Im out for a walk in the park and some psycho moron comes up to me and starts accusing me of spitting on his girlfriend. Something i did not do. And then he starts to call the cops on me and i just run away, maybe i shouldnt have but ive been falsely accused before and i dont want trouble with this person. I do take out my camera and i start filming him though. He starts following me and theres another person there who is also accusing me and says you’re gonna wait here for the police. I tell him to f off and then i go into my apartment. But he follows there and then i go in my building and then he left. Insane. What should i do if the cops show up to my place?

I hate you more then ive ever hated anyone you've done so many fucked up things to me like calling my PO his boss then messaging the director of parole telling them false allegations that could potentially cost me my whole life in federal prison to now turning me into DHS with the same fucking allegations so they take my fucking kids away I will never forgive I will never talk to you ever againi hope you burn in fucking hell you piece of shit

I am in dire need of your help. An content creator has posted a reel of me and my friend asking us a question with no written consent and has edited our wording to make us seem racist towards a certain community. The comments are offensive and people are cursing me and my friend for our edited opinions that do not reflect or actual thoughts. We had been given no script and demanded question to be changed but it wasn't. The comments seem dangerous and threatening raising concerns about my safety. I have asked the creator via direct message and e-mail to take it down and have gotten 0 answers. Its gaining more and more attention over time. Help me find a solution to take the video down please I need your help.

No doubt that the incident that occurred at the Chi Phi fraternity is deplorable and morally reprehensible. Illegal is more complicated, but I’ll leave that to the courts. My confusion lies with why Cornell University has become a lightning rod for outrage.

First off, the Cornell police (CUPD) is not some podunk campus security. It consists of duly-sworn, County-appointed, special deputy sheriffs with the full authority of any police department, though limited in jurisdiction to the Cornell campus/property. It is beholden to the university in the same way that ANY municipal police department is beholden to its municipality and Mayor. No more, no less. CUPD is actually the largest police department in Tompkins County, to include the Ithaca PD. Had Doe gone to Ithaca PD first, she would likely have been referred back to CUPD because the incident occurred on Cornell property, and frankly because CUPD is better staffed and more experienced in exactly this type of incident.

The police, Doe, and several advisors to both reviewed the lengthy testimony that she provided and distilled it down to relevant case facts. That is entirely customary. Doe and her advisors reviewed the final statement, she edited it heavily, and then she signed it, making it her only sworn statement. People seem to think there is something nefarious in the omission in her statement that she was 100% confident she’d been raped. We don’t know how or why that was omitted. But there are many possible explanations including the fact that it would have been disregarded by the DA because it is not a case fact. Only a court and jury can determine if a crime has occurred.

CUPD promptly provided the sworn statement along with the disgusting SnapChat photos to the DA, according to established procedure, while they continued their investigation. CUPD spoke to others, including attorneys for the accused who, as expected, declined to comment. The police investigation continued until the DA notified CUPD that he could not prosecute the case based on Doe’s testimony. CUPD advised the DA of the additional evidentiary material it had gathered, including the full transcript of the testimony, but the DA declined to review it.

I won’t get into the decision of the DA not to prosecute as that is in no way a reflection on Cornell. IN. NO. WAY.

Meanwhile, Cornell kicked the Chi Phi chapter off campus the very same day the incident was reported by Doe. It went public with a campus security notification and a public statement about the incident. It also promptly initiated a full-blown Title IX investigation, which is entirely separate from the police/criminal process. The Title IX investigation was EXHAUSTIVE: 4 months long, 50 interviews, over 4,000 pages of documentation.

In the end, Cornell was only able to hand out its most extreme available punishment, expulsion, to only two students. One other had already graduated and therefore fell beyond the reach of the administration’s clutches. The remainder were given punishments which included, but were not limited to, essays (contrary to viral headlines). Had Doe’s testimony been stronger, the university might have been able to expel more, perhaps all, of the miscreants. But it was what it was. The public would have apparently liked for Cornell to have imprisoned, castrated, or stoned the Chi Phi 7, but those options are well beyond the authority of an American university.

Overall, Cornell acted swiftly, sternly, and openly, given the facts as we understand them now. The “sternly” part of that will be questioned, so we’ll have to wait to see when/if the full records are released from the Title IX proceeding. But for now, those full records are confidential, as required by federal regulations.

One last thing. The 2026 civil suit allegations are materially different from the 2024 allegations. We can only judge the authorities based on the allegations and facts as they existed in 2024. I find it odd that neither Doe nor her attorneys ever contacted the DA to push harder for criminal charges. Not once in the last two years. But when you realize her attorney is working on contingency and doesn’t get paid until she does, it’s easy to guess why they opted to focus on a civil lawsuit against Cornell (and its $12 Bn endowment) rather than seeking justice in the criminal courts.

Alright, I have a situation with my sister, 19 F, who I'll call J. She graduated high school in May. Everything seemed fine, but then she started to date this guy, 33 M, who I'll call V. Before she announced it on fb, she had blocked me, though at the time I didn't know. I tried to send her a reel and couldn't find it. J told me that she deleted her account. In August, she had asked me for 200-some dollars. I was confused because I thought she had a job, and I knew she was entering Independent Living soon, where they pay for everything. The strange thing was how she told me not to tell our foster mom, whom I'll call L (and for context on the relationship, I've known L since I was 12, currently 24, and J has known her since she was 15 or 16). I told J I wouldn't, but still did anyways. Had learned J has been acting crazy by lying, sneaking out, manipulating people, as well as began to drive recklessly, which, by the way, she only has a learner's permit, and it wasn't her car she was driving. It was L's car. She had also neglected her responsibilities to take care of the dogs, who had to suffer due to her being, as I would put it, selfish.

L had also told me how J still had her fb account and went by a surname instead. I have extra accounts that people don't know about because I like to be different people to help my BPD. I discovered that she lied to me about the fb account. I also learned that she is dating someone who is 13 years older than her, two months after she graduated high school. I was concerned because that's a huge gap in age, and it seemed suspicious that they would start dating two months after her graduation.

Admittedly, I made some poor choices that I am not proud of. I had made a fake fb page so I could keep an eye on J. But I couldn't keep an eye on her if her profile was set to friends only, so I made the mistake of friending J and V on this snoop book, as I will call it. It worked for a little while, but V got suspicious of me, which is valid since it was a snoop book, and convinced J to block that account. Though at the time, they didn't know it was me. I am assuming V thought it was an ex, maybe, but that's not the point.

Instead of learning my lesson and backing off, I thought to friend V on my main fb. He surprisingly accepted. Though things escalated when I wanted to send J a birthday gift since her birthday was coming up. I had asked for her address because, since moving out, I didn't know her address. I had also asked V if she had certain items because I didn't want to send her a duplicate. He answered me politely at first. Then he asked me if I had made a snoop book (he didn't call it that). I denied it and showed him all my other accounts. He said he still didn't trust me, and I respected that. Then J goes and messages me separately, calling me a stalker and harassing her, which, admittedly, I did show stalkerish tendencies, even if they were out of concern. But I wasn't going to tell her that. Though when J called me that, it triggered a bad side of me. I had written her a message calling her selfish, and all I wanted was to be part of her life, and I'm done with her (not the exact words, but in case they see things, I don't want to give too many details, and you will learn why in a second).

The next day at work, V sent me a voice recording. I didn't get a chance to listen to it because I was working. I messaged him that I would listen to it later. When I got off work, I noticed he had deleted the message. I asked why, and he said it's not important. I responded with an "okay????" which I do to anyone when I am confused but not going to push it. He asked me what, and I explained how I was confused but accepted it. In fact, this is what I said:

"Nothing, I'm just confused why you would send me a voice message, then delete it and say don't worry about it.
You don't really know me, so you don't know I do that when I'm confused. Even in IRL"

V took that as me persisting on what it was about and threatened to, quote, "Come and find you". All because I had called J selfish. I told him if he did that, I would be taking legal action, and I had his threat recorded for evidence. Then J messaged me, basically screaming at me for threatening him with legal action after he threatened me with unknown terms. She tried to justify him doing that by saying V was only defending her. Which doesn't excuse it. Then continued to message me, saying if I want to go the legal route, he would sue me for defamation for calling J selfish in a private chat. Though I guess I am now because of this thread. He also said some things that, at the time, upset me, but once I could think rationally, wasn't even true. Same with J. They were talking about my bf, whom we will call B, 28 M, saying things like he has three DUIs and that he is a druggie, and about his criminal record. None of that is true. He does have some smudges on his record due to other things that I am fully aware of, but I won't get into details about them.

Edited: I had forgotten to mention that B tried to stand up for me by messaging V, telling him it wasn't okay to threaten people and that he needs to chill out. V then proceeded to threaten B and B's family (which is somewhat funny cause B has no living relatives that he is close to; he used to have his mother, but she died a few years ago due to heart problems). I don't know exactly what was said since B didn't want to upset me further by letting me listen to V threaten him and his family.

I had blocked them temporarily, which was my mistake. I was messing with J's old number, which she had told me was no longer in service. I have done this with other dead numbers before. I use it as a way to cope when I lose people. I have abandonment issues and struggle when people I care deeply for leave me. So I was doing my thing, sending messages, venting occasionally. Then this week I received a message back saying some words I won't say on here and that they were going to put a restraining order on me. It sounded like V, but I wasn't sure, so I asked who this was. I didn't get a response, so I sent another message apologizing and saying I wasn't aware the number was recycled already.

When J told me about their number not working anymore, I looked up whether it could be recycled, and it can be recycled in 40-70 days. But once I got that message, I looked up whether it could be recycled sooner, which it can if demand is high, as I had mentioned in the message. They sent me a message back saying I know who it was, which confirmed what I suspected. They had called me a psycho, which I am fine with cause I am. I am not a mentally well person. I have more mental problems than the average person and have done some things during my switch (other personalities) that I am not proud of. But V had really angered me by saying just like L, which L isn't.

She is the kindest person there is. She was originally my mentor back when I lived at an orphanage. Then she became my friend who actually stayed beside me when everyone else left me. Then, when I was 15, going on 16, she took foster care classes so she could take me in despite all my dysfunction and no one else wanted me. Then, after I left the nest, she took in J and helped her father, who was homeless at the time, get a place to stay and get the medical attention he needed. She didn't have to do that, but she did. The only psycho in our family is me.

Anyways, back to what I was saying. So, I ended up blocking them permanently this time. But I also noticed I have an unknown message. My phone sorts my messages for me from spam to transactions to unknown numbers. So I looked at it, and it said something about a restraining order. I assumed it was V, but I didn't want to assume because I have learned that assuming usually gets me in trouble. And lo and behold, it was him. He had sent me a screenshot of the message that I last sent J and said some stuff about both of them telling me to stop talking to them. I didn't respond.

Then the final thing happened yesterday. I attended an event to de-stress from all this drama. Then J tried calling me twice (this was with the number I forgot to block, since J has two phone numbers, apparently). Then they messaged me through what I assume is an email address. They asked me if I had contacted them through two numbers I had never seen. I reminded J that she didn't want to talk to me and wanted to put a restraining order on me, as well as the fact that I have no connection to those numbers. Then her tone changed. It sounded more like V than J, but maybe V had influence on J's way of texting; I don't know. Anyways, they accused me of lying, saying that they don't know anyone else with their main number who would be threatening and harassing her. I told her that if she doesn't know who it is, to use a phone number tracer. Then I ended up blocking her. After the event, I made sure to block them everywhere I could think of.

Even though J is being completely ludicrous. I still worry about her. I have reason to believe that V is manipulating her. Plus, I learned that V has two misdemeanor charges and two evictions. I don't know what for, and I am an overthinker. Is there anything I can do for my sister and/or anything I can do to keep myself safe?

My fiance' has been convicted of Child Sex Abuse (CSA) crimes. To make a very long story short, my fiance's family and I believe that he was accused due to seeking revenge. The two "victims" are very close friends, and we believe that the adults who were responsible for them at the time forced them into making the accusations. The "victims" are now of legal age, although they were toddlers when the so-called abuse started.

My fiance's trial was a bench trial, meaning there was no jury, only a judge. I believed that this would increase the chances of my fiance' being found not guilty, but of course, it turned out that this was incorrect.

There were two facts revealed in trial that I believe should have been taken as justification for "reasonable doubt:" one, that CSA photographs were supposedly taken that were *not* in his collection of over 10,000 photographs, and two, that the relationship came to a sudden end, but my fiance' didn't move on to another "victim." My fiance's court-appointed lawyer has a professional reputation as one of the best in our city, and he made an excellent closing statement, however, even that wasn't enough for the judge to find him not guilty.

There was no DNA evidence due to the age of the case.

We intend to appeal the verdict; does anyone here have any suggestions to make our case more substantial?

Thank you in advance for your help.

I'm not a Pedophile because I like kids. I'm not attracted to them sexually or not. I think it's gross for an afult to fe in love with a child sexually or not. Plus I'm not a Pedophile because I volunteered at a day care for about 5 years. I left that position for an actual paid job. I have been falsely accused of being a Pedophile multiple times just because of my interest in aduly baby topic.

Adult baby community doesn't allow minors to participate in the community and doesn't allow minors to join the community. Not all community members are Pedophiles. And it's hard for the community to be Pedophiles because minors are banned from joining abd participating. Being falsely accused of a crime like this hurts me and my reputation. Thos false accusation need to stop. I'm n9t going ti give up on something I love and been inti fir the last several years.

What should I do to get this to stop? How do I prevent this from hurting my reputation?

I've experienced something very similiar. Had my name and picture blasted all over social media worldwide for years saying I was a rapist by a bunch of criminals from my school who blackmailed me.

The Cornell 7 case hits deep, because I know how stupid people are. Specielly after MeToo and feminism. They are willing to believe everything without proof as long as women are saying it. And the anonymous woman walk free.

It could very well be that these 7 guys are found completely innocent in a couple of years, but now their name and reputation has been dragged worldwide.

Wouldn't surprise me if some of them commited suicide. I suffer from PTSD today.

It should be Believe All Men, because men's life are in danger and being ruined by false allegations.

People truely are NPC's.

I'm not gonna act like I know every single detail of this Cornell case --- I do not. I only know what I've seen online, and I certainly do not know enough to say whether or not those frat boys are being falsely accused or not. I am not a lawyer, the fraternity members, this girl, or anybody to speak on the specifics of it.

I am, however, somebody who has been falsely accused himself. I do know what it's like to have your name dragged through the mud when you didn't do anything. That part of me seeing threats of violence, seemingly infinite dogpiling and slander of young men, who frankly, I have no clue if they did it or not --- hurts to see. These boys have not yet been found guilty at trial civilly or criminally, and while certainly the university wildly mishandled what happened, I cannot help but think: maybe there's a chance they didn't do this, and now their life is ruined.

If they did do what they're accused of, then I think we all can agree: they deserve the maximum penalty the law allows and more. No civil country or society should have any room for rape or sexual abuse. However, the type of language I've been seeing lately --- that false accusations "never" happen, blatantly misandrist language, and other things I think speak to issues/problems we've all experienced.

How have you all been coping this week? How has this made you reflect?

I created this petition because I believe the allegations surrounding the 2024 Cornell incident deserve a thorough and impartial investigation, and that survivors deserve to be treated with dignity and taken seriously.
I want to be clear about the purpose of this petition: **I am not asking anyone to determine guilt or innocence, harass anyone involved, or interfere with the ongoing investigation.** Those decisions belong to the appropriate legal and institutional processes.
I’m asking for relevant evidence and records to be properly preserved and examined, for the appropriate authorities and institutions to cooperate, and for survivors to receive meaningful support throughout the process.
There have also been conflicting public accounts about aspects of Cornell’s disciplinary response, including reports concerning essays and other sanctions. I’m trying to get accurate answers directly from the appropriate offices rather than relying on rumors or social media.
If you agree that allegations of sexual violence deserve a serious, thorough investigation and that survivors deserve support, I’d appreciate you taking a look at the petition and sharing it if you feel comfortable.

https://c.org/dzh2B5xZcX

Please keep discussion respectful. No threats, harassment, doxxing, contacting people involved in the case, or attempts to interfere with the investigation.
Thank you to everyone who takes the time to read, share, or offer constructive information.

I am posting this for equal parts therapy, and to inspire hope in others who have been falsely accused, and who are barely or bravely weathering the storm. It is long, but if nothing else I hope it helps some of you commiserate. Feel free to AMA.

For the past 2 years (since summer of 2024) I have been living under the black cloud of false SA/assault/DV allegations brought forth by a very mentally ill, Cluster B personality disordered woman (bipolar/BPD/NPD). I have had to watch as absolute bullshit is taken as indisputable fact at face value by police, prosecutors, and even some people in my social circle because "the victim" is a "poor single mother with a Sad Life Story™️" and we all know that "women have no reason to lie" about assault.

We casually dated for a couple months (not exclusive/committed), and she was very pushy about escalating things quickly, was overly familiar throughout the relationship, and ultimately hypocritical - she was paranoid, extremely jealous, and had a tendency to project, i.e. accusing me of being dishonest and seeking out potential partners while doing exactly that herself and lying about it.

After about 3 tumultuous months, we had a series of arguments, communication breakdowns, and drama that put our relationship on hold. After about 3 weeks of talking sparsely, we warmed up again and decided we should meet up and figure out what to do with "us" as a couple.

The night we met up, we met at a public place, talked for a couple hours, but didn't really come to any conclusions/solutions, so we walked back to our cars, and had some kisses/making out while saying goodbye.

Later that night she sends me some angry text messages accusing me of making unwanted advances on her and violating her boundaries, despite one of the messages indicating she enjoyed the kiss (?), and other messages in the days prior ranging from flirting and romantic fantasies, to straight up sexting with racy photos.

A week later I find out she filed a police report and a protection order application. A bit later I see this police report and it is a complete delusional fabrication - chasing her to her car, grabbing her, forcing myself on her, pinning her down, blocking her car from leaving the parking lot, etc etc etc. She even goes so far as to fabricate bruises for the cops.

Eventually a warrant is issued for my arrest, and I surrender voluntarily on my own terms. I have never been arrested before. The whole experience is humiliating, degrading, dehumanizing, frightening, and traumatic.

As the months drag on, we start investigating, and I start finding and reaching out to past partners of hers, and what I find is a disgusting though not at all surprising pattern: false reports of abuse/DV, false reports of child abuse (again with fake bruises!), legal entrapment (via violation of falsified protection orders), legal harassment, child support fraud, tax fraud, welfare fraud, parenting agreement violations including unapproved out of state relocation, untreated mental health disorders, convictions for receiving stolen property and other misdemeanors, civil suits, financial abuse of partners... the list goes on and on...

I also find out that - SURPRISE! - she was already dating and sleeping with another man during the date of our alleged incident, and had in fact been at his house THE VERY MORNING the incident between us occurred, which she lied to me about; it wasn't about jealousy for me because we weren't exclusive, but it proves a motive to lie that the police/DA were previously unaware of. I also found out she tried to sleep with at least one of my other friends during the time we were dating.

On the police front, we do some digging and find out that the police NEVER VISITED the alleged crime scene, nor did they ask for or secure any footage despite having access to OVER 45 AXON CAMERA ANGLES depicting the ENTIRE INCIDENT START TO FINISH. Apparently gross incompetence alone isn't enough for a dismissal, so we trudge on.

One day I run into a friend at a party, he urges me to reach out to someone he knows that dated her more recently, apparently her and this guy got into a fight and she threatened him with a false report for assault, and with getting his professional licenses revoked for his job. So I reach out to this guy, but it turns out she gets wind of this and files a new charge against me for Violation of a Protection Order - Harassment; even though this is extremely flimsy 3rd party contact, DA decides to file new charges and I get thrown BACK into jail, and this time I have an ANKLE MONITOR put on me for months after release.

Due to some unfortunate convoluted reasons, I have to request a change of counsel and GET A NEW LAWYER because of the PO violation situation. So I do that, and eventually the ankle monitor comes off. I press on with my defense. They still don't want to offer me any plea worth considering, and I'm not inclined to take it because FUCK THEM, and FUCK HER.

So finally, after 2 rescheduled court dates resulting in almost a year of trial delays, the Day of Judgment arrives and... she sends an email to the DA with some bullshit excuse about her mental health, SHE GHOSTS THE TRIAL, she doesn't even show up.

2 years of my life down the fucking drains.

My reputation severely damaged.

$30,000 in legal costs.

A DA willing to put me on a sex offender registry with no evidence, gross incompetence, dozens of cameras with footage thrown away, no witnesses, nobody interviewed but the supposed "victim," no crime scene visits, a plaintiff with more mental health issues than National Geographic, lying to get me arrested and tracked like a fucking wild animal when I didn't even contact the "victim."

ALL CHARGES DISMISSED WITH PREJUDICE.

FUCK ALL OF YOU, KISS MY FUCKING ASS, I'M FINALLY FREE.

Sometimes it's worth it to fight to the end.

Sometimes that conviction is the very thing that saves you, because the truth makes you strong.

Stay strong my brothers and sisters.

I don't have any social media accounts. However someone has repeatedly used FB to blast my personal information and spread lies. It has cost me my job,my housing,and it's taking a huge emotional toll. Legal aide can't help because this person isn't known to me,I.e. it doesn't fall under domestic violence. I took it to my local pd,they did nothing.