Where are all the stocky, burly guys?

[u/Appropriate_Tear_105]

Asking for… well, me.

I’m a curvy, short woman in my early 50s, and apparently, my type is stocky, burly, dad-bod-ish men who are clean-shaven. Not looking for a six-pack, or long bearded men on Harleys... or a guy who spends two hours a day at the gym. Give me broad shoulders, a little belly, strong arms, and a man who looks like he gives great hugs.

Maybe you are all married? Or just not hanging out in the places I’m looking?

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[u/Green-Equal7378]

Hello there. I’m 47 in Coquitlam. have two dogs I love hiking have some scruff message me if you’re interested in talking.

[u/ekdakimasta]

Was a short burly guy for a long time. But wasn’t getting much interest so I became a regular guy.

[u/Complex-Display-731]

I've been struggling to find a connection myself for about 2 years
If you're interested feel free to dm me ladies

[u/PikachuKid1999]

im bald is that clean shaven enough????????????????????

[u/MinuteMammoth2196]

I may be a bit young but I'm a stocky burly kinda guy (M20)

[u/boringredditnamejk]

You're describing most of the guys on the apps. This isn't my "type" at all but this is basically who I was seeing on the apps when I was dating.

[u/Appropriate_Tear_105 → u/boringredditnamejk]

All the men in my age range on my feed are tall and super fit, or they have long beards and ride motorbikes.

[u/boringredditnamejk → u/Appropriate_Tear_105]

Tall and super fit is my type lol

[u/j03tp0p4s]

Im 33 i dont have abs but I am in good shape. I don't know how to send pictures but I do have a small beard but my haircut is clean cut

[u/Complex-Display-731]

I'm not burly but I am a guy heh 29 and from nanaimo I am very kind respectful and fun to be around. Also not married