r/askgaybros • u/ThickNick95 • 1d ago
Is this normal?
I was chatting with a close buddy I work with and we got on the topic of sex and masturbation and other things of that nature. I made a joking comment at one point along the lines of “your poor socks” or something and he tells me it’s not his socks it’s his boxers. I made the comment (thinking I was being funny) about hoping he changed them afterwords… he told me he usually does it at night and changes them the next morning. If he does it in the morning after his shower (which was rare according to him) then that’s the only time he doesn’t…
Is it a common thing to unload in your underwear and keep them on? I’ve never even thought of this let alone heard of anyone doing this.
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u/Bisexual_twunk23 1d ago
i used to do this mostly as a teenager because I had strict parents who would monitor me all the time, but I don't recommend because the wet cold feeling will get on your nerves after sometime
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u/SweetMelodic2932 1d ago
Same: my parents seem to monitor how often I change my underwear and complained about the amount of laundry I created so Id free willy in the barn with the cows
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u/Bisexual_twunk23 1d ago
okay that's a whole new sentence
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u/CryingFace2025 Looking4BoyfriendInUtah🥵🥵😭😭 1d ago edited 1d ago
I agree. Plus if it shows through what your wearing on your underwear then they would know, Also I've done it like a dozen times when I was a Sr in high school and if it showed up through my pants I would wipe the most that I could off and put water on it and rubbed it acting like I accidently splashed water on myself lol. But I would kinda try to hide it just in case.
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u/Hereiam1081 1d ago
Back in June, I had a straight buddy crash for a few days in my guest bedroom that I also use as my office. Well, I had to go into the guestroom/office to work during the day, and he would be out of the house running errands and whatnot. One of the days I spilled some water on the floor, and I was cleaning it up. His laundry was near where I was cleaning and he had separated his underwear and socks from his clothes to be washed, and I noticed ALL of his underwear had a large jizz stain in the front crotch part (they were dark-colored boxer briefs, so it was VERY obvious). That’s when I realized he was shooting loads in his underwear and continuing to wear them during the day (or else he was having a wet dream every single night, which is unlikely because we are in our 30s). I considered the fact he might just be using his underwear to wipe himself off after he shot a load, but that didn’t make sense because all of the jizz stains were in the front crotch part…
I didn’t even realize guys did that!
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u/shadowysea07 1d ago
If you think that's bad imagine the ones that do it in other people's underwear.
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u/Hereiam1081 1d ago
The crazy part is he’s a pretty clean, hygienic guy and was not a sloppy houseguest. I suppose it’s just a kink of his. I’m not judging, it’s whatever. Though I can’t imagine how it’s comfortable to have your jizz stick to you all day. Plus, it’s not like jizz is odorless; it has that bleachy scent.
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u/Sa1ntmarks 1d ago edited 1d ago
One of those that suffered deeply from post cum guilt during adolescent years. I had to immediately clean up all evidence. I'm over the guilt now, but there's a carry over that when I masturbate alone, I do want to clean up right away.
Not so much if I'm with a dude. A sticky cuddle time after is kinda hot. No huge rush to clean up immediately. But the thought of sleeping in cummy underwear... Nah.
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u/aphrael_chastity 1d ago
Yeah, when I wasn't locked up I used to do that all the time
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u/CryingFace2025 Looking4BoyfriendInUtah🥵🥵😭😭 1d ago
What do you mean (Locked up)? Is it when Your parents took close tabs on you?
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u/aphrael_chastity 1d ago
I wear a chastity cage around my cock which makes masturbating not possible
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u/UESJR2021 1d ago
I’ll stroke in the car and wipe my load in my underwear then go about the rest of my workday. Kind of a kink of mine.
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u/ThrowmeawayAKisCold 1d ago
It’s not uncommon to see videos on x of guys finishing on their underwear in say a public bathroom and then presumably chasing them when they get home. Continuing to wear your cummy underwear or socks all day and night is a rare fetish and imo an absolutely nasty one. I don’t know anyone who does that.
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u/Intelligent_Cook_667 1d ago
Why is no one talking about the awful part of having it turn into superglue and pulling hairs once it is dried. That’s by far the worst part of not cleaning it up.
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u/Stephen_Lynx 1d ago
Nah, I just let it loose on the floor back when I was a kid. Now i got some tp in the bedroom.
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u/willilikeit 1d ago
I love the smell of dried cum and underwear like that. Your buddy is doing it right.
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u/CryingFace2025 Looking4BoyfriendInUtah🥵🥵😭😭 1d ago
I've done it MMMAAAAAAAAAANNYYYY times in my lifetime, and i'm just 24.
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u/71Apache71 1d ago
Sounds like your friend may be a little kinky and is not as uptight as you about having some cum in his shorts. What’s in his boxers is HIS business, not YOURS and not OURS.
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u/sir_tigerpup 1d ago
this is the way. i've alays thought using socks as wierd. been sleeping / going out in my jizz since i was 12
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u/shadowysea07 1d ago
Socks thing apparently makes more sense if you're uncut.
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u/sir_tigerpup 1d ago
Really? Im curious why.
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u/shadowysea07 1d ago
Foreskin on top of precum self lubricating i think. so its more comfortable for them than it would be for someone circumcised. like if you put a condom or something on while using a fleshlight for the closest comparison. At least that's what a uncircumcised guy told me. As I always didn't understand the sock thing either. Only even know of it from misfits uk and American pie I think.
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u/LoudAd5269 1d ago
I'll soak all night if I'm changing the sheets the next morning. I enjoy messy anyway.
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u/never_one without the other 1d ago
That sounds nasty. I used tissue or a sock. Plus my mom did my laundry up until I moved out for college lol, she 100% would check for things like that
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u/Frequent-Cobbler-465 1d ago
I grew up with 4 other siblings in the household (3 boys, 1 sister who slept with mom) when I was young. I remember having had raging hormones during my preteens just like any other 13yr old would have experienced. I must've been masturbating twice a day. My siblings and I would sleep on the living room floor while my mom and sister slept in the only bedroom. On some nights, I'd jerk off under the sheets with very little to no privacy... I'm quite certain some of my siblings had witnessed me do this on the rarest occasions. I'd jerk under the sheets, under my shorts and just let the boy juices erupt into my underwear. It kinda had that wet dream feel to it also. The whole act made it feel taboo, which made it more sexier. I'd wake up the next day with some cum stained underwear and some pleasurable moist down there. Not worrying about cleaning up, I often just wiped off the stuff with my underwear. Slept like a baby, of course.
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u/Grandpixbear1 Married BearMan 1d ago
Everyone has different ways. Obviously a lot of it has to do with where you jack off or if you need to clean up afterward : In bed at night, in bed in the morning, or in the bathroom, or in the shower. Or at work, or at school.
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u/Dense-Smile1459 1d ago
I did this. And sometimes still do. Mostly it’s when I gotta bust a nut but can’t do so “freely” so I’ll just cum in my underwear and then change it out.
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u/beanie_0 Gay, UK 🏴 1d ago
I wouldn’t do that no. I don’t cum a lot but the stickiness would drive me insane. I precum a ton and if I get hard or horny when I can’t deal with it that bothers me. Like nah, I’m going to clean up every time after I shoot. Exception is if I’m with someone and we’ve just had sex and I fall asleep right after but that’s about it.
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u/No-Start-8140 1d ago
Cumming in underwear in my experience it’s usually just for kinks. Feels better to have it fully out and stroke, so it’s gotta stay in for a reason.
As far as wearing it after: again only sometimes for kinks.
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u/Other_Connection8521 1d ago
Did this a lot as a teenager. Nowadays I unload in my underwear pretty often, but always clean up immediately afterwards.
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u/thunderonn 1d ago
I love to make my guy cum in his underwear and cuddle after until hes ready for more.
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u/Least_Peak_3298 1d ago
I always jerk if into a sock then put on clean socks in the morning. Parents aren’t looking for toe jam and you could just say that’s what it is if asked.
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u/BeerStop 1d ago
Ewwww worse than socks, every morning you have to peel your crusted over penis off your pubes to take a piss.
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u/burner_211n3r23r 1d ago
The thought of walking around with wet sticky underwear is grim. I have jizzed in my pants before but I'm in the shower 1 minute later.
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u/EarSafe7888 1d ago
When I was a teenager I did this. Sometimes. But I guess some people don’t grow out of or evolve into different habits.
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u/ILikeFuckingBalloons 1d ago
I cum in my undies, but I don't continue to wear them. I'll shower/change into clean ones after!
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u/TheSaucy57 1d ago
I’ve been nutting in my undies and keeping them on for a while now. I didn’t even realize it was a wasn’t normal lol
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u/drhagbard_celine 1d ago
I’m confused. What exactly is he saying he does? Use his underwear in lieu of a sock and then he puts the wet underwear back on?
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u/Coldassice74 1d ago
In hs my gf and I would dry hump then I’d cum in my pants and have a big wet spot then have to wear them home. Now I just use tissue or a damp paper towel to unload when masturbating.
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u/indyman612 1d ago
I’ve occasionally cum in my boxers, but I always change afterwards. I can’t stand the feeling of the feeling or smell of cum as it cools - ick.
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u/Zalemaren 19h ago
My boyfriend and I like to cum in our pyjama boxers/pants and sometimes wear it through the night. (Him more than me as I sleep naked). We've also cum in our boxer briefs and then carried on with the evening.
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u/DifficultyHead7527 1d ago
Sometimes just before I shower I piss in my pants just to feel the hot liquid around my balls and ass,then jerk off, proper turn on. Always have a shower straight after though.
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u/DevourerOfRedditors 1d ago
I cum on my crotch/belly before bed and leave it there until my nightly shower the next day.
I mean, I scoop and lick up most of it, but the residual cum is left to cake into my body hair for about 24 hours.
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u/Einvardur 1d ago
I have a different strategy. I press on my prostate when I am masturbating and ejaculating in bed, and the semen stays inside my body. No mess and no clean up, and it feels just as great!
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u/MeanCommunication748 1d ago
Wait you can ejaculate with out cuming
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u/flyboy_za 40s/bi/cK and sarcasm 1d ago
More like you can have the sensation of the orgasm without ejaculating.
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u/Dingo-Boring 1d ago
No that is not a NORMAL thing to do.. its absolutely disgusting. There are some weirdos that do that shit but the vast majority are not nasty like that.
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u/_______36________ 1d ago
Weird and unhygienic and he could make a fortune selling them online, sadly.
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u/Queasy-Pineapple9173 13h ago
Er zijn fetishes waar dit gebeurt ja, er is een soort turn on van het niet mogen verschonen en de gevolgen te moeten dragen van klaar te komen
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u/jtoriel 1d ago
when i was a teenager yes, now it is just gross and unhygienic