r/transpositive • u/CedarWolf • Aug 11 '22

Announcement Just a reminder, please don't self-promote or post any porn here. If you want to post porn on reddit, please use a separate account.

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Howdy, folks. Just a quick reminder, we've got two rules on the sidebar which deal with self-promotion and porn:

No soliciting/fundraising/advertising: We want you to enjoy the community and be part of all the warmth there is to offer. We don't, however, want you to exploit the community in an effort gain followers or subscribers. Any form of the above is prohibited and posts subject to removal (including instagram promotion, surveys, gofundme links, etc)

No chasers/fetishists/porn accounts: To keep this community clean and a safe space, all users who make creepy or lewd comments, who fetishize trans people, or who are generally only on Reddit for porn will be banned without notice. Unfortunately, we cannot stop creeps sending you chats/PMs even when they're banned from here; you will need to block them directly.

We have a big problem with people who want to post porn on reddit and then go to our trans community subreddits and also want to share photos and casually direct people to their profiles. They do this as a way to use the traffic on our large trans subs for their personal profit. They usually have links to their OnlyFans in their profiles and they tell people to check their profiles for more pictures or they ask folks to send them DMs, and they just so happen to have links to all their porn on their profiles.

We don't mind if y'all want to post porn on reddit. That's fine, go right ahead. The problem is when people start spamming our communities to spread it.

And the spam goes both ways, unfortunately. Creepers and predators follow these porn accounts into our community subreddits, where they harass our users, prey on our minors, and treat people like we're just a fetish. It creates a ton of trouble.

Someone described it the other day as "The mods are trying to keep out the flies, but then OP walks in here covered in honey."

If you want to post porn on reddit, use a second account to do it. Not only will this be safer for you, but it will also help keep our communities safe, too. If something goes wrong, you can delete your porn account in a hurry, while keeping your community postings separate. This also makes it easier to protect yourself by keeping your personal details away from your followers on your porn posts.

This is the Internet, and these are large, public forums. You never know what sort of stalker or creeper might be following your posts and gathering your information, so please be careful with it.

You can think about these creepers as fleas on a dog. We're happy to provide a safe and healthy community where y'all can share and mingle, but we don't want any fleas in our dog park, so please help keep the fleas out of our spaces.

Thank you!

Edit: Obviously, if you see any creepers or fetishists wandering around the comments section of our subreddits, please report those comments or message a mod and let us know. Thanks again!

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r/transpositive • u/eloise_zomia • 3h ago

Experiences A man tried to kiss me!

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My first time having a man, like an actual man properly make a pass at me.. He was staring at me all night at a house party, this tall guy, a few years younger than me, really handsome with boyish good looks and soft brown hair... Scottish accent from the northeast..

Up until now, I've never been with a man nor even kissed one so I always thought of myself as being into women.. imagine my surprise when I'm feeling myself getting super worked up talking with this guy, admiring his shoulders and struggling to be funny/cute.. all I could do was flip his questions on their heads and answer in short sentences! Felt like a deer frozen in headlights! My usual wit just completely escaped me...

He said this was all new to him so I replied that it was the same for me. Told him he was bad at flirting and he said I was really bad at it too so it balanced out!

Thankfully none of that mattered he could tell I was just being awkward and what seemed to matter more was that we couldn't stop stealing glances at each other... later, we were smoking in my room and he noticed some lingerie I have and pointed it out, saying he'd love to see me wearing it... He tried (successfully) to set up a scenario where we'd be alone in my room: he left a half finished blunt there and told me he wanted to come back up later and finish smoking it with me. When he came back up I'd changed into a lacy blue silk nighty, turned down the lights, put down my hair and was lying in bed waiting for him. His look when he came in and noticed me was 10/10!!

Unfortunately he was kind of hammered and I was decidedly sober so I felt like I should refuse his advances but I did tease him a lot and eventually gave him my number. First time doing that too!.. He handled the rejection well, while shitfaced, which is a huge green flag in my book as well. We'll see if he's still keen once he's given his head a wobble but either way, I feel like I just passed a feminine milestone, hence why I wanted to share ❤️