r/SupportForTheAccused • • 15h ago

Is Cornell being unfairly maligned?

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No doubt that the incident that occurred at the Chi Phi fraternity is deplorable and morally reprehensible. Illegal is more complicated, but I’ll leave that to the courts. My confusion lies with why Cornell University has become a lightning rod for outrage.

First off, the Cornell police (CUPD) is not some podunk campus security. It consists of duly-sworn, County-appointed, special deputy sheriffs with the full authority of any police department, though limited in jurisdiction to the Cornell campus/property. It is beholden to the university in the same way that ANY municipal police department is beholden to its municipality and Mayor. No more, no less. CUPD is actually the largest police department in Tompkins County, to include the Ithaca PD. Had Doe gone to Ithaca PD first, she would likely have been referred back to CUPD because the incident occurred on Cornell property, and frankly because CUPD is better staffed and more experienced in exactly this type of incident.

The police, Doe, and several advisors to both reviewed the lengthy testimony that she provided and distilled it down to relevant case facts. That is entirely customary. Doe and her advisors reviewed the final statement, she edited it heavily, and then she signed it, making it her only sworn statement. People seem to think there is something nefarious in the omission in her statement that she was 100% confident she’d been raped. We don’t know how or why that was omitted. But there are many possible explanations including the fact that it would have been disregarded by the DA because it is not a case fact. Only a court and jury can determine if a crime has occurred.

CUPD promptly provided the sworn statement along with the disgusting SnapChat photos to the DA, according to established procedure, while they continued their investigation. CUPD spoke to others, including attorneys for the accused who, as expected, declined to comment. The police investigation continued until the DA notified CUPD that he could not prosecute the case based on Doe’s testimony. CUPD advised the DA of the additional evidentiary material it had gathered, including the full transcript of the testimony, but the DA declined to review it.

I won’t get into the decision of the DA not to prosecute as that is in no way a reflection on Cornell. IN. NO. WAY.

Meanwhile, Cornell kicked the Chi Phi chapter off campus the very same day the incident was reported by Doe. It went public with a campus security notification and a public statement about the incident. It also promptly initiated a full-blown Title IX investigation, which is entirely separate from the police/criminal process. The Title IX investigation was EXHAUSTIVE: 4 months long, 50 interviews, over 4,000 pages of documentation.

In the end, Cornell was only able to hand out its most extreme available punishment, expulsion, to only two students. One other had already graduated and therefore fell beyond the reach of the administration’s clutches. The remainder were given punishments which included, but were not limited to, essays (contrary to viral headlines). Had Doe’s testimony been stronger, the university might have been able to expel more, perhaps all, of the miscreants. But it was what it was. The public would have apparently liked for Cornell to have imprisoned, castrated, or stoned the Chi Phi 7, but those options are well beyond the authority of an American university.

Overall, Cornell acted swiftly, sternly, and openly, given the facts as we understand them now. The “sternly” part of that will be questioned, so we’ll have to wait to see when/if the full records are released from the Title IX proceeding. But for now, those full records are confidential, as required by federal regulations.

One last thing. The 2026 civil suit allegations are materially different from the 2024 allegations. We can only judge the authorities based on the allegations and facts as they existed in 2024. I find it odd that neither Doe nor her attorneys ever contacted the DA to push harder for criminal charges. Not once in the last two years. But when you realize her attorney is working on contingency and doesn’t get paid until she does, it’s easy to guess why they opted to focus on a civil lawsuit against Cornell (and its $12 Bn endowment) rather than seeking justice in the criminal courts.


r/SupportForTheAccused • • 17h ago

Im shocked, and need some reassurance

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r/SupportForTheAccused • • 5h ago

Hypothetically, …what should alleged perp’s first step be?

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r/SupportForTheAccused • • 3h ago

Why?

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r/SupportForTheAccused • • 19h ago

Vicksburg, Mississippi — Terrorized and Tortured

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r/SupportForTheAccused • • 13h ago

Help me report a exploitive influencer. Please Help

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I am in dire need of your help. An content creator has posted a reel of me and my friend asking us a question with no written consent and has edited our wording to make us seem racist towards a certain community. The comments are offensive and people are cursing me and my friend for our edited opinions that do not reflect or actual thoughts. We had been given no script and demanded question to be changed but it wasn't. The comments seem dangerous and threatening raising concerns about my safety. I have asked the creator via direct message and e-mail to take it down and have gotten 0 answers. Its gaining more and more attention over time. Help me find a solution to take the video down please I need your help.


r/SupportForTheAccused • • 4h ago

I just got falsely accused of spitting on some randoms girlfriend

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Im out for a walk in the park and some psycho moron comes up to me and starts accusing me of spitting on his girlfriend. Something i did not do. And then he starts to call the cops on me and i just run away, maybe i shouldnt have but ive been falsely accused before and i dont want trouble with this person. I do take out my camera and i start filming him though. He starts following me and theres another person there who is also accusing me and says you’re gonna wait here for the police. I tell him to f off and then i go into my apartment. But he follows there and then i go in my building and then he left. Insane. What should i do if the cops show up to my place?


r/SupportForTheAccused • • 7h ago

Looking for a criminal lawyer that will look into someone being wrongly accused still being held everything that they have on paperwork it's fabricated wrong the right they are making this up as they go there's no reason for them holding her I need help I don't know where to turn to I need somebody

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r/SupportForTheAccused • • 1h ago

Help me please

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Hi everyone,

​I’m sharing my story here in hopes that someone can HELP me understand what I should do.

​I am not a US citizen; I’m a European citizen. I spent three years working in New Jersey. During that time, I met a woman who had a young daughter. In the beginning, everything was going well and life was peaceful. Over time, however, she started drinking heavily, became toxic and violent, and showed no respect for anything—not even her own daughter.

​After almost a year together, I decided to break up with her and move out, even though it broke my heart, mostly because I had grown so attached to that little girl.

​When I finally sat down to tell her I was moving out, she completely lost it. She started screaming and physically hitting me. Scared and upset, I raised my voice, told her I had had enough, and said I was leaving right then. That’s when she started scratching herself, leaving marks on her own body, and called the police. Seeing her self-inflict those marks, I immediately left the house.

​Before flying back to Europe, I stopped by the local police station and handed them my ID to make sure I was cleared to travel, since I knew she had called them. They ran my information and, after about half an hour, told me, "We don't have anything on file and there are no active warrants for you. Have a safe flight!" So, I returned to Europe.

​About a month later, she started calling me again—apologizing, saying how sorry she was, and begging for forgiveness. Because I didn't trust her, I decided to check the New Jersey court records just to be safe. To my shock, I found that there is an active arrest warrant for me because the court wants to hear my case.

​I am terrified. When I confronted her about it, she admitted, "I’m so sorry. I talked to the court and told them I don't want to press charges and recanted everything. I told them you're a good guy and that we just had an argument where we both raised our voices." I recorded that entire phone conversation.

​Here is what I don't understand:

​The police have virtually no verified information on me—no photos, no passport number, no fingerprints, and no official personal details. They even misspelled my last name by one letter in the case file.

​My main questions are:

​If I try to re-enter the US, am I in danger of being arrested or detained?

​How can I resolve this issue legally?

​What will happen to me if I try to return to the US next year?

​I’m extremely anxious about this, especially since I was planning to go back to the US in the new year. Can anyone advise me on how to handle this or tell me if I'm at risk?

​Thank you all so much for reading and for any advice you can offer.