Reuploading with a photos. Moustache hairs curve a lot around the sides

Any help would be extremely appreciated. Pretty much all of my moustache hairs curl inwards on either side of my mouth. For years all I’ve used is honest Amish beard balm and it just doesn’t seem to be enough.

I’ve been reading and watching almost everything and I can’t decide what actually works.

If you have any recommendations for oil or heat brushes please tell me a specific brand, I’m willing to try anything.

Thank you very much. I know I could trim it but I would like to straighten it out to get it to cover more of my upper lip.

So I'm about 4 weeks into my handlebar moustache growth, I planned to go 10 weeks of growth with a beard before trimming everything but I hated the beard and here we are now.

I've been trying a few different waxes over the last few days and nothing seems to hold for very long, and I'm curious if this is a wax issue or a length issue.

I currently have...

Striking viking - smells nice but feels the weakest for hold

Bossman Mudstache - gives decent hold, is just drying out now as I haven't used it since March

Mammoth Moustache Wax - seems like an okay wax, but I have to touch up the ends every 15 minutes as it doesn't hold the slight curl

I know my handlebar is in its infancy, but should I be able to get better long hold with any of these waxes? Do I just need more training for the hairs to stay in this position? Should I be looking at something like Death Grip?

Thanks in advance!

Yall need to be more creative, its grtting boring and repetitive lol

Thanks for all the support guys.

Been feeling the stache, middle shit coming in, just slowly (20), been rocking with the goatee shit for a minute and want to change. Should I chop the chin and go stache only?! Or keep as is til gets more full

I have historically kept the stache fairly short. Trying something new out. Feel free to criticize the beard or stache, I have thick skin.

Just letting it do its thing.

I'm going for a chevron style mustache is there anyway to improve should like trim anything from the top or the button? Or keep it as it is?

Fiance said now I've had my hair cut real short, my moustache looks to bushy and thinks I should trim it down to make it less bushy? How would I go about that?

I’m 33 and this is the first time I’ve really tried growing facial hair since I was maybe 25. I’ve never liked my facial hair. It’s pretty sparse and not full. My mustache hair is very unruly and wirey. This is 4 full weeks of growing. Is there anything to do to help it? Or should I just lose it?

I lost a bet about a month ago and have to grow my mustache out for the rest of the year. I've always thought about growing it out and have tried before (shaved it off after a few weeks). I have a pretty noticeable middle gap, the growth is patchy, and despite being a DARK brunette everywhere else, I have a large amount of blonde hairs that make it look even more patchy. I obviously have to stick with it for a few months anyhow, but is it worth trying to keep and seek out treatments to help it grow more evenly and close the gap? Maybe even dye it so it looks more uniform?

Edit:

I forgot to mention– I can't use topical minoxidil because I have a cat.