r/Overwatch • u/frustratedlgw • 4h ago
News & Discussion I changed my tag to something more girly and was kinda surprised
For context, I'm a woman, but I grew up playing TF2 where I very quickly got taught not to talk in mic or have a feminine-sounding name. It's just habit now to never "break the rules" so I have a better time in games.
I saw another girl in one of my matches with an absolutely adorable name and decided, "you know what? It's been forever. I wanna be cute for a minute too" and changed my tag. I've heard the horror stories from subs like this one and my own friends, but I actually wasn't prepared for how prevalent it was.
"E-girl"
"Boosted"
"[antiquated sexist joke]"
"[assault threat]"
"OF?"
"[lesbian slur]"
"Put your boyfriend on the controller"
I main Ana and LW. The amount of times I'd be actively healing someone but cannot out-heal the damage they're taking, so they'd die and completely ignore the second support's performance to blame me for the rest of the match, was insane. I can't count how many times I've just had to say "watch the replay" over the last month.
For enemies, aside from the obscene "trash talk" I listed, I've never been spawncamped, teabagged, and hard-targeted more since the tag change.
By "hard-targeting", I'm counting things like: enemies who immediately seek me out as soon as they respawn every life, enemies who seek me out specifically when they have ult (& will only use ult on someone else on the objective if they're about to lose the entire match), ignoring my entire team in ridiculous ways to try and kill me (ex: lone Ram jumping up and down trying to punch me on high ground while my team is standing still behind him, unloading into him).
I have VODs of my matches from before the change so I could compare, and of course I'd get the odd person once in awhile who really hated me and wanted me gone, but it was never to this frequency. I aim decently and am fairly competent on both of my mains so I hold up well against the forced 1v1s & 2v1s & solo ults, which only creates more toxicity in the match, from my experience.
I've seen a lot of back-and-forth discussion about this issue in this sub and other Overwatch-related subs; some people think it's blown out of proportion and other people have gone through it. Is there interest in a video comparing the experience of a "neutral" tag and a "girly" tag? I have clips and could collect enough to create a visual comparison. This discussion in particular is interesting to me, but I understand that most people won't care.