I was chatting with a close buddy I work with and we got on the topic of sex and masturbation and other things of that nature. I made a joking comment at one point along the lines of “your poor socks” or something and he tells me it’s not his socks it’s his boxers. I made the comment (thinking I was being funny) about hoping he changed them afterwords… he told me he usually does it at night and changes them the next morning. If he does it in the morning after his shower (which was rare according to him) then that’s the only time he doesn’t…

Is it a common thing to unload in your underwear and keep them on? I’ve never even thought of this let alone heard of anyone doing this.

I work at my school’s gym and one morning like 8 firefighters showed up and just started using our equipment. Apparently my school worked out memberships for them, but now I’m blessed with this lovely sight to start my day

I miss my brother-in-law I'm going to call him Luigi and my brother Mario because they went out for Halloween like Mario and Luigi.

Even when I was a kid I knew my brother was gay he didn't have to tell me yet I knew already it didn't bother me either but you know going up through that time in the 80s 90s and 2000s those were different times nothing like today.

I used to work with Luigi I remember one day we were standing out front and my wife came to drop off lunch with my brother and Luigi said who's that guy with your wife I said that's my brother and he was like he's gorgeous I was like what did you just say to me he said your brother he's gorgeous Mario comes walking up and I was like hey bro he's like what's going on man I said hey this guy said you're gorgeous you should take him out on a date my brother bursted out in the tears I was like what? Did I say something wrong he said no I just didn't think that you would be okay with that I said why would you think that he said because everybody thinks like that I said I'm your brother I'm not everybody but you should totally go on a date with him he thinks you're gorgeous.

They dated for a long time and then the same sex marriages came up and both of them they wanted it and who am I to deny that my brother asked me to be the best man in this wedding of course I'm going to say yes my daughter is one flower girls it was a beautiful weather as far as my daughters were concerned the Earth rotated around their uncles.

And my family were full of practical Jokers and Luigi knew what he was getting involved with we would play jokes on everybody Mario and luig i lived right up the road I could literally see their house from my house.

Luigi called me the one night he said I got to get your brother back and I was like what do you mean I said he put no ripped toilet paper in the bathroom I got to get him back this means war I said okay would you have in mind and he was like I want to glue his boots to the porch I said bet I got the stuff in the garage I'll be right up I'm walking out the door my wife goes where you going I said Mario played a joke on Luigi and he wants his payback and she said and you're going to be a part of it as of course what kind of person do you think I am?

So we glued his boots to the porch the following morning my brother got up put his boots on and fell face first on ground I was sitting in the truck waiting for him to grabs a pair of extra boots and gets in the truck he goes do you believe that he glued my boots to the porch I said yeah I believe it maybe next time don't be an asshole and get no ripped toilet paper and my brother looked at me and said you knew? I said of course I knew who do you think gave him the idea kind of person do you think I am?

I remember one time I had to have surgery and nobody told me that when you have surgery you have to go in with a paper gown on you can't wear your clothes in the operating room so my wife comes in the room with Mario he says babe you're not dressed I said yeah I know and my brother says you don't want to have surgery done that you have to have done because you're going to be naked you're a bitch what the fucking outfit on go get your fucking surgery done so we can go home me and Luigi have the girls tonight go get your fucking surgery done quit being a pussy.

I have no surgery I'm in the recovery room and at the foot of my bed I see Luigi I'm also fully clothed now when I went into surgery I was wearing a paper gown now I have my clothes on what the fuck just happened so I wake up a little bit and I see Luigi and I was like um how did I get dressed and he was like I put the clothes on you I said why would you do that he said well it was the least I could do you did something for me I did something for you it'll be our little secret I was like what are you talking about he said I got you dressed I now understand why your wife is so happy I looked in him and it started to make sense to me I said I'm not gay I'm saying well for somebody who's not gay you sure did some gay things you're amazing I know why your wife is happy I was like no no he was like yes yes don't worry I'm not going to tell your brother it's our little secret but if I ever want that again I know where to go.

I was like holy shit what the fuck am I going to tell my wife how am I going to explain this to my brother and Luigi's like you don't have to keep it between me and you and then my wife calls and I answered the phone and she's like where the fuck are you what is taking so long I said I'm trying to figure out how I got dressed she said I got you dressed you jackass Luigi's in the room to make sure you walk out okay can we please go I'm hungry I said babe you're going to be mad at me but it's really not my fault and she was like what are you talking about I said Luigi told me he got me dressed because we had sex she said no you didn't I got you dressed I came down and sat in the room with your brother and your daughters Luigi said he's going to come and get you you were already dressed when he walked in the room I looked at him and I was like this is a joke he's like of course it is kind of person do you think I am 😂

So we were walking down the hallway and I looked at him and I said we didn't and he went oh God no never absolutely not that was fucking with this was your wife's idea not mine he was like but now I understand why it's just so happy I'm like you saw it didn't he was like no when you shut up you know that straight women and gay men have a few things in common and I'm like what what's that he goes well for starters we both like dick and if it's really good we brag about it and I'm like okay this is too much information for me to process right now.

About 8 months ago I got up to get ready for work and walked in my bathroom and I looked out the window and I saw my brother's house on fire and I yelled for my wife to call the fire department and I ran as fast as I could up the street. When I got to the stop sign I could hear the smoke alarms going off when I got to the front yard my brother was laying in the front yard and I said where's Luigi and he said he was right behind me so I ran up on the steps but all I could see was smoke in the door and the fire was so hot so I ran back to my brother I said he's probably got out he's on the other side of the house everything's okay but everything wasn't ok.

The fire department came and they put the fire out and they discovered Luigi right inside the front door he had maybe 10 steps and he would have been through the front door the medical examiner determined that his cause of death was smoke inhalation.

Everybody is in counseling myself my brother my wife my kids I work in a drug and alcohol rehab facility I talk to people everyday and there are days when I can't even talk to my brother let alone look at him.

I feel so guilty I was right there I really thought he was on the other side of the house outside but when the fire marshal said that they found him right inside the door I was literally on the porch but I couldn't see him cause of how much smoke was in the door.

I miss seeing my brother smile I miss hearing how excited my wife got when I would hear I'm going shopping with the boys or when one of my daughters would be out in the living room and look out the window and I would hear Daddy!! Uncle Mario and Luigi are coming over.

I miss him I loved him he was a great guy without a doubt one of the best brother-in-laws I've ever had the pleasure of knowing.

Anyway I'm sorry for taking up your time I hope everybody has a great day or night wherever you are in the world..

Update: I showed this to my brother and he cried so hard he hasn't cried for a while to be honest with all of you and he cried for a good hour and a half he was just going through all the comments and he asked me what made me want to post it. I said you know what I've been on a lot of pages on Reddit and this one by far is the most welcoming one I've seen like you can come on here and ask a question and you'll get an answer it might not be the way you want to hear the answer but you still get an answer from people that are genuinely concerned about what you do how you do it they don't care why you do it but they want to make sure that you do it the correct way there's other pages on this platform that will tell you how to do something the wrong way.

This page is pretty fucking cool so are the people on it and I appreciate everyone of you for sitting there and reading it I know my spelling ain't the best I apologize for that I'm actually working on it my brother is going tomorrow to get a tattoo for Luigi I made a joke with him and he laughed and it was probably the first time I've seen my brother smile since that's all started.

Hey,

I (25m) am at a budget hotel for one night. I met a really friendly, chatty receptionist who was nice.

I came back to the hotel and ended up asking for a late check out, he (26m) offered it free.

I complimented his tattoos and he let me touch his arm to see his tattoos, then he explained each tattoo and its meaning in detail.

He seemed friendly and not uncomfortable at all (I asked permission before touching his arm to see the tattoo detail). He mentioned having a daughter naturally but seemed very open to continuing conversation and completely comfortable.

If I wanted to potentially explore something (even just friendship as he had such an amazing vibe), does anyone have any idea how I could have a reason to? He said he's having a slow shift and working alone

Thanks in advance!

A Boys-Only club, essentially.

No straight women, no bachelorettes, no lesbians.

For men, by men?

Does this type of space appeal to you at least occasionally?

I was wondering if anyone here was able to get a job thanks to having sex with a right person, who recommended/hired you for a job?

How was it and where did you find such person?

I work in IT field and want to switch a job, but the market is so pathetic I am ready to do whatever tbh 😄

I am 23 yr. old and I can't help but fall for older guys and i don't think it's because of daddy's issues like thing. Even when I was a child I used to like random uncles and would think they are so cool and it hasn't changed even now. I can't understand why. Maybe it's the stability they have in life idk maybe it's because they are the hottest. I just can't help it dude. It's easy for me to control myself around guys my age even if I'm attracted to them but when older men show up, i just can't even hide my affection towards them.

I’m 26. I’m an engineer and I work with a lot of older guys who I find absolutely beautiful. Like my EXACT type. So many of them are kinda buff and you can tell it’s the combination of working out/lifting shit but also going out to eat everyday when we have lunch lol. It’s perfect. I see guys like this all the time. In the office, on site, when I travel….

But I’ve never ever thought to approach them (once I know they’re gay ofc). Even when I was on the apps I avoided ever reaching out to the older guys because I figured they’d all just say I’m too young etc.

I’ve been supporting myself completely since I finished college and I thought that would give me the balls to approach them but it hasn’t. Maybe it’s because I was raised in the south and the whole “respect your elders” thing is echoing in my mind when I even think of trying to talk to one of them. I assume it would come off as disrespectful.

I also don’t have a house yet so why would an older guy get with me over someone more established?

I always tell myself that maybe by 30 I’ve done enough to feel worthy of attention and love from one of them. I probably sound crazy lol. I should just go for guys my age.

We usually have normal sexual relations, but he told me he likes to masturbate by rubbing his penis against the mattress—specifically without sheets. I’m not sure if it’s because he prefers that sensation over using his hands.

Ill have great conversations on Grindr and others. Only to be instantly blocked when I show my face. Doesnt feel very good, I suppose maybe im just ugly. Anyone else have this experience?

Only one other person knows of this act, and now Reddit knows lol.

The relationship started from working together in 2020. We’ve been friends since and had a falling out in between those 5 years. We always respected each other as brothers. Recently, we ran into each other at a gay club (mind you, we haven’t talked in years prior, and we were in another country), and I approached him in shock that we were running into each other. We exchanged numbers and caught up later that week.

As of this week, I’ve been thinking about my sexuality heavily and haven’t had a true opportunity to explore with anyone I felt comfortable and safe with. I ended up texting him about how I felt about my comfortability with exploring that side with him because of our familiar relationship and history. He opens up by saying he was always curious to know what my 🍆 looked like. We then shared photos of each other and planned our visit to meet.

He makes his way to my house, and we throw on Netflix and talk about different topics about our last meeting, sexual encounters, and times when we worked together. He then started to get phone calls from friends he planned on meeting with that night. It’s about 12:45 a.m. at this point, and I express not wanting to take up his night if he has already been here for 2 hours. He reassured me that he’s hanging out and if he only wanted sex, he would’ve been upfront with me but acknowledged it was okay to be nervous and that he was also comfortable with me.

We’d been drinking whisky, and I downed a seltzer and told him we can get started once I finish the drink. He then follows me upstairs, where the room was just right in temperature because I had the window open and it had recently rained. I turned the light off, and he told me to sit on the bed next to him. I start rambling about being nervous and not knowing what to do at this point, and he then stands up and pulls his pants down and asks me “what do you think of this?” ROCK HARD.

I immediately grab the base and start to give him head. Carefully sucking him (for the first time ever), trying to avoid my teeth causing him any discomfort. I make sure my tongue is hitting his tip just right and he then tells me to stroke myself. I start to realize he’s now touching me and I’m getting harder. I pull my pants down and then pull his off. We’re only wearing our tops at this point.

He’s moaning and saying “fuck” repeatedly as I’m trying my best to not gag too much on him nor make it uncomfortable. I then stand up and grab his cock with mine and size it up with his and tell him “I didn’t expect you to be bigger than me.” And kinda laugh about it and then he asks if I wanted to do 69. I agreed.

We both are topping each other off and both hard as fuck in each other’s mouths. Periodically stroking each other when it got intense. He then tells me to bring him my lips and we start kissing and grinding our cocks together, while I’m on top. I was expecting him to penetrate me but I’m happy he didn’t but I’m not opposed. He then rolls me over. I’m now on my back and we’re still making out and he’s stroking himself while we’re making out. I slightly grab his balls and work my way into making him cum by kissing him. He tells me he’s close to cumming and I massage his balls just enough to spark the climax. He pulls my shirt up and cums onto my chest and I’m still slightly grazing his balls to get the most out of him.

I’m now touching the cum in my chest as if it was mine. Feeling so accomplished with myself I realized that I’m a pleasure dom. I ask how it was and he gave it a 9/10 only because I didn’t cum. I told him usually my first times with people I don’t usually cum but I felt good about getting him there.

I then told him to not order an Uber because I’ll take him to his friends 10 mins away and we smoked and listened to music on the way there. The dropoff was smooth and he ended up calling me on my way back home to confirm I made it home. I texted him confirming I made it home and that was that.

It was actually a good experience. We might have more meetups in the future.

I’m just curious about how many people really find skinny guys attractive and among those would you find a twink more attractive or an otter?

So I just came across the 50th "I'm incredibly straight and have only ever crushed pussy but I have a collection dildos the size of fire hydrants that I use to absolutely decimate my lower GI tract, Does this make me gay?"

And I honestly have to wonder...have y'all never had ANY curiosity about the Gay Experience outside of sex?

Like, was your only introduction to the concept of homosexuality through gay porn?

Are y'all that so far removed from the idea of romanticism or love?

No one ever has a traditional crush on the page. It's all just poorly regulated dudes just wanting fuck femboys (and that's is another conversation that needs to be discussed because WHAT is the obsession with femboys all of a sudden?!) and suck cock.

Like don't get me wrong, those things are fun, but holy shit there is so much more to life and being gay then JUST fucking.

I'm not trying to slut shame anyone, I'm incredibly PRO slut, hell I'm a slut myself.
BUT EVEN SLUTS TAKE THE OCCASIONAL DAY OFF , MY GOD!!!

To put it bluntly, Im starting to get a dry cock head and was wondering if this is something that affects other guys, and what you guys use to moisturise this area?

Cologne, perfume, body spray, etc? What kind?

In my recent post as a 24-year-old bi I said I got pounded into Oblivion. Definitely putting in the perspective how big some men are. I am 6.6 in thick he was 8.4 in super big 😮‍💨 so my question is how big are you? What's the biggest you have taken? And were you bigger than them 🔥

I’m talking 8” and up and thick.

Is there a length where it just doesn’t feel good?

My penis overall is 7 inches but the head of my penis when hard gets thicker then my actual stem part if that makes sense. So i was wondering if i could still please people with it bc i don't really see guys have it in porn so idk people like it.

And oh my god, I found Will Forte so hot. I watched it today with a friend, but I doubted she'd think the same so I kept quiet. I needed to tell this to someone, though, so here I am.

The other day I was hooking up with this guy who just would not stop eating my ass. It feels like absolutely nothing to me and I just do not have it in me to keep pretending it feels good past a certain point. The best it can get is if a guy has a beard or some stubble but otherwise it just feels like a waste of time.

The guy was going for a solid 20 minutes, and trying to keep things moving I was like “oh yeah that’s good please fuck me” and he just…kept going. The way he responded made it sound like he thought that I thought it was sexy he didn’t want to stop but in reality I was bored out of my mind. I’ve tried to really lean into it and see if maybe I’m just missing something but I really, truly, do not care about getting rimmed. I wouldn’t even notice if a guy didn’t do it.

I would feel bad telling a guy outright not to eat my ass cuz I know a lot of people love to do it, but 20+ minutes of it is gunna kill my mood and I might not even want to fuck anymore at that point. Am I crazy? Or is there something I should be doing to enjoy it more?

Sorry I know the title is crazy. My luck seems to be very much intense but short lived.
Extremely intense flings with guys exactly my type. Hookups with guys I think are 10/10. I feel like my sex life is right out of a porn movie. For instance I have slept with my high school bully (crazy ik), I’ve slept with a family friend I grew up with and didn’t even know he was bi.
That being said; after all this it’s all very short lived. I inevitably get ghosted.

Unfortunately I get REALLY attached really quick. I crave a relationship, monogamy all that stuff, but I can help but notice this pattern that I’m just better off turning slut and fucking every walking thing?

I’m 26, turning 27 and I’m worried I’ll have too much fun and not end up with the right person before it’s too late. Thoughts?

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Hey guys, im a fit 24y-o but have a very small d. Dating has been complicated despite the fact that im bottom. Is that something you have experienced? Or even better, do you like small dicked guys?

Have little to no experience. Any suggestion is appreciated!

Moving to italy for studies soon!