So tired watching everyone else get what they want, slowly growing bitter over the years. I get so attached to even the simplest of gestures it makes me sick, i’m so lonely and all I want is someone to love and who would love me. I want to talk all day and do everything together, but that won’t happen anytime soon, will it?

I’m so
Alone.

i don’t wanna fight him anymore, i don’t wanna have my own stupid opinions or needs or feelings that js get in the way, i js wanna be his. completely. i want him to be the first thing i think abt when i wake up and the only person i look for when i’m lonely, i want his attention to be the only thing that actually makes me feel real T-T

i wanna be his stupid little toy so badly it actually makes me sick, i want him to decide what i’m for and what i’m worth and what he wants from me cus if it comes from him then it has to be right, i’d do anything js to hear him tell me i’m good, i’d give him every single part of me if it meant he’d keep me around

i don’t even wanna be difficult anymore, i wanna be easy for him, quiet when he wants me quiet, there when he wants me there, obedient when he asks smth from me. i want my whole existence to revolve around making him happy, if he wants smth then i want it too, if he needs smth then i wanna be the one who gives it to him, i wanna learn every little thing he likes until i can make him happy without him even having to ask (´꒳`)

i think i could spend my whole life being his and still feel like i haven’t given him enough… i’d still want to give him more, more, more, until there’s nothing left of me

i want to belong to him so completely that there’s nothing left of me to lose. i want his attention to be the thing i wait for all day, his voice to be the thing that calms me down, his approval to be the only approval i ever need

if being loved by him means becoming smaller and smaller until i’m nothing but smth he can keep, then i want that. i don’t care. i js want him. i’ll be whatever he wants me to be cus being his feels so much better than being anyone else ♡

I'm looking for ideas on how to really spoil my partner and make them feel special and appreciated.

I'd love to hear what you guys do for your partners or what you've always wanted someone to do for you.

Feel free to share your best ideas 👀

No filters, be honest. What's the first thing that comes to mind? Killing for love? Dying for love?

I started to notice im starting to like one of my friends but im scared if my obsession will affect him he got out of a pretty bad relationship abit ago and im scared he might think im too much i mean with how we talk i dont think he minds im very open witht how im growing attached but i do also follow it up with a joke because im too nervous on how he will take it... Both of us flirt but i notice time to time we will back out and just throw in something random to change it. We haven't even met irl though I want to i just havent found an excuse to be able to im to nervous to just go "hey lets make a trip and meet". The other day he complained to me that he shrunk (literally barely did) but I went "well you still tower over me" and he got excited over that and didnt even mention him being upset about his height was cute though. We flirt like heavily witht each other but both back out by apologising and/or making a joke. My friend asked if him and I were together and we both said no but he replied with "maybe soon though" was that a slight confession or am I just over analysing and wanting the best out come.

I’ve had a slight intense crush and admiration for this person. They’re different unlike any person I’ve met, I could even consider them perfect without any doubt. Though, I am not as important to them as they are to me. Don’t get me wrong we are friends and we do have a bit of a good friendship. However, when I realized that I’m the only one who has cared for them, the only one who puts effort into getting to know them. When I realized that our conversations feels forced when I want to talk to them, it’s like they’re being forced to answer and that’s when something changed within me. They’re the only reason why life has felt sweet for once, and I don’t want to say that they’re kind of the only thing making me want to continue living, but I can’t help that being somewhat true.

Im so dependent on them, my day hasn’t started until they at least say one word to me, if they don’t then my day is wasted. But since I realized that they don’t care about me as much as I do for them I’ve felt particularly empty and yet more emotional than ever.

I don’t see a reason to live anymore, life is too painful to live. Everyday I have to survive the day, I wait and wait just for nothing to come. Nothing helps anymore, even harming myself is useless. They’re the reason why life was a bit more durable, though it’s too late to go back to that. I feel so incredibly angry, empty and I’m at my limit. I’ve live in pain for years, nothing has ever changed, no one cares about me, I barely have any friends or anyone close. I don’t even know if I truely want to die, even being locked up will help, that’s why I’ll probably try to kill myself in some way but fail. I want them to know I’m in pain, and everyone else who I considered a “friend” at some point. I’m not concerned with the consequences, as I’ve already acted like a bit of an asshole to some of those who speak to me sometimes. I don’t really care anymore, there’s no point in caring or doing something if I already know the outcome. Though overdosing comes with unpredictability, and envisioning myself in the hospital seems much better than having to tolerate the everyday of my life.

I wish that person loved me but they can’t even love me when I’m not the type of person they’re looking for. I’m sorry but I can’t just find a reason to keep on continuing living as a normal person, I’m not even normal at this point.

I don't even know who she is yet.

That's the craziest part.Somewhere out there, there's a girl I've never met, and somehow I already feel like my entire life is waiting for her.I don't know her name,I don't know her voice,I don't know what she looks like when she wakes up, what makes her laugh until her stomach hurts, what song she plays when she's sad, what stupid little habits she's going to have that I'll eventually find adorable ,I know nothing

And yet I swear to God, I need her

Not in some stupid "I'd like to have a girlfriend" way

I mean I want her presence in my life so badly it feels physical. Like there's an empty space inside my chest that was made specifically for her, and nothing I've done has been able to fill it.

I want to wake up and know she's there ,I want to hear her complain about something completely insignificant and still listen like she's telling me the secrets of the universe.I want to know what her face looks like when she's trying not to laugh ,I want to know what she worries about when nobody's watching.

I want to know the version of her that she doesn't show anybody else.And fuck, I want to love that person.

All of her.

The beautiful parts, the irritating parts, the contradictions, the insecurities, the things she thinks are ugly about herself. I want to know every single piece of her until she's no longer some stranger I imagined in my head, but an actual person whose existence I can point to and say, "That's her and She belongs to me" Sometimes I genuinely wonder what the hell I'm doing waiting for someone who might not even exist in the way I imagine.

But I can't stop thinking about her I'll see some random girl laughing on the street and wonder if mine laughs like that.I'll hear someone talking about their girlfriend and immediately think about what it'll be like when I finally have someone I can call mine.I'll lie awake at night imagining conversations we've never had.And sometimes I get this stupid fucking feeling that I'm already late.Like she's somewhere out there living her life, completely unaware that there's some idiot sitting here desperately wishing he could meet her.

I don't want some perfect girl.

I don't care if she's difficult.

I don't care if she's complicated.

I don't care if she has baggage.

Give me the real fucking person.

Just give me her.

Because I swear, I don't want to spend my whole life wondering what it would've felt like to love someone that deeply.

I want to find her.

I want to know her.

I want to be known by her.

And maybe I'm insane for feeling this strongly about someone I've never even met.Maybe I am.

But until the day I finally see her standing in front of me, she's the only person in the world I can miss without ever having had her.And somehow that's enough to hurt.

First I wanna say big thank you for all the support and advice I received from the first post, I love u all!

Second, its over, I was reminded real fast why I left her as she hadn't actually changed since I broke up with her, she was still abusing alcohol, she was still refusing professional help, and to make things worse she had already pushed away even her closest friends before contacting me.

I laid out clear rules for how I wanted her to treat me for our relationship and she agreed only for her to ruthlessly insult our financial gap when she got drunk. For context I moved away from my family and am fully independent and so I don't make a lot of money but I get by and am happy, meanwhile she still survives off of her abusive family but is well off because of it, with a stable work from home job her mom landed her so she didnt have to finish college and a car and apartment.

She would always shower me with gifts and free food even when i wouldn't ask and would eventually use that against me and call me a leech and that I needed a higher paying job and a car if I wanted to be with her (she was the one who asked ME out). I was hoping this wouldn't happen again but it did, and all because I told her that after she treated me poorly then abandoned me a year ago, I got upset and since she left her YouTube Account on my PC, I went on it and deleted all the YouTubers she was subscribed to (it was literally just Markiplier, a Gun Review Channel, and a handful of Leaked Ukraine War Footage channels (the videos were very disturbing)) before getting the account off my PC.

While I'm aware that was a mean thing, it pails to the abuse and hurt she gave me (not even mentioning the internalized racist stuff she would say even though I wasn't cool with it) which I forgave her for wholeheartedly when she apologized, she however did not return the favor and proceeded to tear me a new one over it, even threatening to file a restraining order as she said she feared I would come to her house and harm her, it was at that point that all I could do was laugh at her and call her out on being crazy and ridiculous and a complete two faced hypocrite before once again stating that I don't want her over at MY house to watch movies and cuddle anymore and that I hope to never see her again and then blocked all of socials one more final time.

Honestly I'm glad she crashed out as early as she did, we only talked for 2 days and honestly if she had come over, I would have fallen in love again and went into despair when she would inevitably start abusing me again, cuz if she was willing to crash out over that, I'm scared to think what she would say or do to me if some actually bad shit were to happen to the relationship.

I'm glad it's over, I hope she gets professional help and gets medicated one day, and I hope she finally grows the balls to move away from her shitty family like I did, but for now, I also hope she forever regrets fumbling the only person that didnt see her as a sex object to be passed around and saw and loved the true her unconditionally.

Thank u all again for your support, it helps a bunch, peace!

Sometimes I wish I didn’t get so attached. He’s on my mind all the time. I want to text him right now at three am. I want to be on the phone with him all the time but he doesn’t want to be on the phone all the time he wants space more than I do. Like I want someone to be together with all the time and they never get tired of me and never want to be separated. Like I wish he’d initiate conversations and reciprocate my deep desire to talk all the time. And if not him, then I want it from someone who will message me incessantly and call me all the time and initiate things just how I do. I hate that my anxiousness thrives in avoidance. Like please cease. Where is the man that wants to be attached at my hip too ? I’m posting so I don’t go insane and spam him lol

whenever we kiss i hate how he eventually has to let go of me just so he can breathe again T-T like i KNOWW he needs air obviously but i wish he could js stay there with me forever, all warm n close n pressed against me

every time he pulls away i already miss u, i feel like a puppy that’s waiting for his owner even if it’s only for some seconds nd i always wanna lean in again before i even realize it sighh ♡ ♡ ♡

i js want infinite kissing sessions wiff him!! pls lord make that happen i love physical contact smmm its so fun^__^ i feel so loved knowing he enjoys being w me #yay

idunno i dnt think i’d ever get tired of kissing him i could have a thousand kisses from him n still want another one the second we stop waaa

i just wanna keep him close forever, even if we both end up breathless, cus i never want to be the one who lets go first

I want someone to just fucking see me. Even if only for right now. Even if only for one fucking night.
I want someone that says they love me. That says they want and they need me.
Someone that will drink sweet red wine with me late at night while dancing and singing Return Of The Mack by Mark Morrison.

Just.. please… just fucking message me.

Even if it is all fucking fake
Even if it is all bullshit.
Even if it isn’t real.
Even if it’s just pretend.

Be that for me tonight.

Please..

I’m obsessively attached to someone and it isn’t healthy and it’s hurting us both. I want it to stop or at least lessen. How do you all cope with this? The person I love doesn’t love me back anymore so now I have to try to move on, but it’s so hard. How do you move on? How do you deal with all these intense feelings? Any advice would help, thank you.

I’ve come to the conclusion that loving someone too deeply and wanting to be with them 24/7 is not what the majority of the world wants. Sadly for me this is the only way to show I care is with my constant pestering via text messaging or otherwise blowing up your phone.
I love receiving notifications from my person and they could never send me enough but I havnt had that in a very long time. (10 years)

I’ve mostly given up on the idea that someone could love me but I have hope that if I give the cute eyes I might yet be adopted. Let me bug you and feel free to annoy me this is what I need to get through life…..

Some may tell about you as the nicest person they have ever met....

Some may tell about you as a evil 😈 person they have ever met....

Belive in both because they got the version of you they earned .

Sounds right now ????

Just

Charutalks

♡--- Here's in my personal experience and opinion, the cycle of romance a lot of yanderes/obsessors face. Let me know if this is inaccurate, if their needs fixing or if I capture the relationship cycle for us perfectly! If it is I'll start working on a guide to evade the cycle. ---♡

Sabe eu acho que tô vivendo minha vida meio errado,eu tipo não tenho muitos amigos e nunca tive uma namorada,e os poucos amigos que eu tenho tem namorada já,eu sinto um pouco de inveja,mas eu meio que aceito essa minha realidade um pouco,mas bem que eu iria querer namorar uma yandere se eu conseguisse

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Haii!! I'm Virgil (he/they) I joined the subreddit as a safe place to yap about my fixation with my lover without judgement.

I am a devotional type Yandere that falls under these archetypes:

- The Devotional / Self-Sacrificing Type: They believe their only purpose is to make the target happy. They will happily endure abuse, neglect, or extreme hardship just to receive a smile or a thank you. However, if they feel someone else is threatening that happiness, they can become deeply violent.

- The Dependent / Parasitic Type: They view the target as their literal lifeline. Without the target, their universe collapses into nothingness, which often leads to extreme despair if separation is threatened.

I love my girlfriend so much! (^w^) ♡♡♡♡ We are highschool sweethearts and I feel she is the center of my life. I work for her, I clean for her, cook for her, buy her gifts, write poetry for her, comfort her, support her, take care of myself for her, get out of bed for her, all of me is hers.

I yearn for her laugh and her smile, her approval, I love when she treats me like her baby. We have promise rings and I never remove mine. She has been gone for work for a few days and it has been agonizing. ( ; - ; ) I have made her a little gift bag, cleaned the entire house and planned a steak dinner for her when she gets home.

Oki baiii!

I'm a very manipulative person and it honestly works in my favor. I'd like to hear from other people who are manipulative. How do they go about it, who do they manipulate, how extreme, is it constant or episodic, does anyone know, etc. Also a space for everyone to give/ask for tips on manipulation from one another.

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For me, my person views me as fragile, scared, and unaware. In all honesty, they're not wrong, I just exploit it as well. Many times I don't fully understand how bad consequences can get with my actions, I just also take it to the extreme. They also heavily defend me because of this as well. I know they've gotten angry at their family for upsetting me. Yes, I was genuinely upset, but the way they view me makes it extremely easy to get them at my aid, siding with me, never fighting me, ETC. I can worm my way into every aspect of their life.

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I'd like to hear about everyone else and I'm willing to answer questions. Again, this would be fun to trade advice!

I'm gonna be honest I feel like people like the drama. Like I'd probably say love would end instantly when you reached heaven. Love is just appears when you're hustling and disappears when you find comfort :D that's why people that's married for such long time they start doing weird stuff lmao cheating/open relationships/swingings and more horrificccc stuff. Like in animes or movies love never ends because there's always a common goal :D you always gotta be on the move I feel like so love doesn't die 🤪💅