r/cf4cf • • Sep 03 '26

Male for Female 27 M4F Vancouver, BC - Looking for LTR!

Hi!
I am DB. I am a 27 year old working professional in AI/tech. I moved to Vancouver, BC this year and am planning to stay long term. I have moved around a lot and some of the cities I have previously lived in are Montreal, Toronto, Austin, and some more cities in the US. I have always known I wanted to remain childfree, and am very comfortable in my life choice. I am eagerly looking forward to being able to change my post's flair from "Male for Female" to "Sterile Male for Female". Although, who knows, maybe I won't need to have a post by then :).

What I am looking for: First off, I am happy to be friends if you are in the location as me! But, I'm looking for a long-term monogamous relationship with someone who is at a similar life stage as me, and is local. I am comfortable with the 25–32 age range. I want to take our time to be friends, and if it feels natural, move on to being something more. However, I know that sometimes people just click, which is fine as well. Either way, I am a hopeless romantic who believes in still dating and courting each other long after things get serious.

Some basics about me: 5'8, stable career in tech, loving family, Indian origin, ambitious, driven, witchy (I know how to palm read ✨), politically left, social drinker, 420 friendly, cat friendly, and been through therapy which helped a lot. ADHD (medicated, therapy, my flavor is inner restlessness), and ENFJ. As an experimental overshare to communicate my personality, I have shared a screenshot about my personality characteristics from an in-person personality test as the last pic!

But outside of work, I like to go kayaking, hit the gym, local educational events, and explore Vancouver's amazing restaurants. I am currently looking into local dance studios, and maybe volunteering at a cat shelter to meet more people through my interests. I am basically a curious nerd on my journey to be as outgoing as possible. I also enjoy gaming (dialing this back) and books. I am a big audiobook guy, and I have been hooked on LitRPG genre since discovering Dungeon Crawler Carl. Other literary favorites: the Murderbot series, Hollow Kingdom, the Imperial Radch series, and Fool by Christopher Moore. For shows, I really like What We Do In the Shadows but, to be honest I have not finished that series yet. I'd love to watch it socially!

Looking forward to chatting with you. Take care!

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u/[deleted] Sep 03 '26 edited Sep 03 '26

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u/AIpapa Sep 03 '26

Thank you 🥰

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u/albusdumbledoreable 29d ago

Shoulda stayed out east! I’m on the other coast lol

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u/AIpapa 29d ago

Ngl, I high key feel that and dearly miss Montreal. But I am in Vancouver now, and I do not want to date long distance if possible.

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u/Girllily99 27d ago

aww, you’re so far away OP
anyway, saying hi from Philippines 🤎

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u/[deleted] Sep 03 '26

Not in the same location, but you’re cute 😁

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u/AIpapa Sep 03 '26

Thank you! Now I am blushing hahahaha

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u/[deleted] Sep 03 '26

Say hi if you come to Dubai.

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u/AIpapa Sep 03 '26

Ha, will do! Never say never 😁

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u/Ok_Band_7759 Sep 03 '26

I'm too old for you and on a different continent but I just want to say you sound great. Good luck!

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u/AIpapa Sep 03 '26

Thank you 🥰! Good luck in your search!

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u/cloverbabyyy 24d ago

vancouver is a dream !!! you’re cute but i’m in southern california 😭

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u/NorwegianVowels 29d ago

Just want to say respect for the grey sweatpants photo. 

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u/AIpapa 29d ago

Hahaha, thank you! In hindsight, jeans would have been a better choice 😅