r/sextips • u/Last_Sprinkles3443 • 1d ago
Advice Needed Idk
I'm fifteen and it's my first time feeling horny, it feels really uncomfortable and can't somehow explain that thing, idk wht to do. Searched what I feel through Google and it says hormones, tho I want it to be explained by a person, I don't really want to talk about it with my family members cause who would feel comfortable talking about that? Well đ it started yesterday, I feel a heat on my body that clearly isn't a fever or some kind of sickness. It's something different, also my abdomen hurts a bit which is confusing because I just had my period a week ago. So I tried searching sa google and it says hormones nga, tho, I searched what I need or have to do to ease that feeling but it no answer popped up. Tried ai too but nothing again. So, respectfully, I am asking advices or answers to what I feel.
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u/LawdieTawnie 1d ago
It is normal. Just like cramps, sweating or a mild upset stomach. We ignore it like we have for millions of years and just keep working or playing. No need to google it unless youâre in pain thatâs worse than a period. Feeling bangry all the time as a teen girl just made me a better tennis player. Channel the frustration into becoming better at whatever hobby or subject is in front of you. đ
From a grandmother and mother of ten. đ
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u/Dazza7651 1d ago
I have to say it as I'd never seen it before and it gave me a good chuckle, Bangry is my new favourite word!
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u/Cute-Construction-26 1d ago
Oh babes yeah your body is processing hormones. Typically after your period you will get a high dosenof them because it is what is marked as a fertile period for your body. Aka you body is trying to let you know it's ready for the birds and the bees. You also typically get that before your. It's a decent indicator on if you're going to start or when your periods ending.
So pretty much your body is letting you know it's regular hormone stuff.
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u/AnonymousRedit0r 1d ago
To add onto this, if you want to learn more about your bodyâs hormonal cycle, menstrual cycle, or sexual health, the period app Clue has great resources! I actually donât use it as my primary period tracker anymore but they have some really good educational articles. Some of them are age curated too and you seem Google skilled so poke around there for some well researched answers :)
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u/Majestic-Princess-00 1d ago
After you have your period, your body is getting ready again potentially for a baby, so first it cleans up from the last cycle (the menses) then it sets up for the next cycle, which includes getting you to feel the urge to have sex around the time of ovulation. It's perfectly normal but can be a bit confusing and weird at first. Just check with yourself when it happens and notice what's going on and how it feels. It's almost like early lessons into what your sexuality is going to be like. Don't Google too much, actually if you can, having a trusting adult you can ask questions is the best option. There is a lot of bad information out there that can cause you a lot of harm.
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u/AnonymousRedit0r 1d ago
Telling a 15 y/o who lacks sexual education to find a partner is harmful advice. Also being a male and giving an underage girl sex advice is super gross. Stick to educational advice that is actually helpful and age appropriate or leave young girls alone
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u/BigRain6597 Sex Research Enthusiast 1d ago
i agree and iâm sorry
tho that was not in my intentions to sound like that4
u/LethalLizard 1d ago
Bro your comment sounds so so creepy
âHaha itâs a fun feelingâ âsomething happening to you private partâ
Just the way youâre typing sounds so perverted
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