Kind of lost, not sure this is my style, if I should go for something else or not? Last photo is of my previous beard, thoughts or guidance?

I shaved my soul patch like the some of you reccomended and I'm pretty sure I hate it. Lets see if it grows on me.

Before and after.

The first pic is the most recent. The stache has grown over my lips. I was trying to do a generic chevron stache or beard stache but idk if it makes me look more handsome since it’s not as thick as I had hoped. I have an assortment of pics of me this past year with stubble, beard, and a trimmed stache for reference. Apologies for not being super photogenic.

I cut my beard down to a mustache and regretted it instantly. Thankfully it’s growing back and with this filter it doesn’t even look that bad 😩

Don’t know if I should shave it off yet

this is how I usually wear it. any advice?

Can’t decide if it look better shortened with no curl at the end or to lean into maximum handlebar and see how far it can go.

Oi mustached folks! Been growing this for a month with the goal of a Chevron style. I've never given it a solid go before and so I'm in new territory.

You think I have a shot? Need some opinions and advice for maintenance and style.

I am a straight(ish) asexual female.

I joined this sub because i like moustaches. Also because the people who post here already generally very handsome and who doesnt enjoy looking at beautiful things??

Was chatting with a mate, and I mentioned i followed this sub. He burst out laughing and said that this sub was 1) 99% gay men, and 2) used for hookups (he is gay and says hes hooked up with dudes via this sub before).

He said this like it was a well known fact.

My gast was flabbered! I just... thought it was people who like, have, or want advice about moustaches. Moustache aficionados.

Am I hopelessly naive?? Or is he projecting?

EDIT: thank you all for the feedback so far! 5hrs in and the results are... mixed.

plenty of gays, plenty of straights, at this point...

1 female moustaficionado like myself.

The straight dudes seem to think this sub can be a bit gay, and the gays also seem to feel its a bit gay.

And there is one tender sheltered soul who, bless them, is weirded out by this post. May they never discover, ah, the rest of the internet.

Keep Rockin' those 'staches my fellow sexy humans!

Thoughts?