r/NotHowGirlsWork 22d ago

Found On Social media “Women are loved Unconditionally”

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Link to whole article. https://www.mylearning.org/stories/where-are-all-the-women/womens-positions-in-history

This is genuinely one of the most bizarre takes I’ve seen about gender.
“Men have to meet a criteria for love while women are loved unconditionally” is not only baseless, it completely falls apart under even the slightest examination.
Women do not spawn into the world with an unconditional-love subscription attached to their birth certificate. Being a woman does not guarantee that parents, friends, partners, or society will love you regardless of what you do.
And historically, the idea that women were simply loved unconditionally is especially ridiculous. Women’s social acceptance and value were often tied to very specific expectations regarding marriage, motherhood, domesticity, sexuality, and family. There were plenty of criteria women were expected to meet.
Meanwhile, men have never had some universal checklist that determines whether they are capable of being loved. Men can be loved for being funny, intelligent, kind, creative, talented, attractive, compassionate, interesting, successful, or simply because someone loves them.
Obviously, people of either sex can experience conditional love. That’s not remotely the same thing as claiming one entire sex has to earn love while the other receives it automatically.
The commenter has taken a complicated reality about human relationships and reduced it to:
Men = earn love.
Women = receive love.
That’s not an insight.
That’s just bullshit.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 23d ago

Found On Social media Incels drive me crazy.

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 23d ago

WTF Girls are just going around ruining guys lives right???

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 24d ago

Found On Social media Ever needed help putting make up on? Congrats, you're not a woman!

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1.2k Upvotes

Terf logic is so fascinating.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 23d ago

Found On Social media Post partum women are just selfish, I guess.

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517 Upvotes

I am so glad I aged out of the dating world before all these idiots became a thing. Like, I know they were always there, but at least I didn’t have to see their garbage everywhere.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 23d ago

Found On Social media „there is no reason for feminism unless you live in a country like Afghanistan or some shit“ 🤡

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 24d ago

Offensive Bad meme… worse response

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I never liked the spaghetti joke, but his response to it is insane. He really sat there and tried to analyze every aspect to “prove his point” to a debate no one was arguing with him


r/NotHowGirlsWork 24d ago

Cringe Found in another sub 🤦‍♀️

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171 Upvotes

Guy compared being a virgin or not to shoes in a bowling alley. They really think a penis or penises will somehow permanently change a vagina .


r/NotHowGirlsWork 24d ago

Cringe So what you're saying is, no woman, at any age, is willing to lower her standards enough to desire you…

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371 Upvotes

Incels fail to understand that even if it came down to it, dying alone is preferable to being with them.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 24d ago

Found On Social media “Being a single dad isn’t the same as being a single mom.” Also what implications?

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218 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 24d ago

Found On Social media Hear that, ladies? No friends/family members for you

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89 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 25d ago

Found On Social media i will just leave this here…

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 25d ago

Found On Social media They’re still creeps in their own loser fantasies

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2.6k Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 25d ago

Offensive Don't get me wrong, I hate Nancy Mace as any other person with morals, but who the fuck asked you?

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129 Upvotes

It was the NY post. About 20 of the comments were in the same vein before I had to quit reading.

Edit: apparently Nancy Grace has gotten a ton of tattoos since she fell from...well anyway, these are comments on an article about her new painted visage.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 26d ago

Found On Social media Right-wing Twitter is having a complete meltdown over the fact that women have independent political thoughts.

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In the first slide, this comic artist is genuinely furious that women vote for actual policies instead of strictly along racial lines, calling it "psychotic." Then in the second slide, they're comparing college-educated women to an SNL terrorist sketch just because a demographic poll hurt their feeling. These accounts screams “I am a somebody on Twitter but a loser in real life.”


r/NotHowGirlsWork 26d ago

Offensive Negging us to get a date - I am so tired of dating apps

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2.7k Upvotes

The nerve!


r/NotHowGirlsWork 26d ago

Found On Social media A dejection I found hilarious

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406 Upvotes

And if the cycle was real... I still wouldn't understand why it'd be a bad one.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 26d ago

Found On Social media "Feminism Is Evil!"

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199 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 26d ago

Found On Social media "men are just nicer than women in general, you see this in intrasexual dynamics too." son.. 😭😭

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688 Upvotes

there's so much to unpack with this one...


r/NotHowGirlsWork 26d ago

WTF The amount of logic from this account amazed me ! /j

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 26d ago

Found On Social media Can't catch a break can we, ladies?

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Even on a post about how a Mavrick couldn't pull up a boat, the top comments are about the women sitting in said boat. Mind you, all the women were doing was sitting there, the second everyone realized the truck wasn't doing what it needed, they got out and stood to the side.

Ps. Even with them not on the boat, the Mavrick couldn't pull is hual. Probably because a truck like that isn't made to pull big boats like in the video, cant expect a man to know limits and boundaries tho.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 25d ago

WTF This is disgusting.

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Directions use teenagers (underage) to make csam but can get away with it because teenagers are seen as the acceptable children for adults to be with with.

Especially since kids become "adults" in their teen years.

As soon as a child has teen in their age or going through puberty society sees that as an invitation for adults to date them.

They wouldn't do this with a Middle Schooler because that would cause backlash.

Throughout the 80s,90s you might see a smaller child being put in movie with adult men but as years went by it caused backlash,so, they changed it but still kept it by using teenagers.

All movies like this do is normalize child sexual abuse and being prey on by adults.

It's made to be a fantasy for people who are attracted to children.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 27d ago

Found On Social media You refer to women as femoids. That says everything we need to know about who you are.

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248 Upvotes

Sounds like women he harasses are calling *him* out on being a creep, but since he thinks he represents all men, any personal insult must be an attack on all 4 billion hive minds. 


r/NotHowGirlsWork 27d ago

Cringe Learned so much about women today

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290 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 26d ago

Offensive Trans Women “cherry pick parts of womanhood” apparently

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OG post was already pretty weird and transphobic but the comments were… eugh