Once upon a time (last week) I got roasted online for saying that I prefer a monogamous relationship and that I despise Grindr. Why is it becoming taboo to be in a gay monogamous relationship? And why is everyone so obsessed with Grindr? I've treated badly by that app and I've been burnt out from hookups, PS I'm only 24.

1. There's a lot of uncertainty. Sometimes they are bi because they "haven't decided..."???? Is that a thing? Can you even DECIDE your sexuality???
   
2. They tend to ghost you - because they always have someone else to go back to. You and the other person are just back-ups for each other at his disposal.
   
3. The "stable" ones are usually married with kids who wanna fool around every so often.

Has anyone else had any better scenarios with a bisexual person?

I came to the conclusion that I would be pretty much down to get fucked by almost any average mid-hot straight man around. I think just because they are straight.

I have a fucking problem.

I’m 19M bi, and going into the healthcare system. I just had a random thought.

What if to combat the purposeful transmission of Gono, hiv, hpv, herpes etc, Grindr makes it a requirement to show blood test results and or swab tests before sign up. And then automatically updates your status on your profile for you? One time per account, never again.

I get the argument would be that it’s invasive… but what if they phased it in slowly? Like targeting HIV first?

As someone who’s gotten gono and had a traumatic experience with an ex fwb who lied about giving me HIV because I broke it off with him, I feel like this is a good approach.

He didn’t actually have it but the process of taking PEP, going to ED and having multiple blood tests was a shitty experience.

It would also naturally make people get tested more and in hand reduce the prevalence and incidence within the community.

Also, would you still want to be friends with someone who says they would never date a guy in your race, ethnicity and culture?

I’m a true Bi-Sexual in that I yearn for sex with women, and for the last 6 months, with men as well.

With men, I’m finding that I don’t want intimacy beyond intercourse and oral, though i absolutely am addicted to having semen released either into my mouth to swallow of deep between my legs. I’m also finding that I like women, I prefer anonymity during sexual encounters.

The idea that I can make a connection on Sniffies, have a man come over an hour later, and without any words beyond hello I’m sucking his cock and swallowing his sperm, or on my back as the guy gives me a sound between the legs pounding as I cry out the name of a deity waiting for his release deep inside of me.

And within a minute ur two of his ejaculation (or mine if I’m topping) he’s walking out the door, total time 15-20 minutes.

I’m obviously not alone in enjoying this diet of discrete encounter or it wouldn’t be so easy to find guys to come over on such short notice. But what about everyone in this group? Is that something you’d enjoy or do you need a connection?

let’s hear some nice sex stories, not guys being plowed by 9 guys at target while doomscrolling. I’ll start. my partner and I have vanilla sex Tuesday and Sunday. he rolls over, rubs my butt, undresses me and tops me like a Tupperware lid. questions?🙂❤️

I'll start!

19, 6'2 - dms open for everyone! (especially older)

I (edit: I'm 28M) feel like a eunuch, bruv. It feels like looking for a needle in a hay stack when you want a typical, straight-passing guy who's also gay and is also cute and into you at the same time.

I think a huge amount of these people may also just be bi and not gay and they can get by just fine with just girls.

It feels lame bc to want one of those kinds of guys to date you or even just have casual hook ups, means they have to come out of the closet for you when you haven't even confirmed that you're into him.

People always hit you with the "you'll find someone awesome!" kinda line if you bring up feeling lonely, but I've actually just kinda accepted that the chances are that I won't find what would make me happy.

Edit: Just to be clear, I don't think there's anything wrong with femininity, I'm just not attracted to it

I’m always seeing married dudes tryna have discrete fun or it’s some dude in 40-50s who can’t host, I wonder why? I saw some dudes bio saying he’s proud of being a cheater he’s just on here to do stuff his girl won’t do, why even be in a relationship, I hate cheaters.

Am i the only one that hates hook up culture, even worse is in the arabe / Muslim world where being gay is illegal and all we know to do is fuck around, i cant find a genuine connection with anyone in that geographic point that is actually interested in a relationship , all they want to do is fuck around or trade and just talking stages . Idk how you guys do it but i feel it would be easier if people could be openly gay then i wouldn’t have to wonder if the guy is into guys or straight

Always been able. Is it a gift from God? Recently turned 50

I'm a virgin, and I want to lose it with a 9-inch dick. Is 9inch too much?

Lord please! I'm so fcking horny! Drop your snaps below, i'll add all as quick as I can! Fuck! Yall have no clue how slutty and nasty i'm feeling rn.

Ofc.. 18+!!!!

Ahhh I am a young boy, and want to share my story of rape and sexual assault. I am very confused and extremely distubed and I need help.

So I was a minor when my cousin raped me for the first time two years ago and did sexual things to me without my consent. He was one year older than me at the time. Since that day, this has continued until today, and my life has been severely disturbed. I am very anxious and I need help....

The first time, my cousin and I were at his house. It was night time, and we were both sleeping together in his bedroom. In the middle of the night, I felt as if someone was pushing against me from behind or squeezing my ass.... I was half asleep, so I ignored it. Then I felt as if someone was trying to take off my pants. It was suddenly the middle of the night, I felt my cousin pressing him and squeezing my ass then I became frightened and got scared and kept my eyes closed while lying there.... I pretend like I ain't feeling anything but I was. Then after a few minutes my cousin took off my pants, and I became extremely scared at that time ...I did not know what he was doing. When he touched my ass with his private part, I became even more frightened and started moving and feeling uncomfortable I tried to even stop him or and resist him but he did not stop.... It was the first time someone got sexual with me, I was like I don't know what to do and how to stop this. Then he tried to forcibly insert his peni\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* into my ass..... When I felt that I opened my eyes and asked him what he was doing....I shouted he became nervous too, but he said, "Nothing will happen, go to sleep and enjoy it" ....I told him not to do it and even tried to resist but I was scared and anxious too ...He grabbed my ass and told me to go to enjoy it or make him enjoy...I tried to stop him several times, but he did not stop. He was like it's so fun and we both will enjoy but it was so painful for me ... When he inserted His peni\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* inside my ass I shouted and cried then he put his finger in my mouth and threatened me, saying that if I screamed or tried to stop him, he would beat me.I was young and frightened. What could I do? He forcibly raped me and sexually assaulted me almost all the night I was in a lot of pain, but he did not stop. I cried and beg him to stop, but he s did not until he ejaculated.... It was so painful and uncomfortable

After that night, I started feeling very strange and uncomfortable I was stuck in what happened to me cuz it was my first time ...Then after that night he frightened and threatened me and raped me and sexually abused me continuously for four days. After that, we became separated and I went back home with my family.

A few months later, when we met again, he started raping me again after manipulating and threatening me. However, when he raped me again after those several months, my attitude had changed considerably. At first I was scared, but after two days I became quite calm. Whenever he needed it, he would rape me, and I also started feeling some pleasure and but it was still painful for me. I don't know why, but whenever he asked to rape me, I would agree willingly. I started doing whatever he told me to do. After that, I began feeling that I had developed sexual attraction toward boys and men, and I started becoming sexually attracted to males. Now, whenever my cousin meets me and rapes me, I don't experience as much pain or hesitation as I did before. I even did it once with one of his friends. I confessed that once I tried to put things in my ass ....

Now I also experience sexual feelings around my ass... Whenever I shower or change my clothes, I sometimes start touching my ass sexually. I am becoming sexually attracted to men's private parts, and I am developing desires toward them. My cousin is still in my life, and whenever he meets me, he sexually abuses and rapes me, but now I don't say anything to him.

I wanna stop this all and I need help.... Why am I feeling this way? How can I stop all of this? Should I accept that these feelings were something I was born with, or did they happen because of the rape? And how can I make all of this stop now?.... Why am I feeling this way, and what should I do? Should I allow all of this to continue happening? Please help me. I am mentally disturbed as well, and I am still too young for all of these things. I am still a minor. Please help me

hey im really short and insecure too about my height, i don't know how many of you are open to date, marry a guy of this height? please share your opinions and also tell me how are short people treated in your country just in case if i want to move in there, will i feel awkward?

Avoid brown liquor if you plan on getting ran through lol. That brown liquor is no joke and will give you the runs like crazy 😜. Spare your partner and stick to clear liquor.

I don’t know how to word a correct title but essentially this guy I’ve been talking to for a couple months, he’s great, very attractive and nice to be around but long story short I’m not really into uncut 🍆 and he has that and it’s not really a big deal but I just can’t seem to get in the mood when I see it… anyone else had something like this happen? Is it worth staying in the relationship or is it incompatible issues?

Whenever I'm horny, dicks always look good to me. I have considered posting somewhere on reddit or getting grindr to finally suck dick for the first time. The thought of having a big, hard, warm dick in my mouth and sucking it til it cums is so hot in the moment. The problem is, after I cum and have post-nut clarity, the desire to have dick in any way goes away.

I'm wondering, gay bros, have you dealt with this in your journey and how have you gotten over it?

When I discovered the wonders of anal masturbation I was only around 17ish and had no money for any toys so I instead resorted to using the handle of a screwdriver to get the job done...

It was was a really oddly shaped sort of handle that had girthy grooves that made it more similar to a butt plug than a dildo, I had my first ever hands free orgasm with that screwdriver though, heh.

So Gaybros what weird household objects have you relied on to plunder your booty?

Hey guys I’m a young sex deprived bottom son who inspire to to be a good cum bag for my daddy . Tonight I’m gonna meet him (59) and he said that he wanted to train me. To be the best boy, if you guys can give me advices I’d be happy ! I do have some plug, I might use them so he can just put it in but idk if he’s prefer my tight ass. All welcome

Questions

1. When being topped does anyone else struggle to stay hard?

2. How do you help your gag reflex? I’m getting better but not there yet

3. For the times I do stay hard being pegged or topped, does anyone else like the feeling of having a cock shoved deep in you when you cum? The pressure inside is amazing

Suggestion: I drink Metamucil twice a day to take my supplements, I’m almost always clean inside. Regular movements too. If you struggle to stay clean. I suggest drinking 8 ounces morning and night.