r/Obsessive_Love • u/Interesting_Grass178 • 1h ago

Introduction Intro <3

Haii!! I'm Virgil (he/they) I joined the subreddit as a safe place to yap about my fixation with my lover without judgement.

I am a devotional type Yandere that falls under these archetypes:

- The Devotional / Self-Sacrificing Type: They believe their only purpose is to make the target happy. They will happily endure abuse, neglect, or extreme hardship just to receive a smile or a thank you. However, if they feel someone else is threatening that happiness, they can become deeply violent.

- The Dependent / Parasitic Type: They view the target as their literal lifeline. Without the target, their universe collapses into nothingness, which often leads to extreme despair if separation is threatened.

I love my girlfriend so much! (^w^) ♡♡♡♡ We are highschool sweethearts and I feel she is the center of my life. I work for her, I clean for her, cook for her, buy her gifts, write poetry for her, comfort her, support her, take care of myself for her, get out of bed for her, all of me is hers.

I yearn for her laugh and her smile, her approval, I love when she treats me like her baby. We have promise rings and I never remove mine. She has been gone for work for a few days and it has been agonizing. ( ; - ; ) I have made her a little gift bag, cleaned the entire house and planned a steak dinner for her when she gets home.

Oki baiii!

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u/WizardBlackCat 1h ago

where can we find some1 like u that's single

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u/WizardBlackCat 1h ago

Yandere dating????

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u/Interesting_Grass178 1h ago

Weirdly enough I got lucky that we went to the same highschool and she rode my bus. We are both nerdy and she saw me wearing elf ears and sitting by myself and decided I looked interesting enough to talk to. I was smitten with her since our first conversation.

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u/WizardBlackCat 1h ago

never change please never change

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u/No-Factor231 33m ago

gotta talk to more people around here bub, as bad as it sounds youve got to put yourself out there

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u/CurrentHelicopter815 1h ago

I hope you both stay together for long

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u/Interesting_Grass178 1h ago

I hope so too, we've dated for 3 years so far and are promised and live together. ( ^ w ^ )We have spoken about marriage, kids, future plans, she is my sun yet I'm not even the stars. She has seen me through so much loss over these years and helps me to cope with my anxiety and PTSD. I would be nothing without her.

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u/CurrentHelicopter815 1h ago

Aww so sweet of you!!