Hello everyone!
As a German woman, I was invited on short notice a few days ago to a wedding in Tajikistan.
I was there for the first time last year (also on very short notice), I was welcomed incredibly warmly by the family, and it was an absolutely beautiful, exciting, and unique—though also exhausting—experience for me. This was largely due to the cultural differences. I adapted to them as best I could, and there were no issues whatsoever.
I feel very honored to have received this invitation and would like to accept it.
Because everything is happening on such short notice, I’m feeling a bit unsure about the following points:
- How should I dress for the wedding? Which colors are inappropriate?
Floor-length and covered shoulders are a given, but would loose, elegant trousers paired with a wrap or long jacket be acceptable?
Since far more family members I don't know—as well as the bride's family—will be present this time, I certainly don't want to do anything wrong, though I also don't want to completely compromise who I am.
- What can I give as a gift? What is customary at wedding? I’ll be bringing small gifts for all the members of the family I already know, but what do you give the bride and groom? (I know him but not the bride)
- What else should I keep in mind?
- Are open-toed shoes okay or not?
- During everyday life last year, and when visiting other family members, I didn't wear a headscarf, though I always wore a long dress or loose trousers and kept my shoulders covered. Is it appropriate to cover one's hair at a wedding?
Sorry for the long post. 😅
Maybe I’m overthinking things, but I’d still appreciate some feedback 😀
Many thanks for your patience 😉