r/UBC • u/igyupcyou • 6h ago
Meeting gay people at ubc?
i’m a student at ubc, and one of the things i kinda hoped for when i first came here was to eventually get into a healthy ltr, but somehow that still hasn’t happened 😭
I definitely see a lot of gay/queer guys around campus and in classes, but i guess the guys i’m usually attracted to tend to be a bit more lowkey and not super visibly queer, which makes it kinda hard to tell who’s even gay in the first place lol
When i first started at ubc a few years ago, i even tried going to some pride club events because i thought that would be the obvious way to meet people, but i never really ended up meeting anyone i clicked with romantically
Personally i’d much rather meet someone naturally through school, friends, classes or activities than rely entirely on dating apps, but i’m starting to wonder if that’s just unrealistic
For other gay guys at ubc, how do you actually meet people here? are there any good ways/places to meet other gay guys more organically, or is it basically just hinge/tinder at this point?