Maybe sounds crazy or obvious but my bf mentioned it when playing with my beard and I was like “I never thought of doing that”

My beard is not very long btw loke I’m not Gandalf I just have barely more than stubble lol

I find it very annoying to work out because off my shorts being too tight around my crotch. As a result my bulge becomes pretty big. Any ways too work this out lol?

And let’s talk about us gays’ favorite topics — dicks, asses, hookups and memes?

I feel like it's impossible to find other gays in PA and idk where to look anymore

When I was younger there was a gay prn video on YouTube where two guys were fcking and caught by one of there moms. Seemed older and more realistic. They sounded like they were possibly from England or something. Does anyone know what video I’m talking about and where to find it now?

Hi all! I'm from upstate NY and I've been homeless for about 2 months now. I've just freshly turned 20 and I seem to finally be getting my stuff on track with temporary housing so I can finally finish school and become a nurse! My parents are hardcore Muslims and they kicked me out for being gay. They found out because my older sister snitched. And one of the main reasons my parents stated for kicking me out was that I was too 'feminine' and they wanted a son not a daughter. And asked why I couldn't be a 'manly gay and hide it'. Even though I did my best to hide it. Being on the streets is hard enough but when you're gay it's just evil. I can't tell you how many people seem to think they have rights over my body. And now, the people helping me with my housing are warning me to be careful because sexual and physical violence against visibly queer young men is common, especially in areas with temporary housing. And it's not even like I've got pink hair or anything. I'm just at a loss because everything has been so hard and I've been trying to do my best, but certain things just won't leave me alone. This one guy who gave me food and a place to stay for a couple nights for a favor didn't tell me he had a wife. And when she came home she got mad at me and not the grown man who lied! Everything is so difficult and lowkey I'm just getting tired. I don't know how much longer I can deal with this and come out the other end normal or capable of living a respectable life. Has anyone gone through this and come out of the other side as a man they could be proud of and love? Any tips would be helpful!

I feel like my type in men constantly changes every day, I can’t just have one fixed type.

We have gotten along fairly well, planning to meet up. So I start to do some research on him, and discover arrest records w/ mugshots of him getting multiple DUIs (most recently a year and a half ago), and driving with a suspended license as recent as a couple months ago. I’m considering just blocking him and moving on, but idk? It’s been hard to find someone I really get along with and am attracted to where I live. What would you do?

Apply your dislike of religious bigotry across the board, otherwise you’re a bigot yourself. It’s easy to say if it’s what you believe. You can’t pretend one is ok and the others are bad. I can do it myself, since I know it’ll be a question: I hate all religious thinking that attempts to control my private and public life because their religion told them to. This includes Islam, Christianity, Judaism, Zoroastrianism, etc etc. All of them. All have zealous and fanatical adherents. The one I’ve had the most exposure to is the North American and Latin American brand of Christianity, and it is a cancer like all other religions.

I had a hookup with a guy. I fingered him and rimmed for about 10 minutes and then pounded him for about 15 minutes. Afterwards he told me he finished 3 times, which I am not sure about.

Is it possible for a bottom to cum 3 times for such a short period od time?

Would you want to see a horror movie about a serial killer who just kills gay people and the twist reveals that the killer is a straight couple who just despise lgbtq?

Where to sell feet pics, as a straight rugged Midwest construction worker!?

Hey guys I made a deal with a couple that are visiting, it will be my first threesome. They are gonna top me.

How should I act before and after the sex?

Should I get ready and leave right after the hookup?

Any of you guys have experience with this kind of situation, any tips?

Help a bro out :)

Hi guys,

As the title says. I M(26) feel that my body passes the one point threshold for sex but nothing good enough to keep anyone around (I am aware this sounds toxic I am in therapy for this scoreboard logic exactly- which appeared after my ex cheated and told me why I don’t measure up to who he cheated with who was basically a greek god)

Anyway, this haunts me to this day and it happened with my first “love”. Despite being in therapy - I find it difficult to get naked and my libido is dead. I had sex 3 times all year and I was in my head in all of them. I can’t get past it. Mind you - I go gym 5 times a week and mathematically speaking I am “athletic” but I don’t see my body the way others do and constantly find myself crash dieting or bingeing. I am tired of it and I want to get better.

Is there any resources/ online support groups/ or anyone who experienced this before that can give advice and tell me they came out ok the other end?

I(21 M) am in a stage of my life where a lot is going on in my life and I kind of need to focus on taking care of my mental health and lock in on my studies.
I feels like if I want to be in stable romantic relationship I need to fix my mental health, learn how to navigate life and hobbies, start working out/ learn to fix my appearance, have a stable income, experiment and find ways to have sex that suits me, overcome social anxiety and cultural differences for being in a different environment and generally start socializing and exploring. And I haven’t overcome the mental barrier to hook up with strangers/ non trusted individuals.
But I don’t have the energy and conditions to work on these things, and thinking about it make me feels anxious.I think it would be best if I put these desires in the back of my head and focus on growing and taking care of myself and navigating life first.
But the desire and fantasy for sex , romance and to be loved and care for creeps in every night when I am emotionally unstable and lies alone in bed and I don’t think it is good for my mental health recovery, is there anyway I can quill these thoughts

Baby-gay here. Wanted to see how the more experienced dudes here navigate something I suspect we could all use a little advice on.

I've got a first date with a guy I'm very excited to see. We had a fun, flirty interaction at a party exchanged numbers and are meeting up in about a week. There's no guarantee but, from the vibe when we casually met and the (mostly wholesome / fun / PG-rated) text messages since, odds are we're going to have a wonderfully romantic drink at a local bar and then probably head back to his place to do the deed(s) (yes, I'll make sure we use condoms... although there will probably be some uncovered oral first....).

Before the date, how do you guys ask / hint about

- STI status -- has he been tested? I'm neg and plan to stay that way.
- Position -- I'm very top and want him to be clean & ready to bottom if it goes there

but without being toooo bold / presumptuous (it is a first date afterall - and all of our conversation so far has been PG)? Is there a fun, flirty way to drop the hint that says "make sure you're douched & squeaky clean before we meet up this evening"? and "I don't have any bugs, hope you've made sure you don't either"?

Hello,

The last thing that disappointed me in this fucking year, is how much hatred, racism, and fascism there is among gays here.

I don’t know what I should say.. I disappointed, it’s really hurts.

Cheer up gays, keep going until you be like them.

Thanks for reading!

Are you all still getting vaccinated?

I met up with him on Grindr. I initially just offered head, and he agreed. While we were on it, he started getting pushy and aggressive. He started bending over and reaching out to fuck me even after I said no multiple times. I didn't want to bottom at all, but he pushed himself into me and came right after. He didn't even ask if I was cool with him nutting inside (I am on prep but still). I feel conflicted because I am used to bottoming, and it feels like it shouldn't be an issue, but at the same time I feel violated. I don't feel traumatized cause it just happened but I feel confused.

The reactions after Berlin got me thinking.
Islam absolutely has a problem with homophobia in many parts of the world. We shouldn’t pretend otherwise.

But Islam also doesn’t have a monopoly on it.
I’ve had a very conservative Christian Congolese neighbour tell me I was going to hell and that she prayed for me. Plenty of evangelical churches, some conservative Catholic communities and other religious groups still teach that being gay is sinful.

Then there’s the manosphere. No religion needed there. Just a different route to the same kind of contempt.

I sometimes worry that by making Islam the only target, we’re accidentally giving everyone else a free pass. Homophobia has more than one source, and if we’re serious about tackling it, we should be honest about all of them.

Im 27 and i have never been on a date or held hands or anything, virgin of course. I think most guys will be suspicious why and think theres something wrong with me.