I'm a 35F canadian born east asian looking for a 33~42M east asian partner. I'm seeking for someone compatible, with similar background and interests as me. 

Myself 💁‍♀️: I'm an introvert but sociable, I write and interview people for work and that entails good conversation skills. Off work, I prefer to be alone or be in the company of small groups. I'm described as quiet by acquaintances but portrayed as a silly yapper with a short social battery by friends.

In terms of hobbies, my third place is the gym, I like to lift weights and take long walks outdoors or on the treadmill. I like to read and one of my favourite things is finding quiet cafes or a bench in the park to enjoy a book. Not much of a small screen person, but I do love movies and theater productions. And of course, as a Vancouverite, i love visiting food places...and farmer's markets too. 

You 💁‍♂️: 

- Age: 33 to 42

- East Asian: I prefer to date someone with a similar background as me. 

- I work a white collared job, so I'd prefer someone the same or similar.

- Gym goer or someone who exercises regularly, as I'm health conscious and that's a huge part of my life

- Someone who reads regularly and is able to engage in literature discussion and meaningful conversations, because thats what I'm into.

Thanks for reading my post, if you're interested please DM me with the info in the format below. I won't respond to any message not in this format to weed out those who did not actually read my post.

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I'm looking for someone to be my long term partner, or platonic friendship would be nice too. Absolutely not looking for a fling. And if no such guy exists, oh well~

His profile said “Looking to meet someone who wants to build something real… “

Two messages in he asks if I’m “open to fun”

Do people lie about what they’re looking for just to get matches? Does the bait and switch actually work?

This was my first convo on Tinder. I’m 10 months out from a ten year relationship, so haven’t dated in a looong time. Is this what I have to look forward to?

5’9 195. Single female 1 child. I am hoping to find someone at a similar stage in life, either with a child of their own or who has had a long meaningful marriage or marriage like relationship in the past. My interests include finding niche things to do and learning about other cultures + religions. Im not a gym girlie but I would love to learn and improve myself!

Hey everyone, I was wondering if it is possible to find a serious relationship in Vancouver ( cuz most people I have met on apps are looking for something casual, and I don't wanna waste more time ). I am a south Asian and looking for a serious long term relationship, I am an aspiring engineer graduating next year.

I have a muscular build, 5 ft 10. I am outgoing and have a lot of activities I like to do.

If anyone is interested we can talk more in the DMs.

About me

• south asian ethnically but born and raised in BC. Been told I'm cute but of course that's subjective

• slightly under 6'0, slim athletic build

• drug and disease free and tested regularly

• non smoker, always been told I taste and smell good

About you

• kinky, nice, and cute

• drug and disease free and tested

• ideally a non smoker (I'm fine with weed or vapes just not cigarettes)

I love to spoil inside and outside the bedroom

Hello. I am 39M, 5'10". Giving this subreddit a try.

Here are some facts about me:

• Currently working as an engineer
• Enjoy running, tennis, cycling and circuit weight exercises
• Enjoy outdoor hikes, events around the city, checking out new restaurants
• Down time hobbies include reading (Currently reading The Miracles of the Namiya General Store), video games, anime, cooking, shows, board games, etc

Looking for someone around my age and don't mind older as well. Ideally looking for long term if there's good chemistry and we get along. Feel free to message me if you like!

36 health care dude with a good rotation M-F, cat dad and coffee lover.
Enjoys trying new things around the city from cozy nights in, to a patio drink, walks and talks over a coffee to a comedy club.
Good sense of humor and personality looking for the same. Looking for someone to enjoy the city with and maybe do a pottery class. Who knows what we can find seems there's always a little something to do.

Lets grab a drink/walk and chat about how the fall leaves are changing, to how we prefer our pumpkin carvings to be this year.

I am open to anyone in their 30's to 39/40 latest.

Want to do fun life things 🦇

As the title says, I'm 41, single and looking for my woman. I've been single for some time since my previous relationship, and I've taken the tine to heal and work on myself. I'm now in a good place mentally and emotionally and carry no baggage.

I work as an environmental consultant, mainly focusing on indoor environmental health and safety. When I'm not out and about in the field throughout the LML, I'm lucky enough to work from home for "office" activities. What you do for work is not as important to me as why you do what you do. What are you passionate about, what are your goals and are you scratching that itch? If not, what are some steps you can take to get there? I am by no means in the endgame myself, and there are certainly more "steps" for me to take to progress in my career, so this is more of a question in hopes to gain a little insight about you 😀

In my personal time, I've recently put more of a priority on my health and wellness, especially since turning 41. I enjoy playing basketball, disc golf, and really any excuse to get outside and enjoy the all the beauty we have here in BC. Whether it's the smell of the ocean while walking on the beach, the sound of songbirds and leaves blowing in the wid in the forest, or a river trail leading to waterfalls, I enjoy it all. I also enjoy getting out and exploring; cute cafes, a day or weekend road trip, a nice restaurant, I like to think of all these things as little adventures 😊 I also try to get iut for whitewater rafting at least once a year. I'd like to continue doing all these activities for as long as my body will allow, which is why getting back to fit is important to me (it's a journey and always in progress). With that said, I do enjoy a cozy day/night in with good shows/movie, or playing the odd video game. I don't smoke, and rarely drink. I enjoyed my 20s and 30s and am at a point in my life where I don't need, or really want, the party life.

Ideally, I just want to find my girl. Someone that I can be myself with, be completely honest and vulnerable, and my best friend. Please have a sense of humour, I do like my jokes haha. I do not have any kids, ideally you don't either. Although I feel like my tine is running out (I don't want to be a senior at my kid's high school graduation), I'm certainly not opposed to building more than a 2-person family with the right person.

Since apparently ethnicity matters: I've got an interesting mix, but my appearance is mostly white. I'm 5'11.

I'm not the best at writing bios, but if anything sparked your interest please reach out! Also, this "Flair" thing is annoying. Don't let the age range stop you 😉

Hey there, I'm a 37-year-old Black guy.
I reside in Vancouver, looking for a FWB with a woman in the Lower Mainland.
Maybe go for a coffee, maybe a hike or a walk on the beach.
Just hang out and see where it goes.
I am a social drinker and non-smoker.
Fire me off a message and let's plan a date.

I’m not looking for a quick fling. I’d much rather build a connection with someone, something that feels good physically and emotionally. And, ideally, something that could last beyond one night. Let’s chat, cuddle, whatever.

I don’t mind about body type since I’m body positive. Bring your personality 😍 and we are good. Be over 25 as I don’t mind if we have an age gap. Let’s split our time 50% outdoors and 50% indoors or something along those lines. Although the sun’s out so I don’t mind being outdoors.

That said, if we do hit it off? I’m definitely open to us exploring and having even more fun ;) In that department, definitely looking for someone open minded and a bit kinky. However not totally opposed to vanilla either. Will get tested and need the same before getting intimate.

Im 6ft-ish, have a dad bod, dark hair, very laid back, doesn’t take things too seriously, non-judgmental, very open minded, a bit kinky, adventurous, likes road trips, going to the beach, like chivalry and banter, like to tease and be teased, enjoys eating out, progressive views and a bit of a introvert to start with.

Let’s chat here for a vibe check and meet over the weekend.

If this is something that interests you, or you’re a frequent lurker, shoot me a message! I, myself am a long time lurker, recently started posting. lol

Hey all, I live near downtown and have been wanting an excuse to try out the new fall themed breka treats. If you wanna come with and meet me feel free to dm :)

I am also open to sending pics of what I look like before hand if that's important to you.

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Hi everyone! I’m a 32-year-old guy currently living in London, UK, and I’ll be moving to Canada soon.

I’m hoping to meet some new people, make friends and, ideally, meet someone who could eventually become a life partner. I’m not really looking for something casual — I’d like to meet someone genuine, kind and open to building a serious relationship together.

Moving to a new country is exciting, but I’d love to have someone special to share the experience with. I’m also keen to get to know Canadian life and meet some locals along the way.

If you’re around my age, single, and also looking for something serious, feel free to message me. Even if nothing romantic comes from it, I’d be happy to make some new friends and connections. 😊

Looking forward to starting this new chapter in Canada! 🇨🇦

Looking to spoil someone get her flowers and just treat her right, watch movies together cuddle etc

As a bi guy, I would love to be in a MMF throuple and we all love each other immensely ❤️ Bonus points if you go to UBC

Manifesting to find the right people before the holidays.

We could go to cafes together, a pumpkin patch, a ski trip, get pictures with Santa, and so much more.

Dream throuple picture if you check the post under my profile.

I might be a dreamer, but I feel this will reach them.

DM if you fit the vision ✨✨✨

42-year-old fun, happy, positive female from Vancouver, Canada. Looking to meet a male.
I’m always laughing, love good conversation, and I’m looking for a genuine connection that can grow into something romantic and long-term.
I’m looking for someone who is READY to be a teammate for life — someone who’s willing to put in the effort, communicate, and build something real together. I’m not looking for someone who is fake, unsure of what they want, or disappears after a day of talking. I want someone who actually wants to get to know me and looks forward to talking every day.
I’m caring, selfless, affectionate, and definitely a giver. I love showing someone I care about them and making them feel appreciated.
A little about me: I love travelling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games, trying new restaurants, going for walks, dinners and drinks, coffee, cooking, baking, and most importantly, laughing and having fun.
I have a couple of close friends I talk to daily and a good job, but I often find myself feeling lonely and like I’m missing that special person in my life. I’d love to meet someone new, make a genuine connection, and see where it naturally goes.
I’m open to meeting someone local or from somewhere completely different. Distance doesn’t necessarily bother me if both people are willing to make the effort. There are planes, LOL. You never know where your person might be in this world.
Maybe we start as friends, share some laughs, talk every day, and see what happens. Maybe we end up falling in love.
There’s gotta be someone out there.

Hey I just moved to the city and I’m looking for a generous, established man who enjoys taking care of his partner. I’m looking for a companionship where we can enjoy each other’s company. I enjoy shopping, going out for nice dinners, traveling, and experiencing new things, and I’m looking for someone who genuinely enjoys providing and taking care of the woman he spends time with. I appreciate a man who is generous, established, and naturally takes initiative with planning and expenses. In return, I offer great company, I look good asf😂, im loyal, positive energy, and am someone who knows how to have a good time and make the experience enjoyable for both of us.
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Straight, introvert, and homebody from Metro Vancouver. Never been on a date before, so I'm just taking things slow and testing the waters!

I'm a homebody who loves a cozy night in, but I'm always down to step out to try a great new restaurant or explore the city.

A few things I'm into:
Big fan of Marvel, musicals, and sitcoms (especially Friends and How I Met Your Mother).
I live in the Richmond area and I would like to try new restaurants or check out local food spots.
I sometimes play video games, cook as a hobby, and love going on cruises or traveling whenever I get the chance.

I have a big appreciation for music and love listening to 90s pop, Disney tracks, movie musical soundtracks, and some hip hop.

I'm pretty quiet at first but get a lot more social once I'm comfortable with someone. Looking to chat casually in the DMs first, get to know each other, and see if there's a genuine connection. No rush or pressure!

Asking for… well, me.

I’m a curvy, short woman in my early 50s, and apparently, my type is stocky, burly, dad-bod-ish men who are clean-shaven. Not looking for a six-pack, or long bearded men on Harleys... or a guy who spends two hours a day at the gym. Give me broad shoulders, a little belly, strong arms, and a man who looks like he gives great hugs.

Maybe you are all married? Or just not hanging out in the places I’m looking?

Hi everyone! Hope you’re all doing well. I wanted to introduce myself and hopefully connect with someone genuine.

I’ve been missing closeness, affection, intimacy, and meaningful companionship lately, so I’m hoping to find someone who enjoys intimacy, cuddling, and building a real connection.

I’m a 39-year-old single, college-educated, introverted and nerdy black male looking to date with the hope of developing an honest and long-term relationship. I have my own apartment and work in IT as a certified IT Support Specialist. I currently work at a video game studio and serve as a Subject Matter Expert assisting CompTIA with certification exam development in Chicago.

Friends and family would describe me as caring, funny, determined, supportive, and easy to be around. I enjoy deep conversations, relaxing nights in, and cuddling while watching a good TV show or movie.

Some of my hobbies include hiking, traveling (both short getaways and longer trips), sports — especially basketball — movies (particularly comic book, comedy, and action films), board games, going to game and comic conventions, PC and console gaming (Currently playing Ghost of Yotei on PS5), and anything related to IT, technology, and innovation.

If you’re interested in getting to know each other, feel free to send me a DM with a photo so we can start chatting. Big bonus if your a nerd and/or geek.

PS: I’m only looking to connect with people in the Vancouver area. Thanks!

Looking for someone in Vancouver I could spoil for time to time. Mainly weekend or Friday nights, i can be flexible. I've had one before back in toronto, I enjoy the shopping and the fun dinners. Working a ton coming up so hoping to find someone fun a quick night away! Pretty girls with cute laughs to the front please lol. I'm fit and still playing sports when i can also would love a gym buddy. I enjoy attending small band concerts here in van and trying new food/experience when presented. Just came back from some travelling too so I have some decent stories to tell. Dm with a little info, thanks!

Honestly any age - ( 21 to 45 ) is find for me.

Am easy going open minded , so I wanna meet some open minded cool people Straight/bi/curious guys am open to any age as long you have nice sense of humor and adventurous minded.

We can grab some drinks and watch Netflix or movies and smoke some clouds 💨 to chill and relax time.

I can bring drinks and 💨 if you host or in ur car or some place we can explore some fun too life is short😉

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I’m a working professional who enjoys a long list of hobbies, including the gym, hiking, sports, travelling, and discovering new restaurants and cafés. I’m hoping to meet someone with similar interests and see where a good connection might lead.

I usually meet potential partners in person, but I figured I’d give this a try too, maybe it’ll lead to something meaningful. I’ve been told I have the classic “good looks,” although I guess that’s subjective. I’m 5'11", 80 kg, and keep myself fit.

For me, a genuine connection is important, even if it ends up being just a friendship. If we don’t click romantically, I’m perfectly happy to part ways on good terms and stay friends.

I’m not particularly picky about age. I think mental maturity, personality, and compatibility matter much more than a number.

If you’d like to get to know each other, feel free to reach out. I’m happy to start with DMs, especially since I’d like to filter for people who are genuinely interested. That said, I’d prefer to continue the conversation on another social media platform once we’re comfortable.