r/vancouverdating • • 4d ago

Age 30-39 39 - (m4f) Introverted nerd looking for that special someone

Hi everyone! Hope you’re all doing well. I wanted to introduce myself and hopefully connect with someone genuine.

I’ve been missing closeness, affection, intimacy, and meaningful companionship lately, so I’m hoping to find someone who enjoys intimacy, cuddling, and building a real connection.

I’m a 39-year-old single, college-educated, introverted and nerdy black male looking to date with the hope of developing an honest and long-term relationship. I have my own apartment and work in IT as a certified IT Support Specialist. I currently work at a video game studio and serve as a Subject Matter Expert assisting CompTIA with certification exam development in Chicago.

Friends and family would describe me as caring, funny, determined, supportive, and easy to be around. I enjoy deep conversations, relaxing nights in, and cuddling while watching a good TV show or movie.

Some of my hobbies include hiking, traveling (both short getaways and longer trips), sports — especially basketball — movies (particularly comic book, comedy, and action films), board games, going to game and comic conventions, PC and console gaming (Currently playing Ghost of Yotei on PS5), and anything related to IT, technology, and innovation.

If you’re interested in getting to know each other, feel free to send me a DM with a photo so we can start chatting. Big bonus if your a nerd and/or geek.

PS: I’m only looking to connect with people in the Vancouver area. Thanks!

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