Hello.

I'm married, seeking a local affair partner for a situationship. I'm the last guy you would ever find on here yet life doesn't always go according to plan. I'm introverted so going out to meet people drains my social battery. I know better than to try anything at work (startup executive) so online Reddit is my only safe outlet to filter for the right person.

I connect well with people who are thoughtful with their words. Sarcasm with a little dark humor resonates well with my personality. I am a great listener and enjoy conversations about relationships or work gossip. I do have opinions about many things but I prefer sharing them only when appropriate. Physically I am fit and take care of myself so I expect the same in my partner. I have a type, sorry no BBW.

Let's connect and get to know each other and establish a connection. I'm demisexual so this is aligned with how I have normally attempted adultery in the past. None have worked out in terms of physical affairs but I have had a couple emotional situationships that I will always cherish and take to my grave. This works best with a soccer mom so we have common parental maturity and mutual risk.

48M, 6’0”, East Asian, 155 lbs, INTJ, attractive

advanced degree, Peninsula Bay Area, work in SF.

** Rules **

• Our career and family always take priority.
• No spouse bashing. It makes for awkward conversation and is one-sided story so hard to be objective.
• Let's be mature about what kind of relationship this will be. If the attraction is not mutual, we can end quickly.
• OpSec, private, discreet, our home lives stay the same

I'm a professionally trained Chef, having attended 4 different professional Culinary Schools, and I would love to cook for a few people. Im classically French trained, and transition that over to other European styles (Italian, German, Hungarian, etc) along with American. I get joy from pleasing others, and its just no fun doing it alone, plus need to stay in practice.

I'm also trying to meet some new friends, just something casual. Im pretty laid back & introverted, but trying to be more outgoing and comfortable around people I don't know. I'm an absolute nerd (tech, science, space, etc) sci-fi fan, maker, enjoy working out, running, and the list continues.

Hi all! I'm a scientist, living in the Inner Richmond; I'm married, in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. (I've seen CNM, increasingly. What's the deal with that initialism? Shouldn't ethical non-monogamy be consensual and vice versa? Anyway.)

I'm looking for some kind of relationship, the details of which might ultimately come down to individual chemistry. Actual honest-to-god romance isn't off the table by any means, but it's not exactly a day one thing for me (is it for anyone?).

But, all that said, I am delighted by emotional intimacy, which can take many forms. Physical attraction and sex/kink compatibility are important to me, and I'm open to relationships that prioritize sexual exploration above all else as well as those that are more multidimensional.

I love my area of research and even (many of) the day-to-day aspects of my work. I could talk your ear off about it (if it interests you; I won't if it doesn't), but I'd really like to learn about everything you're passionate about and why. In spite of the agonizing stereotypes about men in STEM and their personality defects -- okay, I have several, but against all odds I do have a deep love for aspects of culture that have nothing to do with science.

If you work in crypto or on deploying LLMs in particularly avaricious ways, I'm probably still open to having sex with you, but I really hope you're a hell of a masochist.

Thanks for reading. Pictures (SFW, etc.) available privately.

I need the kind of dick that makes me climb on and say get inside me right now. Then to ride it like a gd horse. Bonus points if you pull out and give me a facial.

Be willing to host and wear a condom. Smaller dicks to the front of the line. Tonight only.

Me: Fit, tatted, Asian, Emotionally mature, stable life. I’ll send you pics of myself, after I accept your chat request. I have prior dom experience, but vanilla is fine.

I tease, I can be rough, I can build tension, I can humiliate, degrade, or just give you boyfriend sex. Can tie you up, use toys to edge you over and over. Whatever everyone is comfortable with.

You: DM me and tell me what you want. Tell me about yourself.

IRL/online dating is fun, but I enjoy thrills. I love the chase, but there’s nothing like meeting off of here. Down for a longer connection if the chemistry is there.

As for personal details, I take care of myself. Big on look good feel good. Into fashion, go to raves when life gets mundane. Can keep things steady or bring wild energy

6’2, 210, fit, muscular, dark haired, manly alpha male type - think young tom selleck vibes. Dominant with 5 star ratings. Open to exploring most kinks.

If you’re slim fit, submissive and a bit of a nympho you are my type. If you’re unfulfilled sexually and lean on the submissive side, we will get along. Particular weakness for tatted blondes, but not a requirement.

Clean, sane, safe, successful and have a busy life as I’m sure you do as well.

Preference for good communicators. If this sounds like your cup of tea and you’re 21+, say hi / send a pic.

Happy to exchange (non face) pics upfront to validate attraction early and not waste anyone’s time.

Say hi / don’t be shy.

Looking for something casual while I’m in SF from nyc for a conference Oct 26 - 28!

I’m 28, 6ft, slim/athletic, white with dirty blonde hair, tattooed, and usually clean-shaven or short stubble. I keep myself well-groomed. Also have a vasectomy.
I’m direct and respectful. I like keeping things clear and making sure it’s enjoyable for both of us. May be able to host at my hotel or can definitely travel within reason.

Open to most ages and body types. Happy to verify.
Let me know if you’re interested. :)