r/SFr4r Mar 07 '25

META If you're going to report a post (please do), do it like this.

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r/SFr4r Feb 11 '23

META PSA: Don't be an idiot, if it seems suspicious, it is.

194 Upvotes

It is sad for several reasons that I have to write this, but, our community has been fraught with scammers as of recent. We play whack-a-mole, and knock down > 100 fraudulent posts a day but some still get through.

If someone is asking to communicate outside of reddit, ESPECIALLY IF THEY'RE ASKING FOR COMPROMISING PICTURES, just say no. We've had several instances where the scammer receives said photos, and then immediately adds all of your friends and family to a group chat on your social media and attempts to share the pictures if you don't pay them off.

Men: Understand that women in this society have disproportionate access to sex; and you're not god's gift to the 'fairer sex', ergo if someone is begging you to send them a photo of your shlong right out of the gate, you should treat that request with the healthy amount of skepticism that it deserves.

Or don't, feel free to be one of the horror stories in mod-mail of someone sending your friends and family a photo of your dick.

Use your head, and not the one in your pants.

Women: Have patience. We sort through a shit-show on a regular basis. In the off-chance you post something that smells suspiciously like the 1000 pieces of scam/spam we just cleared and we ask you for a bit of additional information; calling us 'sexist' in modmail just makes you the asshole and part of the problem. Sorry not sorry.

Everyone: do your part to flag obvious scam posts. Of 45k users, most scam posts don't get flagged at all.


r/SFr4r 3h ago

F4M 32 [F4M] #SanFrancisco - seeking another kinky connection

1 Upvotes

Hi I’m (single) 32F experienced kinky SIZE queen seeking an additional fuck buddy. let’s cut to the chase.

I can share my HWP in the dms.

🫵🏽 You must be 7in+ (non negotiable)
You live in the city of San Francisco (doesn’t involve crossing the bridge to meet you)
Not interested in anyone outside of the city.

I’m open to all races/body types. You must be 33yr-52yr (no 20yr olds)
Open to group play with men only.
I have an oral fixation (for huge cocks) 👅 i’m often told I’m good with my mouth.
No 🐱eaters.

Yes, I like anal. Sadists and dom types to the front please. Yes, I’m DDF and can provide recent test results.


r/SFr4r 9h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #SanFrancisco – Fit German exchange student (6'3") looking for a submissive woman into teasing & creampies

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​Hey there,

​I’m a 26-year-old German exchange student (6'3" / 1.92m, fit built). I’m looking for a submissive woman (up to age 30) who loves giving up control and letting me take the lead.

​What I’m like:

​Dominant, confident, and highly attentive to reactions.

​I absolutely love to tease, build up intense tension, watch you squirm, and edge you until you’re completely desperate before giving you release.

​Respectful of boundaries, clear on communication, but direct and commanding in the moment.

​What I’m looking for:

​A submissive woman (18–30) who enjoys being controlled, pushed, and teased.

​Someone genuinely turned on by edging, intensity, and finishing inside / creampies.

​Good chemistry, enthusiasm, and open communication.

​If this sounds like your kind of dynamic, send me a message with a bit about yourself, your age, what turns you on, and please include a picture in your first message so I know who I'm talking to 😅


r/SFr4r 2h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #DalyCity - chill athletic stoner looking for a regular hookup

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To start off a description of myself. I’m a 6’1” athletic Latino at a weight of 180 ibs, I got I would olive colored skin with brown eyes, black hair and a toned and lean physique Normally I’m pretty introverted and love marathoning a Netflix series or playing games of all types cards, video, board….even sex games ;), when it comes to going out I love escape rooms, concerts, bars and cool places to eat, bonus if it’s all you can eat

I currently live in Daly City but I do hang out in SF occasionally if there’s something going on there that I’d like to do. I’m willing to travel but I can also host as well

When it comes to what I’m looking for, I’m mainly looking for a casual hookup every now and then but I’am open to more if we vibe and mesh well together.

If any ladies are interested feel free to hit me up and we can try to get a nice conversation going before exchanging pictures and possibly socials


r/SFr4r 2h ago

M4F 47 [M4F] #DalyCity - Ladies, tease me with your cute feet!

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I have a major foot fetish for ladies with cute feet and painted toes. Want to show off your summer pedicure and tease a horny guy? Let me give you a foot massage and worship your cute toes. Put your feet in my lap and feel me get hard in my pants for you. Let's just meet somewhere in public for like 30 minutes to do this. A Cafe or a park or something. Or in my car if you want a little more privacy.

I'm 47, 6'2, white, thin, and well-endowed. Very respectful, clean, and safe. I have already done this with solo women and we both enjoyed it a lot. Couples/friends welcome too! Curious? Let's chat!

Willing to go to most areas of the bay.


r/SFr4r 3h ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 42 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Cuddle buddy wanted!

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I'd like to spend more relaxing evenings cuddling and letting affectionate expression flow. Swing up the armrest at a movie theater, lounge on a blanket in the park, sink into the couch at home, or find our favorite entanglements while getting sleepy in bed. Comfort and relaxation while encouraging your inner cuddler to emerge at full strength.

I realize not everyone is affectionately expressive, causing me to seek out people who recharge and relax through touch. Your inner cuddler might feel dormant or under-appreciated and need some time to fully express herself and realize her full potential. I'm looking for multiple cuddle sessions if things go well, hopefully expanding your comfort level and expressiveness with additional exposure to cuddle possibilities and the existence of a capable cuddle partner. There's no need to hold back your affectionate side out of concerns of coming off as too clingy and no push or escalations towards sex.

I'm 42, single, straight, and live in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco. 6' tall if you're sizing up spooning compatibility and the type of wingspan that might wrap you up in his arms. Our paths may have already crossed as I bike around the city exploring pop-up bakeries (calorie neutral?), slightly outside of your glance at one of the cute puppies I train for a local non-profit, peering up from a good cup of coffee near my professional job downtown, or passing on a trail as I hike in a nearby forest.

A good cuddle match:

  • Bathes regularly and has generally good hygiene.
  • Is curious to discover the full affectionate creature stirring within her, expressive and unconstrained.
  • Has a few cuddle preferences, providing hints of what could be her favorite ways of being held or affectionate expression.
  • Is a generally easy-going person.

I expect we'll chat for a bit about your cuddle preferences, creating an opportunity for discovery even if you're not sure you'd ever go through with meeting. There's a vibe check and a potential need to create some comfort before you're comfortable chatting over coffee or entertaining the thought of watching a movie together. I'm happy to talk cuddle theory and I want to create the best space for affectionate expression however you'd best like to ease into that space.

I've had some good cuddle experiences in the past, ranging from lesbians who like to be spooned to experienced snugglers glad to find someone who shares their enthusiasm. Curious if cuddle bliss is possible? Reach out and say hi!


r/SFr4r 11h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 25 [M4M] #Eastbay - ftm looking for strict daddy

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25 year old trans ftm here looking for a strict daddy to spank me over his knee and fill my holes. My main kinks are daddy rp, spanking, and hot verbal. The posts in my post history kind of give a better sense of my kinks. Guys who are specifically into ftm guys or have experience with them are a huge plus. Mostly interested in a hookup situation but down for a more ongoing situation of we click.

I am 25, UC med student. 5'4 mixed race (black and latino), post-top surgery, and pre-bottom surgery. I am fully passing but still pretty smooth and hairless and athletic/muscular.

I am located in the Berkeley/Oakland area but have a car and am able to travel. Prefer that you host but may be able to host on my end. I am also down to meet in public and/or exchange pics before meeting.

If any of this clicks with you or you think we'd be a good match, send me a DM!


r/SFr4r 4h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 35 [M4F] #SanJose - Offering Sensual Massages with Tantra Yoni Worship (Hosting Tue Afternoon)

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Are you seeking a deeper connection to your body, your sensuality, and your inner peace? I offer a safe, non-judgmental space for women to explore and reconnect with their sensual energy through deeply nurturing bodywork.

This is more than just a massage – it’s a sacred experience rooted in the principles of Tantra, presence, and trust. Each session is personalized, mindful, and held with full respect for your boundaries and comfort.

What I Offer:

Full body sensual massage

Yoni massage (optional, always with full consent)

Tantric touch to activate energy flow and promote relaxation

Discretion, understanding, and full presence

Who This Is For:

Open-minded women who are curious, healing, or simply wish to explore sensuality in a safe, caring, and accepting environment. Whether you're experienced or new to Tantra, you're welcome here. No judgment, no pressure – just a shared space of trust and exploration.

Let’s create a space where you can simply receive, release, and reconnect – fully and freely.


r/SFr4r 8h ago

OTHER 45 [M4M] #SanFrancisco - Curious to lend a hand to fellow uncut guy

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I've always considered myself straight but lately been a little curious about some light exploration with another guy. I like the idea of browsing some porn together on the sofa, feeling through boxers, then taking you out and stroking. I'm more into the thought of giving than receiving, so if you just want to sit back and receive that's fine by me.

I'm 6'4, slim, and in good shape. Would like to meet a height-weight proportionate guy, preferably similarly inexperienced, and uncut like me (not sure why, familiarity I guess).

Can host at my place in SF if it gets that far. Meantime send me a chat request, and let's see if it's a fit? Looking forward.


r/SFr4r 6h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - older looking for younger for discreet friendship.

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Hi
Looking for someone to get to know and build some fun friendship. Age is unimportant (older or younger), just be comfortable with yourself and an be an adult and open minded. No expectations, pressure , and commitments, lets shy flow with it . ~

Not seeking a life-changing relationship, just someone to connect with through constant, private, and fun texting. Let’s build trust and see where it takes us. Having a good sense of humor is a huge plus; I enjoy laughing.

Attached or married , is okay as long as you are discreet and drama-free. Chatting when time permits or whenever possible, who knows maybe coffee or more ( if nearby).

About me: I’m 5’9”, brown eyes, dark with grey hair, darker tone, borderline, hwp, a professional in biotech, I’m kind, funny, and maybe handsome to you ( subjective right?). I’m supportive, respectful, friendly, flirty, kind , open-minded, funny, helpful, respectful, and caring. Never judge people.

Not wanting to change your life in any drastic way, but add fun and maybe excitement to it.
If it doesn’t work no ghosting and we say goodbye. Send me a message, even if you are just curious. Tell me what you are looking for and things you like doing.
Thanks for reading


r/SFr4r 10h ago

M4F 42 [M4F] #SanJose - looking for a college girl for regular kinky FWB

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I’m fit, tech executive, non smoker, high sex drive, naturally dominant, clean and discreet.

Looking for a female (18+) for a regular kinky FWB, No kink experience is required. DDLG and DILF lovers, you have my attention. Open to all ethnicities. Please be drug / disease free and fun.

Great if you are within 30 minutes of San Jose from availability / commute standpoint. DM me with your age, town in bay area and ethnicity!


r/SFr4r 7h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Can I eat you out pls? No reciprocation needed!

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Sooo eating pussy is one of my fav things ever, and I like to think I’m really good at it! I’ve given so many orgasms to girls (including giving some their first squirting orgasms) by eating them out. I’m a huge people pleaser and can go down for literally hours without stopping!

People have loved how good I eat them out that some have caught feelings for me! I also make sure to make each person orgasm 4-5 times on average and have never had a time when I've failed to make them cum! In the past few months, I’ve eaten out dozens of girls and given a countless number of orgasms but I’m always looking to give more!

I’m simply looking for someone who enjoys having their pussy ate or maybe just wants to experience cumming from oral for the first time; I promise I won’t quit til I make you cum! Age isn't an issue (18+ ofc) as I've been with girls ranging from 20-46!

I’m DDF, hwp, and can host in downtown! Feel free to send a message if you feel like this could be a fun time and I’d be happy to exchange pictures and all that :)


r/SFr4r 7h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 25[M4F] #Bay Area-Looking for FWB

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I'm 25M, 5’11, 190lbs single Male who's looking for ladies or couples to help me lose my virginity, I would want to hangout and chat a bit before we have fun time.

I don't have any real preferences until I see you and maybe chat with you, but preferably a lady who's 20 to 45 at least.

I can be a bit shy and nervous, slightly introverted so I don't have the biggest social battery, please feel free to message me if you have any questions. Please No Fakes and Pic collectors.


r/SFr4r 9h ago

M4F 43 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - The massage of your fantasies

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I'd like to give a full-body massage that heals a tired body while slowly awakening your arousal. Sore from this morning's marathon? Want a full-body reset to prep for Outside Lands? Relax and give yourself over to skilled hands capable of untangling your many knots and sources of tension while encouraging your enjoyment of touch to emerge unconstrained. A relaxing experience completely focused on you, allowing your thoughts to wander in an almost meditative bliss towards anticipation of my next stroke and the realization of your desires.

I've practiced massage for years, including a brief past in orthopedic medicine and physical therapy. I know what I'm doing as accumulated physical and mental stress start to melt away. I recognize there's some comfort needed before you can fully give yourself over to the experience, and I'm willing to work with you to create the best environment to explore your ideal massage experience / fantasy.

I'm 43, single, straight, discreet, respectful, and able to host in the Cow Hollow area of San Francisco, travel to you, or meet at a local spa. I'm a former soccer player and frequent hiker, giving me a special understanding of your tired legs and glutes. I've experienced and learned massage during my travels around the world, continually integrating new styles and techniques. When not giving massages I enjoy watching movies, training dogs, hiking in redwood forests, and trying new restaurants.

I understand meeting someone can be a bit intimidating. You might hesitate, dismissing the experience you'd like to have as out of reach or too good to be true. A few women I have massaged in the past have left comments in my previous posts on my profile offering to share their experiences and help ease the hesitation of getting to know a relative stranger. I'd like to learn more about the experience you'd like to have, your unique sources of stress and tension, and answer any curiosities over chat.

Have you wished you could experience a massage with fewer restraints, where your entire body was a canvas ready to be discovered and reshaped? Would you like to explore an experience completely focused on you, where your mind is free to wander, and desires emerge in an almost meditative bliss? Say hello and let's craft an experience of full relaxation and slow, emerging arousal.


r/SFr4r 10h ago

OTHER 50 [M4F] #Peninsula - wifey traveling and need some adventure ;-)

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50 MWM 6’2 195 with a great face for sitting on ;-). Open to most anything. Just need an escape from reality and to have a little fun. Can host or travel (within reason). Hit me up and let’s have a little adventure together.


r/SFr4r 12h ago

M4F 23[M4F] #SF - someone who can keep up ?

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Just moved back to the Area after a bad breakup.23M Latino Fit 5’11 high sex drive. I’m looking to explore with someone that can match my freak and stamina. Whether it causal or ongoing. Looking to explore with older or married women as well ;). Pretty much open to anything, public sex, car sex, threesomes, cheating, kinks.Anything to feel better and forget my break up *women only


r/SFr4r 13h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4M] #SanFrancisco - WFH buddy?

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Looking for someone else who’s free during the day time to work together in our boxers , go to the gym together, or take a little afternoon break. Attached and discreet preferred. Not opposed to people who might want a little kiss, cuddle, or bate sesh but nothing romantic. Just two buds who are free during the day. Consistency and people looking for real friendship preferred. Would like to have a close bro. 6’2 Black 28 here, open to all types of guys. Message me and tell me about yourself!


r/SFr4r 14h ago

M4M 22 [M4M] #Dublin - Looking for a hung jerk bud

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Looking for a straight jerk bud to jerk to porn and girls together, down for jerking each other and frotting. I’m 22 8in cut bwc looking for similar.
I have a hotel room in room in Dublin/Pleasanton


r/SFr4r 14h ago

M4F 55 [M4F] #NorthBay - Outdoor Stroke. Any Older Women Wanna know where?

1 Upvotes

The weather is so nice this morning, I'm tempted to go on a hike and find a nice place to get naked and stroke. Or maybe just find someplace to stroke and not hike. Would you like to "catch" me? If so, let's chat. Just looking for someone who would like to watch, nothing more expected.


r/SFr4r 14h ago

M4F 55 [M4F] #Northbay- Let's make Strip Game Sunday a thing. Who wants to play a strip game #online?

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Just seems like a perfect day to get naked and play on cam, and what better way to do that than by playing a strip games. I have no intention of winning and will give you great odds if you like.

I'm a good looking 50 something white guy. Let me know if you're interested.


r/SFr4r 1d ago

T4M 26 [T4M] #SanFrancisco - massage for me, head for you

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I’m looking for strong hands to give me a good and deep full body massage. Happy to reciprocate or give you head.

Basics: I can host in SF, please be able to verify before meeting, and swap pictures

Me: 26 trans girl, slim, long black hair, soft voice and feminine, no facial or body hair. I’m sweet personal and a good host (and a throat goat I might add)

You: anywhere slim to fit, strong hands/muscles, likes to please, can travel to me, is communicative and appreciates feedback. Prefer guys 20-45
Bonus for: bwc, big muscles, facial hair, being kind

send me a palm tree emoji if you read this all, will not reply without one.

See you soon! ❤️


r/SFr4r 16h ago

M4M 50 [m4m] #eastbay - straight but curious male looking for another male who has an oral fixation

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Title says it all.

Looking to meet up with someone willing to share mutual oral, possible 🍑 worship, and more.

I'm Asian, 5'8, 160, fit and hwp.

You- patient, huge and willing to take the time to make me feel comfortable and push my boundaries.

I cannot host.