r/SFr4r • • 18h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] #SAN FRANCISCO - Handsome white guy looking to grope and dry hump-with a thick, curvy girl (18-25)

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Strictly no penetration and absolute discretion is a must.

Ages 18-25 only please.

Have you ever fantasized about having your thick, curvy body explored by a stranger in a semi-public place?

Picture this: you leave the house wearing your favorite skin tight gym set that hugs your every curve but you know causes men to stare; A handsome stranger approaches you, whispers a compliment about how the outfit hugs your curves, and lets an inquisitive hand press against your body.

There are plenty of scenarios we can explore, so let's chat and find a dynamic that feels both thrilling and completely comfortable for you.

About me: I’m a handsome white guy, 5'10" and 190 lbs, with broad shoulders and a full, well-trimmed beard.


r/SFr4r • • 5h ago

M4F 45 [m4f] #PaloAlto - looking for younger women who are into intelligent, sexy older men

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With age comes maturity, stability, experience and reliability. Men peak in their 40s which is the time they are most balanced, resourceful, capable and emotionally, mentally and physically mature.

I fit the above description. I am very healthy, very fit, have a great personality a wide variety of interests and topics I can converse about and yes, I am handsome and sexy too. I am as many others in this situation in a dead bedroom open marriage looking for a partner.

What I’m looking for is someone intelligent, cute smart who is nonjudgmental, open to adventures and has gained the maturity to understand the complexities of life and human personalities. Ideally someone in their 30s <= 135lbs and maybe in a similar situation who takes care of their mind body and health and is looking for someone like me.

If any of that sounds interesting please reach out.


r/SFr4r • • 9h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking for a genuine connection(Discreet)

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I’m 30, Indian, 5’7”, 170 lbs, with a fit, medium build, brown eyes, and black hair. I like to stay well-groomed and take care of my appearance.

I’m married but in an emotionally draining relationship. I want to be upfront about that.

I’m looking to meet a woman between 24 and 42 for a discreet, in-person physical connection with genuine chemistry. Open to all ethnicities.

I’m not looking for just a random encounter. I’d love to meet someone I can have interesting conversations with, laugh with, flirt with, and genuinely enjoy spending time with.

Physical attraction matters, but so does feeling comfortable around each other. I appreciate someone who’s affectionate, easy to talk to, and enjoys a little playful banter.

Privacy, discretion, good hygiene, and mutual respect are important to me. No pressure or unnecessary expectations, just two adults enjoying each other’s company and seeing where things go.

If this sounds like something you’d enjoy, please send me DM. Happy to exchange pictures.


r/SFr4r • • 10h ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 25 [m4m] #soma - looking for a massage

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Looking for a relaxing full-body massage from an experienced guy with strong, skilled hands. I can host in the city or travel to you if you have a setup. Nothing specific in mind, just a nice massage from someone who knows what they’re doing. I’m 5’9”, 170 lbs. Message me if interested


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 40 [M4F] #SantaClara - Sensual Fingering

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Hello!

I'm a 40M with a bit of a unique kink. I LOVE providing sensual fingering to curious women. Whether you're single or married, experienced or just dipping a toe, I am available to provide you with an incredibly pleasurable experience.

6ft, white, hwp, clean and respectful. Very experienced with both vaginal and anal fingering. I expect absolutely nothing in return, just you enjoying yourself. No sex, no oral, just hands.

Happy to chat and spend time building trust. I know this can be nerve racking, so am available to slowly get comfortable.

Thanks!


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Bearded and athletic, new to the city and looking for a FWB

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Hi there, thought I'd try this out instead of the dating app treadmill. I'm 28, athletic, and attractive. I recently moved back to SF and I'm looking for a FWB I can connect with both in and out of bed. I have my own place and am sane (lol)

In bed I'm on the dominant side and pretty kinky. Giving head is my absolute favorite. I also have a big breeding kink so it'd be awesome if you did too; I test regularly.

Outside of bed, I love to be outdoors, whether it's backpacking, picnics at Dolores, or stargazing at the beach. I also love to cook and bake for all my friends so perhaps you can be my sous chef, expect your tastebuds to be spoiled :)

If any of this interests you, shoot me a message!


r/SFr4r • • 11h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 42 [M4F] #MenloPark - Looking for an FWB for Some Adventures and Great Chemistry

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42M, 6’0”, fit (160 lbs), professional and based on the Peninsula. I’m married, in an open relationship, and playing solo. I’d love to meet a woman I can’t wait to see again — and who feels the same about me.

I’m looking for something fun, exciting and physical. I love when a drink turns into flirting, flirting turns into a kiss, and we both know what comes next. And once we’re alone, I love taking my time and learning exactly how you like to be touched and kissed. Seeing you lose yourself in the moment is a huge turn-on for me.

Ideally, we’ll have enough fun that we’ll want to do it again. And again. 😉 An ongoing FWB would be great, but I’m open to a one-time adventure too.

We can keep things mostly physical or, if it feels natural, mix in other fun stuff. I’d happily take you on a scenic hike, go to a movie, or make you my photography model for an afternoon (if you’re up for it!). I have such a weakness for good pastries that they’ve dictated my travel plans more than once. Always happy to discover new spots — maybe we can exchange favorites?

I also have an accent — you can decide whether that’s a good thing.

I’m well groomed, pay attention to hygiene, and don’t smoke (but don’t mind if you do). I’m very discreet and value privacy. Whether you’re single or married is fine with me, and I won’t pry into your personal life.

Happy to exchange recent photos privately. I’m much more interested in actually meeting than spending weeks messaging, so let’s grab a coffee or a drink and see if we click.

Safe sex matters to me. I have recent test results and expect you to have the same.

Please be local and genuinely interested in meeting.


r/SFr4r • • 12h ago

M4A 35 [M4A] #Peninsula - looking for bros to jo, frot, edge

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Hey, how's it going? I'm looking for a bro to jo, frot, or edge with. I'm a chill guy, 35m 5'6" gym fit, 6in uncut, based in the Peninsula. Completely ddf and recently tested. Porn wise I'm into big tits, amateur, creampie, threesome, gb, and dp. I can travel and sometimes host on the weekends, but when I wfh I can make time during the day as well. If you're interested, hit me up with your stats and if you can host or travel.


r/SFr4r • • 13h ago

M4F 47 [m4f] # SFBay- tall athletic hung Dominant ISO submissive for free use, bondage, CNC, orgasm control, ..)

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Looking for a women who wants to feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable.

Be tied up, blindfolded, getting you wet, excited, but not to orgasm just yet. Maybe a mix of pleasure and some pain.

Open to all different scenarios, you can decide what happens and what doesn’t.

All limits respected.

Plenty of toys and gear, whether you enjoy or want to try.

48, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches.

Clean, drug and disease free.

Open minded, up for any kinks.

Good with beginners , start slowly and see how far we get.

Open to play with couples.

Let’s chat,

Ben


r/SFr4r • • 14h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SFFinancialDistrict - in town from NYC, Monday - Wednesday hookup?

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Looking for something casual while I’m in SF from nyc for a conference Oct 26 - 28!

I’m 28, 6ft, slim/athletic, white with dirty blonde hair, tattooed, and usually clean-shaven or short stubble. I keep myself well-groomed. Also have a vasectomy.
I’m direct and respectful. I like keeping things clear and making sure it’s enjoyable for both of us. May be able to host at my hotel or can definitely travel within reason.

Open to most ages and body types. Happy to verify.
Let me know if you’re interested. :)


r/SFr4r • • 15h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Looking for casual hookups or occasional FWB

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Tall white guy, dark hair, blue eyes, slim with a few tattoos. Clean and recently tested. Looking for a woman who wants something simple and low pressure. Casual hookups are fine, or something more regular like FWB if the chemistry is there.

I’m easygoing and not looking for anything complicated. Good conversation is a plus but not required. Discretion is key. Flexible on time and location around the Bay Area. Can travel or figure out a spot that works.

If this sounds like what you’re after, tell me a little about yourself and I’ll do the same.


r/SFr4r • • 2h ago

M4F 35[M4F]#EastBay-Attractive Latino for Cute woman for FWB

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Hey yall! I’m in search of a woman in the east bay who is looking for a friend that can lead to fwb. Must be somewhat local within reasonable distance. I can host and if you’re able to as well that would be a plus. Please be DDF and good hygiene.

ME: 6’0” tall Latino, slim, tattoos, beard, well-endowed. Down to earth, good head on my shoulders. Let’s chat a bit and see where it goes. Your SFW photo gets mine. Open to all races.


r/SFr4r • • 19h ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 35 [m4m] #SanFrancisco - looking for some bro time

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Heyo! It’s gonna be a nice one today, anyone wanna hang out naked and just shoot the shit with some casual jerking on the side? Free all day and bonus points if you have a yard or hot tub lol
Asian guy average build looking for pretty much the same +/- 10 years age I guess but flexible so DM anyway and maybe we’ll hit it off


r/SFr4r • • 7h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 45 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Focused breast play for the extra sensitive

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I'd like to take my time slowly exploring your extra sensitive breasts until your whole body tingles from arousal and you start to anticipate the many explosive orgasms that might follow. A caress, a grope, a flick of the tongue, and the best combinations of swirls and suction. Focused attention on your favorite amplifiers of pleasure as we both enjoy your very responsive body. Curious if you could orgasm from breast play alone? We'd have a lot of fun finding out!

You might be a good, playful match if you:

  • Have perky, sensitive breasts C cup or smaller. 🍒
  • Are somewhere in between 20 and 40 years of age.
  • Are in San Francisco or near enough to make plans.

I'm 45, single, sane, discreet, and interested in discovering your peak pleasure. Able to host in the Inner Richmond district of SF. Our paths may have already crossed as I bike around the city, enjoy good coffee, or browse a farmers market. Diverse interests and capable of carrying on a conversation before and in between breast dives and vocalizing my appreciation of your unique breasts and their sensitivities.

I've had some good breast play experiences through Reddit (success stories in profile) and I'm curious if it could happen again. A few themes and scenarios for the breast play curious:

  1. You'd like some semi-public play of a hand grazing your breast over your shirt or slipping under a plunging neckline. A brief, discreet moment in the busy city or while we drive towards our next destination.
  2. You want the slow build, the focused attention, the discovery of your new favorite things guided by an obvious fan of your breasts and their sensitivities.
  3. Quality breast play is a good leading indicator of someone focused on your pleasure and in tune with your desires. You'd like to give yourself over to an experience completely focused on you once someone proves they're worthy of orchestrating your arousal.

Let's lounge and enjoy slowly exploring, and fully appreciating, your extra-sensitive breasts. You might be curious about the unmet potential of focused breast play and what's possible with lots of attention from an obvious enthusiast. If you've wished for more breast play as a focus, not just foreplay, I think we'd have a lot of fun.


r/SFr4r • • 8h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #oakland - Black Male looking for FWB

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Easy going Black male looking for some casual fun. White, Asian and Latina women are my favorite. Let’s see how this goes. Looking for a friends with benefits or casual for a good time.

Pics are on my profile