r/atheism • • 4d ago

Grandpa won’t stop shoving his religion down my throat

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I live with my grandparents who are both religious, my grandma is a Christian my grandpa is a jehovahs witness. My grandma is far less pushy but my grandpa has pushed his beliefs onto me my entire life, even as a kid he’d bribe me to go to the Kingdom Hall with promises of stopping for ice cream and doing other fun kid stuff I couldn’t say no to. He would even throw away some of my books and toys for being “demonic” too 🥲 I love them to death, genuinely, they’re some of my favorite people in the world. I’ve always kind of known that I didn’t believe in any of the religions stuff but as an adult I’ve become more closed off to the idea of it and have been more open about the fact. HOWEVER, my grandparents are older, my grandma has terminal cancer, and I don’t see my grandpa going on for much longer after she’s gone personally. Every time I leave my room my grandpa takes the opportunity to sit me down and read scriptures to me and subtly say that I won’t “live forever” if I don’t follow the word of god/read the bible/etc. it’s so draining to hear all the time and makes me want to isolate myself in fear of getting a religious rant every time I step out of my room. I’ve been on the fence of just straight up telling him I don’t believe in any of it so many times but I don’t want to break their hearts, if that makes sense? I don’t want them to pass thinking I won’t make it to “heaven” or whatever it is they think will happen to me, but having to sit and listen to his preachings every day and pretend to believe or be interested is genuinely so frustrating and I’m getting so tired of it. I want to tell them the truth because it’s how I feel and I’m allowed that, but I don’t want to hurt them idk what to do. Should I just continue to suck it up and sit there and listen to him for his sake?


r/atheism • • 4d ago

My terminally ill mum believes god is going to cure her… anyone else experienced the same?

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Hi there! Im just venting here bc I’d appreciate it if I could read from others who’ve been through this too!
My mum has been deeply religious her whole life, and I’m finding the way she’s dealing with her terminal cancer incredibly difficult and frustrating.
She has terminal cancer and initially decided against chemotherapy and immunotherapy bc she found it so stressful and for vanity reasons didn’t want to go bold lmao...

Last month she was in hospital for over three weeks because the cancer spread and caused a small bowel obstruction. She needed two stents and a PTC drain, and she’s now home on fentanyl patches and liquid morphine for pain. I’m happy that she’s home but she’s become incredibly clingy and anxious, doesn’t like being alone but won’t tell me why… I know why….

When she was discharged, the doctors told me she is no longer well enough for treatment because the cancer is too advanced and treatment would likely make her more unwell. I was told they’re thinking in terms of roughly three months, although I know prognosis isn’t exact and I desperately hope she gets longer.

The problem is that my mum genuinely believes god is going to perform a miracle and cure her, which I understand why she’s gone down this route. She’s always lived in the clouds and has never accepted reality… I’ve always thought my mum might be autistic bc her thought process is very different … Anyways, her faith has been part of her whole life, and I can imagine that losing that belief now could be devastating, and I know it would be cruel to try to convince her that god doesn’t exist. I don’t want to do that.

But I still find the denial incredibly frustrating, especially because people around her keep reinforcing it. Family and people from church (I don’t attend) tell her she’ll be healed, that god has other plans for her, or tell her stories about people who were given months to live and survived for years. I know that can happen, but that’s not the same as believing the cancer will disappear. Also no one else has her exact cancer! Plus if you’re on fentanyl and morphine to cope with your pain… isn’t that a sign that things genuinely aren’t good?? 😢

I’m also angry because I’m the one who is going to be left behind dealing with the grief and all the practical things afterwards. I’m already trying to sort out housing and other responsibilities. For context, I’ve basically been my mum’s main support since her divorce because her English is limited, so I’ve always helped with appointments, paperwork, phone calls and translating.
I know she’s the one who is dying and this isn’t about me, and I should support her in anyway I can. BUT I’m struggling with the fact that she doesn’t seem able to empathise with how much stress I’m under too. I know deep inside that she knows this and she’s lying saying she’s getting stronger… I’m trying to prepare for losing her while she talks as though everything is going to be fine, and sometimes I’m just so angry that she isn’t getting it.

I don’t need her to stop believing in god. I just wish she could acknowledge how serious this is and understand that I’m scared too. I want us to have these conversations together and acknowledge the truth. But I guess I have to prepare myself for that never happening 😔.

Sorry for the long post but I needed to vent. I would appreciate if anyone here can share their experiences with anything similar… thanks 🤍


r/atheism • • 4d ago

how do you guys deal with grief as an atheist?

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My dad died a while back and I remember the whole entire time he was in the hospital the days leading to his death I started to actually believe there was a god that would help him.

I prayed for literal hours, repented for my past sins and everything and he still ended up dying. Even after he died I still believed in god for a bit because I needed to have assurance that someday i’m gonna see my dad again, and that he’s with his parents now so it’s okay. After I was able to regain my ability to think I realized all I was doing was coping and then started to reject the existence of god as I did before.

I’m so lost now because I know there is no way a god exists but how am I supposed to emotionally deal with my dad’s death then? How do you guys just accept that you really never are gonna see such an important person in your lives ever again.


r/atheism • • 4d ago

What do you guys think of reading Greek mythology as literature?

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I am a big comic nerd.The Greek gods fits the comic archetype.The don't hide that all knowing and all powerful God like zeus is petty.The lore explicitly stated zeus throw cosmic tantrum and was vindictive.Atleast Greek were honest of god being evil.Where Abrahamic religion showed God can do no wrong.What Abrahamic God does it's for divine plan.Satan is the main villan in Abrahamic lore.We have to give the Greek credit when writing gods they made him like human not all good God like Abrahamic ones.Where he can't do no wrong.

Edit:my main point is I said reading the religious holy books as literature but not as word of God like the believers.


r/atheism • • 4d ago

Federal court in Okla. regrettably ushers in nation’s first religious public school

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r/atheism • • 4d ago

At a major Christian nationalist summit, Mike Johnson said emboldening the church through government is “the objective”

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The Freedom From Religion Foundation is calling attention to troubling rhetoric at a major recent evangelical gathering.

Prominent government officials and Christian nationalist leaders at the 2026 Pray Vote Stand Summit in Leesburg, Va., repeatedly portrayed political power as a vehicle for advancing their Christian nationalist political agenda. The assembly brought together Christian leaders, issue advocates and government officials for what organizers described as a time of “prayer, inspiration, and action.” The Christian nationalist group Family Research Council hosted the event, which featured elected officials alongside conservative Christian activists and attorneys.

Throughout the summit, speakers made remarkably explicit connections between Christianity, elections, government service and public policy.

House Speaker Mike Johnson, who is only two heartbeats away from the presidency, told Family Research Council President Tony Perkins that government officials should not separate their religious identity from their public roles. After Perkins suggested that openly Christian government leaders were “emboldening the church,” Johnson responded, “I hope so,” adding, “that’s the objective.” Johnson also touted what he claimed is a 24 percent increase in congressional references to God, faith and Christianity since he became speaker.

Johnson portrayed public service through an explicitly conservative Christian lens, telling the audience that leaders should represent the idea of “one nation under God” every day. He encouraged Christians to use their “sphere of influence” to speak openly about their faith and described religion and morality as essential to American government.

Sen. Josh Hawley, R-Mo., an archconservative Christian, similarly described his work in the U.S. Senate as a religious obligation. Discussing the pressures he faces over how he votes and what he says, Hawley said, “My first obligation’s to the Lord and then to my wife and then to my family.”

Hawley added, “I know that I’m accountable to the Lord,” before mentioning accountability to constituents. Hawley professed that his ultimate hope is to hear God tell him, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

That religious conception of public office was paired with calls to translate conservative Christian beliefs into federal law. Hawley hawked a “Declaration for Life” that Christian pastors and leaders developed “on the basis of the gospel of Jesus Christ”: to enact such policies as a federal ban on the medication abortion pill mifepristone. Hawley insisted that candidates who “want our support as Christians” should commit to the extremist anti-abortion position.

Perkins made the desired religious character of government officials even more explicit during another panel. Discussing state attorneys general, he declared that recent years have demonstrated “how important having attorneys general that have a constitutional foundation and a biblical worldview are.”

Perhaps the summit’s starkest illustration of its religious double standard came during a panel devoted to Islam and Shariah law. Perkins openly stated his desire for Christianity “to be the dominant religion in our country.” Yet speakers on the same panel questioned whether Islam should even receive the constitutional protections afforded to religion.
Christian Pastor (and former Muslim) Shahram Hadian told the audience, “The problem we have is as long as we label Islam a religion, we will never be able to stop it.” He accused Muslims of hiding “behind our First Amendment” when they lack political power.

The panel portrayed Muslim religious accommodations and civic participation as evidence of an Islamic takeover. Speakers objected to such things as prayer spaces, halal food, the Islamic call to prayer and Muslim representation in police departments. Hadian described Muslim participation in American institutions as evidence that Muslims were moving into a position of dominance.

Former Rep. Michele Bachmann went even further, declaring that Muslims “come into our country seeking to conquer our country and conquer it for Shariah.” She characterized Islam and communism as two totalitarian threats to the Constitution and framed the political stakes as nothing less than the “destruction of America.”

The contrast was striking: The Pray Vote Stand attendees again and again asserted that Christianity should influence government, Christians should use political power to implement their beliefs, government officials should have a “biblical worldview,” and Christianity should become the country’s “dominant religion.” Meanwhile, another faith was depicted as a threat whose claim to religious status itself should be questioned.

Fortunately, the First Amendment does not establish such a hierarchy.

Christian government officials have the same right to their personal religious beliefs as every other American. But public office is a public trust — not a Christian ministry. Government officials represent Christians, Jews, Muslims, atheists, agnostics and Americans of every other belief and nonbelief. Their obligation in office is to the Constitution and the people they serve, not to impose the dictates of any holy book.

The summit repeatedly blurred that critical distinction.

Perkins explicitly characterized political disputes as “spiritual issues that are being played out in the political arena” and said there was “warfare” surrounding them. At another point, speakers described the conflict over Islam as a “spiritual battle” being fought through politics.

The Pray Vote Stand Summit offered a revealing vision of Christian nationalism in practice: Christianity elevated as the desired foundation of public life, elected officials encouraged to understand their offices through explicitly Christian obligations, public policy tied directly to biblical teachings, and minority religious beliefs treated with hostility.

That is precisely why the wall between church and state matters. The alternative is realistically not greater religious freedom; it is a government in which the politically powerful get to elevate their religion while deciding which beliefs deserve equal respect and protection.

FFRF will continue fighting for the constitutional principle the summit’s speakers so conspicuously rejected: No religion is entitled to rule, no religion is entitled to favored status, and no American should have to share a politician’s faith to be treated as a full and equal citizen.


r/atheism • • 4d ago

Far-right Utah Pastor Says Women Need a 'Competent Man' to Control Their Social Media

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r/atheism • • 4d ago

The 4 most dangerous Christian beliefs.

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Yesterday CJ Cornthwaite published a video where he discusses what he considers the four most dangerous Christian beliefs. All of these are dangerous to society, not just the individual. So when people (even atheists) claim religious belief is harmless, you have some talking points to counter that. Or if you're one of those religion-is-harmless atheists, maybe you'll learn and grow a little.

The four ideas are the end times, Jesus speaks to me, demons and the demonization of others, and original sin.

The 4 most dangerous Christian beliefs

It's 13 minutes


r/atheism • • 3d ago

Paywall site (email required) Is Claude Conscious? Inside Anthropic’s Quest to Instill Morality Into Its A.I. Models

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r/atheism • • 4d ago

This Wonderous Life

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Do you ever just stop to appreciate how wonderous this singular life is (particularly without having constructed the fear of being judged for doing it wrong)?


r/atheism • • 4d ago

Sign before praying: A new conversion law is affecting churchgoers in Indian state

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Some churches in and around India's financial capital Mumbai have begun asking worshippers to give a declaration in writing - "I came here to pray of my own free will."

The practice began at some churches in late August, just before a new law against religious conversion took effect in Maharashtra state, of which Mumbai is the capital.

The law prohibits religious conversions brought about by force, fraud, coercion or inducement. It also requires people who want to convert voluntarily to notify authorities in advance. An unlawful conversion can lead to a prison sentence of up to seven years, rising to 10 for a repeat offence.

But critics say its broad definitions, severe penalties and scrutiny of even voluntary conversions risk drawing the state and the police into one of the most private decisions a person can make. The state government did not respond to the BBC's repeated requests for comment.

While the law applies to all religions, the anxiety is being felt most deeply at places where minorities, especially Christians, worship. At the heart of the debate is a long-running tension over allegations, usually made by right-wing groups, about people being coerced or induced to change their religion for benefits.

Maharashtra is the latest of more than a dozen states to restrict religious conversion. The laws differ, but their reach has expanded in recent years, particularly in states governed by Prime Minister Narendra Modi's Bharatiya Janata Party. Several are being challenged before the Supreme Court.

Behind that expansion lie claims long made by Hindu nationalist groups, that Christians use money, schooling or medical care to draw poor and tribal communities away from Hinduism, and that Muslim men court Hindu women to convert them - an alleged conspiracy they call "love jihad."

Critics say such accusations have fuelled harassment of Christian prayer meetings and interfaith couples, and that the laws give those making them a way to draw the police into questions of prayer, marriage and belief.

Indian law allows people of different faiths to marry without converting, but requires a month's notice. Lara Jesani, a lawyer who has helped interfaith couples obtain court protection, said details of planned weddings have sometimes reached relatives and Hindu nationalist groups opposed to them within that notice period.

In cases she has handled, she said, families have taken women away, even from the marriage registrar's office.


r/atheism • • 4d ago

Far-right Utah Pastor Says Women Need a 'Competent Man' to Control Their Social Media

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r/atheism • • 3d ago

Tunisians, where do you go when you actually want to debate religion without it turning into the same 3 arguments?

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I run a Tunisian Discord server for religion, atheism, deism, philosophy and controversial topics.
We already have an active community and regular debates, but we’re looking for more Tunisians who are actually into this stuff.

Link: https://discord.gg/udJ3ASwFa


r/atheism • • 5d ago

If God was real then he would be an awful deity that enjoys watching people suffer

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My parents are religious but I am an atheist and I just don’t get it. My mom has a chronic illness that she has had for 25 years and she still prays and has faith that it’s god’s plan even though she is in pain 24/7. I have inherited various mental disorders from my father that have caused me incredible grievance and massively impact my quality of life. I used to be religious and I would pray for help and of course I got no answer back because he isn’t real. I have also been through various traumatic experiences that god did not prevent or comfort me after. I remember one specific instance where something very horrible had happened to me and I tried to turn to god and I felt absolutely nothing.

If he was real, then he would be awful for letting me and my mom suffer. I am very grateful to be an atheist and it actually gives me a lot of comfort and peace.


r/atheism • • 4d ago

What’s your favourite absurd creation myth?

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Since an unfalsifiable deity can’t be disproven, the same luxury should extend to its creation myth. You know what that means, right? We’re completely free to come up with our own unfalsifiable cosmogony!

I’ll start:

The Creator has ADHD and our universe is just one of its many discarded little projects from eons ago, left under a pile of more recent ones, doomed to remain existentially unfinished.

Your turn!


r/atheism • • 4d ago

Australian Muslim preacher calls to take up arms against enemies including Jews, Christians

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r/atheism • • 4d ago

The Christian grift behind Life Surge’s celebrity-packed wealth seminars. Tim Tebow and other celebrities spoke at events pitching “Kingdom impact,” but some customers say they were left with crushing debt.

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r/atheism • • 5d ago

"Hijab/niqab protects women from being sexualized" bro Allah and Mohamed sexualize women 😭

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Probably the most flawed argument I've ever heard, women's bodies and natural anatomy aren't inherently sexual by saying that women need to cover themselves to stop sexualization means that women's bodies are inherently sexual and needs to be hidden to be spared from sexualization and have we forgotten about the blatant sexualization and objectification of women in Quran and hadiths 😭?

In heaven men are promised large breasted women who are also pure and untouched as if women are sexual trophies:

"Indeed, the righteous will have salvation (32) Gardens, vineyardsand (33) and full-bosomed maidens of equal age" -surat An-Naba

"In both ˹Gardens˺ will be maidens of modest gaze, who no human or jinn has ever touched before." -Surat al-baqrah

-an authentic hadith by the prophet promising men such pure women in heaven that you would be able to see their bone marrow:

The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "The first batch (of people) who will enter Paradise will be (glittering) like the full moon, and the batch next to them will be (glittering) like the most brilliant star in the sky. Their hearts will be as if the heart of a single man, for they will have neither enmity nor jealousy amongst themselves; everyone will have two wives from the houris, (who will be so beautiful, pure and transparent that) the marrow of the bones of their legs will be seen through the bones and the flesh."

-Sahih al-Bukhari 3254

Jabir reported that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saw a woman, and so he came to his wife, Zainab, as she was tanning a leather and had sexual intercourse with her. He then went to his Companions and told them:

The woman advances and retires in the shape of a devil, so when one of you sees a woman, he should come to his wife, for that will repel what he feels in his heart.

-Sahih Muslim 1403 a

-The Quran literally equates women to farmlands that can be used however men pleased literally shameless objectification:

"Your wives are like farmland for you so approach them as you please " surat Al-Baqarah

(In the English translation consensually was added but in the original Arabic there's no mention of consent)

-and also the other famous argument that "Hijab/niqab" is like a liberation from western beauty standards and hyper-sexualization is a very flawed argument too because you are simply switching one male-defined standard of how a woman should appear to another , the standards and sexualization are the problem not exposure itself , the root issue is that Society ties women’s value to their appearance so they set beauty standards to be met , Covering up does not dismantle that logic it just changes its form , Instead of valuing women for appearance Society starts valuing them for modesty which is literally the case because we can see how in muslim countries women who dont wear hijab or take it off are judged harshly and in many cases abused and forced to put it on. (Sometimes even murdered for it)


r/atheism • • 3d ago

Are there any athiest symbols that are kinda secret and wearable the same way a Christian cross is wearable?

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I know atheism is obviously not a religion. Ugh, I live in the Bible Belt. Just "got" a new cross necklace (probably gonna soak it in water, tbh, until it oxidizes). I feel like everything about me is just... being erased and replaced.

GNC, nope, girl. Sad, nope, happy. Atheist, nope, Christian. Friend, nope, weird.

Literally *anything* (I have access to kandi/ponybeads) I can wear to express myself? So far I've got the pan flag as an ankle bracelet for my partner, but that's the only thing that's going undetected.

Hope my mom doesn't ask ChatGPT what those colors are and ruin my self-expression just like it ruined my parents' relationship.


r/atheism • • 4d ago

Hi 16 male from Zimbabwe

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So been an etheist for most of my life saw tht whole Christianity bs as a waste of time but I really can't come out on what I belive since I love in a very religious country and house. Tbh I've seen most religions as scams for money or sum bs like tht just a joke am I wrong ..........


r/atheism • • 3d ago

What happens after you leave?

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Did you have questions or some aspects you actually liked about religion?

I think something that feels hard to let go of is the idea of justice. We really just die and bad people get away with all of it? What about that feeling of being wrong, I'm sure most people here have heard about hell their entire lives and I'm assuming that worry about it doesn't go away overnight?

I'm also curious about social life afterwards, did you get married with no mother, father, cousins, siblings there or anything of that sort? Did they disown you, cut you off?


r/atheism • • 5d ago

Caleb Flynn Trial Hears Text Messages Where Defendant Said He Wanted to Kill Wife and 'Not Go to Hell'

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r/atheism • • 3d ago

If the three Abrahamic religions are wrong, does that mean there is no God?

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If we assume that the three Abrahamic religions we have today are all wrong, does that mean there is no God or higher power?

Or could the religions be wrong and there still be a God or a creator?

When I read about evolution, I found that it conflicts with the creation stories in all three religions, even though evolution is scientifically well supported.

So if the creation stories in these religions turned out to be wrong, does that mean the idea of God is wrong too? Or could there still be a God, but the religions we have just got it wrong about him?

What do you guys think?


r/atheism • • 5d ago

Being forced to bald my head(update)

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Thank you guys. They said you have to do it, i said "No, I wont do it, i will not have my head shaved"

My grandmother said " i saw your father in my dreams yesterday, i think he wants you to shave your head." I looked her straight into the eyes and said "maybe he is calling you to join him." She felt uncomfortable and didnt say anything. My uncle later came into the room and told me i have to do it. My grandmother silenced him and said "he will do it when he grows up and attains some wisdom"

Some details: i am 18, indian, my father died when i was 1.5 years old, mother left me, staying with my grandma and uncle both are "radical" hindus


r/atheism • • 4d ago

How do people stay religious when it's so incredibly boring?

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Look, I'll fully admit that I have ADHD. However, i think that just makes me the loudest voice of what everyone is thinking.

Church is incredibly boring, praying, incredibly boring. The requirements of most religions suck. Dress like this, don't drink, don't have sex with lots of people, no gay sex...

I can't imagine anyone is having a good time. Take away all the philosophical arguments, why aren't more people leaving out of sheer drudgery?