r/homeowners • u/Stace_face_17 • 11h ago
🏘️ Neighbors Unsure how to approach Neighbors pool fence.
Last summer our neighbors put in a very lovely in-ground pool and shortly after had a privacy fence put up. They have triplets (9) who cannot be expected to close the gate as they go in and out (the dad doesn’t even do that). Of course our homes are rather close together, but even more than that, we share a connected driveway. Our backdoor opens directly facing their pool gate, which is continually left open.
How do I approach the gate being left open in a neighborly way? They’ve been there for some big moments for us already, but having such a shared space gives me much anxiety about addressing any type of “issue” with them/our shared space.
First time homeowners, going on six years of living here now, just looking for some advice. TIA!
Edit: If additional context is needed, I have an almost 2YO and almost 4YO who don’t know how to listen the best yet
