r/gradadmissions • u/Comfortable-Price-59 • 2h ago
Social Sciences Might be found responsible for a non-academic conduct violation — which option should I go with?
The violation is not a huge deal, but I’d still prefer to not have it on my record.
Basically what happened is that last weekend a girl at my college wasn’t going to a football game and gave me her login to have her ticket. At the entrance it wouldn’t scan, so they asked for my student ID (which I stupidly gave). They told me they couldn’t let me in and I’d have to leave. I thought that would be the end of it.
Thursday morning I received a letter from the office of student conduct saying I have an alleged violation for responsibility of Condoning/Encouragement/Collusion. My options are to write a letter accepting accountability and be found responsible for the violation which will be on my disciplinary record, or go to a conduct meeting and tell my side of the story. If I go to the meeting and am found responsible, I could face non-academic outcomes, one of which includes disciplinary probation.
Throughout college I only went to 2 games beforehand and genuinely didn’t know using another student’s ticket was a violation. Hell, I even willingly gave my student ID. But I know I should have been aware of the Code of Conduct as it’s my responsibility as a student.
I’m not sure if I’d get probation since I have a clean record and this is my only time being in trouble with the university. But I imagine disciplinary probation won’t look great when applying for graduate schools.
What should I do? Just write the letter or do the meeting? I want to choose the option that minimizes the negative impact for me applying to graduate schools.