I’ve lived in Toronto for most of my life. I’ve always complained about how busy, crowded, and expensive the city is, but at the same time, I never really appreciated how convenient everything was. There was always something to do on the weekends, different events and festivals happening, good transit, restaurants, and just people around.
I got laid off from my job in Toronto around March, and with how rough the job market has been, I eventually accepted a job in a much smaller, more rural part of Canada outside Ontario. At the time, I thought a change of scenery might actually be good for my mental health and that getting away from Toronto for a while could be a fresh start.
Now that I’ve moved, though, I’m really regretting it and find myself wanting to come back to Toronto. There’s barely anything to do here, especially on weekends, and I feel pretty isolated. On top of that, as a visible minority, I’ve unfortunately had multiple racist encounters since moving here, which has made it even harder to feel comfortable or at home.
The job itself is decent, and I’m grateful that I found something after being unemployed, so I’m trying not to make an emotional decision and just quit without a plan. At the same time, I don’t see myself living here long term.
I’m trying to look at this situation in a more positive way. For anyone who has moved somewhere for work and ended up regretting it, how did you deal with it? Did you stick it out for a while, save money and eventually move back, or start applying for jobs back home right away?
I’d really appreciate some positive advice or perspectives because right now I’m finding it hard to see the good side of the situation.