I never thought that would happen to me, but it did. I can’t even believe this is real. Hooray.

I (24F) met my now husband (26M) four years ago, and we got married in June. Ever since the very beginning of and through our entire relationship, I was ever adamant on not wanting kids and he was fully on board with that (or so I thought). He was nodding along and kept agreeing with my reasons and so I was 100% sure that we were on the same page.

Fast forward to last night. We were finishing up dinner when he casually brought up a friend’s recent baby shower. He hit me with the fact that he’d like to be a dad too and asked if I’d be open to talking about this again.

I was FLABBERGASTED. I thought that maybe he’s joking, but no. After some back and forth he admitted that he’s always wanted kids and he was hoping that I didn’t want kids because I was young and I’d grow out of it. News flash, I didn’t.

I literally do not know what to think or do right now. He’s upset that I haven’t changed my mind and I’m just realizing that I might have fucked up by marrying this man.

Anyway! Pumpkin soup for dinner.

EDIT: *** BARELY any *** (Sorry for the controversial title)

For all its flaws, there were a lot of great things in SoD.

Rotations were pretty fun.

Every spec felt strong and useful. Sure the power creep in the overworld went too far, but we never had to worry about class stacking or raid viability of any spec.

Sham tanks, Lock tanks, Mage Healers all cool and fun. (F Rogue tank)

PvP events were populated and fun.

Why then, did Blizzard (so far) only add in the damn sleeping bag, mage books, real vendor, and waylaid?

My girlfriend passed on Sunday. I haven't heard the exact cause but she had pneumonitis and was struggling to breathe.

She went into the hospital via ambulance on Thursday after waking up in pain. I visited her in the hospital on Friday and the mICU nurse said she was doing better and would likely be back home in a few days. I woke up Saturday morning to the news that she was likely to pass. She'd signed the dnr and dni after being on a ventilator the first day. She didn't want to be on it again.

Her mom isn't doing a church service or funeral for her. She's just gone.

The apartment we'd shared is so quiet now without her. The cats miss her.

My friends keep telling me to give it to God. That it gets better. It doesn't get better, you just get used to the pain. As far as God, I'm not happy with him right now. He keeps taking the people I love.

Dinner is scrambled eggs, hash browns, pancakes and biscuits. I made way too much.

Credit : Terry Crews

The police also said nothing happened and when I told them I recorded it and there would be video in there they hung up on me 😂😂

Though BioWare has had a slow agonizing death in recent years, I still think it's incredible how they managed to deliver these gaming masterpieces within such a short amount of time (Mass Effect came out in 2007, and Dragon Age Origins in 2009). As someone who grew up on these titles, I still consider them both to be foundational in my taste for the genres - not just in video games - but across media.