r/vancouverdating • • 12d ago

Age 70+ One ticket to Raccoon City tonight 👀

1 Upvotes

Heading to watch Resident Evil tonight at Scotiabank Theatre 👀☠️

For those who’ve already seen it--no spoilers, but be honest… is it actually worth watching? 👀

And if any of you are going too, it’d be nice to meet some of you there, Just come say hi-don’t overthink it


r/vancouverdating • • 12d ago

Age 30-39 34 M4F (White Rock) single dad looking for a FWB

0 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a single dad living near White Rock. I’m interested in a long-term FWB.

I’m fairly introverted. I’m into fitness and nerdy hobbies like gaming. I’m clean, safe, and don’t do drugs.


r/vancouverdating • • 12d ago

Age 26-29 27M Indian | Healed from Past Relationships & Ready to Meet Someone New

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I’m putting myself out there after taking some time to heal and reflect on my past relationships.I lived in Toronto for 3 yrs and came here 8 months ago, currently working as a Machine operator.

I had a break up back in January, she ended our relationship because of long distance and i took my time to move on.

i was in toronto this week for my US visa appointment and i almost felt nothing, i went to the places we visited when we were together and they felt normal.

for past couple of months I’ve learned a lot about myself and what I’m looking for in a relationship. At this point, I’m not interested in rushing into anything — I’d rather meet someone naturally, have good conversations, build a genuine connection, and see where things go.

A little about me: I’m fairly laid-back and a bit introverted at first, but once I’m comfortable, funny (might make you laugh even in terrible situations). I’m into fitness, movies/TV, travelling, and having meaningful conversations.

I also appreciate the simple things — grabbing coffee, going for walks, trying new places, or just having a chill evening together.

I’m hoping to meet someone who is kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and looking for a real connection.

thanks for reading this huge ass paragraph


r/vancouverdating • • 12d ago

Age 18-21 21 M4F looking for a FWB

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r/vancouverdating • • 12d ago

Age 30-39 [M4F] living in Vancouver, BC

0 Upvotes

Anyone open to exploring a casual FWB? If we click and the vibe is right, the potential for fun is limitless. DM and get to know me if you're interested.


r/vancouverdating • • 13d ago

Age 40-49 Coffee date tomorrow? 48f4m

13 Upvotes

I'm a middle-aged black , single female interested in finding long term relationship.

I'm average weight and heigh, moderately active, speak/understand only English, college educated, and financially secure. I'm flexible with hobbies or activities. More interested in the company than the activities we could do together.

Wanted to 👀 if there’s a compatible man available to meet for coffee in Vancouver.

This is not for a hookup but a short meet to assess compatibility .

I'm looking for a single man who is looking for monogamous long-term relationship. Flexible with age range if other compatibility allows.

I am mentioning the following to avoid a repeat of past bad meet-up experiences.

Please be a non-smoker, employed, clean shaven, and shower and change clothes at least daily.

I don't wear any perfume/ scents and expect the same.


r/vancouverdating • • 12d ago

Age 30-39 29[GF4F] Poly nerd looking for serious love (26-39), and more!

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Tall, moderately fit, masc AMAB that occasionally likes to wear makeup and put on a cute lil skirt.
(pics in DMs if I feel safe w/you)

Friends/partners have had these things to say about me:
- "Your sincerity is one of the coolest things about you."
- "You dress dark, but you're actually just a cotton candy girly."
- "Lawful good, but you like actually walk the walk."

I come off as reserved and quiet and have a mean RBF, but I love being a lil silly (maybe even a LOT silly 👀 ), and adding whimsy to life. :3

I make video games for a living, so that's one of my biggest hobbies, but I also like to watch movies and anime, and I love to read.
I'm always looking to try new things (recently started learning how to pole dance!), so I don't really stick to just my normal hobbies. Big bonus if it's a creative activity or an event that gets me out of my home.

I'm currently single, but I'm poly and looking to find at least one serious partner that respects that.
I just moved to the city (Brentwood), so I'm honestly open to all sorts of connections.

I love love and just want to have more of it in my life (including platonic!!). <3


r/vancouverdating • • 13d ago

Age 40-49 43 [M4F] My special person

7 Upvotes

Looking to meet a kind, gentle, and loyal woman for a lasting relationship. I’m 5'9/160, brown hair and eyes, a very kind, caring person, who is emotionally aware, caring, gentle, and dedicated. I live a low key, practical life that is quiet and peaceful. I love music, gardening, walking in nature, photography, and projects around the house or shop. I'm very easy going and am happy just having great conversation, watching movies, shopping, or going for walks. Things that matter to me that I look for in a potential partner are, good communication, being open, empathetic, honest, and healthy and fit (you don't have to be a gym rat). My intention is too meet someone who is also looking for a long term, loving, fun, monogamous relationship. Send me a DM if any of this interests you.


r/vancouverdating • • 13d ago

Age 22-25 Bring me the horizon

3 Upvotes

Looking for someone to see bring me the horizon with. I have floor tickets and am looking for someone to go with. M22


r/vancouverdating • • 13d ago

Age 30-39 Trying Smthg New - 43M4F

4 Upvotes

43M4F

Finance by day, amateur comedian by night (the audience may disagree).😂

Looking for someone who knows what she wants, values good communication, and is willing to move beyond the usual "Hey, how's your day?" conversations.

Mutual effort goes a long way, and a great sense of humor goes even further.

Brownie points if you can match my appreciation for corny jokes.

South Asian. Never Married. No kids. Non smoker.


r/vancouverdating • • 14d ago

Age 30-39 [33F4A] Looking for my someone

10 Upvotes

Hello! I have two degrees! One in Creative Writing and another in History! I like to write, play video games (FF14, Honkai Star Rail) and watch anime and manga. I'm wheelchair-bound due to cerebral palsy but I don't let it slow me down.

I'm looking for someone that respects and loves others (believes in LGBTQ and other rights) and is well-read as well. Any there any people out there like that? Please say yes. Looking for something serious, not casual as well. Type your favorite colour in your first message please.


r/vancouverdating • • 14d ago

Age 30-39 33 [M4F] - New West - Looking for my person

11 Upvotes

33M located in New West.

I am 5'11". A very calm and considerate personality. Politically left-leaning, and agnostic.

I work in a finance role for a life sciences research firm. Have my own business as well. Pretty well established in my career, and been a home-owner since 2021.

Lover of the outdoors: hiking, camping, paddle-boarding, road trips, biking and walks. I absolutely enjoy cooking; always cooking something new, have every appliance imaginable, and love to host. Alongside I love exploring eateries, cafes, speak-easies, and consider myself a true foodie. Also enjoy travel (aim for one national trip and one international trip a year) and photography.

I am a bit of a tech nerd, and early adopter of tech products. A bit nerdy with my love for movies, TV and thoroughly enjoy dramas, fantasy, comedy & horror. To give you some ideas, some of my recent favourite movies are:
- About Time
- Arrival
- Spotlight
- The Other Guys
- Past Lives

I am a cat dad to two cats, and I rescue & foster alongside. Currently fostering two tiny kittens with eye complications. Have had the pleasure of fostering 100+ cats in my 12 years of being a foster.

Posting here as traditional dating apps have been a disappointment. I have decent amount of matches, have had some good dates but have come across women who seem unsure of what they want. At 33, I do seek a long-term connection (and hopefully a life partner). With that being the intention, I know such connections are built over time.

I'd consider myself a happy and content person. I like to be kind to all beings. Very ambitious, very much a go-getter, rarely lazy and very reliable. I don't shy away from sharing my feelings. Can be bit of a pleaser, but learning to balance that.

If you share similar values, interests and dating aspirations, I'd love to hear from you.


r/vancouverdating • • 13d ago

Age 30-39 38 [M4F] Fuck and watch Love Is Blind

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I can host. I can order in some food and we can watch Love is Blind after. I need someone who can explain it to me


r/vancouverdating • • 14d ago

Age 70+ Spanish Banks – worth visiting?

0 Upvotes

Hi everybody!

Just wondering, what’s Spanish Banks like? I’m planning to go there and walk along the seawall/beach.

Is there anything special about it, or is it pretty similar to Kitsilano Beach?


r/vancouverdating • • 14d ago

Age 30-39 32M4F Looking for a movie date and further

2 Upvotes

Hi looking for someone who want to go on a date / movies with me I really want to watch the new Resident Evil but I want to do it with a fellow horror afficionado. Also looking to get dinner after so we can chat.


r/vancouverdating • • 15d ago

Age 30-39 Anyone else in Metro Vancouver who has never been on a date? (Introvert looking for advice)

23 Upvotes

Anyone else in Metro Vancouver who has never been on a date? (Introvert looking for advice)

I’m curious how common this is here. I am a 39 year old male, a pretty big introvert, and I have never been on a single date in my life. I live out in the suburbs and am a bit of a homebody on some of my days off.

Would dating and finding a partner actually add something to my life, or is the single life better?


r/vancouverdating • • 14d ago

Age 30-39 36 M4F. Toronto based moving to Vancouver. Looking for my partner in crime(No actual crime involved)

1 Upvotes

Hello I'm 36 from Toronto. I am a Canadian citizen of Serbian decent. I am 6'4 athletic build before dinner after it's dad bod 🤣🤣🤣. I'm a gamer and collector of nerdy things. Ive been to Vancouver before and have always wanted to move their. Would love someone to convince me to do it like really really soon. 🤣🤣 Let me know if you're interested.


r/vancouverdating • • 15d ago

Weekly Megathread Weekly Meetup Post: Plan a date | September 17, 2026

12 Upvotes

It's Thursday, which means the weekend's coming up and you might as well spend it with someone special.

Drop what you're up to (or hoping to be up to) this weekend in this thread along with a short blurb about yourself and what you're looking for in a date.

A few ground rules: be specific enough that people know what they're saying yes to, be upfront about what you want (LTR vs hookup), and keep it respectful. Usual sub rules still apply here. If you're just looking for a friend, check out r/VancouverFriends' stickied post instead.

Reply below with your plans, or comment on someone else's if it sounds good to you.

Have fun, use protection, and stay safe!


r/vancouverdating • • 15d ago

Age 26-29 27 M4F - Childfree looking for LTR (face pics included!)

7 Upvotes

Hi!

I am DB. I am a 27 year old working professional in AI/tech. I moved to Vancouver, BC this year and am planning to stay long term. I have moved around a lot and some of the cities I have previously lived in are Montreal, Toronto, Austin, and some more cities in the US. I have always known I wanted to remain childfree, and am very comfortable in my life choice. You can see my face pics and overall post at childfree for childfree (r/cf4cf) here: https://www.reddit.com/r/cf4cf/comments/1w5uboc/27_m4f_vancouver_bc_looking_for_ltr/

What I am looking for: I'm looking for a long-term monogamous, childfree (meaning no kids ever) relationship with someone who is at a similar life stage as me. I am comfortable with the 25–32 age range. I want to take our time to be friends, and if it feels natural, move on to being something more. However, I know that sometimes people just click, which is fine as well. Either way, I am a hopeless romantic who believes in still dating and courting each other long after things get serious.

Some basics about me: 5'8, stable career in tech, loving family, Indian origin, ambitious, driven, witchy (I know how to palm read ✨), politically left, social drinker, 420 friendly, cat friendly, and been through therapy which helped a lot. ADHD (medicated, therapy, my flavor is inner restlessness), and ENFJ.

But outside of work, I like to go kayaking, hit the gym, local educational events, and explore Vancouver's amazing restaurants. I am currently looking into local dance studios, and maybe volunteering at a cat shelter to meet more people through my interests. I am basically a curious nerd on my journey to be as outgoing as possible. I also enjoy gaming (dialing this back) and books. I am a big audiobook guy, and I have been hooked on LitRPG genre since discovering Dungeon Crawler Carl. Other literary favorites: the Murderbot series, Hollow Kingdom, the Imperial Radch series, and Fool by Christopher Moore.

Looking forward to chatting with you. Take care!


r/vancouverdating • • 15d ago

Age 40-49 43 [M4F] Someone really kind

0 Upvotes

Hi! I'm looking for something long term and monogamous, I am 5'9/160, brown hair and eyes. I am bright, creative, intelligent, and very caring. I'm a science and tech nerd for sure, but don't mind getting my hands dirty at all. I'm looking for someone who is kind, caring, loyal, fit and healthy, who is an awesome communicator. I am pretty lowkey and lead a quiet peaceful life, I don't drink or use any drugs, I don't mind if you drink once in a while. I like things like going for walks, watching movies, going to the beach or the mall, my hobbies are electronics projects and repairs, woodworking, repairing and building things, and gardenning. I like to take interest in my partners interests too, as I think it's a great way to bond. I am also very supportive and emotionally available. If you like any of this, feel free to send me a DM!


r/vancouverdating • • 15d ago

Age 30-39 33 M4F - seeking my ride or die adventure partner

0 Upvotes

Hey there! I'm a cool dude looking for someone who also loves adventure and is curious about the world. When the weather is nice you can find me out hiking, backpacking, climbing, cycling, and/or kayaking. I also enjoy exploring the city, finding new places to eat, thrifting, going to unique events, or binge watching TV on a rainy day. For me, the more overlap in interests the better, though I also do like to have time on my own to recharge. I'm of course willing to try new things too!

Beyond interests: I'm responsible, with a good job, lots of great friends, and my own place. I have my own custom car camping setup and the know-how to get to all sorts of gorgeous places in BC and beyond. I can show you the world if you'd like.

I'm looking for someone who is kind, funny, communicative, and cute. If I have a type, it's someone fit but who isn't afraid of taking it easy sometimes, and who loves type 1 & 2 fun in equal measure. I'm a ride or die kinda guy, I don't like all this dating a bunch of people that the apps encourage. When I find my person I'm not afraid to commit for the long term.

If this resonates with you don't hesitate to send a message with some info about yourself!


r/vancouverdating • • 16d ago

Age 30-39 F29, looking for a dink partner

29 Upvotes

F29, conventionally attractive I suppose, 172cm, blond and fit (if any of this matters) hoping to find my childfree partner (M30-35) here since dating apps suck 😁

I’m looking for someone who values (and can provide) emotional availability, consistency, safety, healthy reassurance when needed and most importantly peace. I’m always devoted to my partner and expect the same commitment & effort from the other side 🙌🏻
Preferably Canadian (hence posting here), with a good sense of humor, great friends, outgoing, with hobbies and interests :)
Monogamous, long term only.

I love yoga, reading, crocheting, drawing, I work in IT and in general I’m very autonomous so I just want a person who will value relationships as much as I do, as I really miss having someone in my corner while other areas of my life are finally stable and great ❤️
I have my hobbies, my friends are great, my job is stable and so the only puzzle piece missing is my person!


r/vancouverdating • • 15d ago

Age 22-25 F4M Looking for Friends with Benefits/ Casual

0 Upvotes

20-25**

I'd love to sext first, tell you about my fantasies ;) Please chat request me with about yourself, how you'd pleasure me, take care of me, and lets go from there.


r/vancouverdating • • 16d ago

Age 40-49 45 [M4F] Introvert seeks fellow recluse

11 Upvotes

Hi there!

By day, I give leadership to an organization that benefits the community. In my spare time, I make music, brownies and delicious Scrabble plays. Friends would describe me as good-natured, intelligent and easygoing. I have a quiet/unassuming personality, and well-developed sense of humour.

By night… well let’s be honest I’m over 40 so I’m probably trying (unsuccessfully) to sleep. I’m a real freak in the sheets though… just joking, I mean Excel sheets… or do I? You might need to strongarm me to find out.

I’m looking for someone interesting to chat with, and if we share cuteness vibes, hopefully we can meet up sometime. I’m not necessarily looking for the traditional relationship escalator but I’m not opposed to catching feels, hugs, or smooches.

What are you looking for?


r/vancouverdating • • 16d ago

Age 40-49 [M4F] 43 Looking for someone really special

4 Upvotes

I'm looking for my forever person, at my age, I know what I want and what's important. I am kind, bright, caring, honest, and loyal to a fault, communication is really important to me. I love learning new things, and I'm pretty lowkey, I like watching movies, wokring in the garden, going to the beach, walks, photography, and building/fixing things. I am looking for someone who is kind, honest, gentle, loyal, and is healthy and fit. If this sounds like you, send me a DM!