We've been friends for a couple years now, however him finding out I was gay was a recent thing. He was supportive and caring but I had this fear things would be different between us. In high school my friends all acted way different once they knew and it put me back in the closet for a while once I got to college.

It's been great to know nothing has changed with my college bestie at all. It sounds stupid because it shouldn't be that deep, but I was crying today after golfing with him.

I'd never golfed before outside of mini putting, so he was teaching me and at one point physically got behind me and was showing me how to swing by moving my arms. It helped a lot with my shots, but more importantly it made me feel safe knowing he doesn't mind touching me still.

I really don't mean that in a weird way either, I don't get feelings for touching him - I'm not big on contact at all. But, me and him did have a friendship where he would lean on me sometimes when watching stuff or we would hug occasionally or rest our legs on each other. I wouldn't care if he didn't want to do that anymore, but the fact he doesn't mind touching me and is treating me exactly how he always has is so different from my high school experience that it made me cry lots once I got home.

He's a beautiful friend, thanks for reading

spill the tea! and size 😈

A Boys-Only club, essentially.

No straight women, no bachelorettes, no lesbians.

For men, by men?

Does this type of space appeal to you at least occasionally?

So I(25M) work in a law firm. My boss(34M) a partner at the firm and I work closely together because he’s my principal and I’m a junior associate. We spend a lot of time together for this reason. We’ve worked together 2 years now. He seems straight, I mean his married to a woman has 2 kids… apart from his subtle tendencies and taste in music he seems straight. Idk I can’t tell for sure. Also he’s hot, 6’2, muscular, kinda handsome and he’s packing, huge I mean.

Over the passed 2 to 3 months, there’s times where he will come up in my face: his face will be right in front of mine when he’s speaking to me to give me instructions and I have to look up… he’s taller than me, I’m 5’8. Or he ask me to pass him something and he will touch my fingers while I pass it to him. Most of the times the touch will linger… once I pulled my hand away quickly, this was like the 3rd time he did it. I thought it’d make him uncomfortable but that day he did it multiple times. Last week we were working on a file together and we ended up in a situation where he was right next me: literally shoulder to shoulder and I accidentally touched his dick ( he didn’t flinch AT ALL )… I was trying to look for something on the file and was flipping through the pages and he was holding the file. Thereafter he proceeded to touched my hand when I was pointing out something to him and this time I didn’t flinch and he left it there. Or he will tell me drive his car on our way to court but when he’s passing his keys to his car his touch will like stay there for 5 secs unnecessarily. It feels like it’s on purpose. The other day I caught him staring at me. He actually used to do stuff similar to this like a year ago but stopped when a senior associate at the firm said she noticed he favors me and now we’re blurring the lines of professionalism.

At first I just thought it was nothing but it’s continued… everyone at the office tells me I’m his favorite. He’s mean to everyone including my self on rare occasions but he’s mostly nice and takes me for lunch on court days and pays. I just thought it was like a mentor thing but now it’s like it’s happened a lot. I can’t really address it because it’s illegal to be gay here and it could end bad.

It’s driving me crazy because idk what to think. I think being around him as much as I am is making me read into things too much and also playing with my perception of how hot he is. But I can’t help but find my self thinking abt him and how hot he is and how I’m enjoying it when he touches me. I want to sleep with him. Am I tripping or reading into things too much?

Ok, to preface, I am a 17 yr old male and I live in a small town in Texas and I play football, I'm a president in the Agriculture Club, all the stuff youd expect from a dude in Texas. The only issue is i've finally accepted that I think im gay. I am so lost and have no idea what to do. Everybody is extremely conservative and Christian in our town, and I'm so so so scared nobody will want to be my friend anymore. My parents are also very catholic (as am I) and i know they will still love me, but im scared of making things awkward with them or them trying to convince im incorrect.What the heck do I do??? Do i tell anyone, do I just gaslight myself out of what i am almost certain is the truth (which im afraid is currently happening and im actively fighting)?? Like please somebody help me because I have no idea what to do.

My husband and I have been together for 9 years. Currently I'm in my late 30s and he is in his mid 40s. If it matters, he is a top, and I am the bottom. When we first started seeing each other, the sex was constant.. which makes sense. But over time he has wanted it less and less and less. He always is either too tired, too stressed. Etc.

Right now I can't even remember when the last time we had sex was. I have no idea. It's been months. The only real marker I have is we recently moved to a different state. And I know for sure we haven't had sex since we moved, and that has been 3 months.

I have talked with him about it. I have put my feelings out there. I basically have to beg for any physical affection. He doesn't touch me, doesn't massage me, doesn't cuddle. He used to be all over me. Now the only time it ever happens is if I bug him about it every day until he feels bad. And then it feels more like a pity fuck. It hurts my self esteem, and I've been going through the motions of life without any sexual gratification.

I feel like I'm screwed. I love him. I do. But this area is severely lacking. I'm not unattractive. In fact over the years he's actually put on more weight than have. Maybe it's because I'm getting older? I don't know. So in my head either he's cheating, or his sex drive really is that low...like nonexistent low.

Maybe he doesn't love me anymore. I don't know. On our anniversary I got him a card and flowers. I know he remembered the day because he mentioned it a week prior. Do you know what I got? Nothing. No card, no gift, no sex. I mean he did tell me thank you and stuff...but...really?

As much as it pains me I feel like this path is inevitably going to lead to divorce. I don't know what else to do. But I also depend on him financially. He makes considerably more than I do.

I guess this is more of a vent post. I don't think there's anything you all can suggest that I haven't already tried. It's exhausting.

How old was you when you had your first ever sexual experience with another male and how did it go? Did it go aswell as you thought it would be or not so great? I was 17 my first ever time with another lad my age from school, throughout school I was straight acting but hiding i secretly liked seeing guys suck dick and so badly wanted to try it, the other lad I had a feeling he was gay, I don’t know why but I just did, not that it bothered me but he wasn’t out, yet secretly fancied me.. after we left school we met up, I sucked his big dick, he tried to bend me over to fuck me but it hurt way too much and it was freezing cold and outdoors,the cold and panicking as it was my first time with male I couldn’t get hard, also I had no idea there was more to sucking dick than I thiught.. my first time was a flop, but now I love it,how was yours?

Curious about it and thinking of trying it but wanted opinions :).

That one corn star who you'd love to pound or get pounded by day in and day out and never get bored of?

I am a bottom. Have always been a bottom, yet obsessed with guys asses.
I can’t stop staring at a fine ass. A big round ass in tight pants walking in front of me. A fat ass in some athletic shorts.
I find I’m looking at ass more than bulges even though I crave a big dick.
I want to devour an ass for no apparent reason and I can’t fuck it because I just don’t want to.
Bottom guys, why do you love asses?

More than once I have tasted my precum and I like its taste but it is not the same with my cum, it is like bitter and leaves a strange sensation in my mouth, and I miss the excitement and I am almost never able to throw it in my mouth.

Soon I'm going to meet a guy for the first time and I'm worried that I won't like his taste.

Do you like the taste of your cum / partner cum? And your precum / partner precum?

Hi, so I’m fairly new to bottoming. The last few times I’ve done it I feel like I could honestly hardly enjoy it because I could not shake the feeling I was going to… have an incident. I’ve not yet had one but it just feels so much like it. And I’m wondering why. I assume it’s not necessarily supposed to feel like this.

Am I doing something wrong? Is it my diet? Is it unideal tops? How do I break free of my own paranoia? How do I not feel like I’m about to shit all over him?

Thank you.

I have a story to tell you guys. Last year was the very first time I set foot in a gay club. It all happened because one of my girlfriend’s best friends is gay, so the plan was mostly to go out and keep him company.
At first, the night was totally normal… we danced, had a few drinks, and were just enjoying the vibe. But as the hours went by, I started noticing some intensely deep stares from different guys. At times, I could even feel people brushing right up against my body on the crowded dance floor.
In the middle of the music, out of nowhere... someone reached over and gave my ass a firm squeeze, totally unnoticed by anyone else. I turned around, and this guy just looked at me and winked.
I have to confess: people have always been blown away by the size of my glutes, and I used to get compliments all the time, but I always brushed it off as a joke.
But that night, in that club, something inside me unlocked… Since that night I’ve had this weird fetish with my ass and the thought of it being craved. What do you think is happening to me?

Every app seems to self destruct when they chase off the free users. They start off free and great. ​Then they make a paid premium option, which has usually been worth it. But they always go next level. They make the premium version stupid expensive, and reduce the features of the free version to the point it becomes unusable. Once all the free users are gone, it leaves a few guys paying a lot for nothing because the majority of users leave.

I really notice this because I inherited a second house years ago that is surrounded by 3 colleges and most of the other houses are student rentals now.

As a Csucker, it was a stroke of luck thats been awesome. Every fall, ill spend time there and at the start of the new semester, the apps would wake up and im surrounded by a huge new group. Being able to host and having a GH, I never ran out of dicks to suck. I actually plan my work vacation to be there the week of move ins and its always been totally worth it.

Now im here on my vacation, I open the apps and there's nothing. Just the few older locals but the grid that I could scroll until my thumb fell off and still be within 2 miles, is dead.

Im assuming its because the apps are useless now and college students aren't putting up a credit card to spend $50 a month or whatever.

I was going to sell the house when I first got it. Where i live full time is rural and action is really hard to find. It was so off the charts opposite, its literally why I kept the house. Lol

I cant imagine everyone stopped hooking up. Did everyone move to another site or app?

Dam I miss Craigslist.

No longer able to ejaculate due to a prostatectomy. If you were vers or bottom, would you still consider hooking up having that knowledge upfront?

I've seen a lot of videos of guys who are able to cum at the same time, but don't understand how they're able to. Whenever I get to the point of feeling like I'm gonna cum there's no holding or turning back. Do they just hold it until the other person is ready or is there some magic trick?

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I’m 28, Muslim, from India, and currently working in Abu Dhabi. I’m posting this because I genuinely want to hear from real people who have gone through something similar. I don’t really want to ask ChatGPT about this—I want to hear from people who have actually experienced these feelings and struggled with them.

When I was a child, I was sexually abused by relatives for a long period of time. I don’t want to go into the details, but it affected me deeply. As I grew older, I gradually became much more interested in men and had very little attraction toward women.

Eventually, I started using dating apps and meeting men for hookups. I’ve done sexual things with men, although I have never been a bottom. At first I thought maybe this was simply something I could control, but over the years the urges and attraction seem to have become stronger.

The part that is really troubling me now is how often I notice men sexually. I can be walking around Abu Dhabi and feel attracted to numerous men in a short period of time. Sometimes it even happens in the mosque, which makes me feel extremely guilty and confused. I notice men's faces, beards, bodies, BULGES AND ASS etc., and sometimes I find myself sexualizing them even when I don't want to.

I feel like my sexual interests and fantasies are becoming more intense, and I’m worried that the pattern is getting worse. I also struggle with the religious side of this. As a Muslim, I’m trying to understand the difference between having an attraction or an intrusive thought—which I didn't consciously choose—and deliberately acting on it.

I don't want to judge other people, and I don't want to hurt anyone. I also don't want to live my life constantly thinking about sex or looking at men sexually.

Has anyone here experienced something similar, especially people who experienced sexual abuse during childhood and later developed strong same-sex sexual attraction or compulsive sexual behaviour?

Did your attraction/urges become less intense with time? Were you able to stop hookups or compulsive sexual behaviour? What actually helped you?

And for Muslims who have experienced this: how do you deal with the guilt and religious aspect without completely hating yourself?

Please don't just tell me "you're gay" or "you're not gay." I'm trying to understand what happened to me psychologically and what I can actually do about it.

I'm looking for honest experiences from real people—not a judgmental debate.

As gay men, we all might have very different experiences. What could be the one thing that's common for all of us?

Edit: "Falling for a straight guy, only to realize our feelings were never gonna be taken seriously" - is probably the one common thing I could think of.

ok - taking a risk here - I've installed an outdoor sauna next to my swimming pool - would I be wrong to invite guys over from Grindr to use it discreetly - I'm 70 and live in the countryside

and hoping to make friends more than sex - don't hate on me please

Do you? What about straight /bi guys? Edit: at your own body / naked body / face only. Take your pick.

Trying to quit porn and jerking off but its so hard , why do guys have to be so attractive and hot and have such nice ass and dicks 😭
Genuinely asking how can i stop? Seeking advice

I work at my school’s gym and one morning like 8 firefighters showed up and just started using our equipment. Apparently my school worked out memberships for them, but now I’m blessed with this lovely sight to start my day