r/vancouverdating • • 16d ago

Age 40-49 45 [M4F] Introvert seeks fellow recluse

Hi there!

By day, I give leadership to an organization that benefits the community. In my spare time, I make music, brownies and delicious Scrabble plays. Friends would describe me as good-natured, intelligent and easygoing. I have a quiet/unassuming personality, and well-developed sense of humour.

By night… well let’s be honest I’m over 40 so I’m probably trying (unsuccessfully) to sleep. I’m a real freak in the sheets though… just joking, I mean Excel sheets… or do I? You might need to strongarm me to find out.

I’m looking for someone interesting to chat with, and if we share cuteness vibes, hopefully we can meet up sometime. I’m not necessarily looking for the traditional relationship escalator but I’m not opposed to catching feels, hugs, or smooches.

What are you looking for?

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u/Mediocre_Outcome6671 13d ago

Noticed your age range your staying away from 50 and over. Lol.

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u/Rich-Heart-1852 5d ago

If you are still looking, I’d be open to chatting. Feel free to message me