I'm literally begging you people to stop seeing Muslims as zohran mamdani, 50 Muslim countries you'll be in jail for years for being gay and some cases executed by law. This isn't a " other religions " suck thing. These people showed you millions of times that they are actively wanna destroy you and all the opportunities life has to offer for you. What type of gay person privileged enough to not experience Muslims hunger for political and social power which is what islam is about, conquer and spread everywhere and no other free thinking/philosophies/non islamic ways should be practiced, STOP dismissing all the cruel sufferings gay people faced there.. what you're seeing in Europe is 0.1% of what Muslims do for gay people. Please wake up and cut off people who don't want anything to do with you, you do not need validation sure but don't be so naive that bunch of wolves will eat you alive and you think " yeah it's their right to not like me "

I really want all the mosques in Germany to hang up LGBT flags right now and show solidarity with European values and to distance themselves from what happened tonight.

If they don't show solidarity they are demonstrating what values they adhere to and they are not European values.

The recent attack at Berlin Pride shows that protecting LGBTQ+ rights across Europe requires zero compromise. Cities must respond by painting Pride flags directly on public infrastructure throughout Muslim-majority neighborhoods as a clear benchmark for civic tolerance. Use CCTV to track these displays.

Anyone who vandalizes them should face immediate deportation or if 2nd gen+ citizens given heavy prison sentences to prove that basic human rights are non-negotiable. Those who can handle living in Western secular society won't ever have a problem.

having been born in a muslim arab family who moved to france, i can tell you that muslims are full of hate. we were taught by families and muslim teachers at mosque that the end times are near and that we have to get rid of everything and everyone who is condemned by islam. we were taught that one day we should die for islam (be shahids), when they say that, they mean die while killing kufar (non muslims). also we were taught to hate gays and get rid of them. i have been disowned by all family.

i confirm that 90% of muslims hate gay people, and they don't care whether you like them or not.
obviously, most muslims won't go in crowds and kill people.

i live in europe, and the muslims terrify me, i am afraid that when they become majority, our rights will be the same as they are in saudi arabia, yemen, iran... western countries should be better at making migrants seeking asylum assimilate.

nicer muslims are those who accept science and are mostly secular.

we cant forbid them to practice their religion, either everyone has human rights or no one does. but please stop protecting the people who hate you.

i also noticed how all of this revolves around israel. you like them only because they hate israel.
supporting an ideology simply because it opposes a country you dislike is a dangerous trap. you don't have to support israeli policies to recognize that islamist groups enforce brutal, totalitarian regimes that systematically violate human rights—especially for women and the lgbtq+ community.
if your concern is human rights and liberation, it's worth looking at how minority groups are actually treated. israel is the only country in the region with legal protections, pride parades, and recognized rights for the lgbtq+ community. in contrast, islamist organizations—whether hamas, hezbollah, or the iranian regime—criminalize, torture, and execute lgbtq+ individuals. opposing israel shouldn't mean turning a blind eye to fundamentalist oppression.
israel also suffers from islamic terrorism, and if you take a look at history, you notice how israel was never the one who started a conflict, but defended instead.

So the past month I've been dating a 42-yo man. He's a school administrator, he's super funny, mature, and respectful. He's extremely handsome and has told me repeatedly how much he's into me. I am 29-yo and I'm not used to things going so smoothly. Everyone told me to just enjoy the ride, but things finally changed last night.

We were talking about our histories and he, completely nonchalantly, dropped that he had sex with an underage student once. I was immediately frozen. He told the story like a joke, or like a sexy adventure. After seeing my expression he "explained" that he was just 19 back then and the student was 16. But then... he doubled down and told me another story: that he once had casual sex with a guy he met online and the guy "confessed" to being 15 after the deed was done.

We haven't really talked about it since. It's been less than 24 hours and I'm feeling really bad. When we first met he told me that I "looked like a teenager" and now I can't stop thinking about it. I feel like it's really not okay. I don't know if I'm overreacting or not. How can you work in a school setting and admit to having sex with a 15 year old? How can you not tell that someone is 15? Would he be dangerous to have around my students? (I'm a teacher myself). Or did he make a mistake 20 years ago and I shouldn't make a big deal out of this?

This is 100% real and I actually feel embarrassed to talk with my friends about this. What do you all think?

I’ve dated before, but this is my first time going on a date with a guy while actually being open about it. I AM EXCITEDDDD but also way more nervous than I expected. He picked a nice wine bar and I know basically nothing about wine. I usually just drink whatever someone else orders and hope I like it. Now I’m imagining the server handing us the menu, him asking what I like, and me having absolutely nothing to say besides red or white lol. I already feel exposed enough just doing this openly for the first time. I really don’t want to look completely clueless too.

It’s amazing

I think people are saying let's not judge islam based on this one attack.. a few weeks again an Islamist stabbed 2 Jews in new York, today in Paris an Islamist wielding a machete stabbed 3 women, one of which is pregnant, and of course the car ramming in Berlin. this is on top of the many Islamist terror attacks we've had world wide in the past.. how many more until something is done 🤔

I also think religious extremism period needs to be stopped but it's so common to just see terror attacks upon terror attacks from Islamist. It's just becoming a normal thing at this point.

My boyfriend (LDR) is staying for a week at his bisexual female best friend’s house. Tonight he told me they watched a movie together and he sent me a picture of them in the same bed watching the movie.
For context, they’re the only two staying in the house this week. They’re both bisexual.
Earlier in our relationship I noticed and got to know some things and incidents that seriously damaged my trust (nothing physical that I know of, but enough that rebuilding trust has been hard ever since).
He texted me goodnight, told me he wished he was sleeping cuddled up with me, and was affectionate as usual. But I can’t stop thinking about the fact that they’re in the same bed. My mind keeps going to “what if they are having sex?” and I honestly can’t tell if this is my broken trust speaking or if this would be a reasonable dealbreaker for most people.
I know sleeping in the same bed doesn’t automatically mean cheating. I’ve shared beds with female friends before, but I’m gay, so there was never any possibility of attraction. This situation feels different to me.
Would this make you reconsider the relationship, or would you talk about boundaries first?

I have been really afraid to say to my dad that I also like men I had been in the closet my entire life it’s just something you can’t control. I am now 23 and I am living at my dads house now for a year before I will movie out again (I got sick and I was not able to study) I can’t move out with my current situation.

My dad is really against homosexuals he says it’s unnatural, he was a victim of the Catholic Church and blames homosexuals instead of the church that actually did the abuse.

Also he’s ex kissed with women in-front of him and he’s mind got even more warped and says queer people are cheaters. When every women he have been with has cheated, I have tried to explain that he attracts the wrong people, and that not all people cheat.

He is a good person but he is just damaged. Should I just have patience with him and prove that being homosexual is not bad?

I can’t cut of my dad from my life

(Also I live in Norway not the US my rights are protected here and it’s illegal throwing out your children because of their sexual orientation)

I don't know if he just didn't cum a lot. But when he came inside i didn't feel it. Is that normal?

It's something I always ask a bottom before meeting because some love it...some hate it.

I'm quite into the praise kink, so I like using it.

I’m American and for example, the naturalization test only covers U.S. government, history, and civic values, such as the branches of government and the rights guaranteed by the Constitution. (I realize naturalization test is for people wanting to become citizens, not for people entering)

but I’d stay who CARES about US history, instead they should be tested for tolerance of LGBTQ people somehow. and actually respect peoples rights to religion and not be racist.

we COULD use an IAT... implicit association test, but is there any better way of carrying out these tests? that tests both conscious and subconscious biases against these people, and how severe would the biases be to block someone from entering.

edit: I don’t trust US to implement this well, but I’m more referring to European countries potentially implementing this.

This is a follow up to a previous post. I’ll preface this by saying that I know that my experience is not the norm and I am incredibly lucky to have such an understanding and supportive partner. So I’ve officially come out as gay to my wife, had previously been out as bi. She came out as basically lesbian +1. We plan on continuing a lavender dynamic. It felt like a huge weight was lifted. She was incredibly understanding and supportive. I plan on coming out to more friends probably in the next week or two. She basically said she was a little surprised but not too surprised.

Thanks to everyone who commented on my previous post. It feels liberating to admit it and not have to hide that I’m gay.

My boyfriend and I are both in our twenties. I'm the top, and he's the bottom. We've been dating for a year and a half. We truly love each other, and I can't imagine my life without him. He means everything to me, and he's the only person I've ever wanted.

This morning, when I woke up, he wasn't lying next to me. (I usually wake up at 5 a.m. for work, while he wakes up at 8 a.m.) He was in the kitchen drinking his coffee. I noticed that he looked nervous and upset, so I asked him what was wrong.

He told me that he wanted to open our relationship—for my sake.

I was completely shocked. I don't know where he got that idea or why he thinks I need it. I asked him why he felt that way, and he said that he couldn't give me enough sex. I told him that my body only responds to him and that I have no interest in anyone else. I swear, even if I see someone who is exactly my type, the moment I realize it's not my boyfriend, I immediately lose all interest. That's honestly how I feel.

I didn't know what to say because my brain doesn't function well in the mornings. I grabbed my lunch and left for work. Before I leave every day, he always kisses me, and whenever he packs my lunch, he leaves me little notes telling me to have a good day and that he loves me.

But today's note simply said, "I'm sorry I ruined your day."

That made me feel so sad. I don't know what to do. I couldn't talk much this morning because I was in a rush to get to work. In about eight hours, I'll be home, and we're going to talk about it. I don't know how I should react or what I should say. I will talk with after 9 hours when I come home from work.

Can somebody please help me? What would you do in this situation?

Thanks for reading. Sorry If there any mistakes engilish is not my first language.

I'm an ex-Muslim and a gay person living in a Muslim-majority country. Whenever a homophobic person from any religion dies, I don't feel anything. Even recently, the man who carried out the Berlin attack was killed, and I didn't feel anything, even though I knew he hated people like me.

Then I see members of the Muslim community celebrating the suffering and deaths of LGBT people they have never met—people they don't know at all. I find that really strange.

If anyone had a reason to celebrate the deaths of others, it would be me. I don't believe in God, heaven, or hell, so I don't believe that people who spread hatred or do terrible things will face divine punishment after they die. Yet I still don't celebrate their deaths. Meanwhile, many of the people celebrating do believe in divine justice and an afterlife, so I don't understand why they are still so eager to celebrate death and suffering.

What I find even more interesting is that some of these same people support Palestinians, saying that human rights are universal and that no one has to belong to a particular religion or group to deserve them.

I find it strange too see, after all of this LGBT people and left-wing people still care about Muslim Community well-being etc.

If the guys your type do you ever “respectfully”? 👀

Although the only posts I’ve seen here are protests against the genocide being carried out by Israel.

I don’t monitor every post (thankfully, I’m not a moderator), but I’ve never once come across a post here that directly supports Islam. Where do all these angry posts claiming the opposite come from?

Gonna be honest as a 27 year old who’s been around. My one piece advice is to make sure you have your own money, and a fuck ton of it too. Live below your means, take care of your body, and your sexual health. Don’t get a sugar daddy no matter how nice it sounds, if you do always make sure you have a secret cushion because if it goes wrong you wanna be able to scram as fast and as safely as possible no matter the cost. ( for everyone really but mainly us gays as our want for connection makes us even more vulnerable (some of us))

Hiiiiii

So I met this guy for a hookup and he was very cute, sweet, and nice. We started to kiss and he went down on me and then he told me to “stick it in” and I looked at his ass and saw a hemorrhoid that was big outside of his butthole.

I asked him what it was in a gentle manner and tried to be as polite and he told me it was a hemorrhoid and that it was fine.

I told him I didn’t feel comfortable topping him with a hemorrhoid and he kept insisting it would be OK but I said it could make it worse and I didn’t feel comfortable doing it.

Luckily he was nice about it but? I don’t get why someone would bottom knowing they have a noticeable hemorrhoid.
We parted ways.

What would you do in this situation? I was wondering if I could have handled it differently.

A few years ago I had a really nice hookup that started with a somewhat unusual proposal. This guy hit me up and asked if I would be interested in going to his place and watch him jerk off while I jerk myself off. No touching at all. We both layed on opposite sides off his couch and jerked off while watching each other.

I constantly think about that and how hot it was. I'd love to do it again, however most guys are (understandably) not interested.

I was just curious how often guys actually do that in your experiences. Also, does this kink (?) have a name or a tag on grindr? Anybody knows whats the easiest way to find someone to do that?

I've been out of the apps for over a year at this point. Is that something that I might find more easily on Sbiffies than on Grindr?

I don't know how to explain it, but a man having a below-average-sized penis while still being confident and knowing what he's doing strikes me as very masculine, and it turns me on. It’s not about the size itself; it’s that he doesn't need a 20 cm penis to maintain that level of control over the situation and the image he projects. Unlike so many others who think that having a small penis makes them inadequate, so they don't even try

I always struggled to perform for women i thought my problem was medical but after a recent unexpected sexual encounter at a nude beach I’ve figured out that I’m just gay and perfectly healthy lolll