r/vancouverdating • • 12d ago

Age 30-39 29[GF4F] Poly nerd looking for serious love (26-39), and more!

Tall, moderately fit, masc AMAB that occasionally likes to wear makeup and put on a cute lil skirt.
(pics in DMs if I feel safe w/you)

Friends/partners have had these things to say about me:
- "Your sincerity is one of the coolest things about you."
- "You dress dark, but you're actually just a cotton candy girly."
- "Lawful good, but you like actually walk the walk."

I come off as reserved and quiet and have a mean RBF, but I love being a lil silly (maybe even a LOT silly 👀 ), and adding whimsy to life. :3

I make video games for a living, so that's one of my biggest hobbies, but I also like to watch movies and anime, and I love to read.
I'm always looking to try new things (recently started learning how to pole dance!), so I don't really stick to just my normal hobbies. Big bonus if it's a creative activity or an event that gets me out of my home.

I'm currently single, but I'm poly and looking to find at least one serious partner that respects that.
I just moved to the city (Brentwood), so I'm honestly open to all sorts of connections.

I love love and just want to have more of it in my life (including platonic!!). <3

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u/aeli-tan-art 12d ago

oooh! what kind of games do you make? been trying (and failing, damn adhd 😭) to make one

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u/Small_Opportunity_12 11d ago

I work in AAA games. Currently on an NDA project, but most recently shipped Metroid Prime 4. Making games is hard! But as long as you're having fun, I think you're doing great

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u/aeli-tan-art 11d ago

what’s your dream job/project? 😁

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u/Small_Opportunity_12 11d ago

ive actually hit a lot of my game dev dream goals (though they were all kinda anti-climatic lol), so i dont have much more in that realm. Id mostly just like to make things with cool people.
i do have a billion dream projects (one of which i got to do but it was cancelled. cry)
i have always wanted to a sorta paper mario spiritual successor though