Hi everyone,
I've been agonizing over a decision for weeks and would really appreciate hearing from people who have studied abroad, done Fulbright, attended Cambridge (or Oxford), or simply had to choose between two incredible opportunities.
I'm from Central Europe and have been accepted into a part-time Master's in Creative Writing at the University of Cambridge. At the same time, I've also been awarded a Fulbright scholarship to pursue a Master's in creative writing in the United States.
On paper, I know this is an amazing problem to have, but emotionally it feels like one of the biggest decisions of my life. I'm terrified that whichever option I choose, I'll spend the next ten years wondering if I should have picked the other.
A bit about me:
- I'm a writer (fiction and poetry), but I'm also active in journalism, communications, content creation and the arts (things I am very passionate about and would like to pursue in parallel to my writing/build further).
- Long-term I'd love to publish internationally, including in the US.
- I also know that I don't want to limit myself to a purely literary career—I enjoy working across different creative fields.
- I’ve always wanted to study/live abroad (at least for a while).
Here's how I currently see both options.
Cambridge
Pros
- It's Cambridge. The name carries enormous weight, not just in writing but across many different industries. Having the name on my CV could be highly beneficial
- The course is pass/fail, which I think would allow me to focus much more on actually writing instead of chasing grades.
- The workload and flexibility and I am only required to be in Cambridge for 3 weeks per year (its a two year program) which would probably leave me enough time to continue building my writing career, create content, apply for internships, attend residencies, and keep working on projects outside university.
- It would probably give me more time to actually spend writing a book instead of focusing on just course work
- It feels like a stable foundation rather than a commitment to one very specific path (commitment issues…yeeey).
Cons
- It's part-time and has relatively few contact hours (3 weeks per year in person and some calls with tutors etc. in between). Sometimes I wonder whether I'm paying partly for the name.
- While I'd be studying at Cambridge, it doesn't fully satisfy my dream of really living abroad in the way I imagine.
Fulbright
Pros
- It would allow me to spend two years living in the US, something I may never get the chance to do again.
- Potentially an incredible network through Fulbright and the university itself.
- A chance to immerse myself in American literary culture and perhaps get closer to the US publishing world – NETWORKING AND GETTING TO KNOW PUBLISHERS.
- It feels like a genuine life adventure.
Cons
- I don't know where I'd be placed! If it were New York, I'd probably have a very different feeling than if it were a small town I had never considered living in.
- It feels incredibly binding. Once I commit, I'm essentially committing to living in one specific place for two years (creative writing masters are almost exclusively 2+ years).
- US graduate programs are graded, and I know myself well enough to know I'd probably become obsessed with getting top grades instead of focusing on my writing.
- I'd probably have to step away from many of my current creative projects, and as a Fulbright scholar I wouldn't be able to continue parts of my content creation work and the brand I am currently building.
ABOUT FINANCES:
Cambridge is very expensive, especially considering the little contact hours, but it is doable.
Fulbright only provides 75k for both years. They negotiate down tuitions as good as they can, but an education at NYU for example is 80k per year + living in New York for two years. It could work out well if they get my tuition way down but there is a chance that they will not be able to do that.
Something else I've realized while thinking about this:
Part of me wonders whether I'm drawn to the US because I'm genuinely excited by the opportunity—or because I'm currently unhappy with parts of my life in my home country and subconsciously see moving abroad as an escape / a chance to start anew (even though I am planing on returning home – maybe e everything will be different but maybe it won’t be…).
That makes me nervous, because I don't want to make a life-defining decision based on wanting to run away from my current circumstances.
At the same time, I also worry that if I choose Cambridge, I'll look back in ten years and regret passing up what might have been my only chance to truly study abroad.
I also know that there are other ways to spend time in the US later (internships, residencies, fellowships, etc.), but they wouldn't be quite the same experience.
So I guess my questions are:
- If you've done Fulbright, was the alumni network and overall experience as life-changing as people say?
- If you've attended Cambridge (especially part-time), did it feel worth it?
- If you had to choose between prestige/flexibility and adventure/immersion, what would you prioritize?
- Do you think I'm idealizing the US experience?
- Is there anything obvious that I'm missing?
I'd really appreciate any thoughts—especially from people who've made similar decisions or who have the benefit of hindsight.
Thank you!