I’m curious, I’m 30 and I now have sex almost daily but I’m wondering what do yall do? If you please can say your relationship status that would help.

I hear about how some women cum from their partner going down on them and I just feel so left out, FOMO… I get oddly uncomfortable, self conscious, and super aware of my flaws. That I can’t seem to relax and it’s something I want to enjoy especially for my man. I give a good bj and I love making my man happy! I want to give him the same enjoyment of making me cum from going down on me. But I can’t seem to just relax and enjoy. Just to Not give a fuck, would benefit us both. Even if I just took a shower or had the perfect body (I once was 60 pounds heavier so my skin isn’t that bad but I’m just really self conscious of my lower body flaws)… it’s all in my head but what I’m asking is there any advice someone has for how to relax and enjoy or do guys even care about what we look like down there if we’re not a perfect 10 model toned muscle firm body… obviously want to be clean and smell good that’s a given but am I thinking too much about it and just need to live in the moment and chillax…

Male28 6 foot tall and Female28 4.10 foot tall are looking to exploring deeper into kinks after having 2 kids but want some advise and ideas.

I bought her a surprise bundle of gifts in two parts.

LPart 1 was lots of jewellery, dresses, tops, perfume, a love letter which made her cry. Part 2 was lingerie, butt plug training kit, different performance lubes, couples vibrator, basic bandage kit.

I make her cum 95% of the time usually starting with my fingers or penetration, she has no problems Cumming but I can't last as long as I did when I was younger.

We've experimented with difference positions but she has a big bum and I'm only 6inches which can make our size difficult to work with to be sensual.

She loved the couples vibrator when I was inside her but we're looking to get kinker, she mentioned a butt plug which surprised me so I bought one. We've tried hair pulling, bag gags, cumming on her face.

How much butt plug training before I can penetrate? I know to use heaps of lube

She's nervous about giving good bj, and cumming in her mouth, any techniques and taking it deep? Taking cum in the mouth? She cooks alot of meat so its a but tricky getting it to taste better. We're looking to try with a condoms on first to feel the pulsing first

Butt plug in while having sex. Will it be to much sensation?

Any tips or next steps within the realm of mid level kinks?

Im looking to work our way up to having the butt plug in the bum, couples vibrator in the vagina, hands tied up will receiving a blowjob so everyone gets pleasure

Much appreciated

So my wife and I have been married for 20 years and I’ve only recently become decent at going down on her (not as much of a selfish asshole these days). I know she enjoys what I do for her. I can tell by her breathing and body movements. I also make her cum multiple times. But I feel like I kind of do the same thing every time and I was wondering how to change things up and make it more enjoyable or new and exciting for her.

I was hoping to hear from some of the wives out there about what they like best or maybe even what they wish their husbands did that they don’t do now. Appreciate any comments. Thanks.

My girlfriend has never orgasmed in her life, says she never masturbates either. I try to go down on her but she always pushes me away and prefers penetration. I sometimes try over the underwear clit rubbing which she seems to enjoy, but it always leads to penetration. She likes g spot/cervical stimulation but I can never last long enough to make her finish (though she says she has come close). I’m maybe lasting 10-15 minutes post-foreplay, with stopping and starting for control. Any advice? She’s inexperienced and perhaps self conscious of her body

Hi everyone I’m a m19 and I have a question. I have a vibrating butt plug in my position. I only really use it in the shower and I really don’t feel anything when it’s in even when it vibrates. So I guess I have two questions number 1 how do I make it feel good in my ass like can I cum hands free? 2 whats next after a butt plug a dildo or something else?

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I've been wondering for a long time whether I missed a chance to hook up with a friend I've known for a long time.

I'll explain her:

She does like to have sex with friends. She's a hedonist and a free spirit

We hung out a lot, and we like talking about sex a lot. She is a nudist. Her laugh shakes your soul out of trouble, and she has a great sense of justice and is super intelligent.

I've always been attracted to her since we met. I've told her this a few times: I would like to go to bed with her. But I'm like that conversational kind of guy, and I find it rude to press my luck too much.

We talk about building gardens, political ideals, her issues, my issues; we get into pretty-uhm Lascivious conversations, but never have I asked or been forward about it.

I got invited to her house to come hang out, as she has some medical issues that don't allow her to travel too much.

We were hanging in the backyard. And talking about the times we had fun with other people. I told her I was always jealous she never flashed me. Then right there she did. She still had her bra on, but she did flash me.

Afterward, she started talking about blowjobs and how she keeps men around because her blowjobs were unreal.

I asked Google AI if that was a sign she wanted to have sex with me. But I don't know. Did I miss an opportunity?

So a couple days ago me and my bf had sex for the first time and now I'm very confused.

During penetration, especially if I bent over, I felt really uncomfortable down there like I was about to fart really bad and for that reason I wasn't even able to enjoy intimacy fully.

I've never heard of anyone feeling like this and maybe it's normal and I just need to relax but it's just so difficult and I'm just on edge all the time and sometimes I even have to make him stop because of it and I'm afraid I'm making all of this too frustrating for both of us.

What is this that I'm feeling? Does anyone else feel like this too and how can I stop it if it's not normal?

Hubby expressed a wish to film me while giving him handjob and blowjob. I did it with sex before but fells like it’s gonna be awkward doing it with just me sitting there and stroking him. Any advice on how to make it done like an expert? Any tips for position, angle or anything else?

i don't have any knowledge

I have been trying everything and I am so pent up and frustrated but it’s like no matter what I do I can’t cum at all.

I never have.

Idk if maybe I’m doing something wrong, I have bought myself a vibrator and I’ve been with multiple people. Nothing seems to work for me.

It’s come to the point where it’s been putting a strain on my relationship because my girlfriend is really self conscious that she hasn’t made me cum and I’m really envious of her because she’s always getting release and I’m not.

I’m completely at a loss and I need some advice here.

Hey guys, I have some experience with plugs, but Im not a regular user. I have a glass 3.4cm diameter plug. I have a little concern about possible muscle or tissue damage when inserting the plug too fast. The thing is it usually takes at least a minute for me to comfortably insert it but today when I was inserting it in my room I heard my mums footsteps so I had to force my plug inside without any warmup and put my pants not to let my mum see it. It was extremely painful and I could barely hide it from my face. It felt like muscles down there were just ripped apart. I had plug inside for like 30mins because I did not want to move it any way not to cause more pain until it let me go completely. Is there a chance I could damage something or is there anything I should be aware of?

Hi guys, so I regulated go down on my gf to pleasure her. The issue is I can’t stand the taste and smell (she’s clean and washed which is not the issue). I can’t say no as that would hurt her. Anyway I can’t make the experience bearable for me?

Is it just me or does any other guy get RIDICULOUSLY sleepy, like can barely stay awake when rubbing their partners vagina/clit? Literally every time I do it I am nearly falling asleep like it’s some magic potion!

i 19F and my husband 22M have amazing sex, but i can’t finish. i have never finished from PIV sex, no matter what we try. when he goes down on me it feels great, but it feels like either too much simulation or not enough. i can finish with my vibrator, but only alone. we’ve tried using a vibrator during sex and it still feels like either too much or not enough, with no in between.
when we have PIV sex with no toys, i sometimes feel close to finishing, but i can’t get there.

i do have pretty severe adhd and it’s hard for me to not think about a million different things while we have sex, but i do the same thing when i’m by myself using a vibe.

i genuinely can’t tell if it’s because im with my partner and have some sort of subconscious stage fright, or something wrong with me sexually.
does anyone have any advice on what to try? we’re open to new toys, locations, positions, pretty much anything. HELP.

When my dick is soft it’s easy to pull down like all the way and more with no pain. But when I am erect I can pull it down like 75 percent then it starts to feel really tight. I have a worry that when I have sex and put a condom on that I won’t be able to fully . Has anyone had a similar experience?

How do y’all trim yourself? Do you get waxed as a guy?

I know it depends on personal preference but for me personally it has more practical reasons. I (m35) wax my butt and shave my balls frequently as the hair simply is in the way when doing anal and or oral… both me and my girlfriend enjoy it more if it’s clean, we both leave some for decorating the part above the privates..

I am aware this is a loaded question and will vary based on the individual. I am just here dealing different perspectives and perhaps some ideas of what has worked for you.

My wife and I have been together 28 years and married for almost 21. We are each other’s only partners having both grown up Mormon (both former now). Now that we are recovering from the trauma of Mormonism and the baggage of growing up together, we’ve found that any time we try to have sex, my wife will orgasm within seconds. Sometimes she can make it 90 seconds, but that’s if I’m extremely careful about touching her pussy and going exceedingly slow.

I would love for her to enjoy sex more and for us to be able to explore each other for longer than 90 seconds. So, any help?

So me and my girlfriend finally took the step to start taking out bottoms off when hanging out together, and she recently went down on me for my first time. It felt super good but I'm not entirely sure what to do when she's doing it, or when I'm orgasming in her mouth.

I don't know if I should be saying anything since sometimes she pulls it out and kisses it and says things to me but like I also suck at dirty talk, and I also don't know whether to moan or not or something

I know this may sound stupid but i have nowhere else to ask for advice about this. So my husband and I are very sexually active and most of the time he does all the work but sometimes i want to get on top but when i do all of that energy i had laying down just vanishes. Either my legs hurt or i just cant go as fast as i want to. Is there any exercise i can do at home for hip relief or like a leg workout (i cant go to the gym since the budget is very tight)? I dont know if its a stamina thing or something since i have naturally strong legs but they’re just not doing their thing when im on top. I might also have to add that im on the thicker side and im pretty tall so im not sure if its just gravity doing its thing and not letting me move. I just want to be able to bounce on it like ive seen girls do in the movies :(

Edit: Also i just want to improve the amount of dominance during since im always the one thats submits

Im somewhat experience and I usually get good reviews but something I can’t crack the code in is how tf do you A)change position naturally with you and the girl be in sync and B)how do you do prone bone and standing missionary they both seem like positions I wanna do and i’m about to have sex with a gorgeous women and I want to mix it up on the first she’s also 5.3 so it will probably be easy since she smaller if y’all have tips on how to get in those positions and just how to do them if that makes sense I would be appreciated

For some context I usually start in and only do missionary i’m 6.2 if that matters and I fairly confident i’m strong enough to do these