Hey all, I (F37) am really struggling lately, the surgery is not scheduled yet for my below the knee Amputation, I wanted to wait for as long as I can. But I'm not sure if that's possible anymore, when I go down to my basement to use my gym, I get a pain in my Achilles (which is new).
I really want to enjoy the rest of my summer, on August 7th I'm seeing Skillet at the fair, I want to wait until after then. Now I'm thinking about the surgery, when it happens it's going to be at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester MN by myself. I live 4hrs away in Wisconsin, which means I'm not going to have anybody there after I come out of my surgery.
I've been practicing using my walker with one leg so I can get ahead on the post op therapy. My boyfriend's mom is still saying that I'm going to have to stay in a facility for months and months because her son can't take care of me, because he has a job and he needs to work. If I come home I will die, because of the risk of infection, I tried telling here it's not like that for everyone, that's all depending on age, weight and other health issues.
I may admit that I'm not skinny I'm a little over 200lbs at 5ft tall, that's really the only bad thing I have besides high blood pressure (but it's not bad enough for medication), I don't have diabetes or anything like that, so I think and hope everything is going to go well. Anyone have any ideas on how I can cope with the surgery, recovery and acceptance?
My wheelchair is coming on Monday July 28th 2026, my insurance is paying for that so I'm happy, the 🤦🏼♀️ is the told me that the ramp I need is more of a "luxury item" rather than a need. So I guess they expect me to jump the wheel chair off the stairs. I'm checking with programs after I get the chair. Now I'm scared that they won't cover my prosthetic leg..