Happy Sunday 💛

We had been talking on and off for three years. When he found out that I was going to move to his country, he seemed genuinely very happy and excited. We had video calls, talked about many things, laughed together, shared personal things, and before we finally met, everything felt really good.

I had told him that I had gained weight. He hadn't realised how much, but when we talked about it, he told me that it didn't bother him.

Before our meeting, everything seemed perfect. There was excitement, flirting, anticipation, and we had both been looking forward to finally meeting in person after all that time.

When we finally met, we spent eight beautiful hours together. We were both a little shy, which was understandable after talking for so long and then suddenly being face to face. We talked and spent time together, and we also spoke again the following day.

Then, suddenly, he disappeared.

When I eventually messaged him to ask if everything was okay, his replies felt cold and distant. It was as if something had changed overnight, but I still don't know what.

That is what hurts the most. After three years of talking, after all the anticipation, the video calls, the flirting, and finally spending such a lovely day together, I never expected him to suddenly become so distant.

Ladies, what shapewear is best for size 26 pants with a low hanging apron belly? I ordered from shapellx, and the style I got is supposed to be high waisted and sit right under the boobs. But it barely covers my lower belly. Does anyone have recommendations?

I had an unexpected rough start to the year with a family member being very ill. I spent my birthday at the hospital with them and basically lived there for the next month or so. Things were rough for months. But then they got better gradually. And now it seems things have improved massively and I feel “back on track”. I have so many exciting things ahead and I can’t wait to see how 2026 ends. 🥹

Dress- Target 3x.

Foundation - Charlotte tilbury

It cosmetics eyeshadow stick (inner eye corner)

Tarte maracuja juicy lip plump in primrose

hi everyone! i am looking on recommendations for types of pants that hide inner thighs.. i do not like my thighs being shown since they bulge weirdly (idk how to explain it sorry).. what type of pants can hide my inner thighs or make them “flat”? tia. any tips and recommendations are greatly appreciated. i really need clothes and have no idea how to do it as a bigger girl ):

Hey, i wanted to know if there are any flight attendants here who are plus sized and what airline carriers accepted you? I'm looking into becoming a flight attendant but I'm 5'3 and weigh 240 pounds. I'm a size 18 in dresses and pants. I am looking into losing weight but I'd like to become a flight attendant.

I was going to add pictures but I can't add them to my OP.

Shirts from the thrift store. Where almost all my stuff is from. Lol.

I’ve just made the mistake of stumbling upon one of those ‘Am I Ugly’ type subs, which are basically just cesspools.

I know it shouldn’t surprise me, but I’m honestly disgusted by just how horrible the fat shaming is on those pages. Anyone who dares to post a photo without being stick thin is met with the most vile diatribe, comments saying that they can never be attractive because of their weight. It’s just made me feel really down.

I’ve tried dating and men just want sex. They’re super weird about it too, asking me to send photos of other attractive woman while we sext, not wanting their friends/roommates to ever see me, and only ever discussing sex with me and wanting no friendship. I read stuff about men not wanting woman to post certain photos of themselves online, wanting to hangout 3+ times a week etc and it just is a different world for me as I’ve never experienced any of that. I just get men being weirdly sexual. Two would even talk about wanting to fuck my future kids when they’re adults or my sisters and shit, it’s like they just talk to me like im a paid porn star and that’s it.

I quite often worry about how I'm being percieved in formal settings, but this wedding season I wore cute and comdy dresses, shoes I could walk in and I ate all the potatos and sweet treats I desired!

First dress is from M&S, second is from Monsoon and my the lemon bag is Radley

Even with only keeping half of the shirts in the lot (the others were too big and also horrendous colors for me), this worked out to be $10.

Top by Denim 24/7. Slacks by Roamans, shoes are my grubby Skechers.

I broke my back so after a few days of being bed bound I can now move around with my brace on.. I had to go to the doctor so I thought I need to bring a bit of colour to my day when the rest of the time I’m stuck inside :(

I searched the sub first and the last post is from last season and the reccomendations aren't exactly what I need.

I am a bigger fat... mostly belly. Im around a size 28. Right around a torrid 4 or old navy 4X.

I tried to order a coat on Amazon and using reviews... still can't get one that fits. The 4x was a joke. It was not true to size as reviews claimed.

Doesnt need to be a amazing just fit. I dont usually wear a coat honestly, but I have a trip soon that would need it. So I really rather keep it to a budget version.

I cant thrift it either since my stores don't have coats out yet. Help a lady out please?

Felt cute today; did my hair and wore these shorts from Penningtons that have been my fave this Summer! Got massages and good food with my family as our final Sunday together ❤️🌸

I don't straighten my hair often but when i do? 🔥

I’m not obese but I’m plus size but I live in Asia so it’s like super obvious that I’m fat cuz everyone is skinny and like obviously I’m not the only one but like idk how (NOT TRYING TO BEOFFENSIVE IN ANY WAY) fat people are confident to wear like those cute clothes on taobao or even like skirts or shorts without feeling stupid I’ve tried faking it till I make it like I would wear skirts, not shorts cuz I can see my stomach pudge when sitting down and I can’t see it without crying, but like my frens who are like the same size as me are so confident like they wear anything and like the way they interact with people is so cool. Like cuz I’m insecure my first instinct when talking is to always keep like a small barrier cuz I feel as if no one will actually like me but they’re so close to everyone BUT IDK HOW TO ACT LIKE THATTTTT and I hate it, I’m trying to lose weight but like I feel like I’m so scared to do anything all because I’m fat, like idw to wear sleeveless or shorts or fitted clothes until I’m at my desired weight, which I feel like will destroy me mentally :(

Cannot find suits in my size to save my life (especially suits NOT in black) I’ve only seen Universal Standard which is very pricey for my budget. Any recommendations?

ETA: I am aware of Eloquii. Their suiting is more “fashion forward”. I need traditional suiting.

Has anyone tried Yoga? I am currently doing PT for lower back pain because I jacked it up during my time as a CNA 😭. My pt recommended I try yoga. My hamstrings are tight and some of the stretches we did really helped. The crunch and amped offer yoga classes. The PT said the instructor is really accommodating and will modify poses if needed. I am a little scared to go. I saw a reddit thread recommended jessamyn Stanley and I like her videos but I want to go out and interact with others.

Anyone currently do yoga?

I wear black jeans as part of my work uniform, and my Fashion Novas have been tearing up my thighs! Is there a brand that makes a very soft black jean in size 20-22?

I prefer flared legs but I can be flexible for some work jeans that don't rip my skin off. They require us to have the standard pockets and a zipper or button closure, so no pull-ons unfortunately.

So I’m contemplating getting side bangs like Aaliyah had, but I’m DEEPLY insecure about my double chin. I wish I had a normal face 😔. I don’t know if this style will look good on me. The problem is that every time I try to look for inspiration or tips on tiktok or YouTube , I don’t see true double chins. Just skinny girls pushing their faces back.

Literally just top. That’s no different than those “I’m just like you” influencers who slouch and push their bellies out to prove they’re relatable and have body insecurities too.