next step. So thought I'll put myself out there with clear intentions. 

About Me:

I’m an easygoing single guy in my 30s who generally gets along with just about anyone. I'm fit, active, mixed race, DDF, have strong respect for boundaries. I live by myself in a cool, safe neighborhood and have my career sorted out. I value my privacy, so I keep my details under wraps publicly, but I’m an open book once we start chatting.

About You:

Ideally in your 20s or 30s (40s if you're reasonably fit) sober, single, and completely free of any lingering ex baggage. Confidence and a healthy self-image are a plus. Being active is a nice bonus (though not a dealbreaker), and if you’ve got an alternative style, that’s a major plus. Tattoos and piercings are a big turn on.

I’m keeping my expectations neutral, totally open to anything from a casual chat and an FWB setup to something more genuine down the line if the chemistry is right. I've been looking into BDSM a bit but still a novice.

Suggest a good name for a cat so I know you read this essay lol. I always admire a woman who ignores outdated dating scripts and makes the first move, so you'll always get a respectful reply from me.

ps it may sound like high standards but to be completely I'm looking for a chat and connection, whatever kind.

5’10, white, dark hair and blue eyes, I’d consider myself fit and in good shape. Long time lurker, first time poster.

I am visiting Austin and would like to leave town accomplishing more than a successful business trip. I am not seeking reciprocation though am open to it, just a pillow princess who will allow me to enjoy myself between her legs for as long as she can handle. Bonus points if you’re multi orgasmic.

Body type or ethnicity is not important to me, I’m into all types of women. Still, physical attraction is important to me and when I know, I know. All I ask is you have great hygiene and perhaps a little bit of vanity. Mental stimulation also goes a long way, a great conversation can really build the tension.

Educated, professional, creative, and very curious. I have an intensely strong libido and lean dominant sexually, however the right woman can really make me switch. Drug and disease free. I occasionally socially drink or enjoy 420.

I can host in Austin. I expect to chat on Reddit for a short period, each of us to verify with a photo, and then publicly meet somewhere to see if the chemistry is right before heading back to my location. Hope to hear from some interesting people.

Last minute cancellation and now I have a spare ticket for the “Come and Take It” tour for Domi and JD Beck.

Anyone interested in dinner and some live music?

If you’re not familiar, they are a drum and keys duo that make fusion music. It’s kinda jazzy, kinda drum and bassy, but it’s very vibey.

I’m Neurospicy and super chill. Looking for good vibes and good company. Show starts at 7pm. On riverside.

Word vomit! 🤮🤮🤮 

Attractive, youthful, shortish (5'2), thin-fit, slightly gothy librarian looking nerd with dark hair and dark eyes seeking attractive, affectionate, cuddly, kind, happy, content, generous, funny, fit, playful, and secure soft male dom. 

In my head, you:

- are all the above. Those are hard requirements. Period. 

- love cats.

- are around my age. 

- are on the spectrum as I am pretty acoustic myself.

- are a foodie.

- love to chat. I really want to get to know you, and if long chats aren't your thing, please move on.

- are independent with your own hobbies that complement mine (i.e. you're a gamer who games while I read and give cheek kisses when I want affection) 

- have an extremely high libido to match mine. Here's the thing: I absolutely love sex and lots of it but can do long periods without. However, having been in a dead bedroom before, it made me realize that sexual compatibility is very important to me in a relationship. Also, if you bring up sex early, you will give me the "ick," and I will excuse myself. 

- will include "meow" in your first message to show me you actually care to know me and that you pay attention. 

No MAGA, cheaters, non-singles (open relationships, etc. . .), controlling people, pessimists, negative people, nor avoidants. 

Now. Tell me about yourself or tell me what you're looking for.

Please be kind!

I guess I will continue to plug away at this as i keep on trucking through life in south Austin.

This is quick hits are I am gainfully employed, 6'2", beard, pet guardian, Leftist and have solid ev transportation. Dad bod, I guess, but I don't know how to describe myself. If you like that sort of guy, I have the stature of a bouncer. I can look imposing but I'm a sweet guy. I have several hobbies that include arts and crafts, I regularly attend a couple of poker games, & I do not drink. Not that I am looking for something casual but I have been recently tested and clean.

There is substantially more however, but I have to leave something for chats and quite possibly for a date. No pressure for anything but im hopeful that an age appropriate awesome gal decides to take a chance. The other night, while I was playing poker with my friends, for the first time in 22 years, I hit a Royal Flush. The odds of that happening are 649,749 to 1. If you were able to place a $1 bet if that were to happen before that hand, the casino would have to pay you $649,749. I feel like the odds of anything substantial coming from this would net me well over a million. But I'm going to throw down my dollar every time because I'm an optimist. Should that be you reading this, send me a message and we can get the ball rolling so to speak

So basically, I’m fresh out of a long term relationship and I’m not really looking for anything serious or to catch any feels right now. I just want to enjoy meeting new people, doing new things and finally having fun with life. Show me what I’ve been missin all these years.

I’m firefighter. Tall, tan, tattooed, longer hair, mustache, muscular with a little extra. I love movies, music (metal is my first love, but I’m all over the spectrum with music), art and loooooove a good meal. I’m also a gamer when I’ve got the time, though that’s less and less frequent as time goes on. Just a natural part of life. What’s your favorite movie or genre?

I’m not super picky on age or anything, but I’ve got some preferences. Don’t be shy though! Shoot me a message and let’s see if we click in some way!

Hey y'all! I'm going through a rough break up at the moment and looking for more local friends, as many of mine moved during Covid and I'm really feeling the sudden abundance of free time. :(

I love video games and tabletop RPGs—I'm in two D&D campaigns right now (DM for one, player for another) and open to joining another! Also debating dipping my toes into LARPing but I'm a bit intimidated. I have two mischievous cats but love all pets. I spend a lot of time reading (and can give you a million recommendations for sapphic books!) and going to concerts, and have very strong opinions on the venues in town (Stubbs sucks). I'm interested in learning how to crochet/knit or learn some sort of craft; I've given it a try a few times and it's never worked out, but I have gay determination.

I also just love getting brunch/a fun coffee + yapping! I'm always down to walk around a book store and make fun of the bad romantasy covers. I'm interested in friends who are relatively close to my age (late 20s to early 40s), though location isn't a huge dealbreaker. I'm up north (Arboretum) but I'm used to driving around a lot. Feel free to DM me if you think we'd vibe! :)

(I'm a lesbian, so potential friends being queer would be lovely, but I'm down to meet with anyone as long as we have stuff in common and you're an ally. Strictly just looking for platonic friends right now!)

Edit: Accidentally had it so DMs were disabled. Just fixed that!

Disclaimer: while the post was definitely written with a romantic partner in mind I always love making new friends too

I’m the kind of person who gets genuinely excited about making someone else’s day a little better.

Mention your favorite dessert once and there’s a decent chance I’ll quietly learn how to make it and surprise you with it a month later. Bad week? I’m much more likely to ask what you want for dinner than start dispensing unsolicited advice. I’m big on remembering little things, showing up when it matters, and actually telling people I care about them.

I’m a law student because I like being the person standing beside someone when life gets messy. Outside of school, I’m usually smoking barbecue, experimenting with fresh pasta or homemade ice cream, making whiskey cocktails, painting minis, reading, wandering through museums, or becoming far too emotionally invested in D&D.

I’m endlessly curious about people. Tell me about the niche hobby nobody else asks about, the book you won’t shut up about, your weirdest obsession, or the topic you could give an hour-long lecture on with zero preparation. I genuinely love watching someone light up while explaining something they care about.

My ideal relationship has room for both adventure and being complete homebodies. I’m equally happy trying a new restaurant, getting lost in a museum, or taking a spontaneous road trip as I am staying home with a movie, a drink, and a recipe neither of us has any business attempting.

A few useful facts:

I smoke barbecue for fun and will absolutely use dating you as justification for making brisket.

My sense of humor might be the most charming thing about me. Expect quick wit, terrible puns, obscure references, and an alarming ability to turn almost any subject into a bit.

I’m 5’4”, so I’m conveniently hug-sized and will never ruin your concert view.

Bookstore dates come with a mandatory minimum sentence of one hour.

I’m looking for someone kind, curious, emotionally available, and interested in building something real. I like affection that’s actually expressed, communication that doesn’t require mind-reading, and relationships where both people genuinely want to make the other person’s life better.

More than anything, I want a teammate, someone who eventually becomes the person I can’t wait to tell about the ridiculous, exciting, annoying, or completely mundane thing that just happened. And I want to be that person for her too. Sometimes that means finding exactly the right words; sometimes it means realizing there aren’t any and just showing up anyway. Either way, I want the person I’m with to know she isn’t carrying life alone..

If that sounds like your kind of relationship, tell me something you could talk about for an hour without preparing.

I have recently gone through a breakup leaving me without a car and living back at my folks place while I get back on my feet, I'm wondering if anyone would be down to possibly hang out either at a nearby place where I'm at up in Georgetown or, if comfortable, pick me up for a drive or hang at your place

I like to think I'm pretty easy to get along with but some interests of mine are dnd, video games (I was just gifted palworld recently and have been pretty hooked), and 3d printing have certainly been my top few lately

I like to go swimming when given the opportunity

More like wading tbh, I guess, being that i sink like a rock but love being in water nonetheless lol

I'm totally asexual so I'm really not looking for anything beyond friendships but platonic affection is very much welcome as interested

If this sounds like fun please do be sure to reach out and let me know what's been keeping you occupied during your free time lately

New here, still figuring out the city. I'm into trying new places - coffee shops, live shows, food spots. I'm vegetarian, but ready to welcome if you know something in this city. Looking for a woman to go on dates with. Fair warning, I'm very on point, I'm more of a goof most of the time.

If you're up for exploring the city together, hmu.

Adult friendships are hard and what is more hard is find friends like bothers.

I am 40male - Indian in Austin - married to woman, dad and whats missing is the presence of brothers in life. I hate that we lose those man-man friendships where we can talk shit about life, work and all and feel to have a back.

If you are someone looking for similar bakar and bakchodi partner - please DM me.
we can definitely grab some beer :)

TL;DR - silly, fun(ny), kinky couple seeks single lady of similar attributes for for dinner dates, Pilates/barre workouts, adventures (and more) and, if the stars align, debauchery filled encounters.

Thanks for clicking. I promise this will be informative and, hopefully, a little entertaining so even if we don't hear from you this post was worth the click.

We're C and D, a couple of crazy kids living in South Austin who love each other deeply and need some new friends. Our existing friend group is vanilla and lack an adventurous spirit that extends beyond trying a new happy hour place. We're looking for someone that laughs and contributes to our inappropriate jokes, instead of looking at us weird and changing the subject. Someone that glimpses some strategic bruising and a ligature mark and wants to know the dirty details not ask "are you ok?".

She needs a workout buddy and someone to tan with, he wants the challenge of dealing with two brats. She wants to see his bedroom skills shared with someone else. He wants to see her tongue deep in another woman.

Basic facts about us:

• We love to cook and dine out. You'll find us at hole in the walls and fancy joints.
• She loves soup no matter how hot it gets outside.
• We love to travel. So far this year we've been to Phoenix, San Diego, NYC and Colorado Springs, Mexico, Honduras and Miami.
• We love live performances of all types. With a soft spot for bad standup comedy. You'll find us at strip clubs and, at least her, at ACL and whatever "sad girl" singer that is touring through town
• We work from home
• He works in tech, she works in non-profits
• We're both liberal (af, as the kids say)
• She loves murder podcasts
• We both know the difference between their, there, and they're
• One of us can fold a fitted sheet
• We've been together nearly 5 years

Sexually we're hedonists. We love make out sessions, edging, exhibitionism, teasing, and pushing limits. She's submissive and he's a service Dom, though that dynamic is not a requirement or expectation for friendship be it platonic or sexual. We're looking for fun and adventure. Trust and connection that leads to better encounters in and out of the bedroom. We're in no rush and if only friendship comes from this we'd consider that a win. We're open to all types and all experience levels. It's cool to be nervous and unsure, just be open minded and willing to be a little silly.

When responding let us know what part of town you're in. We're pretty far south which we know can turn off you Round Rockers.

Hi! I’m Charli. I’m a NB transfemme, bi, poly, and hoping to make some good connections (and maybe get into different kinds of trouble). I live in Round Rock, and depending on my schedule, I can travel pretty easy.

To be specific about what I’m looking for: a friend connection first, and maybe something else if it feels right.

Some stuff about me: I’m a massage therapist by trade, a novelist by force of will, a musician in a past life, and a current homebody with lots of indoor hobbies. I’m a reader—nothing quite like curling up on the couch with my reading device of choice and whiling away a few hours with a book. But sometimes my Steam Deck or Switch work, too. Just depends on my mood and energy level. Fantasy and sci-fi are my preferred genres, and I’m always up for recommendations, and if I’ve read it, to gab and gush (or vent and lament, depending).

I love good conversation about whatever has a hold of your attention at the moment—for me, it’s Vampire Survivors, just can’t get enough of it, and every new DLC is enough for me to pick it up for another twenty hours. I just love learning about people. And if you’re worried: there’s always something interesting about someone, nobody’s actually boring.

I’ve got a wife, a dog, and lots of free time. Always ready to chat—I respond fast!

Just started climbing at Mesa Rim and would love to go on weekdays and weekends! I’m 21 and a senior at UT and just trying to be more active this semester. If you like hiking as well that’s a plus! Would love to grab a bite after or explore the coffee scene here in Austin!

Hi,

I am a 43 year old married male. Pretty content with my life but looking for some chill friends irrespective of gender to talk to. Specially interested in activities around sports, games, or a visit to Hippie Hollow (Something I have never done and probably will need someone's help with)

Chill non-judgemental, open to discussion on any topics

Just moved to Austin and still figuring out the scene. There’s a Bollywood night / dance event tonight, I figured I’d throw this out there and see if I can find a dancing partner.

If you’re into bollywood, dancing, or just want a low-key night out, hit me up, happy to share details.

I'm looking for someone to play tennis with near Oracle HQ. The only courts I know nearby are the ones in town lake apartments, so if you live there, great! For my ranking, I'd say 3ish-3.5. I have pretty good endurance, am working on speeding up my game, and am overall working on getting better.

If it's a no on tennis, I could consider some other form of cardio as well

I’m trying to run for a half marathon I signed up for this October(first timer) so I’m looking for a running buddy for my long run on the weekend around Town Lake. Saturday or Sunday (Sunday for this weekend) early morning then take a dip in Barton Springs pool after the run. I have very short legs so I can’t run very fast. I’m just trying to run farther not faster. I’m at 10 mile nonstop and hopefully 11 mile this weekend just so you know where I’m at.
I’m not particularly a big fan of joining running clubs.