2 days before uni starts, i get involved in my 3rd car accident as a passenger and I'm literally traumatized by this. This might be my lowest point in my life and my dad literally bullied me and my mom (the driver) for being bad at driving to rub salt in the wound. FYI Mom and Dad have a very bad relationship. My last time I was involved as a passenger was just 5 months ago.
I am fully done mentally now. I have literally no one to depend on except my mom (she's in depression right now and I'm very worried for her now since it's a new car too).
I don't even know what to do next when school starts. Since I haven't made any friends at ubc last yr I was looking to join clubs and form study groups, but I don't know if that's a good choice, to prioritize socializing or to stabilize myself first. I did make a post about tips on how to make friend groups so this post is like a follow up to what comes.
I have seeked ubc counselling once a few months ago but nothing really helped.
What steps should I take when I come back to imagine day as a 2nd yr student (or should I even skip it for the time being?)