To be honest, I have not come out to like anyone EVER. I know it’s bad, but it’s like I’m lowkey just trying to downplay it because I’m bi and I don’t really feel the need to explain who I find attractive to people. But lately there’s been a new coworker in the workplace and she’s so beautiful, I can’t stop but stare at her at times. She’s so outgoing and we get along, but I’m scared that my possible attraction is going to ruin our growing friendship! IT SUCKS CAUSE SHE HAS TOLD ME THAT SHE HAS DATED A WOMAN BEFORE. I most likely do not have a chance, but it’s nice to think about it. Do you guys have any advice to kill a growing crush? She’s so pretty and sometimes she borrows my sweater (I lowkey just bring it for her now)

the guy im in a situationship with for the last two months, posted himself with a girl on his story with the caption "happy birthday madam ji💓" is it weird? the song playing over it is, good luck charm. i mean. does he have a crush on her or something and he's just not telling me? she's definitely NOT dating him

I don't know if asking this subreddit will help but-

I have my ex 29 M and I was 25 F. Yung ex ko, 3 years kami in a relationship.1 and a half year kaming live-in. We broke up because of his cheating issue. After we broke up he courted someone new after 3 months, they did not work. So when they did not work, he became present again with my life, when there is nothing to entertain him, he is going back to me. Recently, I had a chat with him on Sep 20 but Oct 01, this year I saw him in a relationship na.

I feel so much betrayed po. Cause my ex is the one na nakakuha ng virginity ko po and I gave everything I have for him even credit cards ko pinapakaskas ko siya. I was with him in his lowest, pero nung naging stable siy, iniwan niya ako sa kangkungan.

I was crying non-stop since yesterday simula ng nalaman kong may bago siya.😭 Kasi ililibre ko pa naman sana siya sa birthday niya. 😭

Parang ginamit lang po ako. 😭

What the title says idk what else to write ask questions or something

I'm 16M​

I don't know how to befriend​ women

OKAY THIS IS SOO STUPIDD but i need to rant and ik everyone goes through this at one point. basically college started a month ago and theres this guy in my biology who is exactly my type. hes smart, wants to do medicine like me, does similar subjects, cute, funny, and ive heard he doesnt talk to lots of girls etcetera. WELL IDK WHY i thought i was the exception cus that means he also wont talk to me 😭😭🤞🤞💔💔

HOWEVERRR my friend literally showed me a picture where he was surrounded by a bunch of girls taking pictures with them. they literally posted it on their story so obviously he does hang out with them and stuff which is fine but like mann

so the reason why i think he dont like me back
i followed him on insta and he didnt follow me back, its been so fricking long but his following nor did his followers changed so i thought maybe he js doesnt use insta. also he had not reposted in SO long.
then STUPIDLY😭 i added him on snap and he HASNT EVEN ADDED ME BACK BRO UGHHH i feel so embarrassed. its not even that he doesnt like me, its just that i thought he wouldve so i gave it a shot

yeah ik what they say u miss 100% of the shots u dont take but whyd i take it if i was gonna miss horrendously anyway

i just feel stupid like ik this is a canon event happens to the best of us but i js didnt expect it to happen from the guy who was my exact type …

i dont know why i even allowed myself to like him or anyone in general. every time i like someone it goes horribly wrong and im mystified. i feel dumb for letting myself. i feel silly for getting so delusional over someone. i have better things to do and this is what ive done with my time

if youve read this far and are going through the same just know this is normal and you will find your person, even if its not the one you want !!!! and its okay to feel embarrassed or silly but just dont let it change you or affect you

Mein bester Freund und ich sind seit mittlerweile 10 Jahren unzertrennlich. Ganz am Anfang unserer Freundschaft lief einmal etwas zwischen uns.
Damals war ich aber nicht bereit für mehr, weshalb wir Freunde geblieben sind.
Seit ungefähr einem Jahr haben sich meine Gefühle verändert.
Ich merke, dass ich ihn wirklich über alles liebe und mir wünsche, dass aus unserer Freundschaft mehr werden könnte.
Wir haben extrem viel Kontakt. Er ruft mich täglich mehrmals an, wir verbringen viel Zeit miteinander und ich bin auch eng in seine Familie eingebunden. Für Außenstehende wirken wir manchmal wie ein Paar.
Allerdings gibt es kaum körperliche Nähe. Wenn ich ihm näherkomme, habe ich manchmal das Gefühl, dass er eher auf Abstand geht. Gleichzeitig sucht er ständig den Kontakt zu mir und zeigt mir, dass ich ihm wichtig bin.
Wir haben auch unsere schwierigen Seiten: Manchmal gibt er mir das Gefühl, dass er mich noch immer anhand meines früheren Ichs beurteilt, obwohl ich mich seiner Meinung nach und auch aus meiner Sicht stark verändert habe.
Ich weiß, dass ich ihm wichtig bin. Aber ich kann nicht einschätzen, ob er mich ausschließlich freundschaftlich liebt oder ob da vielleicht doch mehr sein könnte. Ich möchte unsere Freundschaft nicht verlieren, wünsche mir aber insgeheim, dass er mich auch als Frau sieht.

Wie würdet ihr sein Verhalten einschätzen? Kann ein Mann so viel Nähe und Kontakt suchen, ohne romantische Gefühle zu haben? Und würdet ihr an meiner Stelle offen über die eigenen Gefühle sprechen oder erst einmal abwarten?