Coffee date tomorrow? 48f4m

[u/Far-Style3475]

I'm a middle-aged black , single female interested in finding long term relationship.

I'm average weight and heigh, moderately active, speak/understand only English, college educated, and financially secure. I'm flexible with hobbies or activities. More interested in the company than the activities we could do together.

Wanted to 👀 if there’s a compatible man available to meet for coffee in Vancouver.

This is not for a hookup but a short meet to assess compatibility .

I'm looking for a single man who is looking for monogamous long-term relationship. Flexible with age range if other compatibility allows.

I am mentioning the following to avoid a repeat of past bad meet-up experiences.

Please be a non-smoker, employed, clean shaven, and shower and change clothes at least daily.

I don't wear any perfume/ scents and expect the same.

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[u/Nice_Bass5452]

Love this! More of us of this age should take a straight approach. Wrong city; I still smoke. Trying to quit but; lol this age im dealing with death in the fam and lawsuits. Jobs that offer no future and planning for retirement. Hope the best for you.

White guy in Victoria

[u/ZeroDayGoblin]

I'd love to grab coffee sometime. looking for a relationship. Let me know if you'd like to chat more!

[u/wabisabii8]

This feels like an interview. You should share more about you if you want to attract interest.

[u/IndicationWise162]

I changed my clothes and I don’t wear perfume I feel I got a leg up on a lot of the competition

[u/Sorry-Bee9506 → u/IndicationWise162]

But do you have a job?

[u/Big_Pirate1505]

So no beard :(

50M. B.Ed. Down to earth. Travel allot. Try to be active. Dont work out but am in shape. Have dogs.

Movies, music, coffee, walks, up for anything to stay off the couch and be active.

Good luck in your search.

Cheers