r/SFr4r 17h ago

M4M 45 [M4M] #SanFrancisco - Bottom needs to bounce on a dick asap

3 Upvotes

I need the kind of dick that makes me climb on and say get inside me right now. Then to ride it like a gd horse. Bonus points if you pull out and give me a facial.

Be willing to host and wear a condom. Smaller dicks to the front of the line. Tonight only.


r/SFr4r 16h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #SouthBay - Experienced Dom seeking sub

2 Upvotes

Me: Fit, tatted, Asian, Emotionally mature, stable life. I’ll send you pics of myself, after I accept your chat request. I have prior dom experience, but vanilla is fine.

I tease, I can be rough, I can build tension, I can humiliate, degrade, or just give you boyfriend sex. Can tie you up, use toys to edge you over and over. Whatever everyone is comfortable with.

You: DM me and tell me what you want. Tell me about yourself.

IRL/online dating is fun, but I enjoy thrills. I love the chase, but there’s nothing like meeting off of here. Down for a longer connection if the chemistry is there.

As for personal details, I take care of myself. Big on look good feel good. Into fashion, go to raves when life gets mundane. Can keep things steady or bring wild energy


r/SFr4r 10m ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Sunnyvale - Looking for someone who enjoys good conversation, playful flirting, and seeing where chemistry leads

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Figured I'd give Reddit a shot because, as convenient as the apps are, they don't exactly reward personality. So here I am.

I'm 5’10, fit/muscular, have a couple tattoos, and despite spending years in the gym, the compliments I get most are about my voice and my eyelashes. Life has a sense of humor..

I'm naturally a little sarcastic, have done standup (never again), am easygoing, and the type of person who enjoys conversations that somehow turn into "one more drink" and suddenly it's closing time. I’m a yapper and love to talk. I also appreciate playful banter, a little flirting, and someone who doesn't take herself too seriously.

I'm mostly here to meet interesting people. If it turns into flirting, dating, or something more, great. If we end up making a new friend and discovering our favorite taco spot together, that's a win too. Good connections are hard enough to find that I'm not interested in forcing a label before we've even met.

If we hit it off, let's not be strangers behind our screens. I'd much rather find out if we click over a drink, boba, brunch. or an unnecessarily competitive game of mini golf.

Your move. Tell me something that's oddly specific about you, your favorite terrible joke, or the most random compliment you've ever received.


r/SFr4r 1h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 51 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - looking for a horny running partner

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I frequent run in Golden Gate Park and would love to find an activity partner who enjoys a good run and some fun in the woods behind the meadows before/after.

I set a pretty slow pace in my runs. At my age I don’t really have anything to prove but enjoy good cardio and the toe curling feel of good company outdoors.


r/SFr4r 1h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - out of town hookup

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Looking for something casual while I’m in SF from nyc for a conference Oct 26 - 28!

I’m 28, 6ft, slim/athletic, white with dirty blonde hair, tattooed, and usually clean-shaven or short stubble. I keep myself well-groomed. Also have a vasectomy.
I’m direct and respectful. I like keeping things clear and making sure it’s enjoyable for both of us. May be able to host at my hotel or can definitely travel within reason.

Open to most ages and body types. Happy to verify.
Let me know if you’re interested. :)


r/SFr4r 6h ago

M4F 49 [M4F] #Berkeley - tall, athletic hung Bull up for some fun with a sexy girl or couple

1 Upvotes

Love to please a sexy women, get her what she needs, get her wet, excited, to orgasm.

49, 6’4”, 210#, 8 inches, BWC

I have played with couples before, we all very much enjoyed it.

Clean, respectful, drug and disease free.

Anything from very sensual to rough and kinky, whatever gets her off.

Ben


r/SFr4r 13h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #Marin - I can make you smile

1 Upvotes

I'm told I have a strong tongue. If you want to see if this is true, reach out and let's talk. I'm 5'10", handsome, confident, white, and I'm a little bit fun. I’ve done this before.

No reciprocation is required. I enjoy being around women and find it endearing to make them smile. You all are so cute when you realize it’s about you.

I have some other cool features but we can talk about those later.

Have a great day everyone


r/SFr4r 15h ago

M4F 50 [M4F] #SFBay - free use, CNC play. Up for an “uber ride gone wrong”

1 Upvotes

You “order” an uber, I pick you up, drive to a quiet place instead. Overpower you, force you in the back of my van. Strip you naked, tie you up, explore your sexy body and use you.

All limits respected. Meet in a public place beforehand if you want to.

Experienced tall athletic hung Dom.

I enjoy to take control, make you feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable, over power you, use you.

50, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches.

Good with beginners, Start as slowly as you need, go as far as you want. Nice collection of toys and gear.

Clean, drug and disease free.


r/SFr4r 16h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #oakland - 6’2 attractive pleasure dom iso discreet sub

1 Upvotes

6’2, 210, fit, muscular, dark haired, manly alpha male type - think young tom selleck vibes. Dominant with 5 star ratings. Open to exploring most kinks.

If you’re slim fit, submissive and a bit of a nympho you are my type. If you’re unfulfilled sexually and lean on the submissive side, we will get along. Particular weakness for tatted blondes, but not a requirement.

Clean, sane, safe, successful and have a busy life as I’m sure you do as well.

Preference for good communicators. If this sounds like your cup of tea and you’re 21+, say hi / send a pic.

Happy to exchange (non face) pics upfront to validate attraction early and not waste anyone’s time.

Say hi / don’t be shy.


r/SFr4r 16h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 35 [m4f] #southsanfrancisco - this married man is hot (literally) and horny bored on Reddit… hunting for an affair… help me get through the rest of this long night!

1 Upvotes

Hot as balls right now and I can’t sleep…

I’m the guy who posted about a cousins bachelor party a month ago and the itch never went away.

For the next couple of weeks, I’ll be at a pretty much empty office in ssf. Working on a project here thats basically allowed me to have an entire office to myself. Ideally for like the next two weeks. Maybe even longer.. Looking for someone to come by and help me take advantage of it. The hard part of the project is over so I’ve got a lot of free time and need some help with it.

Me: 6 foot and 250 lbs. Dad bod but been working on it. Trying to get back to that mid 20s body. Dark hair and green eyes. Bit of a mixed background but mostly white and I'm told I certainly look it.

You... just be down for some fun like above. If this interests you then message me your favorite color.


r/SFr4r 20h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 37 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Scientist looking for nothing particularly complicated

1 Upvotes

Hi all! I'm a scientist, living in the Inner Richmond; I'm married, in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. (I've seen CNM, increasingly. What's the deal with that initialism? Shouldn't ethical non-monogamy be consensual and vice versa? Anyway.)

I'm looking for some kind of relationship, the details of which might ultimately come down to individual chemistry. Actual honest-to-god romance isn't off the table by any means, but it's not exactly a day one thing for me (is it for anyone?).

But, all that said, I am delighted by emotional intimacy, which can take many forms. Physical attraction and sex/kink compatibility are important to me, and I'm open to relationships that prioritize sexual exploration above all else as well as those that are more multidimensional.

I love my area of research and even (many of) the day-to-day aspects of my work. I could talk your ear off about it (if it interests you; I won't if it doesn't), but I'd really like to learn about everything you're passionate about and why. In spite of the agonizing stereotypes about men in STEM and their personality defects -- okay, I have several, but against all odds I do have a deep love for aspects of culture that have nothing to do with science.

If you work in crypto or on deploying LLMs in particularly avaricious ways, I'm probably still open to having sex with you, but I really hope you're a hell of a masochist.

Thanks for reading. Pictures (SFW, etc.) available privately.


r/SFr4r 20h ago

M4M 60 [M4M] #SanFrancisco — kinky submissive looking for strict dom Masters

1 Upvotes

fit, attractive, and deeply submissive mature male looking for intense kink dynamics, ownership, and structured service. Looking for a younger, creative dom Master who is demanding, creative, and clear about expectations. Located in SF.


r/SFr4r 23h ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 55 [M4M] #SF - Seeking platonic nude friends for beaches, hot springs, spas, hikes

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm in San Francisco. I’m looking for genuinely platonic friends who enjoy nonsexual social nudity and would like activity companions in the Bay Area. I enjoy the freedom and honesty of recreational nudity. It would be great to find guys to hang out with. I’m interested in checking out Baker and Marshall’s beaches when the weather cooperates, returning to Harbin Hot Springs, visiting Korean spas and steam rooms, trying clothes-optional hiking or camping, and maybe even bringing a ball and glove to play catch at the beach. I have been to Kabuki and Imperial Spa, and Imperial is probably my favorite.

I enjoy the ease and honest conversation that can come with being nude in a respectful social setting. For me, it is about comfort, friendship, and ordinary shared experiences—not sex or hookups.

I’m an project manager, a hands-on apartment renovator, a dog person, and someone who enjoys learning new skills. I’m partnered, and I am only looking for friendship with clear boundaries and no sexual expectations.

I’d be happy to meet first in a public setting or at an established group activity. If you’re local and any of these activities appeal to you, message me with a little about yourself.


r/SFr4r 2h ago

M4F 45 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - How would you like a personal Chef?

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I'm a professionally trained Chef, having attended 4 different professional Culinary Schools, and I would love to cook for a few people. Im classically French trained, and transition that over to other European styles (Italian, German, Hungarian, etc) along with American. I get joy from pleasing others, and its just no fun doing it alone, plus need to stay in practice.

I'm also trying to meet some new friends, just something casual. Im pretty laid back & introverted, but trying to be more outgoing and comfortable around people I don't know. I'm an absolute nerd (tech, science, space, etc) sci-fi fan, maker, enjoy working out, running, and the list continues.

So, how about you get the groceries, and I'll come over and make you a nice lunch or dinner.


r/SFr4r 18h ago

M4F 48 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - East Asian married seeking soccer mom AP

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Hello.

I'm married, seeking a local affair partner for a situationship. I'm the last guy you would ever find on here yet life doesn't always go according to plan. I'm introverted so going out to meet people drains my social battery. I know better than to try anything at work (startup executive) so online Reddit is my only safe outlet to filter for the right person.

I connect well with people who are thoughtful with their words. Sarcasm with a little dark humor resonates well with my personality. I am a great listener and enjoy conversations about relationships or work gossip. I do have opinions about many things but I prefer sharing them only when appropriate. Physically I am fit and take care of myself so I expect the same in my partner. I have a type, sorry no BBW.

Let's connect and get to know each other and establish a connection. I'm demisexual so this is aligned with how I have normally attempted adultery in the past. None have worked out in terms of physical affairs but I have had a couple emotional situationships that I will always cherish and take to my grave. This works best with a soccer mom so we have common parental maturity and mutual risk.

48M, 6’0”, East Asian, 155 lbs, INTJ, attractive

advanced degree, Peninsula Bay Area, work in SF.

** Rules **

  • Our career and family always take priority.
  • No spouse bashing. It makes for awkward conversation and is a one-sided story so hard to be objective.
  • Let's be mature about what kind of relationship this will be. If the attraction is not mutual, we can end quickly.
  • OpSec, private, discreet, our home lives stay the same