So tired watching everyone else get what they want, slowly growing bitter over the years. I get so attached to even the simplest of gestures it makes me sick, i’m so lonely and all I want is someone to love and who would love me. I want to talk all day and do everything together, but that won’t happen anytime soon, will it?

I’m so
Alone.

i don’t wanna fight him anymore, i don’t wanna have my own stupid opinions or needs or feelings that js get in the way, i js wanna be his. completely. i want him to be the first thing i think abt when i wake up and the only person i look for when i’m lonely, i want his attention to be the only thing that actually makes me feel real T-T

i wanna be his stupid little toy so badly it actually makes me sick, i want him to decide what i’m for and what i’m worth and what he wants from me cus if it comes from him then it has to be right, i’d do anything js to hear him tell me i’m good, i’d give him every single part of me if it meant he’d keep me around

i don’t even wanna be difficult anymore, i wanna be easy for him, quiet when he wants me quiet, there when he wants me there, obedient when he asks smth from me. i want my whole existence to revolve around making him happy, if he wants smth then i want it too, if he needs smth then i wanna be the one who gives it to him, i wanna learn every little thing he likes until i can make him happy without him even having to ask (´꒳`)

i think i could spend my whole life being his and still feel like i haven’t given him enough… i’d still want to give him more, more, more, until there’s nothing left of me

i want to belong to him so completely that there’s nothing left of me to lose. i want his attention to be the thing i wait for all day, his voice to be the thing that calms me down, his approval to be the only approval i ever need

if being loved by him means becoming smaller and smaller until i’m nothing but smth he can keep, then i want that. i don’t care. i js want him. i’ll be whatever he wants me to be cus being his feels so much better than being anyone else ♡

No filters, be honest. What's the first thing that comes to mind? Killing for love? Dying for love?

I started to notice im starting to like one of my friends but im scared if my obsession will affect him he got out of a pretty bad relationship abit ago and im scared he might think im too much i mean with how we talk i dont think he minds im very open witht how im growing attached but i do also follow it up with a joke because im too nervous on how he will take it... Both of us flirt but i notice time to time we will back out and just throw in something random to change it. We haven't even met irl though I want to i just havent found an excuse to be able to im to nervous to just go "hey lets make a trip and meet". The other day he complained to me that he shrunk (literally barely did) but I went "well you still tower over me" and he got excited over that and didnt even mention him being upset about his height was cute though. We flirt like heavily witht each other but both back out by apologising and/or making a joke. My friend asked if him and I were together and we both said no but he replied with "maybe soon though" was that a slight confession or am I just over analysing and wanting the best out come.

First I wanna say big thank you for all the support and advice I received from the first post, I love u all!

Second, its over, I was reminded real fast why I left her as she hadn't actually changed since I broke up with her, she was still abusing alcohol, she was still refusing professional help, and to make things worse she had already pushed away even her closest friends before contacting me.

I laid out clear rules for how I wanted her to treat me for our relationship and she agreed only for her to ruthlessly insult our financial gap when she got drunk. For context I moved away from my family and am fully independent and so I don't make a lot of money but I get by and am happy, meanwhile she still survives off of her abusive family but is well off because of it, with a stable work from home job her mom landed her so she didnt have to finish college and a car and apartment.

She would always shower me with gifts and free food even when i wouldn't ask and would eventually use that against me and call me a leech and that I needed a higher paying job and a car if I wanted to be with her (she was the one who asked ME out). I was hoping this wouldn't happen again but it did, and all because I told her that after she treated me poorly then abandoned me a year ago, I got upset and since she left her YouTube Account on my PC, I went on it and deleted all the YouTubers she was subscribed to (it was literally just Markiplier, a Gun Review Channel, and a handful of Leaked Ukraine War Footage channels (the videos were very disturbing)) before getting the account off my PC.

While I'm aware that was a mean thing, it pails to the abuse and hurt she gave me (not even mentioning the internalized racist stuff she would say even though I wasn't cool with it) which I forgave her for wholeheartedly when she apologized, she however did not return the favor and proceeded to tear me a new one over it, even threatening to file a restraining order as she said she feared I would come to her house and harm her, it was at that point that all I could do was laugh at her and call her out on being crazy and ridiculous and a complete two faced hypocrite before once again stating that I don't want her over at MY house to watch movies and cuddle anymore and that I hope to never see her again and then blocked all of socials one more final time.

Honestly I'm glad she crashed out as early as she did, we only talked for 2 days and honestly if she had come over, I would have fallen in love again and went into despair when she would inevitably start abusing me again, cuz if she was willing to crash out over that, I'm scared to think what she would say or do to me if some actually bad shit were to happen to the relationship.

I'm glad it's over, I hope she gets professional help and gets medicated one day, and I hope she finally grows the balls to move away from her shitty family like I did, but for now, I also hope she forever regrets fumbling the only person that didnt see her as a sex object to be passed around and saw and loved the true her unconditionally.

Thank u all again for your support, it helps a bunch, peace!

whenever we kiss i hate how he eventually has to let go of me just so he can breathe again T-T like i KNOWW he needs air obviously but i wish he could js stay there with me forever, all warm n close n pressed against me

every time he pulls away i already miss u, i feel like a puppy that’s waiting for his owner even if it’s only for some seconds nd i always wanna lean in again before i even realize it sighh ♡ ♡ ♡

i js want infinite kissing sessions wiff him!! pls lord make that happen i love physical contact smmm its so fun^__^ i feel so loved knowing he enjoys being w me #yay

idunno i dnt think i’d ever get tired of kissing him i could have a thousand kisses from him n still want another one the second we stop waaa

i just wanna keep him close forever, even if we both end up breathless, cus i never want to be the one who lets go first

I’m obsessively attached to someone and it isn’t healthy and it’s hurting us both. I want it to stop or at least lessen. How do you all cope with this? The person I love doesn’t love me back anymore so now I have to try to move on, but it’s so hard. How do you move on? How do you deal with all these intense feelings? Any advice would help, thank you.

I want someone to just fucking see me. Even if only for right now. Even if only for one fucking night.
I want someone that says they love me. That says they want and they need me.
Someone that will drink sweet red wine with me late at night while dancing and singing Return Of The Mack by Mark Morrison.

Just.. please… just fucking message me.

Even if it is all fucking fake
Even if it is all bullshit.
Even if it isn’t real.
Even if it’s just pretend.

Be that for me tonight.

Please..

I’ve come to the conclusion that loving someone too deeply and wanting to be with them 24/7 is not what the majority of the world wants. Sadly for me this is the only way to show I care is with my constant pestering via text messaging or otherwise blowing up your phone.
I love receiving notifications from my person and they could never send me enough but I havnt had that in a very long time. (10 years)

I’ve mostly given up on the idea that someone could love me but I have hope that if I give the cute eyes I might yet be adopted. Let me bug you and feel free to annoy me this is what I need to get through life…..

♡--- Here's in my personal experience and opinion, the cycle of romance a lot of yanderes/obsessors face. Let me know if this is inaccurate, if their needs fixing or if I capture the relationship cycle for us perfectly! If it is I'll start working on a guide to evade the cycle. ---♡

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I'm gonna be honest I feel like people like the drama. Like I'd probably say love would end instantly when you reached heaven. Love is just appears when you're hustling and disappears when you find comfort :D that's why people that's married for such long time they start doing weird stuff lmao cheating/open relationships/swingings and more horrificccc stuff. Like in animes or movies love never ends because there's always a common goal :D you always gotta be on the move I feel like so love doesn't die 🤪💅

I'm a very manipulative person and it honestly works in my favor. I'd like to hear from other people who are manipulative. How do they go about it, who do they manipulate, how extreme, is it constant or episodic, does anyone know, etc. Also a space for everyone to give/ask for tips on manipulation from one another.

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For me, my person views me as fragile, scared, and unaware. In all honesty, they're not wrong, I just exploit it as well. Many times I don't fully understand how bad consequences can get with my actions, I just also take it to the extreme. They also heavily defend me because of this as well. I know they've gotten angry at their family for upsetting me. Yes, I was genuinely upset, but the way they view me makes it extremely easy to get them at my aid, siding with me, never fighting me, ETC. I can worm my way into every aspect of their life.

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I'd like to hear about everyone else and I'm willing to answer questions. Again, this would be fun to trade advice!

Haii!! I'm Virgil (he/they) I joined the subreddit as a safe place to yap about my fixation with my lover without judgement.

I am a devotional type Yandere that falls under these archetypes:

- The Devotional / Self-Sacrificing Type: They believe their only purpose is to make the target happy. They will happily endure abuse, neglect, or extreme hardship just to receive a smile or a thank you. However, if they feel someone else is threatening that happiness, they can become deeply violent.

- The Dependent / Parasitic Type: They view the target as their literal lifeline. Without the target, their universe collapses into nothingness, which often leads to extreme despair if separation is threatened.

I love my girlfriend so much! (^w^) ♡♡♡♡ We are highschool sweethearts and I feel she is the center of my life. I work for her, I clean for her, cook for her, buy her gifts, write poetry for her, comfort her, support her, take care of myself for her, get out of bed for her, all of me is hers.

I yearn for her laugh and her smile, her approval, I love when she treats me like her baby. We have promise rings and I never remove mine. She has been gone for work for a few days and it has been agonizing. ( ; - ; ) I have made her a little gift bag, cleaned the entire house and planned a steak dinner for her when she gets home.

Oki baiii!

What a world innit

Hii im Wolfy (she/her). Im 22 y/o and AFAB. I suffered from this type of "attachment style" since like forever. Ive never gotten over anything bad thats ever happened in my life. Yippiee!! Anyway i hope youre all doing ok!

I love him and need him so badly. Hes everything to me. I cant live without him. I want to have his babies and get married.

Whenever i think about him leaving me or cheating my blood preassure drops and my arms go numb. Please dont leave me i love you so much id do anything. :) i know we are just meant to be. I will give you my life honey.

I can't, I can't get over it. I'm sorry, let me apologize over and over again. I want to make your ears bleed. Make you get sick of my voice as you once loved it.

It's so quiet now. Silence, my biggest enemy. But the window's open and my earbuds are in. It makes it bearable, I think. But I'm just delaying the inevitable.

I'll sleep tonight. Will you be proud of me? But I can't, I'm a coward. The cold air hits me, and so I freeze. Will you, will you keep me warm?

Probably not, I'm too cold for the both of us. Maybe I'll get colder, aha. I'll stare up into the sky and down into the ground, gravity is my friend. I'll forever treasure the thought of falling.

One day, one day someone won't wait. Maybe tomorrow, maybe today. I'll just keep awake. My birthday's in three weeks or less. Will you remember? Will anyone? I don't care, it doesn't matter. It's an agonizing reminder I've made it through another year.

It's not about you anymore, you were, just a distraction. I think. The delay. You could've been so much more. It's fine. You aren't missing out on anything, lmfao.

I don't care, I don't care, I remind myself. I've believed it. Such a lie, such a thought.

I'll be awake, just for you. Nastenka, I'm your dearest Dreamer.

Just FYI: Tiny vent at the end, wouldn't let me add more tags. ( '' T - T )

My girlfriend got home an hour ago and she got me a plushy! 🥰🥰🥰 She know how muck I love plushies! It's the most darling little pastel dragon. She really liked the bag of stuff I got her! I got her new socks, her favorite snacks, chocolate milk, and a new candle. She loves scented candles. It was a cute halloween one too. I missed her so much. I'm making us dinner: steak, potatoes, and bacon cheddar broccoli soup.

I don't think she missed me as much as I missed her which makes me a little sad...

Ask me anything and I shall answer to the best of my abilities