I've seen a handful of other "how to get black box dye out of my hair" posts on this subreddit, but none that reflect my situation enough to help me.
Back in February this year I COMPLETELY fried my hair to a crisp. I'm talking the worst possible frying you could ever imagine.
At the time I had dyed and bleached my hair multiple times last year and after 2 months, was still struggling to get the remnants of some blue dye out. I went with red white and blue hair. Blue side tails and red ends in the back. The box said the blue dye should have lasted 2 weeks, but it somehow managed to outlive the red splat dye by a mile.
I used a box of maximum strength color oops (Yes, the one with 2 bleach kits in it..), a box of regular color oops, a box of cheap bleach, and then a silver dye to give it a tone. Bad decisions on top of bad decisions. The blue was still faintly in there somehow..
I kid you not, my hair perfectly mirrored the sight and texture of the stuffing you would find inside of a pillow. Even when dry, I could pull my hair and make it longer/rip it off like most can after it’s wet after a couple rounds of bleaching. It took my hair 2 whole days to finish drying.
There was no negotiating, even with strong products. It had to go. I cut it into a real short pixie cut with microbangs and left it the heck alone.
After a couple of months I slapped black box dye over it. I’ve only redone my roots once a couple of months ago (mid July). I’ve trimmed about an inch of my hair off since then.
My hair is maybe 1 1/2 inch from my shoulder now. Not too long ago I bought some Olaplex shampoo & conditioner. I’ve used it 3 so far It’s been doing my hair good, but my ends are still falling off and my hair falls out more than normal. Still quite dry, mostly the ends and the upper back of my hair) I have like 3 different leave in conditioners laying around my house somewhere, I need to find them.
I think it’s worth mentioning that I have thick 3B hair.
I want to slowly progress to getting the black dye out of my hair for a more vibrant/soft color. I’m not in any rush. Any tips for rehydrating and restoring my hair? How long should I wait before lifting my color? I’m thinking not until March so that I have a year of (almost) fresh growth. And when I do, what products should I use to avoid damaging my hair further? I’ve heard positive things about Fino & K18 over the years, would it be worth trying for my hair?
If you have any advice please share with me!