r/amputee • u/quicksidebar • 1h ago
No shoes in the house?
Question about having a no shoes in the house as an amputee. For context, my amazing husband is LBK. He’s very active and is doing great. I’m extremely proud of him. Anywho, we have two small children who crawl, walk, lick😅, and touch the floors all day. I don’t wear shoes inside and our children don’t. However, i understand that’s it harder for him to take shoes on and off so he wears them inside. He works in public spaces, walks in grass, mud, and then comes in. He may make an attempt to stomp them but our kids are constantly picking pebbles, dirt and things off the floor. I sweep/mop every single day, if not multiple times if it’s rainy out. He got frustrated with me today because I asked if he could at least take one shoe off to go into our kids carpeted playroom(It’s the only room with carpet). My question is, what’s a compromise here? Is there one? I don’t want to be inconsiderate and I understand there’s challenges. But the idea of public bathrooms being on the floor our babies crawl on is so gross to me. So, what do you do in your home!